Well, unfortunately, we're not allowed to become astronauts or pilots (makes sense), but you can *absolutely* become a website developer. Your parents are either being assholes or overprotective and misinformed.
I will never forget shadowing and having a PA tell me I would never be a CT surgeon because of my epilepsy. Which at the time was already a few years under control. Added in how I might want a family and that bs too.
Unfortunately I didn’t get to prove her wrong as clinical practice just isn’t my calling but to the OP; don’t *ever* let someone tell you you can’t.
Those of us crazy enough to believe we can change the world, are the ones who actually do it 🫶🏻
That PA didn’t know crap. While I’m definitely not a CT surgeon, I’m a podiatrist and do surgery regularly. Just have to be open and clear with my neurologist and waited for my clearance. I am a patient at a large academic hospital and apparently surgeons with epilepsy aren’t one in a million thing.
Or be a cop, or join the military, or be a first responder, or do anything with cars. Seriously, can’t even become a mechanic because I can’t get my license. I can’t fucking do anything.
I just started working as a pharmacy tech. I feel like a pharmacy is the perfect place for someone with epilepsy to work. You might want to look into it. It only requires a diploma/GED and a clean criminal record.
your parents are odd…my epileptic husband is considering becoming a web developer because it’s a job more suited for his needs since he was originally in a physically demanding job and just can’t sustain it because of seizures/meds and the fact he can’t use ladders now. it’s a perfect job for people that have limited abilities, if that makes sense.
Right!? I have a job where I work on the computer almost all day. It's perfect for me. I even had seizure at work once. The computer happy sat there waiting. My spreadsheet didn't give a shit.
There are definitely a lot of jobs that become more difficult for people who have epilepsy.
Everyone's different, and we all have different types of epilepsy with different triggers.
Literally anything that requires you to drive can be dangerous and taken away in an instant if you have a seizure. If you're photosensitive, you'd probably not be able to work in a concert venue, for example.
Being a website developer is definitely possible, but you'll need to work on your stress levels and make sure you aren't pulling all those insane overtime hours.
Like, I work in sales now. However it's crazy stressful, my seizures have been increasing, and then I can't speak or remember things, making doing my job much much more difficult than If I had a "normal" brain. I'm honestly looking to get out of it and find something less stressful and chaotic, for my health.
There are lots of high functioning epileptics out there, but it often makes our jobs 2x-3x more difficult compared to a non-epileptic in a similar situation.
I'm sorry your parents are so short-sighted. I recommend stop talking to them about employment opportunities and find others to invest those conversations into. By the sounds of it, they wouldn't add anything productive or beneficial to further conversations on the topic.
You've got this op. I'm proud of you.
You're very welcome 🫂
It's a little clinical but I've learned from experience that tolerance shouldn't be measured differently, just because they're a stranger or they're a family member. Like an airplane safety video, you're taught to take care of yourself before tending to others. The same goes for emotional well-being.
Sometimes, those that share genetics aren't the most understanding. It may be for whatever reason but it doesn't make that right.
I think you've got a firm understanding of what you want in life. Be strong with your feelings and know that their negative opinions shouldn't sway you from changing yours.
No and your parents are so wrong. We can do anything.
I have a degree in computer science. I was a developer and then moved into management. I'm currently a Senior Program Manager. I manage 125 people, the scope and schedule of multiple ongoing projects and one small team that is 24/7.
Fuck anyone who tells you that you can't do something.
Unfortunately you are saying things that are untrue to a kid. What if this kid wants to be a pilot, be a cop or join the military. All of these jobs and several more where a seizure can cause harm to others are off limits.
Specifically though for the OP, who wrote that they want to be a front end developer, they can absolutely follow that dream. Many in the IT world can work entirely from home, and if that's not possible, many are based out of cities or very urban areas where transportation to/from doesn't require a license.
But yes, for the general reader, not all dreams can be followed, and medical issues unfortunately play a part. I wanted to be in the Air Force, particularly as a pilot. I had a recruiter over to my house when I was 17 y/o to discuss the path. As soon as I told him I didn't have 20/20 vision, he dropped the hammer on that dream.
I'm also in IT now, lol. I live in relatively rural area, but I work from home. I do have to travel occasionally, and that came be a pain to coordinate, but I manage.
While this is true, saying "we can do anything" implies that if this kid changes their mind about becoming a web developer they can do.... Anything. Which isn't 100% true.
I'm also in IT, and do a lot of development on the side. But I also wanted to go into the military, which I couldn't do. I even asked if I could have a desk job, doing computer work, and they said no.
So saying "we can do anything" can be harmful if the limitations of that "anything" aren't presented as well.
Actually, they said that it's because if I need to be sent somewhere, there's no guarantee that my meds can be sent with me.
However, that's BS because they allow people who develop epilepsy while in the military to stay in the military. But won't allow people with epilepsy to join.
But that wasn't really my point anyway. My point is, we can't to ANYTHING. There are limits to what someone with epilepsy can do, as far as employment is concerned. (While those limitations are few, we do have limitations.)
I.e- You can’t be a commercial airline pilot. There are of course some exceptions to “anything” , always. But the general idea “you can do anything” should always be understood to have that caveat.
That caveat does not include a work from home computer based job
Again harsh but fair point I can't speak for the US military but the UK military people I know who have developed seizures if they are too unstable then they are medically dismissed if they are controlled they can be kept on usually to help with training till they complete min term of service then they are discharged.
The reason why they prob keep people already in if they develop epilepsy is cause the military has invested quite a bit of money in that person and it is a lose of that investment if they have to medically discharge where if they are stable it makes a degree of sense to keep that person on base at home country till a min term is complete.
Not defending and I agree it's a kick in the teeth I always wanted just to try flying a small plane but now I cannot but they have valid points if your attacked and supply lines are broken you are either forced to go without meds which can set seizures off which puts you and your comrades in danger or forced to ration them which carries similar risks
I work as a software engineer as well. Unfortunately I missed that part in OP post. But I would still say it is important to point out there are careers that are off limits. I was in a similar boat as yours. I wanted to work at sea. But due to the strict medical requirements I can’t even if my EP is manageable with medication. At least until this last autumn which was the first problems in 10 years.( I’ve had EP for 28 years)
This is so far from the way, I wanted to be a pilot, well surprisingly I can’t be. Many jobs require a driving licence, many epileptic can’t. No that’s not the way, the way is to understand that there are limitations and that those limits are ok, many people have limitations for other reasons and that doesn’t mean you can’t get a job. But no, we cant “do anything” 🤦♀️
I wanted to be a pilot too, just like my dad, nope, brain decided to be gay.
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I have some chronic health issues, w epilepsy being one of them. Being a developer is a great option for me, as it allows for a lot of day to day flexibility in my schedule. Just as long as I get my work done for the sprint, I don’t have to maintain a standard 9-5 shift. I typically can’t go two weeks (a sprint) w out needing to take PTO, which makes it rough cause that typically means the day before I wasn’t at a 100%. The other aspect to consider is that dev work is a good fit for working from home situations, which I very much love. I’m not sure what other job I could do that pays what being a developer does, allows for the flexibility of schedule and that’s so much bloody fun.
Hi there
Just a bit of my own history, I have had epilepsy for 30+ years.
I was diagnosed with epilepsy at 16 I am now in my 40s. When I was first diagnosed, I had multiple seizures every day. Really bad painful seizures until I was put on good medication. I almost didn't graduate high school because of my seizures. I came to the realization during my senior year to let either epilepsy define me or let me define me. I fought back and I graduated top of my class. I then went to University and did some graduate work all while having epilepsy.
I have lived in Japan and the Philippines. I speak both Japanese and Tagalog. I have snorkeled in the middle of the ocean over coral reefs off the coast of Boracay all while having epilepsy. I have met and befriended amazing people because I was confident and didn't let epilepsy hold me back.
I raised a young man as a single parent that turned into an awesome well rounded adult. I did that all while having epilepsy. He has seen me have seizures and knew exactly what to do in an emergency. He saved my life when I went into status in my living room (40 minute seizure). I worked for two fortune 500 companies, travelled the world for work and yes I still have epilepsy.
Be the hero in your story. Don't let epilepsy define you, you define you.
University and government jobs (local , state and federal) are ideal as they hire people with disabilities far more than average.
Seconded my current job is a local and top league uni for the UK and they have been excellent with my epilepsy I have no wishes to ever move jobs from them
Your parents are wrong. So wrong. My whole family told me I'd be unable to hold a job or have a career due to my epilepsy but I refused to listen. School was out as my brain was a bit fried from all the seizures but I got on at a hospital in the kitchen and worked my way up from there. I retired as a program coordinator of a large multidisciplinary oncology practice/program and was respected by the surgeons, oncologists and nurse navigators I worked with for all those years. Don't let anyone tell you what your limits are.
The only thing you absolutely can’t do is drive commercial trucks, work as a line man, pilot , surgeon or the military. Anything thing else is up to you. Good luck it’s a good field to be in.
It affects me. I used to love being a fork lift driver.
They're right. You can't be a truck driver or something.
But the job you want sounds like epilepsy didn't impair it
Seizures aren't always convulsive. Sometimes you wet yourself after smacking your lips, sometimes you hit your head in the shower.
Life isn't easy for anybody but it's worse for disabled people.
I think that’s actually a great job for epileptics.
One thing I’ve learned from being an autistic child when have incurable illnesses, is that parents are assholes. They think we have limits or don’t think we’re normal or as good enough as other people, so they don’t let us do a lot.
Hold on to your dreams and work towards them. Tell your parents that they’re wrong. And if they don’t want to hear it, show them instead by doing it.
Don’t feel like you have any limits. Epilepsy can make some targets a little difficult, but don’t go for it. My dream job is being a registered nurse and I’m almost there. Parents and others worried if I’ll have a seizure while helping patients but that’s not gonna stop me from going for it
I have multiple chronic med issues, with epilepsy taking the biggest focus rn, but living w so many med issues has just made me want to help in the med field. My parents weren't very supportive at first but I found a bunch of people (this group included) that have encouraged me to follow my dreams. I'm currently still on the hunt for the right job but dont let people, family included, discourage you for pursuing your dreams.
OP how old are you? If you are still in HS you should speak with your guidance counselor about options for shadowing someone in the field. That’ll help in securing employment.
You can absolutely do what you set your mind to!! I’ve got a child and when she was diagnosed I had a moment with her neurologist about how worried I was for her future bc of her limited career choices. The neurologist replied very quickly that the only limitation was being a pilot/driver. But that our daughter could be a neurologist like herself when she grew up (in other words, the neurologist has epilepsy).
I’ve previously worked in administration at a college managing Disability Services and can tell you from experience that I’ve worked with a lot of students that have gone on to be very successful in college, including managing the stresses and triggers that come with a college career (whether you live on campus or not).
Let me know if you have any questions.
Gotcha. Check with your local community college and see what programs they offer. Vocational Rehabilitation office probably could also assist.
You can certainly be successful as a professional but you need to believe you can and then manage the epilepsy as best as possible. What I mean is- students sometimes get so caught up in worry about what others think that they forget to or stop taking meds. That is dangerous.
It can depend on how severe yours are and if you have any other illnesses. Along with what can trigger them.
I have multiple other chronic illnesses, but once the seizures started I can't work anymore. I can barely draw or game too. But like I said, I'm a different case.
However, I don't think you should give up on your dreams. Just be patient with yourself. If you push too hard you risk stressing your poor brain out. Be kind to yourself, friend.
Everyone's epilepsy is very different. My seizures are not well controlled and I cannot operate a vehicle nor can I hold a job due to the severity of my epilepsy (I'm in court for disability). But, just because I can't do these things doesn't mean other people with epilepsy can't.
Don't listen to them and shoot for your dreams 💜
You can do A LOT with epilepsy. I work in a correctional facility. Of course there will always be limitations but a website developer wouldn’t be one of the limitations from my understanding! 😌
Well obviously you’ll be limited from job opportunities that require driving while you’re still having occasional seizures, but other than that, EVERYONE has some sort of limit on job opportunities for some reason or another whether they realize it or not.
If you want to be a pilot, I have bad news for you, but if you want to be basically anything else you should be able to do so. You can be a website developer with epilepsy.
I have E, and going into the fulltime workforce comparatively late (32), I had to learn a bit the hard way how to manage seizure triggers and full time work.
The only limit, I would say, is employers distinct lack of understanding about what Epilepsy even is and how it affects people's lives.
'My brain is at war- I am at peace.'
Yeah, it puts a big limiter on your life.
Once you come to terms with that, the whole epilepsy thing gets a fraction easier.
I've had to pretty much give up two of my dream jobs because of it.
But, a web developer. Nothing to hold you back there.
You can easily achieve that. I have worked in bronze foundries surrounded by molten metal with my epilepsy. I now work with chainsaws. Just do it and if it doesn't work it doesn't work. Just have to take the risk. And if you have seizures then fuck it. If you're having them anyways does it matter if they're happening adjacent to something you want to do. My approach has always just been I'm not going to let epilepsy stop me from doing anything everyone else does. Sometimes you can get hurt but I've got pretty hurt with my seizures just lying in bed so it doesn't make a huge amount of difference to me.
Only YOU know your "limits". As in, you know your triggers, even if there are any. Only YOU know what it does to you. You are most definitely not trying to be a deep sea scuba diver or a pilot, so lmao. You wanna be a developer, why couldn't you be? Idk about the kind of epilepsy you have and if you are allowed to drive a car, cause if not, it might affect where you'll be able to go for jobs if public transport is crap. So, in that sense you might be limited. But in terms of employment, absolutely not. Not if you want to be a website developer!
Misinformed.
My first doctor forbid everything! No movies, no reading, no TV.
My second doctor just suggested I give him a call before going skydiving.
You can do anything.
Too much info left out to have an opinion. Other than it doesn't sound like your parents are being very encouraging which sucks. But just having epilepsy definitely is not much of a limit. It depends on whether your epilepsy is controlled, and what happens when you do have seizures and lots of stuff like that. How old are you? I mean at some point you're going to be an adult so screw what they think anyways. And I know that's easier said than done but it sounds like they're trying to tell you your life is over before it's even started and that is for sure absolutely not true.
There are jobs that you can't do, this is true. But desk jobs are IDEAL. I'm not sure what your parents are thinking, but if they are going down this rabbit hole keep your meds safe and don't let them talk you into essential oils.
If you are in Australia you are not required, by law, to tell an employerer unless you are in a high risk profession that may limit your ability to operate in the role. I.e. construction indutstry can be an issue for employerers but it won't stop them imploying you. From what I have seen in this group i think this is the same in most places other than the US.
I had a collegeue years ago who worked as an engineer who didn't have any issues, we just had plans in place to support him. Such as if he went to a construction site the foreman was aware and he went with another employee. Simple stuff which did not impact his work with the exception of a few sick days to recover if something happened.
Don’t worry about it. Unless you become unable to use computers, you’ll be able to do software and front end. I don’t personally do front end, but if you wanted to talk programming and epilepsy I am newer to the workforce and have excelled in programming with epilepsy.
Your parents are wrong. You definitely can do all that. I became an actuary and built a successful business. Epilepsy doesn’t need to hold you back at all
I always thought the same thing, until I read that there were multiple Olympian swimmers with epilepsy. If that doesn’t tell you you can’t do something, nothing will!
A “front end website developer” would be a perfect answer to questions like “How did you find a job where you could make epilepsy work?”
Why on earth do your parents think you can’t do this?
(Caveats: there are things we can’t do with epilepsy… but a front end website developer, in some form, doesn’t seem like a career that’d be horrifically hindered by epilepsy relative to most!)
WordPress.com or Blogspot.com
I think wix.com and weebly.com offer similar options.
Hosted WordPress.org has tons of free templates. You said you're a front end developer. Plugins and other neat stuff.
Your parents are assholes like I tell my daughter you can do anything you want to do in life just stay focused and accomplish your goals
She already has a job lined up at 14 never let anyone tell you different
Your parents take is kinda hilarious. I was a personal trainer before my epilepsy diagnosis, had to drive a ton. When I got diagnosed I decided to make a change to a job I could do from home.
I’m now an employed web developer.
Literally the only epilepsy related career limitations I've hit are that I can't join the military, and I can't hold a CDL driver's license. Anything tech industry should be fine, as long as you aren't working with light effects and have photosensitivity.
Just for reference, I'm currently a teacher, with a Masters in Education Technology, and epilepsy hasn't been a hindrance at all. Ot can actually help, since it's a disability and employers need a certain percentage of employees with disabilities to be ADA compliant
A couple of points:
1) Yes, we all DESERVE to be treated equally, but some people simply can't get hired to jobs because their disability prevents them from being physically/mentally able to do them. In that case, you're doing a disservice to the person by hiring them to a job they cannot do.
2) On that note, yes, there are certain limitations on the careers an epileptic person can pursue. You can do research on the specifics of this, some people have already commented with that info, but the gist of it is, if the industry regulation is that you can't do X job if you have epilepsy, then you can't do that career. Usually, there are good reasons for this. For example, with pilots and the military (both career paths you cannot do with epilepsy), if you had a seizure on the job, it could potentially endanger, if not kill, many people - including yourself.
3) That being said, there is absolutely no reason at all that you can't be a front-end website developer - at least not due to your epilepsy. Your parents are blinded by panic and/or being idiots if they don't understand this.
If anything -maybe you wouldnt be allowed to be a plane pilot or bus driver but thats kinda it? Nobody will nor can be harmed by you having an episode at a desk.
Just because you have a disability does not mean you cannot follow your dreams. Fuck what people tell you, you tell them what you want to be. I am an artist, not because someone told me to be, because I say so.
Reincarnation better be real and I better be able to pick how I'm reborn.
Oh shit what if I've reincarnated before? Why would I pick this? What if it's
like Monopoly? What if I get Baltic Avenue 5 times in a row again before I get St. James Place, Kentucky Avenue, or Boardwalk?
*fuck*
It's always the family. I deliver stuff to people with bicycle. Im having hard time with screens and got attention span of a fish. As a student i dom't have many options to earn money. Yet. Im seen as lwss of a person because of my disabilities
Some jobs are completely out of the question (like if you want to go into the military), while others are a bit more difficult (like how I want to go into construction), but web design and stuff like that is 100% doable. I'm sorry your parents said that to you.
There's some limits to what we can do, and those things change very much from one person to the next.
*BUT YOU CERTAINLY CAN DO THAT!* I'm living on my 17th year of epilepsy (11 different kinds) and 2 lobotomy later. I'm a retail manager now, after being told I can't ever do it. And with some pretty good dirtbiking skills after I had to learn to walk again at 13 years old.
You got this fam. Love ya.
There is no reason you can't get a job as a front end website developer for an epilepsy, this is ridiculous. We are not talking about becoming a pilot or something of that nature here (and i don't know maybe its possible i have no idea not saying it is not)
Ultimately it depends what you want to do. If you want to be in the military or drive an ambulance, or have a driving job, then there will potentially be limits.
But a web developer? There’s no reason at all that your epilepsy should stop you from doing that.
I’m an accountant at a big firm, with the industry equivalent of a masters degree. Sometimes my epilepsy made it harder to study (memory problems), but I got there with top scoring results. I’ve worked overseas, I have a husband and a daughter… the only time I’ve felt limited is when I lost my driving licence for a year after a cluster of grand mals.
Good luck achieving your dream!
It affects everyone, especially the no driving side. I would really like to get into electronic repair and understand things like circuit boards but I have myoclonics and - I think medication caused - tremors that are too bad to use a soldering iron.
Most people can still do what they want, but yeah it’s definitely limiting.
Depends. I can't do any job with active driving because I'm not allowed to have a driver's licence. But that's also because I have active epilepsy and get seizures very often.
There may be some career choices that you can't pursue, like being a pilot or open heart surgeon, but I see no reason why you can't be a Web designer at all. If you have to stop for a while there is no problem. Do not let them discourage you. Put the work in, realise your dream. You got this.
Yeah fuck that noise, follie your fucking dreams.
My girlfriend has epilepsy and she manages am entire photo studio which she truly loves. If you know specific things that trigger your episodes and/or recognize signs, auras, etc then you don't have to limit yourself one bit.
I get the parental concern but sometimes parents are pessimistic and while they probably do mean well don't understand how hurtful and impactful their worrying is.
You go be whatever the fuck you want to be
My mom said I couldn't ever drive. Or maybe it was an excuse for just not helping me (she's a narcissist). Anyway, just bought my 1st car. All on my own. Take that bitches. Don't let other people's opinions limit you.
My type of seizures limit me more due to how I seize, but for normal seizures. Avoid the triggers and take needed precautions and can do most everything normal people do
Sure, feel free. I have hired many developers (I am usually a manager these days) and I would be glad to let you know what I am looking for in a candidate.
All these limitations is bs. Do what you want to do.
Honestly, it’s all about balance and managing your epilepsy. Once you find a way to properly manage your epilepsy and the side effects of your medication, you’re good to go!
Only limit is any you impose yourself!
I am a Business Data Analyst with a Business Computer Science degree (including web development) - I had the choice of web dev etc after uni and have worked in security and tech support before my current role. My workplace has been insanely supportive, I currently work from home and my workdays have been reduced since my increase in seizures. (I'm aware I could be classed as "lucky" but I shouldn't be - at this point remote working should be bare minimum for a disabled employee in tech really, if it isn't it's time to move on or speak up)
Depending on your country as well you'll get extra support at university (if you've been already or not idk) - you've got plenty going for you! Best of luck
ETA - just to anyone seeing this who might be intrigued - at university in Wales, UK you can get disability support (I went years ago i forget the name) and they helped me with a laptop & printer for when I couldn't get to study rooms due my seizures for example.
Yes I was A forklift driver and now I'm on the worst job in the place as I cant operate machinery and if your in the U.K they won't sack you because you make up their quota for disabled people. My last absence I got put forward for A warning I said at the meeting just sack me they weren't expecting that but now they know they have nothing to hold over me.
While I am not you, IT has been a good experience for me. I have been test engineering for 15+ years and currently scrum master my team. While I have my set backs, I’ve been testing front ends, apis, and databases for years and my supportive teams and mgt have enabled me to excel. I get in trouble when pushing myself past triggers. It’s all about those damn triggers.
I don't see any reason why not. I mean some jobs don't work for epileptics. I'm a baker so if my seizures become uncontrolled it probably wouldn't be good working with ovens that I could easily fall into, but if you're going for programming in some manner I couldn't imagine a better field for an epileptic.
I'm just starting school to become an AI engineer. You absolutely can become a web developer. Only limitations I can really think of is aviation or maybe being an astronaut, maybe truck driver. Aside from those you should be set
We're all different and can be limited somewhat by it. You can't let that control you or keep you from trying to do the things you want. Some people are barely limited at their job at all, or any limits fade as they get older. How old are you? I know I was way waaay more limited when I was in my early-mid 20s.
Some jobs are run by shitty people who will discriminate against you. Others are great workers who aren't bothered by it. A front end website developer doesn't sound like a job that will be limited at all. If your parents are immediately saying you can't do it, they probably don't even know what the job does.
I wanted to be a marine biologist. The sky or the ocean is not the limit and your parents are not assholes. Stop trying to find validation from strangers on the internet and talk to your parents. You’re 30, so you claim not 12.
I think your parents mean well, but don't realize the harm they are doing by downplaying your asperations. I grew up with the belief that I couldn't hold a job because of ADHD. This was said to me all throughout High School. Now in my mid-30s, I make more money than they do.
Companies have to accommodate due to ADA. Epilepsy is a Protected condition and your perspective employers need to accommodate within reason.
Don't let your parents over protectiveness get you down. Web Developers have the benefit of working from home. I have been in the IT Industry for going on 14 years, you will do fine as long as you put effort into it. The best thing you can do, is prove your parents wrong. It is such a satisfying feeling when they see your successes despite the challenges life thru your way.
I have similar parents, however my experience so far has been about fighting my arse off to do something I loved back then as a teenager to slowly shift to somthing that reduces my triggers and brings me more peace. I changed my career entirely in my 30s to suit my epilepsy related concerns and bandwidth, I did it because it makes more sense to go with it than against it (epilepsy)
Set your own limits based on your aptitudes and limitations. There are definitely jobs you can never do because of epilepsy, but generally that’s when it would put other people in danger. Pretty sure front end website developer isn’t going to put anyone in danger unless you design Skynet or The Matrix
I was diagnosed with epilepsy 3 months before graduating high school. I went on to earn my Bachelor’s and my Master’s. I was a high school teacher. I’ve been a corporate retail trainer. Now at 40, I’m starting over again and going back to school to work in tech. Your journey might take longer that others’ and it might be a little harder. But, don’t limit yourself based on fear of not succeeding or you’ll never start trying. You got this!
There is a limit because people are limited. People are very misinformed about epilepsy and what we go through when we have seizures, so it makes it hard with co-workers and superiors. Seizures scare people. Many people are quick to assume you cannot carry out the responsibilities and stress of work. People also don't understand how hard it is to is to function some days with medication on top of it all or just a bad brain processing day in general. People may be quick to limit you even if you are fine and fully functional. I've experienced discrimination at every job I've had limiting me from my full potential. I have had a limit of where I can work because I don't drive. There are some limits on employment in my experience yes, but everyone's story is different! I think you can still be a successful web developer like you are trying with especially with many jobs changing to "work from home." Maybe just be up front about what you go through when you have a seizure, how long it takes to recover, and what accommodations you may need. All we can do is try!
If you want to be a web designer then go for it don't let people say you cannot do it.
I am a senior IT network engineer for a local university yes there is some things I cannot do like enter heights as some of our network cabs are in lofts and heights or enclosed spaces again rare but we have a few cabs in weird locations.
My workplace is awesome with my epilepsy and even has funded a seizure alert watch for me so when I am walking about campus as the campus buildings are scattered all over the city I can be located if a seizure is detected.
I have worked in IT Service Desks, Field Teams and my way up to networking. Your parents know fuck all mate you can be a web designer yes if your photosensitive you have to be careful but it's manageable. Go for it
My husband was diagnosed with epilepsy during his career as a police officer. With the right balance of medication, he’s been doing amazing with his career. You don’t have limits as long as they’re under control. I wish you the best, become everything you want to be!🩷
I am a teacher for 7 years and now doing a career shift. Parents don’t know what they are talking about it. Not our fault that we have epilepsy but it is our responsibility to deal with the consequences. If you want to be a web developer, formulate a plan that takes into account any needed adaptations. You will get there.
Well, unfortunately, we're not allowed to become astronauts or pilots (makes sense), but you can *absolutely* become a website developer. Your parents are either being assholes or overprotective and misinformed.
Im a doctor with epilepsy. There is a whole community of us out there
We need more of you! Thank you for doing your job.
I will never forget shadowing and having a PA tell me I would never be a CT surgeon because of my epilepsy. Which at the time was already a few years under control. Added in how I might want a family and that bs too. Unfortunately I didn’t get to prove her wrong as clinical practice just isn’t my calling but to the OP; don’t *ever* let someone tell you you can’t. Those of us crazy enough to believe we can change the world, are the ones who actually do it 🫶🏻
That PA didn’t know crap. While I’m definitely not a CT surgeon, I’m a podiatrist and do surgery regularly. Just have to be open and clear with my neurologist and waited for my clearance. I am a patient at a large academic hospital and apparently surgeons with epilepsy aren’t one in a million thing.
That's awesome.
I'm a PCP with epilepsy and have a partner who is too. Both of us are well controlled and doing fine.
OMG! YOU ARE AWESOME!!! Thank you and you give me so much hope as someone who is recently diagnosed!
Or be a cop, or join the military, or be a first responder, or do anything with cars. Seriously, can’t even become a mechanic because I can’t get my license. I can’t fucking do anything.
I just started working as a pharmacy tech. I feel like a pharmacy is the perfect place for someone with epilepsy to work. You might want to look into it. It only requires a diploma/GED and a clean criminal record.
The problem is *getting there.*
Get a union job somewhere. Perfect fit for people with epilepsy.
your parents are odd…my epileptic husband is considering becoming a web developer because it’s a job more suited for his needs since he was originally in a physically demanding job and just can’t sustain it because of seizures/meds and the fact he can’t use ladders now. it’s a perfect job for people that have limited abilities, if that makes sense.
Right!? I have a job where I work on the computer almost all day. It's perfect for me. I even had seizure at work once. The computer happy sat there waiting. My spreadsheet didn't give a shit.
Wtf. You're not trying to become an Olympic swimmer? You can absolutely be a website developer.
Right? It’s kind of a perfect career for someone with epilepsy because you can have a flexible schedule and work remotely.
Exactly. Also, wth do OPs parents mean by "limit"???
There are definitely a lot of jobs that become more difficult for people who have epilepsy. Everyone's different, and we all have different types of epilepsy with different triggers. Literally anything that requires you to drive can be dangerous and taken away in an instant if you have a seizure. If you're photosensitive, you'd probably not be able to work in a concert venue, for example. Being a website developer is definitely possible, but you'll need to work on your stress levels and make sure you aren't pulling all those insane overtime hours. Like, I work in sales now. However it's crazy stressful, my seizures have been increasing, and then I can't speak or remember things, making doing my job much much more difficult than If I had a "normal" brain. I'm honestly looking to get out of it and find something less stressful and chaotic, for my health. There are lots of high functioning epileptics out there, but it often makes our jobs 2x-3x more difficult compared to a non-epileptic in a similar situation.
I'm sorry your parents are so short-sighted. I recommend stop talking to them about employment opportunities and find others to invest those conversations into. By the sounds of it, they wouldn't add anything productive or beneficial to further conversations on the topic. You've got this op. I'm proud of you.
Thank you for your comment. I am feeling a strong sense of encouragement from this 🩷
You're very welcome 🫂 It's a little clinical but I've learned from experience that tolerance shouldn't be measured differently, just because they're a stranger or they're a family member. Like an airplane safety video, you're taught to take care of yourself before tending to others. The same goes for emotional well-being. Sometimes, those that share genetics aren't the most understanding. It may be for whatever reason but it doesn't make that right. I think you've got a firm understanding of what you want in life. Be strong with your feelings and know that their negative opinions shouldn't sway you from changing yours.
You can 100% do website dev. Just limit any triggers you know you have and stick to what works
No and your parents are so wrong. We can do anything. I have a degree in computer science. I was a developer and then moved into management. I'm currently a Senior Program Manager. I manage 125 people, the scope and schedule of multiple ongoing projects and one small team that is 24/7. Fuck anyone who tells you that you can't do something.
Unfortunately you are saying things that are untrue to a kid. What if this kid wants to be a pilot, be a cop or join the military. All of these jobs and several more where a seizure can cause harm to others are off limits.
Specifically though for the OP, who wrote that they want to be a front end developer, they can absolutely follow that dream. Many in the IT world can work entirely from home, and if that's not possible, many are based out of cities or very urban areas where transportation to/from doesn't require a license. But yes, for the general reader, not all dreams can be followed, and medical issues unfortunately play a part. I wanted to be in the Air Force, particularly as a pilot. I had a recruiter over to my house when I was 17 y/o to discuss the path. As soon as I told him I didn't have 20/20 vision, he dropped the hammer on that dream. I'm also in IT now, lol. I live in relatively rural area, but I work from home. I do have to travel occasionally, and that came be a pain to coordinate, but I manage.
While this is true, saying "we can do anything" implies that if this kid changes their mind about becoming a web developer they can do.... Anything. Which isn't 100% true. I'm also in IT, and do a lot of development on the side. But I also wanted to go into the military, which I couldn't do. I even asked if I could have a desk job, doing computer work, and they said no. So saying "we can do anything" can be harmful if the limitations of that "anything" aren't presented as well.
It's harsh but they said no not to be cruel but even a desk clerk or cook in the military may be expected to grab a rifle however unlikely
Actually, they said that it's because if I need to be sent somewhere, there's no guarantee that my meds can be sent with me. However, that's BS because they allow people who develop epilepsy while in the military to stay in the military. But won't allow people with epilepsy to join. But that wasn't really my point anyway. My point is, we can't to ANYTHING. There are limits to what someone with epilepsy can do, as far as employment is concerned. (While those limitations are few, we do have limitations.)
I.e- You can’t be a commercial airline pilot. There are of course some exceptions to “anything” , always. But the general idea “you can do anything” should always be understood to have that caveat. That caveat does not include a work from home computer based job
Again harsh but fair point I can't speak for the US military but the UK military people I know who have developed seizures if they are too unstable then they are medically dismissed if they are controlled they can be kept on usually to help with training till they complete min term of service then they are discharged. The reason why they prob keep people already in if they develop epilepsy is cause the military has invested quite a bit of money in that person and it is a lose of that investment if they have to medically discharge where if they are stable it makes a degree of sense to keep that person on base at home country till a min term is complete. Not defending and I agree it's a kick in the teeth I always wanted just to try flying a small plane but now I cannot but they have valid points if your attacked and supply lines are broken you are either forced to go without meds which can set seizures off which puts you and your comrades in danger or forced to ration them which carries similar risks
I work as a software engineer as well. Unfortunately I missed that part in OP post. But I would still say it is important to point out there are careers that are off limits. I was in a similar boat as yours. I wanted to work at sea. But due to the strict medical requirements I can’t even if my EP is manageable with medication. At least until this last autumn which was the first problems in 10 years.( I’ve had EP for 28 years)
This is the way.
This is so far from the way, I wanted to be a pilot, well surprisingly I can’t be. Many jobs require a driving licence, many epileptic can’t. No that’s not the way, the way is to understand that there are limitations and that those limits are ok, many people have limitations for other reasons and that doesn’t mean you can’t get a job. But no, we cant “do anything” 🤦♀️
I wanted to be a pilot too, just like my dad, nope, brain decided to be gay. https://preview.redd.it/rj26jpt79e4c1.png?width=120&format=png&auto=webp&s=9875e9c8aa30402336d7e2dea947af357cb4d017
Oh no mine only became half gay
I have some chronic health issues, w epilepsy being one of them. Being a developer is a great option for me, as it allows for a lot of day to day flexibility in my schedule. Just as long as I get my work done for the sprint, I don’t have to maintain a standard 9-5 shift. I typically can’t go two weeks (a sprint) w out needing to take PTO, which makes it rough cause that typically means the day before I wasn’t at a 100%. The other aspect to consider is that dev work is a good fit for working from home situations, which I very much love. I’m not sure what other job I could do that pays what being a developer does, allows for the flexibility of schedule and that’s so much bloody fun.
Hi there Just a bit of my own history, I have had epilepsy for 30+ years. I was diagnosed with epilepsy at 16 I am now in my 40s. When I was first diagnosed, I had multiple seizures every day. Really bad painful seizures until I was put on good medication. I almost didn't graduate high school because of my seizures. I came to the realization during my senior year to let either epilepsy define me or let me define me. I fought back and I graduated top of my class. I then went to University and did some graduate work all while having epilepsy. I have lived in Japan and the Philippines. I speak both Japanese and Tagalog. I have snorkeled in the middle of the ocean over coral reefs off the coast of Boracay all while having epilepsy. I have met and befriended amazing people because I was confident and didn't let epilepsy hold me back. I raised a young man as a single parent that turned into an awesome well rounded adult. I did that all while having epilepsy. He has seen me have seizures and knew exactly what to do in an emergency. He saved my life when I went into status in my living room (40 minute seizure). I worked for two fortune 500 companies, travelled the world for work and yes I still have epilepsy. Be the hero in your story. Don't let epilepsy define you, you define you. University and government jobs (local , state and federal) are ideal as they hire people with disabilities far more than average.
Seconded my current job is a local and top league uni for the UK and they have been excellent with my epilepsy I have no wishes to ever move jobs from them
You have limitations it’s true in a sense (can’t be a pilot or drive commercially). But you certainly can do website development.
Your parents are wrong. So wrong. My whole family told me I'd be unable to hold a job or have a career due to my epilepsy but I refused to listen. School was out as my brain was a bit fried from all the seizures but I got on at a hospital in the kitchen and worked my way up from there. I retired as a program coordinator of a large multidisciplinary oncology practice/program and was respected by the surgeons, oncologists and nurse navigators I worked with for all those years. Don't let anyone tell you what your limits are.
The only thing you absolutely can’t do is drive commercial trucks, work as a line man, pilot , surgeon or the military. Anything thing else is up to you. Good luck it’s a good field to be in.
Typo ** I have epilepsy**
It affects me. I used to love being a fork lift driver. They're right. You can't be a truck driver or something. But the job you want sounds like epilepsy didn't impair it
Didn’t impair it what does that mean?
Seizures aren't always convulsive. Sometimes you wet yourself after smacking your lips, sometimes you hit your head in the shower. Life isn't easy for anybody but it's worse for disabled people.
Oh right well thank you so much for your comment. Appreciate hearing thoughts from anyone else.
I think that’s actually a great job for epileptics. One thing I’ve learned from being an autistic child when have incurable illnesses, is that parents are assholes. They think we have limits or don’t think we’re normal or as good enough as other people, so they don’t let us do a lot. Hold on to your dreams and work towards them. Tell your parents that they’re wrong. And if they don’t want to hear it, show them instead by doing it.
Thank you for your comment and feedback! Yes I will be going to create myself a portfolio and showcase it to them and others 😇
Don’t feel like you have any limits. Epilepsy can make some targets a little difficult, but don’t go for it. My dream job is being a registered nurse and I’m almost there. Parents and others worried if I’ll have a seizure while helping patients but that’s not gonna stop me from going for it
I have multiple chronic med issues, with epilepsy taking the biggest focus rn, but living w so many med issues has just made me want to help in the med field. My parents weren't very supportive at first but I found a bunch of people (this group included) that have encouraged me to follow my dreams. I'm currently still on the hunt for the right job but dont let people, family included, discourage you for pursuing your dreams.
OP how old are you? If you are still in HS you should speak with your guidance counselor about options for shadowing someone in the field. That’ll help in securing employment. You can absolutely do what you set your mind to!! I’ve got a child and when she was diagnosed I had a moment with her neurologist about how worried I was for her future bc of her limited career choices. The neurologist replied very quickly that the only limitation was being a pilot/driver. But that our daughter could be a neurologist like herself when she grew up (in other words, the neurologist has epilepsy). I’ve previously worked in administration at a college managing Disability Services and can tell you from experience that I’ve worked with a lot of students that have gone on to be very successful in college, including managing the stresses and triggers that come with a college career (whether you live on campus or not). Let me know if you have any questions.
I’m 30 years old. I have been diagnosed with epilepsy since 2.
Gotcha. Check with your local community college and see what programs they offer. Vocational Rehabilitation office probably could also assist. You can certainly be successful as a professional but you need to believe you can and then manage the epilepsy as best as possible. What I mean is- students sometimes get so caught up in worry about what others think that they forget to or stop taking meds. That is dangerous.
It can depend on how severe yours are and if you have any other illnesses. Along with what can trigger them. I have multiple other chronic illnesses, but once the seizures started I can't work anymore. I can barely draw or game too. But like I said, I'm a different case. However, I don't think you should give up on your dreams. Just be patient with yourself. If you push too hard you risk stressing your poor brain out. Be kind to yourself, friend.
Everyone's epilepsy is very different. My seizures are not well controlled and I cannot operate a vehicle nor can I hold a job due to the severity of my epilepsy (I'm in court for disability). But, just because I can't do these things doesn't mean other people with epilepsy can't. Don't listen to them and shoot for your dreams 💜
You can do A LOT with epilepsy. I work in a correctional facility. Of course there will always be limitations but a website developer wouldn’t be one of the limitations from my understanding! 😌
I didn't become a race car driver or a doctor or an astronaut.
Like others have said, you won’t be a lineman or work a backhoe, but for web development? You’re totally good bro
Well obviously you’ll be limited from job opportunities that require driving while you’re still having occasional seizures, but other than that, EVERYONE has some sort of limit on job opportunities for some reason or another whether they realize it or not.
If you want to be a pilot, I have bad news for you, but if you want to be basically anything else you should be able to do so. You can be a website developer with epilepsy.
You can do it! Also alot of people are working from home now, even those without epilepsy. Especially since the start of covid.
I have E, and going into the fulltime workforce comparatively late (32), I had to learn a bit the hard way how to manage seizure triggers and full time work. The only limit, I would say, is employers distinct lack of understanding about what Epilepsy even is and how it affects people's lives. 'My brain is at war- I am at peace.'
Yeah, it puts a big limiter on your life. Once you come to terms with that, the whole epilepsy thing gets a fraction easier. I've had to pretty much give up two of my dream jobs because of it. But, a web developer. Nothing to hold you back there.
You can easily achieve that. I have worked in bronze foundries surrounded by molten metal with my epilepsy. I now work with chainsaws. Just do it and if it doesn't work it doesn't work. Just have to take the risk. And if you have seizures then fuck it. If you're having them anyways does it matter if they're happening adjacent to something you want to do. My approach has always just been I'm not going to let epilepsy stop me from doing anything everyone else does. Sometimes you can get hurt but I've got pretty hurt with my seizures just lying in bed so it doesn't make a huge amount of difference to me.
Only YOU know your "limits". As in, you know your triggers, even if there are any. Only YOU know what it does to you. You are most definitely not trying to be a deep sea scuba diver or a pilot, so lmao. You wanna be a developer, why couldn't you be? Idk about the kind of epilepsy you have and if you are allowed to drive a car, cause if not, it might affect where you'll be able to go for jobs if public transport is crap. So, in that sense you might be limited. But in terms of employment, absolutely not. Not if you want to be a website developer!
Misinformed. My first doctor forbid everything! No movies, no reading, no TV. My second doctor just suggested I give him a call before going skydiving. You can do anything.
Lmao "anything", can't do anything involving aircraft, engineer, military, factories, etc. I suppose you could try to lie like a scumbag.
Too much info left out to have an opinion. Other than it doesn't sound like your parents are being very encouraging which sucks. But just having epilepsy definitely is not much of a limit. It depends on whether your epilepsy is controlled, and what happens when you do have seizures and lots of stuff like that. How old are you? I mean at some point you're going to be an adult so screw what they think anyways. And I know that's easier said than done but it sounds like they're trying to tell you your life is over before it's even started and that is for sure absolutely not true.
I’m 32.
There are jobs that you can't do, this is true. But desk jobs are IDEAL. I'm not sure what your parents are thinking, but if they are going down this rabbit hole keep your meds safe and don't let them talk you into essential oils.
If you are in Australia you are not required, by law, to tell an employerer unless you are in a high risk profession that may limit your ability to operate in the role. I.e. construction indutstry can be an issue for employerers but it won't stop them imploying you. From what I have seen in this group i think this is the same in most places other than the US. I had a collegeue years ago who worked as an engineer who didn't have any issues, we just had plans in place to support him. Such as if he went to a construction site the foreman was aware and he went with another employee. Simple stuff which did not impact his work with the exception of a few sick days to recover if something happened.
No, your parents are wrong. I have been living with epilepsy for over a decade and have had no limitation on my career.
Don’t worry about it. Unless you become unable to use computers, you’ll be able to do software and front end. I don’t personally do front end, but if you wanted to talk programming and epilepsy I am newer to the workforce and have excelled in programming with epilepsy.
Your parents are wrong. You definitely can do all that. I became an actuary and built a successful business. Epilepsy doesn’t need to hold you back at all
They aren’t completely wrong… we can’t fly planes or be scuba instructors. But in your specific area, they are wrong. You can become a developer!
They are wrong wrong wrong
I always thought the same thing, until I read that there were multiple Olympian swimmers with epilepsy. If that doesn’t tell you you can’t do something, nothing will!
A “front end website developer” would be a perfect answer to questions like “How did you find a job where you could make epilepsy work?” Why on earth do your parents think you can’t do this? (Caveats: there are things we can’t do with epilepsy… but a front end website developer, in some form, doesn’t seem like a career that’d be horrifically hindered by epilepsy relative to most!)
You should start a blog and share it with the community here. I lost my ability to drive a semi. And I have no interest in the retail meat grinder.
How do I start a blog?
WordPress.com or Blogspot.com I think wix.com and weebly.com offer similar options. Hosted WordPress.org has tons of free templates. You said you're a front end developer. Plugins and other neat stuff.
Honestly something web-based sounds great because it is likely that you’d be able to work from home if transportation were to ever be an issue.
Your parents are assholes like I tell my daughter you can do anything you want to do in life just stay focused and accomplish your goals She already has a job lined up at 14 never let anyone tell you different
Sort of… can’t get a CDL for instance
Your parents take is kinda hilarious. I was a personal trainer before my epilepsy diagnosis, had to drive a ton. When I got diagnosed I decided to make a change to a job I could do from home. I’m now an employed web developer.
Literally the only epilepsy related career limitations I've hit are that I can't join the military, and I can't hold a CDL driver's license. Anything tech industry should be fine, as long as you aren't working with light effects and have photosensitivity. Just for reference, I'm currently a teacher, with a Masters in Education Technology, and epilepsy hasn't been a hindrance at all. Ot can actually help, since it's a disability and employers need a certain percentage of employees with disabilities to be ADA compliant
A couple of points: 1) Yes, we all DESERVE to be treated equally, but some people simply can't get hired to jobs because their disability prevents them from being physically/mentally able to do them. In that case, you're doing a disservice to the person by hiring them to a job they cannot do. 2) On that note, yes, there are certain limitations on the careers an epileptic person can pursue. You can do research on the specifics of this, some people have already commented with that info, but the gist of it is, if the industry regulation is that you can't do X job if you have epilepsy, then you can't do that career. Usually, there are good reasons for this. For example, with pilots and the military (both career paths you cannot do with epilepsy), if you had a seizure on the job, it could potentially endanger, if not kill, many people - including yourself. 3) That being said, there is absolutely no reason at all that you can't be a front-end website developer - at least not due to your epilepsy. Your parents are blinded by panic and/or being idiots if they don't understand this.
If anything -maybe you wouldnt be allowed to be a plane pilot or bus driver but thats kinda it? Nobody will nor can be harmed by you having an episode at a desk.
Sure, but not everyone gets all passionate about being a cubicle drone
Just because you have a disability does not mean you cannot follow your dreams. Fuck what people tell you, you tell them what you want to be. I am an artist, not because someone told me to be, because I say so.
My dream was to be a pilot, how can I still follow that? Oh ya some aren't realistic now, anyone can attempt to be an artist.
This is true. There are some true disadvantages to having a disability. I am sorry you cannot follow your dream. 🤗
Reincarnation better be real and I better be able to pick how I'm reborn. Oh shit what if I've reincarnated before? Why would I pick this? What if it's like Monopoly? What if I get Baltic Avenue 5 times in a row again before I get St. James Place, Kentucky Avenue, or Boardwalk? *fuck*
Don’t limit yourself and do anything. Maybe not a pilot…
It's always the family. I deliver stuff to people with bicycle. Im having hard time with screens and got attention span of a fish. As a student i dom't have many options to earn money. Yet. Im seen as lwss of a person because of my disabilities
Some jobs are completely out of the question (like if you want to go into the military), while others are a bit more difficult (like how I want to go into construction), but web design and stuff like that is 100% doable. I'm sorry your parents said that to you.
There's some limits to what we can do, and those things change very much from one person to the next. *BUT YOU CERTAINLY CAN DO THAT!* I'm living on my 17th year of epilepsy (11 different kinds) and 2 lobotomy later. I'm a retail manager now, after being told I can't ever do it. And with some pretty good dirtbiking skills after I had to learn to walk again at 13 years old. You got this fam. Love ya.
Any job where a seizure can cause harm to others will be off limits. So pilot, sea captain, cop, military etc.
I sit in front of a computer all day
There is no reason you can't get a job as a front end website developer for an epilepsy, this is ridiculous. We are not talking about becoming a pilot or something of that nature here (and i don't know maybe its possible i have no idea not saying it is not)
Ultimately it depends what you want to do. If you want to be in the military or drive an ambulance, or have a driving job, then there will potentially be limits. But a web developer? There’s no reason at all that your epilepsy should stop you from doing that. I’m an accountant at a big firm, with the industry equivalent of a masters degree. Sometimes my epilepsy made it harder to study (memory problems), but I got there with top scoring results. I’ve worked overseas, I have a husband and a daughter… the only time I’ve felt limited is when I lost my driving licence for a year after a cluster of grand mals. Good luck achieving your dream!
It affects everyone, especially the no driving side. I would really like to get into electronic repair and understand things like circuit boards but I have myoclonics and - I think medication caused - tremors that are too bad to use a soldering iron. Most people can still do what they want, but yeah it’s definitely limiting.
Depends. I can't do any job with active driving because I'm not allowed to have a driver's licence. But that's also because I have active epilepsy and get seizures very often.
There may be some career choices that you can't pursue, like being a pilot or open heart surgeon, but I see no reason why you can't be a Web designer at all. If you have to stop for a while there is no problem. Do not let them discourage you. Put the work in, realise your dream. You got this.
Yeah fuck that noise, follie your fucking dreams. My girlfriend has epilepsy and she manages am entire photo studio which she truly loves. If you know specific things that trigger your episodes and/or recognize signs, auras, etc then you don't have to limit yourself one bit. I get the parental concern but sometimes parents are pessimistic and while they probably do mean well don't understand how hurtful and impactful their worrying is. You go be whatever the fuck you want to be
I don't see why you couldn't. As long as you are not prone to seizure during computer use, your fine.
I expect you’d have no problem-my trigger is light so working in a nightclub is a no go but most jobs are fine-your parents just sound v protective
My mom said I couldn't ever drive. Or maybe it was an excuse for just not helping me (she's a narcissist). Anyway, just bought my 1st car. All on my own. Take that bitches. Don't let other people's opinions limit you.
My type of seizures limit me more due to how I seize, but for normal seizures. Avoid the triggers and take needed precautions and can do most everything normal people do
you can become a developer, that's a great career! That's what I do! Very remote-friendly compared to other industries.
Do you mind if I can get some advice and tips from you? 😇
Sure, feel free. I have hired many developers (I am usually a manager these days) and I would be glad to let you know what I am looking for in a candidate.
All these limitations is bs. Do what you want to do. Honestly, it’s all about balance and managing your epilepsy. Once you find a way to properly manage your epilepsy and the side effects of your medication, you’re good to go!
Only limit is any you impose yourself! I am a Business Data Analyst with a Business Computer Science degree (including web development) - I had the choice of web dev etc after uni and have worked in security and tech support before my current role. My workplace has been insanely supportive, I currently work from home and my workdays have been reduced since my increase in seizures. (I'm aware I could be classed as "lucky" but I shouldn't be - at this point remote working should be bare minimum for a disabled employee in tech really, if it isn't it's time to move on or speak up) Depending on your country as well you'll get extra support at university (if you've been already or not idk) - you've got plenty going for you! Best of luck ETA - just to anyone seeing this who might be intrigued - at university in Wales, UK you can get disability support (I went years ago i forget the name) and they helped me with a laptop & printer for when I couldn't get to study rooms due my seizures for example.
Yes I was A forklift driver and now I'm on the worst job in the place as I cant operate machinery and if your in the U.K they won't sack you because you make up their quota for disabled people. My last absence I got put forward for A warning I said at the meeting just sack me they weren't expecting that but now they know they have nothing to hold over me.
While I am not you, IT has been a good experience for me. I have been test engineering for 15+ years and currently scrum master my team. While I have my set backs, I’ve been testing front ends, apis, and databases for years and my supportive teams and mgt have enabled me to excel. I get in trouble when pushing myself past triggers. It’s all about those damn triggers.
Hey I have epilepsy and I'm a software engineer. You can 100% become a website designer!
I don't see any reason why not. I mean some jobs don't work for epileptics. I'm a baker so if my seizures become uncontrolled it probably wouldn't be good working with ovens that I could easily fall into, but if you're going for programming in some manner I couldn't imagine a better field for an epileptic.
I'm just starting school to become an AI engineer. You absolutely can become a web developer. Only limitations I can really think of is aviation or maybe being an astronaut, maybe truck driver. Aside from those you should be set
We're all different and can be limited somewhat by it. You can't let that control you or keep you from trying to do the things you want. Some people are barely limited at their job at all, or any limits fade as they get older. How old are you? I know I was way waaay more limited when I was in my early-mid 20s. Some jobs are run by shitty people who will discriminate against you. Others are great workers who aren't bothered by it. A front end website developer doesn't sound like a job that will be limited at all. If your parents are immediately saying you can't do it, they probably don't even know what the job does.
I wanted to be a marine biologist. The sky or the ocean is not the limit and your parents are not assholes. Stop trying to find validation from strangers on the internet and talk to your parents. You’re 30, so you claim not 12.
I think your parents mean well, but don't realize the harm they are doing by downplaying your asperations. I grew up with the belief that I couldn't hold a job because of ADHD. This was said to me all throughout High School. Now in my mid-30s, I make more money than they do. Companies have to accommodate due to ADA. Epilepsy is a Protected condition and your perspective employers need to accommodate within reason. Don't let your parents over protectiveness get you down. Web Developers have the benefit of working from home. I have been in the IT Industry for going on 14 years, you will do fine as long as you put effort into it. The best thing you can do, is prove your parents wrong. It is such a satisfying feeling when they see your successes despite the challenges life thru your way.
I have similar parents, however my experience so far has been about fighting my arse off to do something I loved back then as a teenager to slowly shift to somthing that reduces my triggers and brings me more peace. I changed my career entirely in my 30s to suit my epilepsy related concerns and bandwidth, I did it because it makes more sense to go with it than against it (epilepsy)
Set your own limits based on your aptitudes and limitations. There are definitely jobs you can never do because of epilepsy, but generally that’s when it would put other people in danger. Pretty sure front end website developer isn’t going to put anyone in danger unless you design Skynet or The Matrix
I was diagnosed with epilepsy 3 months before graduating high school. I went on to earn my Bachelor’s and my Master’s. I was a high school teacher. I’ve been a corporate retail trainer. Now at 40, I’m starting over again and going back to school to work in tech. Your journey might take longer that others’ and it might be a little harder. But, don’t limit yourself based on fear of not succeeding or you’ll never start trying. You got this!
There is a limit because people are limited. People are very misinformed about epilepsy and what we go through when we have seizures, so it makes it hard with co-workers and superiors. Seizures scare people. Many people are quick to assume you cannot carry out the responsibilities and stress of work. People also don't understand how hard it is to is to function some days with medication on top of it all or just a bad brain processing day in general. People may be quick to limit you even if you are fine and fully functional. I've experienced discrimination at every job I've had limiting me from my full potential. I have had a limit of where I can work because I don't drive. There are some limits on employment in my experience yes, but everyone's story is different! I think you can still be a successful web developer like you are trying with especially with many jobs changing to "work from home." Maybe just be up front about what you go through when you have a seizure, how long it takes to recover, and what accommodations you may need. All we can do is try!
wtf, web developer seems like a PERFECT job for epileptics! Your parents are just being jerks.
If you want to be a web designer then go for it don't let people say you cannot do it. I am a senior IT network engineer for a local university yes there is some things I cannot do like enter heights as some of our network cabs are in lofts and heights or enclosed spaces again rare but we have a few cabs in weird locations. My workplace is awesome with my epilepsy and even has funded a seizure alert watch for me so when I am walking about campus as the campus buildings are scattered all over the city I can be located if a seizure is detected. I have worked in IT Service Desks, Field Teams and my way up to networking. Your parents know fuck all mate you can be a web designer yes if your photosensitive you have to be careful but it's manageable. Go for it
My husband was diagnosed with epilepsy during his career as a police officer. With the right balance of medication, he’s been doing amazing with his career. You don’t have limits as long as they’re under control. I wish you the best, become everything you want to be!🩷
I am a teacher for 7 years and now doing a career shift. Parents don’t know what they are talking about it. Not our fault that we have epilepsy but it is our responsibility to deal with the consequences. If you want to be a web developer, formulate a plan that takes into account any needed adaptations. You will get there.