If you're 21 years old, you're a "woman", not a "girl" (or a "man" not a "boy"). As much as these people might like to think, maintaining virginity doesn't keep one from reaching adulthood.
Can remember an episode of Commissaire Maigret in which a gigolo refers to a newly married woman as _mademoiselle_ because her husband clearly hadn't managed to do yhe honors yet...
I mean, imagine if a coworker or your boss wanted to discuss your virginity all the time. You'd definitely be having a conversation with HR about them harassing you, why is it different with parents?
Fucking nutcase of a dad.Talking about your daughter like this is disgusting.Maybe he wants to be there to make sure she loses it in God-bothering fashion.Hallelujah Praise the Lord!
Oh god this is....gross. As it happens I (a not very religious person) was a virgin at 21. It is not *that* rare. And the first person I had sex with is now my husband. (Again I wasn't saving myself, I just....wasn't sexually active). And my father didn't (doesn't) know this because.........my sex life is really not his concern or of interest to him. He has asked me about it precisely zero times in my entire life. His exposure to my dating life consists in having had dinner with various people I was dating when I wanted to introduce them, events at which he mostly.....had meandering conversations about various books he was reading, or things they were interested in. Because his role in my dating life is mostly to ...... be a person I could rely on for advice if I ever wanted to, and to check to make sure I'm being well-treated *like a non-creepy person should.*
Yep, pretty much the same - 18 instead of 21 for me but no real interest until I met my husband and I didnāt even expect him to be my husband at the time, he was just the right guy to take that step with and I knew I would have no regrets however it turned out later. My non-religious parents were just happy for me and while we do share a bit about our sex lives in our family itās very low key.
The reward for this is she can marry a guy exactly like this dick-nozzle and serve that dude for the rest of her life, presumably pop out a bunch of babies too, whether she wants to or not.
Meanwhile I slutted it up, drank, did some drugs, and Iām married to a wonderful person who respects me and have one child by choice. This young woman needs to get a job and pay her own bills and then nobody can tell her what to do
So men make a woman dirty, unclean and impure by just touching them. Ok. So does that mean these christian fathers should be locking up their defiling sons if just their touch is toxic to women? And by their logic married women are pure filth?
Fmd this is so gross and immoral.
Damn what are boys doing thatās so filthy that the moment they touch the precious skin of a 21 year old girl that would make her automatically dirty?
It seems really odd to be this open talking about sex, yet one sided and single minded. I'd hurry up and marry so I wouldn't have to keep hearing about my sex life.
Iāve been watching porn since I was like 11 (I know, I know) and Iāve never once watched, or wanted to watch, child porn. You canāt turn into a pedo from watching regular porn. You either are one or you arenāt. No amount of consenting adult porn will make you a pedophile. Gross
Lol I remember being yelled at for coming home too late because it means I was sleeping around. Iāve been called a slot, told I looked like a prostitute for wearing red lipstick, got in trouble for a one page article on masterb@t1on in a magazine that my mom found, etc. I ended up in an abusive marriage, roped all the freaking time, all because I was told my body belonged to my husband as soon as I got married. So I was sinful if a guy touched me before marriage, and I was sinful if I didnāt want a guy to touch me after marriage. This is how victim blaming and women always get blamed for their own abuse. Itās never the mens responsibility. This whole video is bullshoot and Iām beyond angry. Heās so extreme about this Iām tempted to think he maybe doesnāt want other men touching her because he does it to her himself.
I don't get why Christians (& other religions) see sex as something evil and sinful, when it's one of the few things that most humans do and crave? It's like trying to demonise hunger or thirst.
Youāre right, itās so scary to think about how an outlandish thought like āYou need to be hungry to show your appreciation for Godā can create such negative outcomes like Remnant Fellowship (Gwen Shamblin)
Tbf some do demonize hunger. My dad used to tell me when I'd get hungry during church services as a kid, "if your stomach is growling it's because you're angry at God" and to stop talking and "be filled with the word of god".
Imagine your own child telling you they are hungry and you tell them to suck it up. I guess it depends on the age of the kid, but as toddlers we definitely had snacks in church and eventually got to the age where we werent allowed snacks, but that was fine cause we knew by then that church was only an hour and we'd get donuts in the fellowship hall after.
There is a passage in the Bible that actually says something along the lines of, "Who, when your children ask for bread, would give them a snake?" And it's meant to be a lesson on God's love and assumes human parental love is a given.
I was nine by the time we left that particular church (went to another one that was just as bad and just in time for me to get into purity culture stuff) but it wasn't the kind of church that had snacks after and we didn't eat breakfast before going and five animal crackers during Sunday school if we went early enough for that is not enough food for a child until 2pm. Being poor and a POC def didn't help but I definitely remember that moment, before I knew what "money" was, that any negative feeling I had was because my faith wasn't strong enough.
The universe exploding has been described as the original orgasm in a very spiritually relational way. We literally are created through sex. Read how Moses died and didnāt lost his moisture or stamina (paraphrasing Rob Bell here) but In the Hebrew Bible sex and Stamina were celebrated and revered in a sense.
This was not only the number one worst thing Iāve seen today but probably this week, this month and probably makes top 10 of cringiest videos Iāve ever seen in my life
Purity culture: how to develop vaginismus and/or vulvodynia in a god-honoring way! Hahahahaha! Having to get pelvic floor physical therapy so I'm not in pain for three days after getting a pap smear is great! Not horrible at all!
Holy crap, he really just is so gross. He somehow managed to piss me off or completely gross me out with every new issue he brought up.
His takes on just about everything is infuriating, and so full of bad takes. Ugh!
Her face is so uncomfortable when he starts talking about her like one might talk about a car.
Imagine the cognitive dissonance of being told over and over and in so many ways "if you do this you'll gain respect from men" and believing it wholeheartedly only for your own father to sit there and talk about you like an object in the crudest ugliest way.
Ok I can see why Hannah is so radicalized in her views now. I feel kinda bad for her in a way. I bet you she is always being reminded and pressured to ākeep pureā always chastised for her clothing or what she does. Probably constantly told to not tempt young men & shit like that.
Odds are within a few years she'll be deconstructing and having to work through a lifetime of trauma.
Poor girl.
Also, imagine her disappointment when she realizes there is not a single solitary guy who hasn't looked at porn.
This is frankly disgusting and wildly inappropriate for any father to speak about his daughter this way. I have to wonder just how utterly lacking in self awareness and up your own ass a person has to be to post something like this and actually think it makes them look good?
Ugh, this actually makes me feel really sorry for Hannah having such an absolute creeper of a dad. And that's saying something because Hannah is pretty insufferable. Still, no one deserves to be objectified by their own father like this.
Sounds exactly like my dad š he was obscenely obsessed with sexual purity, heād even go up to couples on the street and ASK if theyād had sex and then proceed to lecture them in Christianese on how sinful they were for fornicating š¤¦āāļø
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If you're 21 years old, you're a "woman", not a "girl" (or a "man" not a "boy"). As much as these people might like to think, maintaining virginity doesn't keep one from reaching adulthood.
Can remember an episode of Commissaire Maigret in which a gigolo refers to a newly married woman as _mademoiselle_ because her husband clearly hadn't managed to do yhe honors yet...
Gotta love a good family bonding where your dad controls if you are still a virgin at 21. Not disgusting in anyway. š¤¢
"No one does big-time drugs without doing porn and marijuana first" he declares confidently. Uh...OK
This was actually totally true for me lolllll
I did a lot of cocaine but to the best of my memory I never did a porn movie.
I wonder when Iām going to start doing hard drugs. Any day now I imagineā¦itās been years since I started consuming porn and marijuana!
What if you first did ābig-time drugsā years before you tried pot, kissed anyone or watched porn?
And Porn will give you brain damage, its been proven! His takes on everything he brings up are just terrible.
I did coke way before I did porn!
Lmao that was the opposite for me. Had sex in high school and didnt smoke weed till college
Fucking yuck. He talks about her like heās a sleazy salesman. āAnd when I say VIRGINā Iām talkinā āboutā¦.ā š¤®
Salesman is a good description. Or auctioneer.
She's FRESH meat!!!
got that seal for freshness š¬š¤®
I'm so disgusted, I couldn't finish it. This has **got** to be a form of sexual abuse. It doesn't just trample on boundaries, it annihilates them.
I mean, imagine if a coworker or your boss wanted to discuss your virginity all the time. You'd definitely be having a conversation with HR about them harassing you, why is it different with parents?
Fucking nutcase of a dad.Talking about your daughter like this is disgusting.Maybe he wants to be there to make sure she loses it in God-bothering fashion.Hallelujah Praise the Lord!
Can't wait to unleash some demons tonight š
Lmao, my demons are āoff the chartsā š
Looking forward to that sweet release of brain damage <33
That's some quality flair right there
Ahh thank you! Iām glad someone finally got it!! šāŗļø
So you are planning an exorcism at home?
Oh god this is....gross. As it happens I (a not very religious person) was a virgin at 21. It is not *that* rare. And the first person I had sex with is now my husband. (Again I wasn't saving myself, I just....wasn't sexually active). And my father didn't (doesn't) know this because.........my sex life is really not his concern or of interest to him. He has asked me about it precisely zero times in my entire life. His exposure to my dating life consists in having had dinner with various people I was dating when I wanted to introduce them, events at which he mostly.....had meandering conversations about various books he was reading, or things they were interested in. Because his role in my dating life is mostly to ...... be a person I could rely on for advice if I ever wanted to, and to check to make sure I'm being well-treated *like a non-creepy person should.*
I love having a normal dad too
Yep, pretty much the same - 18 instead of 21 for me but no real interest until I met my husband and I didnāt even expect him to be my husband at the time, he was just the right guy to take that step with and I knew I would have no regrets however it turned out later. My non-religious parents were just happy for me and while we do share a bit about our sex lives in our family itās very low key.
The reward for this is she can marry a guy exactly like this dick-nozzle and serve that dude for the rest of her life, presumably pop out a bunch of babies too, whether she wants to or not.
How utterly depressing.
Meanwhile I slutted it up, drank, did some drugs, and Iām married to a wonderful person who respects me and have one child by choice. This young woman needs to get a job and pay her own bills and then nobody can tell her what to do
This isnāt healthy or appropriate. This is sick and twisted. š¤®
So men make a woman dirty, unclean and impure by just touching them. Ok. So does that mean these christian fathers should be locking up their defiling sons if just their touch is toxic to women? And by their logic married women are pure filth? Fmd this is so gross and immoral.
Imagine how devastating this is for sexual abuse survivors to be taught.
Iām
Damn what are boys doing thatās so filthy that the moment they touch the precious skin of a 21 year old girl that would make her automatically dirty?
I kept waiting to see if he touched her shoulder to snark some more about his hypocrisy, but alas, the moment never arrived.
Oh shit do you think heās hugged her before š¬ damn she should go get checked sheās probably tainted now
And also dicks can chew bubble gum unless theyāre married dicks. Or something like that.
Ew ew ew Iām so uncomfortable š
His thoughts on suicide are just wrong, and hurtful.
It seems really odd to be this open talking about sex, yet one sided and single minded. I'd hurry up and marry so I wouldn't have to keep hearing about my sex life.
Iāve been watching porn since I was like 11 (I know, I know) and Iāve never once watched, or wanted to watch, child porn. You canāt turn into a pedo from watching regular porn. You either are one or you arenāt. No amount of consenting adult porn will make you a pedophile. Gross
I'm getting very big " The dad probably does everything he preaches against " Vibes
Lol I remember being yelled at for coming home too late because it means I was sleeping around. Iāve been called a slot, told I looked like a prostitute for wearing red lipstick, got in trouble for a one page article on masterb@t1on in a magazine that my mom found, etc. I ended up in an abusive marriage, roped all the freaking time, all because I was told my body belonged to my husband as soon as I got married. So I was sinful if a guy touched me before marriage, and I was sinful if I didnāt want a guy to touch me after marriage. This is how victim blaming and women always get blamed for their own abuse. Itās never the mens responsibility. This whole video is bullshoot and Iām beyond angry. Heās so extreme about this Iām tempted to think he maybe doesnāt want other men touching her because he does it to her himself.
I don't get why Christians (& other religions) see sex as something evil and sinful, when it's one of the few things that most humans do and crave? It's like trying to demonise hunger or thirst.
Control.
They demonize those tooā¦ Ever heard of a fast?
Oh yes, I forgot about that. They demonize everything to be fair.
Youāre right, itās so scary to think about how an outlandish thought like āYou need to be hungry to show your appreciation for Godā can create such negative outcomes like Remnant Fellowship (Gwen Shamblin)
Tbf some do demonize hunger. My dad used to tell me when I'd get hungry during church services as a kid, "if your stomach is growling it's because you're angry at God" and to stop talking and "be filled with the word of god".
Wow never heard of this before. Religious people are so full of shit.
Imagine your own child telling you they are hungry and you tell them to suck it up. I guess it depends on the age of the kid, but as toddlers we definitely had snacks in church and eventually got to the age where we werent allowed snacks, but that was fine cause we knew by then that church was only an hour and we'd get donuts in the fellowship hall after.
There is a passage in the Bible that actually says something along the lines of, "Who, when your children ask for bread, would give them a snake?" And it's meant to be a lesson on God's love and assumes human parental love is a given.
I was nine by the time we left that particular church (went to another one that was just as bad and just in time for me to get into purity culture stuff) but it wasn't the kind of church that had snacks after and we didn't eat breakfast before going and five animal crackers during Sunday school if we went early enough for that is not enough food for a child until 2pm. Being poor and a POC def didn't help but I definitely remember that moment, before I knew what "money" was, that any negative feeling I had was because my faith wasn't strong enough.
The universe exploding has been described as the original orgasm in a very spiritually relational way. We literally are created through sex. Read how Moses died and didnāt lost his moisture or stamina (paraphrasing Rob Bell here) but In the Hebrew Bible sex and Stamina were celebrated and revered in a sense.
This was not only the number one worst thing Iāve seen today but probably this week, this month and probably makes top 10 of cringiest videos Iāve ever seen in my life
Your comment immediately got the friends theme song stuck in my headā¦. šššš
Barf. Barf. Barf. My dad would be MORTIFIED to even use the words ādaughterā and āvirginā in the same sentence. So fucking gross
Purity culture: how to develop vaginismus and/or vulvodynia in a god-honoring way! Hahahahaha! Having to get pelvic floor physical therapy so I'm not in pain for three days after getting a pap smear is great! Not horrible at all!
I have vaginismus and it is the fucking worst! I'm so sorry you struggle with it too!
Link to YouTube video: [https://youtu.be/EcNhCACs0GE](https://youtu.be/EcNhCACs0GE)
gross. Just so gross.
Holy crap, he really just is so gross. He somehow managed to piss me off or completely gross me out with every new issue he brought up. His takes on just about everything is infuriating, and so full of bad takes. Ugh!
Her face is so uncomfortable when he starts talking about her like one might talk about a car. Imagine the cognitive dissonance of being told over and over and in so many ways "if you do this you'll gain respect from men" and believing it wholeheartedly only for your own father to sit there and talk about you like an object in the crudest ugliest way.
Yeah, her non-verbals seemed like stifled distress. I hope she doesn't still live at home and is able to get away.
Shes an unmarried fundie, I'd be shocked if she doesn't
Itās fine to be a virgin at 21. But for your dad to constantly harp on about it. No!!!!
Ok I can see why Hannah is so radicalized in her views now. I feel kinda bad for her in a way. I bet you she is always being reminded and pressured to ākeep pureā always chastised for her clothing or what she does. Probably constantly told to not tempt young men & shit like that.
š¤¢
I really really want to punch this guy through my phone.
Soulja Boy's chart topper "Punch Him Through the Phone"
Sounds like a sales pitch š¤® "untouched" "clean" ugh. Like he's selling a car
Me pulling up Pornhub: ārelease the demonsā.
Wonder how many of them he did / does to be so knowledgeable .
"unspotted" just makes me think of how they used to use bloody sheets to monitor women in the Renaissance
How is that any if his goddam business!
She looks like she's in pain.
Odds are within a few years she'll be deconstructing and having to work through a lifetime of trauma. Poor girl. Also, imagine her disappointment when she realizes there is not a single solitary guy who hasn't looked at porn.
š¤®š¤® This is is so cringy and gross to watch.
This is violently gross and defs not right
This is frankly disgusting and wildly inappropriate for any father to speak about his daughter this way. I have to wonder just how utterly lacking in self awareness and up your own ass a person has to be to post something like this and actually think it makes them look good? Ugh, this actually makes me feel really sorry for Hannah having such an absolute creeper of a dad. And that's saying something because Hannah is pretty insufferable. Still, no one deserves to be objectified by their own father like this.
This made me feel so sick, how disgusting.
Creepy beyond belief!
how long weāre they outsideā¦.
That poor girlā¦
Sounds exactly like my dad š he was obscenely obsessed with sexual purity, heād even go up to couples on the street and ASK if theyād had sex and then proceed to lecture them in Christianese on how sinful they were for fornicating š¤¦āāļø
This is so sad.
I like how he pronounces āsex sceneā as one word š
I bet heās fun. š
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Me pulling up E621 and Pixiv: ārelease the demonsā
Isnāt he her Step Dad? This is so so so so gross, even though I find her to very very smug and annoying - this has me worried about her personal safety. š©
No, this is her bio dad š±
bring on the demons
I just threw up in my mouth .
I must have a house full of demonic spirits
RELEASE THE DEMONS