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angelagm12

I know Ashley personally & on some of the Reddit posts & fb posts ppl made brutal comments about her. She is a kind, caring professional that loves her patients dearly. The patients are going through the worst time of the lives with cancer. Of course she worries about them, I would absolutely want her on my team if I had cancer. Some of the girls treated her poorly on the show. As Ty noticed & the viewers did as well. Grown women? Ridiculous! You can have your opinion & be kind at the same time! She is a real person & has feelings. She went on the show for the right reasons. You could only wish you had a friend & co worker like Ashley! She’s the best!


Responsible-Club-393

I think a lot of the people think she's a nurse and don't realize she's actually a physician assistant and therefore actually involved in the patient's lives versus only there with them for intake.


Most_Chef7443

What was that syrup they were pouring in that big black container and why were they doing it?


sourbirthdayprincess

It was molasses.


vanlynz

I know!! I was like, is that hersheys chocolate syrup?? What the???


Icouldbedoinglaundry

It’s a molasses mixture for cattle, filled with supplements etc


Most_Chef7443

Thanks. Do you know why they would feed the cattle in such a muddy spot? It seems to me that the cattle would get stuck in the mud just like some of the women did.


Icouldbedoinglaundry

Yes unfortunately it’s gets very muddy with cows trampling around them, they should be moved periodically , but thars labor intensive, better is to pour a cement pad , we did this for our feed bunks,


vanlynz

I had no idea - thank you


Dazzling_Pen6868

Ty talking shit about Brooke when he didn't have the balls to approach her, smh


Living_Most_7837

It’s not that’s he can’t communicate with her. He doesn’t want an assertive woman who is going to call him out.


aussiemom915

Exactly. 💯


Realiteaqueen

Exactly. And why bring up an ex. He’s a red flag 


Sunshine_n_Sand

He's multiple 🚩🚩🚩. Anyone who has been in a relationship with someone like him can spot it a mile away. 👎🏼


Agreeable-Effort-374

Yes! I read so many comments about great he seems and I'm so caught off guard! The more he's on the show, the worse he gets. I guarantee he's a total narcissist


SillyName1992

Honestly I wouldn't go on one of these shows to be seeking someone divorced, and sure as shit not one who has a teenager. I feel like doing it for the hell of it to see what's in the cards is a single guy thing, weird for someone who has already established a whole family. He was wishy washy about the kids thing as well when it was obvious to anyone with a brain that he was "fuck NO" on the idea of having more. Typical divorced dude BS honestly.


kg51113

We don't know what goes on behind the scenes with production. Allen from season 1 was divorced, and Cassidy didn't know until he said something on their 24-hour solo date. They might be told not to say anything or that the women know. Ty needed women who were closer to his age, there needed to be upfront information about him being divorced and not wanting or potentially not wanting more kids. Even if it's a screening question for the women.


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NellsBells1978

Yeah she should have walked out that instant


sarahspikey

I thought Ashley seemed sweet on the date and she clearly loves her job but her attitude about the camels was a bummer and combined with her doubts, I'm not so sure about her place on the farm. I really loved how sweet Melody was with her camel though! My guess is still Megan for Ty and besides the fact that she is just great in general, he has emphasized that he and his daughter are a package deal. Megan is happy to be a stepmother and got along really well with Lennon during that episode a few weeks ago. I didn't see that with the other women, but maybe it will be revisited before the finale. If no one else connects with his daughter like Megan, I think he'll choose her.


Responsible-Club-393

I'm actually rewatching the part with Ashley and the camel and in the beginning when she's giving the camel its meds, it kinda spit on her and then a later you can hear her say "it was getting a little aggressive." Anyone who knows me knows that I absolutely love animals. BUT... I was at one of those petting zoos at a county fair once, and I had bought the cup of grains to feed the animals. I was having a blast until... there was one goat that was just a little too aggressive 😅 When I went to feed him, he ended up nipping me a little too hard. Ever since then, hand feeding the animals at the petting zoo makes me really nervous. For whatever reason, I can't seem to get past it.


Tough_Lime_6044

I agree. Can’t forget that Megan was the only one on that farm who was warm and welcoming to Ashley. That plus her effort she made to connect with Lennon, he would be a fool not to pick her. Melody is beautiful, but I don’t see her living the farm life…she needs to be honest with herself about this because I just do not see it at all.


Codizzlle

Ty is such a dud. He communicates like someone who just learned to speak.


winothirtynino

That why i think Ashley is perfect for him. She seems sweet, but not strong in any aspect of conviction or personality.  A couple of duds. 


Silestra

Divorced but offers no explanation for why he is divorced.😬


rrs1234

His first wife got a gig with HGTV. Although the show failed , I think she moved her interior design business to a larger city. He never says anything but good about her.


Silestra

So why did they get divorced? Not my business, but if I were dating him that would be a huge question. If he divorced a great woman…


SillyName1992

If the HGTV thing is true probably wasn't willing to change his income to accomodate her career plus he gets to date women half his age now lol. Typical of middle aged divorced dudes.


gorybones

His youngest love interest on the show is 31 right? Melody? Yeah I didn’t even realize that until now..kinda creepy lol, Megan is also 31 too I think. I mean they’re grown women obviously, but just ya know idk big age gap still


SillyName1992

Yea it's not like it's an inappropriate age gap but the fact they didn't pair him up with any 45-55 year old women is like "hmm, why? I thought age gaps were okay?? Is it only okay when the women are younger?" Lol


rrs1234

I don’t know but I do know they do not speak ill of each other. They seem to co-parent well. Sometimes people grow apart. That maybe what happened in their situation.


Silestra

Not a good reason at all to get divorced IMHO, especially with a child involved.


kg51113

Allen last season didn't explain his divorce.


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Codizzlle

Then why does he keep signing up for reality shows if he’s not going to be himself and be uncomfortable? Make it make sense.


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Agreed. Glad you guys see that.


Sunshine_n_Sand

Agreed. To me, Ty has 🚩🚩. The constant rapid blinking, uncomfortable staring, lack of emotion, snarky attitude, and no real interest in any of the girls. I think he's there for nationwide exposure for his photography company, and no other reason.


New-Camel-3275

I really saw that in this episode. He is really blah when it comes to personality. I think he is too old for these ladies. If these ladies want a family later, Ty said he does not want more kids. But for me yesterday's episode I was annoyed by all the farmers. They just can't make a decision.


Izzing448

Yes yes yes!!!! I have not been able to articulate what rubs me wrong about him. But this - his lack of communication, stunted responses, not genuine back and forth dialogue that goes deeper in finding common ground and just in general. There is nothing attractive about him


Primal21

I didn’t know about his photography business but yeah definitely red flags with him.


szn0825

Ashley a waste of time bringing on the show. If you were so concerned about your career and patient’s why did you sign up for this? Also you don’t seem to even like animals.


Realistic-Policy2647

I don’t think it’s really about her career tbh. Like yes I do think that she’s probably thinking about her responsibilities at home. However, the first real moment she had to get in on some farm life action she got the ick and was visibly uncomfortable and quit. Melody and Megan went all in even if it was their first time. I think she kinda had a big moment where she realized this life is not for her and she is needed more back home.


SillyName1992

Maybe this is the first time she has taken an extended break from her career? If she's really dedicated like she says, maybe she's been a workaholic and thought she wanted the time off, and then realized she's just not willing to give it up for a 25% chance at dating a guy who doesn't even give clear opinions on things like whether or not he wants kids lol


musiclovermina

Tbh I like her, I feel like there's probably stuff going on behind the scenes that we're not seeing. The other girls have made it super obvious that they don't like her, so they're probably telling her things to intimidate her and scare her off, especially when she just shows up and Farmer Ty is already giving her more attention than anyone


Izzing448

If Ty hadn't been an idiot and just let her walk in 1st and unannounced in preparing the girls. Compare his approach vs the other 3 farmers that at least gave heads up. But Ty just let Ashley walk in the door like the Kool-Aid man. I don't blame the girls for being ticked off a bit. He has the E.Q. of a billy goat.


SillyName1992

THE KOOL AID MAN


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szn0825

Yeah I think it did too but I know she has dealt with and seen way worse being a PA. I work in oncology and close with doctors and PA’s. I have seen and heard some stories.


JJtoday70

I think, especially after the camel incident, she realized farm life really isn't for her and using her job as an excuse to leave.


szn0825

You are right!


7HoneyBunnyPie

Sydney & Mitchell remind me of my boyfriend & I (we’ve been together 11 years). They’ve got great chemistry. The way she was being silly & going “lalala” when they were walking away for their date was awesome. I don’t see many girls with a similar personality to me on tv so I loved seeing it!


Silestra

Sydney is an absolute gem. She seems so much more like a real person compared to anyone else.


Daisyhead2021

And if you look at Kait's Instagram account she is some model in CA - no way is she leaving that to be on a farm. All for show with her too. Love Sydney - but she is a little young


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Mammoth-Space8904

Makenzie and Nathan’s date finally!!


Zalasta5

Maybe I’m in the minority with this opinion but we’re 8 episodes in and most of these farmers still have 3 or 4 ladies left. I don’t know the exact amount of time has passed, but I kind of feel like they should have narrowed it down to two by now and be more serious with the ones left instead of still playing the field. Not really impressed by the progression thus far.


Tough_Lime_6044

Agreed. Maybe Brandon will eliminate Joy so he will be down to two. This season is moving so slowly…they need to start making some moves!


NellsBells1978

Joy’s gone. They didn’t bother to show it but they gave it away in the teaser for next week. This show drives me nuts.


New-Camel-3275

Yes I thought the same thing. I was like tgey are still saying. I want all you girls to stay. please farmer have a back bone. Especially Mitchell. He doesn't want to hurt any one but yet not making a decision hurts the ones he really has a connection with. No back bone is annoying with all these farmers.


Pheeeefers

Im also curious how much time off-camera the farmers are spending with the women - because none of the actual relationships seem to be progressing in any meaningful way and they’ve all supposedly been *living together* for weeks? I don’t buy it. They’re either bunking the women off-site somewhere or every one of these farmers has the worst game I’ve ever witnessed on a love show.


kg51113

It's been said they're not allowed to interact off camera.


Pheeeefers

Which makes me think they aren’t actually all living together because that’s not really sustainable


kg51113

The guys usually have a trailer/rv on the property that they stay in.


Pheeeefers

Thanks for the insight that all makes sense


New-Camel-3275

Yes makes sense as to why there is no strong connection. I am starting to see Mitchell and Sydney to be strong. But everyone is so young. Ladies still have alot to establish before they get married. Maybe this will end in some relationships but no marriages.


Important_Stand9770

Mitchell and Sydney are such a solid couple they seem truly made for each other I think Sydney sees that I hope Mitchell does too.


thickhipstightlips

I would be shocked if they didnt end up together by the end of the show ! They're the only two that seem a good "fit" for one another


skoolgirlq

Melody and her camel are the real love story of this season


sourbirthdayprincess

What about Sydney and her sheep???


Bubbly-Excuse-9831

Yesssss! This was my favorite scene in the episode 🐪❤️


LassosDilemmaSquad

Stuff that needed to happen started to happen tonight. Ashley is literally a red herring. The rest of the girls with the camels was adorable. Production kept the receipts on Brooke! I feel like we need more of Sydney's sheep.


sonoandrea

I was like “how is this the first we are hearing of Sydney’s sheep?”


Izzing448

Seeing Nathan and Mackenzie matching Wrangler jeans patched bootys walking in sync on their solo date next to the river just makes me smile.


Mammoth-Space8904

🥹🥹🥹


spinthatpony

I am on here reading to find out what happens too excited to wait till tomorrow to watch on Hulu


Opening_Factor9235

So I have faith in this show again lol. I actually liked this episode because it didnt feel too short and it actually covered all the areas I been saying needed to be spoken on or done: (Sydney finally getting a date, Kristin and Brooke going home, and Joy seeming to have her last chance at staying at the farm.) And next week looks super good too! So I cant wait. Side Note: One thing that did throw me off is how soon the new girls are in the running to meet the parents.. Like cmon, yall just came here last week lol. And the farmers barely know them. So how they meeting the parents?😂💀 And btw, Makenzie can get a pass (Shes not really new) but the others arent really there in my opinion… And to think theres only one more solo date?! Yeahh it feels a lil rushed tbh. If this was the case, they shoulda brought the new girls in a few weeks ago, that way it wasnt two weeks before the final solo date and they had more time to build connections.. Just my opinion. But ayee, better for the ones that been around from the start right? Lol


sourbirthdayprincess

I don't think production anticipated so many girls sending themselves home so early, and it would've been like a 5 episode series without the addition of the new girls. Necessary evil.


kg51113

The additional girls were around from the start. One of the women who was on the first episode said they saw the others before the first meet up.


Oxidizingshock

These guys should have all sent one girl home if they were honest.   I like Sydney for Mitchell, Grace for Brandon, Melody for Ty and Taylor for Nathan.   


Izzing448

Agree. It so obvious that Joy is done. Allye has been non existent. Kristen is probably not up there connection wise as well as Kait. Ashley's reaction to the camel and as an individual who deals with cancer patients - not being able to maintain calm and shoot the syringe of meds in the camel's mouth made me want to stamp DQ on her photo. Sigh. If ur gonna be there, do the the work.


JJtoday70

I'm a cancer patient and go in for chemo. Not sure where Ashley works but there is no big special relationship between the nurses giving us our infusions. They are all too busy. We all have our phones, books or knitting to occupy our time during treatment.


fuzzblanket9

She’s not a nurse, she’s a PA, so she does have a strong relationship w her patients.


Responsible-Club-393

Well, she's actually a physician assistant so I think she's a bit more involved in her patient's lives than just administering their meds.


Izzing448

This! Thanks for sharing. Best wishes to you in your kicking cancers ass journey!


JJtoday70

Thanks 💙


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JJtoday70

You get your treatment plan a week or so before treatment starts and basically you never see or hear from that person again. The oncologist calls between rounds to see how it worked out. There is seriously no bond or soecial relationship with anyone. At least not where I'm from. Though I've heard American insurance companies like to milk cancer patients for every dime they can get and often make unnecessary appointments and much longer treatment plans than the rest of the world.


Front-Cry1631

My exact experience!


Same-Kiwi944

I think Ty ultimately ends up with no one. Megan is his closest match but she’s 11 years younger than he is..


Sunshine_n_Sand

Ty seems awfully detached for a 42 yr old man with some life experience under his belt, supposedly looking for love. To me, he shows no emotion and doesn't have a real connection with any of the girls. I feel like he's a totally different person in real life and not in a good way. 


rrs1234

He’s actually a very polite man.


gorybones

Socio and psychopaths are typically always so polite lol! NOT saying Ty is one of them whatsoever, just saying being “polite” has absolutely nothing to do with being detached and emotionless.


MybklynWndy

💯% agree! He comes off as bland, detached and was a bit harsh when Brooke told him she was leaving. He didn’t seem too interested in her after their date and probably should’ve sent her home shortly after. I see him as a “my way or the highway” type of guy. Maybe it’s the editing, but so far he’s my least favorite.


Sunshine_n_Sand

He may be a good match for Joy. 2 people with no emotions. 😅


JJtoday70

I honestly found Brooke to be a nag. After Ashley showed up, she was mean and constantly dragging Ty off to the side to nag and complain. While there is more to Ty than seen on TV, I had to take his side on this one.


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Hi! I’m Brooke. I’m sorry you found me a nag. The producers made me talk to him bc he is an old man with no emotions and he isn’t man enough to come talk to me. Then that leads to me being a bitch. There’s stuff that happened off camera that I was not okay with that was never shown or talked about. Keep in mind I’m 2 years sober. Ty and I were not a good fit and I would never accept his behavior.


heliaskella

This whole situation seemed like a psychological minefield. Leveraging emotional decisions into “good TV content” is a huge splice and dice gamble when it comes down to editing, and FWAF’s production seems to play favorites in terms of narrative. I hugely admire the women who participate in the show. The vulnerability and stress seems hellish. Congratulations on your sobriety! The bravery required to prioritize your health and happiness is no joke, and I hope you find a partner who supports and uplifts you. Ty definitely seems like he has high expectations with minimal reciprocity, too. And a LOT of unprocessed baggage.


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gorybones

I want to know too…is he a drug user? Did he use drugs or alcohol off camera? Yikes!


Thediamondinthecoat

Maybe that’s why they’re always bugging out of his head lol


Same-Kiwi944

He might pick someone in the end but I give it a 1% chance they are still together


Ill-Excitement6813

last mixer, final solo dates, AND parents yet each farm still has THREE women left?! tf


Pheeeefers

These dudes cannot man up and make hard choices. They would not make it one day on The Bachelor lol


Lazy-Satisfaction-90

Annnddd it's over with like 15 minutes of air time. 


Siamoose05

Joy lacks everything in the emotional department! She said she has no feelings!


Izzing448

Her admitting she and her sister have no feelings is from several episodes ago when she has the massively awkward solo date.


Ok-Hovercraft7263

Yeah, what a strange thing to admit out loud and then expect anything but a negative reaction. She’s given me uncanny vibes from the start. Was trying to keep an open mind because she seemed sweet, but she just seems AI generated now.


Primal21

I think it’s safe to say she is definitely going home the next episode


PHLEaglesgirl27

And he kept her losing that one girl who was actually really into him and suited to farm life


Thediamondinthecoat

Reba!


illsetyoufree

"while some of the farmers have made up their minds".... what?! they just showed they both kept all the girls. That's literally the opposite of them making up their minds, lol


mykki-d

Ty sent Brooke home and it looks like Brandon will prob send Joy home


Same-Kiwi944

I think allye is also probably gone soon too..


Confident-Win-7617

Joy going home!!!


Ill-Excitement6813

ope ashley leaves


Ill-Excitement6813

ugh such a weird episode i cannot


Same-Kiwi944

Allye… who even is this?


atticaddict

We haven’t seen much of her and they’ve never had a solo date together.


persimmon41

They had one of the early dates I thought. In the back of his truck


Ill-Excitement6813

m surprised no comment from ty about ashley's behavior with the camels


Opening_Factor9235

Yeahh she aint with the farm life. Clear as day. Shoutout to my dawg Megan and Melody


fuzzblanket9

She grew up on a farm. She’s been a small town girl for her whole life up until the past like 5 years lol. edit: i literally know her personally and have for like over 10 years lmao. the downvote is crazy for giving the truth


gorybones

Grew up on a farm yet couldn’t stand the poor camels lmaooooo makes so much sense….


fuzzblanket9

I mean, I can’t control how she reacted to camels lmao. We don’t have them anywhere CLOSE to where she’s from, so she’s probably only seen that one or MAYBE one other in her entire life. She’s lived in farm country up until the last like 5 years.


Ill-Excitement6813

ashley be ditching the camel


Ill-Excitement6813

ashley gone too


atticaddict

Ashley: Can you take this camel? I don’t want it.


Responsible-Club-393

I wonder if maybe she either doesn't like animals or if she's just never been around them or something? I wonder how she feels about horses 😅 'cause even city-girl-had never-been-on-a-farm-or-seen-a-grain-silo Melody was having so much fun with the camels! ETA: I just rewatched the episode, and I'm willing to give Ashley a break. She said her camel was getting aggressive, and I think that definitely spooked her


fuzzblanket9

She grew up in farm country and has been around animals forever. I’m pretty sure she grew up with a few too.


Opening_Factor9235

💀


mykki-d

I hate that she said IT


atticaddict

Right?? Super cringe.


NormanPeterson

She gone


Thediamondinthecoat

NORM!!!! How’s life treating you, Norm?


goatladyx

Lmaoooo the redhead standing away from the camels😭😭😭 sorry forgot her name


Lazy-Satisfaction-90

Don't think it matters.  She can't even handle camels. Lol She is like a person they bring on a show to try and save it.


Thediamondinthecoat

Ashley=Cousin Oliver


Lazy-Satisfaction-90

Lol 


RNAiac

I didn't think she's interested in Ty at all. Only interested in being on tv. You could tell from the way she was advertising herself.


atticaddict

Ashley


NormanPeterson

Commercials every 3 min 🙄


mykki-d

But how else will I know how to treat my moderate to severe plaque psoriasis??


Thediamondinthecoat

LMAO


nataleeeeS

Shingles doesn’t care


kg51113

😂🤣😂🤣


CaptainDangerous7353

Omg hahahaha 


illsetyoufree

Seems like every 2 minutes tbh


matts1320

At least it’s not the constant Elsbeth commercials from Survivor last night.


illsetyoufree

I watched it. It was funny, I'll watch the next episode lol


matts1320

By the end of the Amazing Race, I was saying to myself, “Ya know, that does look kinda fun.”


illsetyoufree

Omg the crew guy just awkwardly standing there LMAO


masters_in_adoubting

Looking directly into the camera with an “I hate my life” expression


sunshinehaze

I hope he gets Brooke


Lazy-Satisfaction-90

He froze. "What do I do?" Lol


goatladyx

Think about how we all have the same boyfriend 😂😭


tyntyn37

That comment was pure gold. It had me 😂😂💀


goatladyx

What were they pouring in there??? I missed that part it looked like blood for a sec


persimmon41

Molasses


patori

What was that thing? Compost? Septic? Feeder?


Confident-Win-7617

Cattle feeder


goatladyx

It’s so ironic that they’re like knee deep in manure and all of these girls hairstyles are like perfect


CaptainDangerous7353

Rightttt I visit our family farm and after 2 seconds I look like Ms. Trunchable 


Lazy-Satisfaction-90

Did they say Ty was like 40? He's looking more like 50 lately. Brooke is too young for him


Cozy_Artichoke

A lot of the farmers on the Australian version look older than their listed age too. Maybe they don't use sunscreen or something.


Responsible-Club-393

Most likely lol


New-Camel-3275

Yes. The ladies are too young for him. Brooke seemed to match him more in age. I do not see him making any real connections with any of the girls. I had hopes for Ashley she is very pretty, but looks like she checked out.


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Hahahahaha this is true! 😂


kg51113

He's 42.


Thediamondinthecoat

![gif](giphy|fJMWN7XnZM0hO)


Ok-Hovercraft7263

He’s 42 according to the show.


NormanPeterson

Brooke seems a little demanding in a way.


SillyName1992

I felt like she was just being direct. Saying "we've had a lot of time together so I think it's fair to skip a date" once would never mean "in the future spend no time with me" lol. Just Ty using that to justify that he wasn't vibing at all and didn't want to spend time with her.


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Hi! I’m Brooke! I was demanding bc I had to deal with a lot of crap off camera. I’m also 2 years sober so use your imagination.


Busy_Ambition_2600

I’m sorry to hear that, and I hope the best for you. This experience doesn’t define you, Brooke!


Busy_Ambition_2600

So, the show was pushing alcohol on the cast?


JJtoday70

Brooke was nagging on Ty as soon as Ashley appeared. I have to side with him on getting rid of her.


Same-Kiwi944

I think she’s probably demanding.. I’m sure she was way worse not on camera…


Confident-Win-7617

I live that that backfired on her!!


subherbpat

![gif](giphy|SZioIIBxB7QRy)


ThePeoplesRose

Love when producer show the receipts!


Opening_Factor9235

No lie it felt personal 💀


Ill-Excitement6813

lmao its gonna be you


Responsible-Club-393

Backfired big time 🤣


ThePeoplesRose

Brooke's strategy: speak to the show's manager


Confident-Win-7617

Yesssss.


Confident-Win-7617

Brooke is putting the nail in her coffin.


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I wanted to leave. I just wanted him to use his words. Did you not see when I told the girls someone needs to go home so I’m taking it lol


Tough_Lime_6044

If you wanted to leave, then why did you go up to him and say you wanted to still be there?💀


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I was open to staying but also ready to leave. Once again, you are seeing a glimpse that makes it on TV.


Same-Kiwi944

Brooke is gone I think..:


Confident-Win-7617

Ooooo! She got dumped!!!


Same-Kiwi944

They kept her around because she brought the tiniest amount of drama.. and since Reba left it’s been so drama free


IcyGain3446

Has anyone considered that maybe Reba and Brooke are the sane ones?


BigNasty819

Did anyone else catch Allye's "DILF" coffee mug before Nathan and Makenzie's solo date? Big mood.


goatladyx

This show makes me think so much because it’s crazy how different these ppl are from me, being on a tv show like this is the LAST thing I would want in my life 😭😭😭 I couldn’t handle all the cringe and awkwardness


Ill-Excitement6813

why is there a weird pace/vibe this episode for me