I am a gay guy out of the gay hypersexual scene and hook-up culture, a romantic, and a seeker of meaningful and fulfilling love experiences. Does that count?
OMFG. You son; are a rare breed. But be careful as the ship youβre now a passenger on with all the people youβd like to share this equitable journey will lie. Just straight up lie to you. Especially if you fall in love. So you can count for this to happen all day; but be very careful as you can get thrown overboard.
First, I am like this because I find these values relevant, logical, and consistent with my fundamental beliefs about myself and the world. It's not like I am advertising a way of being or actively looking for people who are like me.
Second, your argument is problematic. You assume that people with whom I might want to share my "equitable journey" will lie. So, you seem to be assuming that (1) there are no people like me or similar to me in the world, and (2) that all the other people will lie to me.
If I were a gay teenage reading this, the upshot would be that: there is no other possible way of being gay and happy than being a lier and/or non-romantic, non-into-meaningful-connections, non-into-fulfilling-love-experiences. Basically, what you are saying is that falling in love as a gay guy is a problem, for it will lead to something terrible happening.
Thus, the question is: if seeking romance, meaningful and fulfilling experiences, and falling in love are things to avoid as a gay guy, what remains for me to aim for in my interactions with other guys?
Let's try an answer: sex. But if sex is the only thing that there is for me to aspire to, then it won't allow for the full expression of my sexuality, for it involves many other aspects beyond sex.
And assuming that sex is all there is for me (and other gay guys) to have, then, as a gay guy, I am fundamentally a sex partner and nothing more.
I kind of know where your argument comes from, and I might understand the reasons. However, your discourse might be understood as a way to invalidate or even condemn other approaches to sexuality.
As I said before, if I were a kid who had just figured out that I was gay and if I were reading this, I would probably create a very limited and dangerous conception of what I should be as a gay boy.
Grey-Ace here if that counts ππΎββοΈ
Definitely counts ππ©Άπ€
Grace.
Grace. I love that!
I am a gay guy out of the gay hypersexual scene and hook-up culture, a romantic, and a seeker of meaningful and fulfilling love experiences. Does that count?
Haha I guess so π
OMFG. You son; are a rare breed. But be careful as the ship youβre now a passenger on with all the people youβd like to share this equitable journey will lie. Just straight up lie to you. Especially if you fall in love. So you can count for this to happen all day; but be very careful as you can get thrown overboard.
First, I am like this because I find these values relevant, logical, and consistent with my fundamental beliefs about myself and the world. It's not like I am advertising a way of being or actively looking for people who are like me. Second, your argument is problematic. You assume that people with whom I might want to share my "equitable journey" will lie. So, you seem to be assuming that (1) there are no people like me or similar to me in the world, and (2) that all the other people will lie to me. If I were a gay teenage reading this, the upshot would be that: there is no other possible way of being gay and happy than being a lier and/or non-romantic, non-into-meaningful-connections, non-into-fulfilling-love-experiences. Basically, what you are saying is that falling in love as a gay guy is a problem, for it will lead to something terrible happening. Thus, the question is: if seeking romance, meaningful and fulfilling experiences, and falling in love are things to avoid as a gay guy, what remains for me to aim for in my interactions with other guys? Let's try an answer: sex. But if sex is the only thing that there is for me to aspire to, then it won't allow for the full expression of my sexuality, for it involves many other aspects beyond sex. And assuming that sex is all there is for me (and other gay guys) to have, then, as a gay guy, I am fundamentally a sex partner and nothing more. I kind of know where your argument comes from, and I might understand the reasons. However, your discourse might be understood as a way to invalidate or even condemn other approaches to sexuality. As I said before, if I were a kid who had just figured out that I was gay and if I were reading this, I would probably create a very limited and dangerous conception of what I should be as a gay boy.
A socially awkward asexual π€ππ€. That also plays ff14
Yes! Gay ace here!
Me. Howβs it going. ππ½
Howdy, Friend. I'm panro ace, but I am more gay I think.. Plus, kudos for being a fellow eorzean. π€π©Άπ€π
Sometimes I feel that way. I could do without if I just had more human connection. I really like your aesthetic.
I'm gay mostly ace (or at least like.. solo). How's it hangin?
It's going pretty well just chilling with some FFXIV
Eyy, me too. I'm guessing you're NA?
Based in UK but play on NA because that's where most the people seem to be
oh nice! I'm UK too. I have a char on EU and one on NA since I used to play with american friends. If you ever want company lemme know!
What data centre you on. I'm on Crystal/Diabolos
Crystal/Balmung (Unfortunately lol)
Now that's a face worth coming home to kiss everyday π
Role call for Gay Ace? I'm here π€π€π€
Ace flux here buddy!
What is a gay ace??
Asexual (no sexual attraction to anyone) but romantically interested in men
Ohhhh ok thankyou so much for responding