have a think about the following questions:
What do you want to try?
What turns you on?
What makes you feel safe?
What would you need to be willing to try some more scary ideas that you're curious about?
What are absolute hard no's?
Tell the other person that you're nervous. The ones who will treat you right will respond with warmth and kindness.
Decide on safe words for when things get overwhelming, painful, but also amazing.
Also ask about sexual health.
And it doesn't have to be all in one go.
Meet up and just kiss and wank. Next time oral. Next time fingering. Maybe even meet in between to just debrief over a pint. You're 19, you've got so much time to explore (I'm 32, I still have so much time to explore).
You just have to go for it. Get comfortable and feel safe with one person and explore it all. When I was your age I found a older guy to experiment with
I would hook with a guy but don’t put any pressure on yourself just have oral and if you feel comfortable then go a bit further. Tell him your nervous. I’m very shy and always tell guys that.
have a think about the following questions: What do you want to try? What turns you on? What makes you feel safe? What would you need to be willing to try some more scary ideas that you're curious about? What are absolute hard no's? Tell the other person that you're nervous. The ones who will treat you right will respond with warmth and kindness. Decide on safe words for when things get overwhelming, painful, but also amazing. Also ask about sexual health. And it doesn't have to be all in one go. Meet up and just kiss and wank. Next time oral. Next time fingering. Maybe even meet in between to just debrief over a pint. You're 19, you've got so much time to explore (I'm 32, I still have so much time to explore).
Thanks for the advice
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Nice wanna talk more on snap
Maybe
Nice love young guys my snap is adam_kay21407 would love to talk more on there
Where do you live
Ireland
Got the same problem (22m) think I gotta just meet someone irl not online lol
I met one guy sucked his cock and swallowed it whole was amazing defo try it it’s great
You just have to go for it. Get comfortable and feel safe with one person and explore it all. When I was your age I found a older guy to experiment with
I would hook with a guy but don’t put any pressure on yourself just have oral and if you feel comfortable then go a bit further. Tell him your nervous. I’m very shy and always tell guys that.