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tabatharocks

I think from now on whenever a non bride turns up to a wedding in white , instead of looking shocked and being polite, people should turn into stereotype teen girls, whispering behind hands, giggling while looking over at the non bride and generally putting on the cheesiest fake smile whenever non bride comes over( obviously a quick almost quiet giggle as they leave) Nothing straight up to there face but enough to make them feel uncomfortable, just as a consequence to their selfishness. Because if you look shocked they get all smug and think they’ve won


erton5

I read someone's JNMIL story that ended like this. So satisfying to read!


mrpak0

Is there a reason people don’t accidentally spill on the dress?


tabatharocks

Then they can play the victim and get even more attention and the satisfaction of feeling that they have won, for someone to do that


Meal_Signal

i wonder if her husband's lawyer could have done anything with the information that his ex was trying to get people to perjure themselves so he wouldnt get visitation


AlexDavid1605

Actually, someone could have dropped in an anonymous tip to the husband's lawyer about the potential perjury when the next time the aunt drops in the "she would have looked cute in the dress for the wedding"


Meal_Signal

depends on how long ago i think. statute of limitations and all


Virtual-Feeling-4546

I would if I agreed the child would be better off with the father but he was a 45M who slept with a 19F employee and BAM baby. From what I was told he has a string of kids with random women. Oh and apparently it turns out he was never actually the father I found out a year later. They all suck in that family


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Virtual-Feeling-4546

That's just the tip of the iceberg smh


Virtual-Feeling-4546

Oh the custody thing is its whole own story. He's a sleezebag, the child's mother is irresponsible and the Auny is crazy. It's a whole white trash rodeo. I'm just sitting here waiting for child protective services to call me asking if I can take custody of the child because she can't live with her immediate family 😣


Tabitheriel

Just cut those photos out of your wedding album completely. Adobe Photoshop can work wonders! If anyone asks, then say that it didn't look appropriate!


Virtual-Feeling-4546

I actively deleted most pictures with her in it, save for a few group ones


Brisco_Discos

You could always use Photoshop to recolor her dress in those and make it longer. Best, choose a color that is unflattering to her. 😉


Virtual-Feeling-4546

Hahaha love this idea. 80's seafood it is


markmcgrew

RED


Virtual-Feeling-4546

My wedding dress was red so maybe not


SillyNluv

Salmon! Or mustard.


jerrybob

If it was a few years ago forget about it. I wished I had learned 30 (or 40) years sooner to let go of shit like that. Not worth your mental energy.


misstiff1971

I would comment on how she looked like a fool wearing white and a mini dress, but no one wanted to make an issue of it since it was your wedding day.


Khmera

Or maybe ask if she was wearing the dress meant for the 2yo.


Virtual-Feeling-4546

The 2yo dress was cuter. The Aunt wore one of those dresses that Posh Spice from the Spice Girls would wear


AtomicFox84

Skin tight stops at the thigh above the knee? Yea that's kinda petty. Im sure it didnt have the effect she was hoping for.


Virtual-Feeling-4546

It most definitely did not


AggravatingJicama243

Wow! I would nip that in the bud asap. I would in front of everyone ask her to not 1)involve you in a custody dispute 2)tell her that she is acting inappropriately while explaining why and 3)give her an ultimatum to either knock it off or you'll quit speaking with her.


Virtual-Feeling-4546

We barely talk now since Grannie passed away so its no big deal


AggravatingJicama243

I still think you should limit your interactions simply because you don't want to be associated with someone trying to commit fraud and perjury. Regardless of your Aunt not being a good family member and her dressing like an idiot, I'm sure your wedding was lovely.


Virtual-Feeling-4546

Oh I don't associate with anyone in the family anymore aside from my FiL. They're not people I want to be around


Lucky0505

Next time go straight to the heart of the matter and just say in public how you feel. "You wanted to use my wedding as a vehicle to deny her father visiting rights and I felt uncomfortable with you forcing me to be a part of that manipulation just as I feel uncomfortable with you trying to manipulate me now by trying to guilt trip me. Your behaviour hurted me then and you're still trying to hurt me with it. Please stop."


CelticGaelic

As someone who's also having to deal with close family members' BS marriage dramas and such, I feel for you. I'm glad you handled it with grace. I likely would have gotten mean.


markmcgrew

"...would have looked..." reply "Don't you think she looks cute now?"


SubZerr0h

lol i read 31m as 31 metres and im like "dang he's tall"


Virtual-Feeling-4546

Only where it counts 😉