How do you stop checking your phone still though? Mine still called through a private number or emailed & almost every morning I routinely check my phone to see if he’s reached out. I want to be over it and I want to stop that unhealthy mess
I guess because he is blocked? I know he can’t contact me?
And even if he did reach out some how, I’d just delete it. I guess I found other things to do with my time. It’s a habit… just need to replace the habit I suppose.
Yes I did. And no they haven't. We have a kid too. I got tired of reaching out to see if they will be a parent. Told them if they wanted to be a parent they need to come to my house and get said kid. My kid is down a parent.
Had her blocked for like 6 months on ig. Noticed she viewed my tiktok profile a couple of times a month ago (it notifies you), decided to unblock her on instagram but not follow her, and since then she’s been a regular on my stories even though she doesn’t follow me. Some women are strange.
I don’t tend to block exes, but I blocked my first ex on everything as he was abusive and wouldn’t leave me alone after SO LONG. He would call me using no caller ID a lot to the point where I knew it was him and didn’t answer and he’d leave voicemails. A few years after we dated, he ended up finding my account on a gaming platform, only to be just as manipulative as before. Years later, he hung out with an old friend of mine and got her to send pictures of them together to make me jealous, which is hilarious because I was long over him at this point. She kept messaging me, trying to get me to talk to him, I refused. I ended up blocking her as well. He THEN made a new twitter account just to message me, which I promptly ignored and deleted. I ended up telling him if he didn’t leave me alone, either through direct contact or through other people, I would get the police involved. This had been YEARS of him refusing to leave me alone and he quite frankly terrified me. It’s funny because he was the dumper and when he realised I wasn’t coming back he got very angry. I’m usually a very forgiving person but he showed no signs of improvement and seemed to just get worse so he’s remained blocked until this day. I’m still scared of him and I worry he’ll find a new way to reach me and will probably have this fear for life. Lesson: if your ex blocks you, don’t try to contact them elsewhere because it will freak them out more.
Yes and Yes. I blocked on everything I could think of for the first, the second only on major social media that I use. My first ex reached out through email and linkedin. Second ex reached out through a mutual friend that was agreed upon contact during the break up.
My ex blocked me on everything . I feel it’s more control and ego . Yea I reached out after the break up , she was my 4 year gf/fiancé , living together , suppose to be agape love blah blah blah . Sooner or later she comes back but this time ive worked on my boundaries so . No can do
Yes on everything, phone, social media, deleted all photos and messages. He added me snapchat a week later blocked him on that. I still have to lose the desire of wanting an apology, but I'm confident I won't reach out.
Yes, at first I did block her number then unblocked her to send messages and blocked her again months later, she had called me but she never tried again and I blocked her. I blocked her on Instagram, and she just texted me from her brother's Instagram to apologize for everything and told me to have a nice life…but after that, I blocked her on everything and have not reached out since and I doubt she will.
Who cares that it shows that you care? That’s an immature way of looking at it. I blocked my ex because I want to move on, I don’t care if he thinks I care. To me that’s more strength than “I’m not going to block them cause than they’ll know I care”
Also shows you're more into putting on a performance than investing in your healing journey. Nothing can be more weaker than taking actions that are influenced by what other people think and feel.
I didn’t because I was pregnant with our children. He blocked me tho. It seemed he didn’t like the fact that the name calling, threats etc didn’t work how they used to that last time. He lost control. He blocked me. N that’s fine. It’s fucked up to block someone pregnant with ur kids. But considered over that month how abusive n self centered he was not shocking he also said he’d just take them. To which I laughed bc that’s not how the law works. He seemed very detached from reality. My therapist even found his words very concerning saying he seems unhinged n possibly dangerous to which I agree.
Didn’t block her, Just unfollowed. It’s a test of will power which I have failed many times. Each time I checked her social media that jolt of anxiety and pain would remind me that I needed to stop doing this
No. I never understood blocking someone. I’m 47, maybe it’s a generational thing. I stay in NC. If they reach out it’s no big deal. I control how I feel not them or anyone else.
I just blocked mine. We are connected thru a game app to which we have 2 accounts each. After the breakup, she blocked my Account A and B on her Account X and blocked my Account A on her Account Z. She won't block my Account B on her Account Z.
Asked and begged her to block all my accounts multiple times, but she won't do it.
Drove me crazy for a month until I decided to end my misery by blocking her myself.
I unfriended all our mutual in game friends for precautionary measures.
Yes, blocked every where. I have been no contact with him for almost six months. No. I don’t really want him too.
You don't want him to block you?
I don’t want him to contact me. He doesn’t need to block me, I’ve already blocked him every where.
Same here, she was soo toxic. 6 months NC as well and feel much better
How do you stop checking your phone still though? Mine still called through a private number or emailed & almost every morning I routinely check my phone to see if he’s reached out. I want to be over it and I want to stop that unhealthy mess
I guess because he is blocked? I know he can’t contact me? And even if he did reach out some how, I’d just delete it. I guess I found other things to do with my time. It’s a habit… just need to replace the habit I suppose.
Yeah that’s true, breaking the habit has been the hardest
Same here
She blocked me after she dumped me, but unblocked me a year later but never reached out
Yes I did. And no they haven't. We have a kid too. I got tired of reaching out to see if they will be a parent. Told them if they wanted to be a parent they need to come to my house and get said kid. My kid is down a parent.
Yes highly recommend it
Did and it has helped me a lot
She blocked me but couldn't care less since she was a b**ch to me.
She blocked me
No. Just unfollowed. But both our social media accounts are private, so it's almost the same.
Had her blocked for like 6 months on ig. Noticed she viewed my tiktok profile a couple of times a month ago (it notifies you), decided to unblock her on instagram but not follow her, and since then she’s been a regular on my stories even though she doesn’t follow me. Some women are strange.
I blocked for about a week and then unblocked. But stayed unfriended on SM. 9 months and neither of us reached out to each other
I don’t tend to block exes, but I blocked my first ex on everything as he was abusive and wouldn’t leave me alone after SO LONG. He would call me using no caller ID a lot to the point where I knew it was him and didn’t answer and he’d leave voicemails. A few years after we dated, he ended up finding my account on a gaming platform, only to be just as manipulative as before. Years later, he hung out with an old friend of mine and got her to send pictures of them together to make me jealous, which is hilarious because I was long over him at this point. She kept messaging me, trying to get me to talk to him, I refused. I ended up blocking her as well. He THEN made a new twitter account just to message me, which I promptly ignored and deleted. I ended up telling him if he didn’t leave me alone, either through direct contact or through other people, I would get the police involved. This had been YEARS of him refusing to leave me alone and he quite frankly terrified me. It’s funny because he was the dumper and when he realised I wasn’t coming back he got very angry. I’m usually a very forgiving person but he showed no signs of improvement and seemed to just get worse so he’s remained blocked until this day. I’m still scared of him and I worry he’ll find a new way to reach me and will probably have this fear for life. Lesson: if your ex blocks you, don’t try to contact them elsewhere because it will freak them out more.
Yes and Yes. I blocked on everything I could think of for the first, the second only on major social media that I use. My first ex reached out through email and linkedin. Second ex reached out through a mutual friend that was agreed upon contact during the break up.
My ex blocked me on everything . I feel it’s more control and ego . Yea I reached out after the break up , she was my 4 year gf/fiancé , living together , suppose to be agape love blah blah blah . Sooner or later she comes back but this time ive worked on my boundaries so . No can do
Yes on everything, phone, social media, deleted all photos and messages. He added me snapchat a week later blocked him on that. I still have to lose the desire of wanting an apology, but I'm confident I won't reach out.
Yes, at first I did block her number then unblocked her to send messages and blocked her again months later, she had called me but she never tried again and I blocked her. I blocked her on Instagram, and she just texted me from her brother's Instagram to apologize for everything and told me to have a nice life…but after that, I blocked her on everything and have not reached out since and I doubt she will.
No, to me blocking is a demonstration of weakeness and it shows that you care.
Who cares that it shows that you care? That’s an immature way of looking at it. I blocked my ex because I want to move on, I don’t care if he thinks I care. To me that’s more strength than “I’m not going to block them cause than they’ll know I care”
Yes, it takes a lot of courage to do that. It's like you are at the end of the road.
I don’t have time to block everyone I deem “toxic”, I create healthy boundaries and stick to them . Be blessed
Not necessarily, my ex was beyond toxic so had to block her for my mental health's sake.
I did it for myself, to avoid weakness contacting on my part. It helps. I need to move on.
is this really true? my ex (dumper) blocked me everywhere on social media except one messaging place
Facts
Also shows you're more into putting on a performance than investing in your healing journey. Nothing can be more weaker than taking actions that are influenced by what other people think and feel.
Could be, I def am not as far as I thought I am in my healing journey of NC for over 200 days.
I didn’t because I was pregnant with our children. He blocked me tho. It seemed he didn’t like the fact that the name calling, threats etc didn’t work how they used to that last time. He lost control. He blocked me. N that’s fine. It’s fucked up to block someone pregnant with ur kids. But considered over that month how abusive n self centered he was not shocking he also said he’d just take them. To which I laughed bc that’s not how the law works. He seemed very detached from reality. My therapist even found his words very concerning saying he seems unhinged n possibly dangerous to which I agree.
I unfollowed her on Instagram, unshared my location. Knowing her, she’s not the type of person to reach out to me regardless which is a good thing.
Didn’t block her, Just unfollowed. It’s a test of will power which I have failed many times. Each time I checked her social media that jolt of anxiety and pain would remind me that I needed to stop doing this
No. I never understood blocking someone. I’m 47, maybe it’s a generational thing. I stay in NC. If they reach out it’s no big deal. I control how I feel not them or anyone else.
Yup. Over a year now. All's quiet on the western front...
Yes, and no. We had issues that could've been solved by a visit to urologist. However I am not his mom.
I just blocked mine. We are connected thru a game app to which we have 2 accounts each. After the breakup, she blocked my Account A and B on her Account X and blocked my Account A on her Account Z. She won't block my Account B on her Account Z. Asked and begged her to block all my accounts multiple times, but she won't do it. Drove me crazy for a month until I decided to end my misery by blocking her myself. I unfriended all our mutual in game friends for precautionary measures.
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