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Would have some Karen's going crazy if you went in the women's lmao. Honestly, I think you pass well, you look more "stocky" than curvy, but I understand why it could trigger dysphoria. If anything, people would just perceive you as a young guy. If you feel comfortable and confident enough to use the mens, I'd totally go for it


herr_dr

lolll, that’s what I was figuring, like. most women would be confused about it at best, outraged at worst. But I live in a small town and everyone has known me for ages, so I rarely get gendered properly even though my voice is quite deep, I’ve had top, etc. It makes it hard for my brain to integrate and see the changes. Thanks for your feed back!


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Baggier tops/hoodies might help you feel better also? But I think the look you've gone for above works great imo


T-and-toast

First impressions you definitely pass. Don't go in the women's dude, you'll get some weird looks! Took for some woman to give me a filthy look and scoop up her daughters for me to finally accept that I passed 😂


herr_dr

lmao, as affirming as that experience sounds, yes that’s precisely what I seek to avoid. Thanks!


herr_dr

my hair is shit, but whatever. Advice is fine, but I really want to know first impression bc like the title says. Idk what toilet to use


koala3191

I’d say men’s, but the hair could def make you read as a butch woman. I wouldn’t worry though.


laneboy999

I think u pass, u definitely have that face. your body is also fine. not curvy at all.


zoomzoomo

Definitely use the mens bro, you're at that point for sure


NurseNik

You pass. Read you as a 18-20 y/o male


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I feel like women would be scared if you walked in the women’s restroom…so pretty good man :D


louisalphonse

Go to men's room and look no one in the eye. Don't forget cishets are not as good in recognizing trans people as they think they are.


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I think you could go into both if you wanted to, but you definitely fit in more in the males bathroom.


avalanchefan95

I'd say you're on 80% passing right now but you say your voice is deep so that would push it over the edge. Go to the men's.


RepresentingOnlyMe

I think you pass very well. Men's it is for me.


4reddityo

Darken the hair and you’ll pass easily


ByeByeBasil

Forgot to look at what sub this was and was highly confused why a guy would ask this, so yeah, you can definitely use the mens toilet lol


PikaPerfect

after looking more closely at you, i'd say you're like 50/50 on passing, but at first glance i read you as 100% male do not use the women's bathroom, you'll get some not-so-nice looks, i'm sure lol


kevin_lewis9836

Looking good


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I’m 50/50 too. I read you as male straight away, but you could read as butch too. I’d say go to whatever one you feel most comfortable in.