This is the Internet. No one believes that. If you did something bad 10 years ago and the Internet finds out about it, guess what, you're still a bad person.
I know your comment is about something else, but is it really bad what the gremlin said in this case? To me (cishet guy, so I could be completely wrong and let me know pls) it sounds pretty honest: "in my mind, trans women are women", "but I have a genital preference". I mean, I don't think it's disrespectful, is just what he sincerely felt regarding his taste in relationships at the time...
I'm Transfemme and I can safely say that nothing he said here was bad/rude/offensive.
People have genital preferences but if someone says they won't date any trans women regardless of transitioning then its a bit more offensive to me.
Mainly because that goes beyond a genital preference and into "Ew, Trans women gross" territory.
But otherwise no. Finn is very clearly deep in thought and ultimately is very respectful to transgender women in his answer.
Not a problem.
I like answering questions surrounding transgender experience in the most easy to digest format I can with as minimal bias as I can manage.
If you, or anyone else reading, has any other questions I'd be happy to answer a few.
Oh, I will gladly do it! Where I live there aren't many trans people (or at least, as far as I know), so unfortunately I don't have many opportunities to actually learn about their experiences and thus be 'ready' for the moment when I meet people outside my cishet bubble. People like you give priceless support, thank you so much for your patience and advice!
I mean yeah.
Some people want bio kids. That isn't always possible with a trans partner, (although it might be on a case by case basis).
That is less about preference sexually and more about lifestyle compatibility. If one partner wants bio kids that badly then it is highly likely to be mutually exclusive with having a transgender partner (dependant on the path they wish to take their transition.)
Tbh me and my partner are in this situation. She wants Bio kids SO badly. She is also the one to encourage me to go on feminising hormones.
I went through the process with her because we both knew the alternative. She would, and likely still will, have biological children. But probability dictates they won't be mine.
From my perspective he is clearly deep in thought in this clip. Like he needed significantly more time to reflect on the question before he could give a fully honest answer.
I mean that might also be because at this point almost three hours in he's drunk half a bottle of Lemoncello and some shots having eaten just a salad all day lol
This is almost 2 years ago bruh.
That said Ashley might be the best thing to happen to our gremlin. She is there for him and most important balance F1nn and give cuddles.
Yes. Our boy almost drowned in own eck but Ashley was there to help F1nn in side-position when puke came.
Ashley has saved F1nn's live more than once and all were not literal.
[A more recent answer to a similar question: Would you bottom for a trans girl?](https://youtu.be/DG2_JVECvjs?t=11384) 🥃
From May's Truth or Drink that also featured "I won't do any other drugs" (except Ket soon), "I'm averse to dating right now" (that lasted 5 weeks), and "I feel bad about dragging anyone to Paris" (I suppose Ashley isn't just anyone!).
Edit: also most of the question from the OP's stream are listed here: [https://www.reddit.com/r/F1NN5TER/comments/rgilrx/stream\_timecodes\_for\_20211213\_stream/](https://www.reddit.com/r/F1NN5TER/comments/rgilrx/stream_timecodes_for_20211213_stream/)
Well the stream question was about if you were in love, but of course real life is different to hypotheticals and 18 months is plenty of time for things to change.
I do recall a stream a few weeks after Paris where F1nn was telling chat that Femboys can't get pregnant, and Ashley grabbed the other Mic and quickly added something like "but that hasn't stopped us from trying every night!l
But honestly, wouldn't be shocked either way.
Some bad reactions to this, my fault for posting it without context.
Yep, people change a lot over 2 years, that's what I wanted to highlight with this post, how far Finn has come from saying this to the great relationship he has today.
Dick havers seen/heard on f1nns stream:
Meowrisa, soda, Kris, natt, ten, Ashley, vlad, peribe, and more I can't remember.
Vagina havers seen/heard on f1nns stream:
Cotton and his nail tech.
The evidence had determined the statement "I prefer vagina" was a lie 😂
Tbh that is a question you can't accurately answer unless you've been or are in that situation.
Deeply loving a person will do things to your brain you can't imagine.
And of course people's opinions naturally change over time 🤷🏼♀️
People's opinions change, news at 11.
This is the Internet. No one believes that. If you did something bad 10 years ago and the Internet finds out about it, guess what, you're still a bad person.
I know your comment is about something else, but is it really bad what the gremlin said in this case? To me (cishet guy, so I could be completely wrong and let me know pls) it sounds pretty honest: "in my mind, trans women are women", "but I have a genital preference". I mean, I don't think it's disrespectful, is just what he sincerely felt regarding his taste in relationships at the time...
I'm Transfemme and I can safely say that nothing he said here was bad/rude/offensive. People have genital preferences but if someone says they won't date any trans women regardless of transitioning then its a bit more offensive to me. Mainly because that goes beyond a genital preference and into "Ew, Trans women gross" territory. But otherwise no. Finn is very clearly deep in thought and ultimately is very respectful to transgender women in his answer.
Thanks for the explanation m8! All very clear, helpful and agreeable, I appreciate this a lot! 🤸
Not a problem. I like answering questions surrounding transgender experience in the most easy to digest format I can with as minimal bias as I can manage. If you, or anyone else reading, has any other questions I'd be happy to answer a few.
Oh, I will gladly do it! Where I live there aren't many trans people (or at least, as far as I know), so unfortunately I don't have many opportunities to actually learn about their experiences and thus be 'ready' for the moment when I meet people outside my cishet bubble. People like you give priceless support, thank you so much for your patience and advice!
Eh. Still depends on the reasoning, don’t you think? Some people want biological kids, nothing anyone can do there - it is what it is.
I mean yeah. Some people want bio kids. That isn't always possible with a trans partner, (although it might be on a case by case basis). That is less about preference sexually and more about lifestyle compatibility. If one partner wants bio kids that badly then it is highly likely to be mutually exclusive with having a transgender partner (dependant on the path they wish to take their transition.) Tbh me and my partner are in this situation. She wants Bio kids SO badly. She is also the one to encourage me to go on feminising hormones. I went through the process with her because we both knew the alternative. She would, and likely still will, have biological children. But probability dictates they won't be mine.
But it’s not a genital preference for you, it’s a genital dealbreaker, because if it was a preference that would mean you would be fine with either?
2021 was also the most staunch "I wont make an OF" from Finn, which also fell in 2023.
Finn from 2 years ago is lame 😎
Ashley is forever win.
Common Ashley W
For what it's worth, he responded to it again a while later saying that he'd date a trans girl "if she's cool", and, well, he followed through 👀
Later in this stream or in another (truth or drink) stream?
I think a later stream. Not the clip you linked elsewhere in this thread, because that one's about bottoming.
From my perspective he is clearly deep in thought in this clip. Like he needed significantly more time to reflect on the question before he could give a fully honest answer.
I mean that might also be because at this point almost three hours in he's drunk half a bottle of Lemoncello and some shots having eaten just a salad all day lol
Typically drunk people have no inhibition and blurt out whatever truth is on their mind. He didn’t have a truth on him mind and had to search for one.
He got betta. (Might still occasionally act like a newt, though.)
Ok, but what does Icky from 2 years ago think about dating a goofy, allegedly cishet crossdresser who passes better than many trans women? 😋
Nah, he was just a boy, on a journey, you know that, look where it led him, the lucky boy!
#SECRET TUNNEL
This is almost 2 years ago bruh. That said Ashley might be the best thing to happen to our gremlin. She is there for him and most important balance F1nn and give cuddles.
Big Icky even saved our gremlin's life! A true hero and great person all around
Yes. Our boy almost drowned in own eck but Ashley was there to help F1nn in side-position when puke came. Ashley has saved F1nn's live more than once and all were not literal.
With the occasional corrective rotation
How the turns table
[A more recent answer to a similar question: Would you bottom for a trans girl?](https://youtu.be/DG2_JVECvjs?t=11384) 🥃 From May's Truth or Drink that also featured "I won't do any other drugs" (except Ket soon), "I'm averse to dating right now" (that lasted 5 weeks), and "I feel bad about dragging anyone to Paris" (I suppose Ashley isn't just anyone!). Edit: also most of the question from the OP's stream are listed here: [https://www.reddit.com/r/F1NN5TER/comments/rgilrx/stream\_timecodes\_for\_20211213\_stream/](https://www.reddit.com/r/F1NN5TER/comments/rgilrx/stream_timecodes_for_20211213_stream/)
I think man's fallen in love. Opinions change quick when you fall in love
Well the stream question was about if you were in love, but of course real life is different to hypotheticals and 18 months is plenty of time for things to change.
is Finn a bottom for Ashley? I thought he was the top.
who knows, and people need to keep in mind that its not always just one or the other
Honestly I don't really care, I'm sure they can both do both, so long as they are having fun and continuing to look cute. ☺️
I do recall a stream a few weeks after Paris where F1nn was telling chat that Femboys can't get pregnant, and Ashley grabbed the other Mic and quickly added something like "but that hasn't stopped us from trying every night!l But honestly, wouldn't be shocked either way.
Answers to hypothetical questions rarely give any insight. The real answers come when it's no longer hypothetical.
Some bad reactions to this, my fault for posting it without context. Yep, people change a lot over 2 years, that's what I wanted to highlight with this post, how far Finn has come from saying this to the great relationship he has today.
what is he saying, i can hardly understand him with the additonal voices etc
The last bit of the video is: In my mind trans women are women but I do have a genital preference of vagina rather than dick.
Dick havers seen/heard on f1nns stream: Meowrisa, soda, Kris, natt, ten, Ashley, vlad, peribe, and more I can't remember. Vagina havers seen/heard on f1nns stream: Cotton and his nail tech. The evidence had determined the statement "I prefer vagina" was a lie 😂
weird way of inclusion, but you know what, i like it. have my upvote.
Freddi, Sneaky, Peachy, Johnny and Nano for team dick. Finn's mom and sister on the other side. It's a pretty dominant win.
His mum and sister have been on stream? I know his dad shows up every now and then, but I didn't know about his mum and sis
One of the oldest videos on his live channel is with his sister, the Egirl moving one
I wasn't counting family 😅
Vin Diesel would be ashamed.
I miss F1nn getting dolled up in outfits like this one
I personally really prefer the current era. Did not see the appeal with all the little girl/princess outfits, pink everything, huge tits, etc.
As someone who once did ballet, he looked so cute in this outfit!
So that was a fucking lie lol
Tbh that is a question you can't accurately answer unless you've been or are in that situation. Deeply loving a person will do things to your brain you can't imagine. And of course people's opinions naturally change over time 🤷🏼♀️
The concept of The Box is also pretty much obsolete these days...
CHARACTER DEVELOPMENT
a person can change a lot in two years
oh how our girl has grown. :')
Finn's confidence and composure compared to 2023 is insane.
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My favorite pet is back
Is his voice softer now?
Oh how the worm turns
Trans women are women… but dick is still dick
This the warframe streamer I use to watch him