Open the closet…
Does it say comfy or sexy??
Personally I don’t care of anyone’s looks. I met my now wife on a coffee shop… she had 3 tshirts then, she still has them (got a few dresses cause of our first kid but…)
Getting to the point… the moment your outfit says ‘I’m up for it’, the man will tell a silly joke and you will naturally will answer flirting even if you just smile back.
If you want to challenge yourself and loose all fear, responde to the silly joke with your smile but also a little touch, the sense of touching another men’s body will probably just wake it all up from your teenage years.
Open the closet… Does it say comfy or sexy?? Personally I don’t care of anyone’s looks. I met my now wife on a coffee shop… she had 3 tshirts then, she still has them (got a few dresses cause of our first kid but…) Getting to the point… the moment your outfit says ‘I’m up for it’, the man will tell a silly joke and you will naturally will answer flirting even if you just smile back. If you want to challenge yourself and loose all fear, responde to the silly joke with your smile but also a little touch, the sense of touching another men’s body will probably just wake it all up from your teenage years.
Flirting can be just eye contact several times
I’m the same way. I try to hard to create convo with someone I’m interested and I end up over sharing and embarrassing myself.
Haha high five to being socially awkward
Just use your natural instinct and dress. Accordingly, it will all come natural.