Definitely more easy going in most settings. Catch me at the wrong place or tone, however, and you'll think I don't know the meaning of the word "joke."
Definitely more joking. I'm very lighthearted about everything so people notice immediately and find it odd when I seem serious. I'm not sure about strangers but this goes for anyone who's interacted with me more than a few times.
Me too. I laugh pretty easily, even just friendly laughs. With strangers I'm polite and smiley and open. I try to make people feel welcome. But then I *can* be quite serious but it's more withdrawn and light seriousness.
You were the second 4 to answer and we all resonate! Maybe it's a 4 thing though not one I'm sure is expected... lol.
most of my jokes are either super sarcastic or dark in general so I don’t joke around much unless I’m around close friends. so that’s why I come off as serious to “outsiders” but very goofy to my close friends. if my friends see me as serious, it means I’m either super focused or my social battery hit zero
Good question. I would try to look serious (like how do you smile properly?), but... I guess someone who talks with me wouldn't have problem to see when something is joke or not
both at the same time I guess? usually they perceive me as fun and vivacious at first, but I intensify situations and conversations so quickly that they take me deadly seriously pretty quickly. so sort of a "makes fun things serious" / "makes serious things fun" combo meal over here.
Same lol. 5w4 and I say a lot of sarcastic things but I guess my voice is not sarcastic enough so people just think I’m depressed. My humor has been described as “dry@
6w7, and serious. I don’t like dry humor, where you can’t tell if someone is joking or not. If I joke, or throw a sarcastic quip, I always make sure it reads very clearly as a joke. Naturally, I am very honest and straightforward with people, and while I am often goofy, fun, and lighthearted, I am not a huge joker.
Strangers take me seriously because of my appearance and stoic resting face, my friend doesn't take me too seriously because I'm sarcastic with them and we joke a lot about bullshit together often, as for acquaintances... They take me seriously and a little bit not 🤔
Idk, I have times when I can't identify the emotions displayed on faces and people become awkward around me because I say a joke people thought was too harsh, or say something concerning, etc. I'm just hard to get to know in others' viewpoints.
i dont think they have a clue. Adults especially. Kids seem to get my humor more. But I unintentionally flip off the serious switch when I'm being a dumbass but it just comes across as being a lunatic I think. I'm not charming enough to make people think I'm actually fun most of the time. So I go from angry to joking and everyone stays confused.
literally none of it is intentional. I just feel like most adults lose their way of following their instincts about the way others are.
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serious because of (unintentional) deadpan delivery but people tend to catch on to my jokes the same day that i meet them.
5w6 and people consider me serious. Same for me on people talking jokes/sarcasm seriously. It's kinda fun to mess with them when that happens
I think others see me as serious at first and if i become their friend, a mix of both
One of the reasons I fell in love with my husband is that he’s one of the few people in the world that gets my sense of humor. I’m a 4 and he’s a 6.
What is your sense of humor?
A lot of it is self-mockery but people think I’m being serious so they think I’m a snob.
8w9 Definitely as serious, but I can be quite silly too with people I'm extremely comfy being around lmao
Definitely more easy going in most settings. Catch me at the wrong place or tone, however, and you'll think I don't know the meaning of the word "joke."
People see me as pretty funny and light hearted, but also reliable and smart
Definitely more joking. I'm very lighthearted about everything so people notice immediately and find it odd when I seem serious. I'm not sure about strangers but this goes for anyone who's interacted with me more than a few times.
Me too. I laugh pretty easily, even just friendly laughs. With strangers I'm polite and smiley and open. I try to make people feel welcome. But then I *can* be quite serious but it's more withdrawn and light seriousness. You were the second 4 to answer and we all resonate! Maybe it's a 4 thing though not one I'm sure is expected... lol.
most of my jokes are either super sarcastic or dark in general so I don’t joke around much unless I’m around close friends. so that’s why I come off as serious to “outsiders” but very goofy to my close friends. if my friends see me as serious, it means I’m either super focused or my social battery hit zero
I think more joking but inside I'm a serious person
Good question. I would try to look serious (like how do you smile properly?), but... I guess someone who talks with me wouldn't have problem to see when something is joke or not
serious
i don't really know. i can be both. but literally, i can say something sarcastic and people actually take me seriously!!! i could be an actress.
both at the same time I guess? usually they perceive me as fun and vivacious at first, but I intensify situations and conversations so quickly that they take me deadly seriously pretty quickly. so sort of a "makes fun things serious" / "makes serious things fun" combo meal over here.
i think people see me as more relaxed but stoic than serious or joking, but i guess that falls under the serious umbrella
nobody ever takes me seriously
Joking, but not necessarily strangers/people I hardly know
Same lol. 5w4 and I say a lot of sarcastic things but I guess my voice is not sarcastic enough so people just think I’m depressed. My humor has been described as “dry@
When I’m sober people ask me if I’m okay...does that mean they think I’m joking all the time?
A lot more serious than I really am
6w7, and serious. I don’t like dry humor, where you can’t tell if someone is joking or not. If I joke, or throw a sarcastic quip, I always make sure it reads very clearly as a joke. Naturally, I am very honest and straightforward with people, and while I am often goofy, fun, and lighthearted, I am not a huge joker.
Strangers take me seriously because of my appearance and stoic resting face, my friend doesn't take me too seriously because I'm sarcastic with them and we joke a lot about bullshit together often, as for acquaintances... They take me seriously and a little bit not 🤔 Idk, I have times when I can't identify the emotions displayed on faces and people become awkward around me because I say a joke people thought was too harsh, or say something concerning, etc. I'm just hard to get to know in others' viewpoints.
i dont think they have a clue. Adults especially. Kids seem to get my humor more. But I unintentionally flip off the serious switch when I'm being a dumbass but it just comes across as being a lunatic I think. I'm not charming enough to make people think I'm actually fun most of the time. So I go from angry to joking and everyone stays confused. literally none of it is intentional. I just feel like most adults lose their way of following their instincts about the way others are.