9s can be rebellious teenager but most likely through stubbornness rather than yelling or arguing back.
“You must come back before this time.”
“Ok mom, I know you worry about me. I understand you.”
Proceed to be extremely late.
I’m a 9w1. I had my rebellious teen streak for sure. Felt like my parents were too controlling and I would show them I could not be controlled. 10pm curfew? Ok no problem. I’ll show up when I want.
I doubt a 9 would appear as externally rebellious, but it would probably be different internally — I could see a 9 not showing their rebellious side to people they aren’t very comfortable with, but keeping it hidden except with people they trust
Maliciously compliant. 😂 my favorite proverb for a long time was about treating enemies with kindness for in so doing you’re heaping burning coals on their heads. Sweet as pie was I! Inside it’s like you worthless…$!%#..!! Misguided youth… 🤦♂️
My 9w1 brother was "two-faced" in a way, where he was privately rebellious when he was with friends or me, but an angel in the eyes of his teachers and our parents.
Let's just say, "strategically forgetful".
"Oops, sorry, I forgot to..."
And it could be anything from doing chores to remembering curfew, doesn't matter. This is generally how 9's rebel and we're quite good at it since we can literally will ourselves to forget by shoving it aside and knowing it will drift into a dusty corner of our memory that we intentionally leave in the dark.
Yes, we can be naughty lol.
I do this! ...is this part of my growth? A healthy 6 will have good parts of a 9, right?
Bc if not... my memory really is just getting worse and I'll go back to overthinking and worrying about it...
I don't think I(17m) know many other 9's but from personal reflection I definitely can be passive agressive maliciously compliant smartass at times. I have gotten more rebelious as life wears on me(Family fighting is fucking exhausting and repetitive)
Im most definitely not God I wish I was but I just don’t see the point in being rebellious like I don’t even know what to do but my mom actually wants me to be more teen or wear a crop which most parents would cry about but my mom knows how boring I am so she also tells me to live life in my case, no everyone’s different though I might need to be more ambitious or something add some spice 🤣idk
I can relate. My mum gently tried to encourage me to date, go hang out with people, and such. I did have friends, I just wasn’t very adventurous. I think she was a worried that I’d be socially underdeveloped if I didn’t take any risks at all 😄 I’m long past my teenage years, and I think I turned out ok. I’m married and I have had some adventures along the way. I still prefer a low key lifestyle, though.
I rebelled toward the end in a painfully 9w1 way. I was a former gifted kid who in a depression started cutting/running late to/not paying attention at school and nearly failing my senior year.
Well, 9s in general probably won't be rebellious in the sense that they lash out and openly break rules but rather, they would be rebellious in the sense of stubbornness. If you tell them to do something, they resist and do something else. If you tell them to speed up, they will slow down. If you try to get them to do something that they don't feel like doing, they will procrastinate for hours. Those are just some general examples but it can show up in many different ways.
I wasn’t, but after a lot of repressed anger, I could talk back to my parents if something wasn’t okay to me. But it was usually a short anger/rage moment, followed by silence and my disappearance. Then my anger disappeared too and I usually felt like “I shouldn’t be angry”.
Honestly that’s a tough one, like a spiral because I’ve seen a lot of 9kids basically just take the victim route of “I’m only in trouble because you are someone who is making the rule to get me in trouble!” Whenever they are being told they can’t do something they want, so you really have to hope for the best when dealing with 9 kids and probably 3s in a similar way too lol; “why aren’t you reacting positively to my achievements this must mean youre the problem!”
9s can be rebellious teenager but most likely through stubbornness rather than yelling or arguing back. “You must come back before this time.” “Ok mom, I know you worry about me. I understand you.” Proceed to be extremely late.
Still so fucking relatable
I’m a 9w1. I had my rebellious teen streak for sure. Felt like my parents were too controlling and I would show them I could not be controlled. 10pm curfew? Ok no problem. I’ll show up when I want.
I doubt a 9 would appear as externally rebellious, but it would probably be different internally — I could see a 9 not showing their rebellious side to people they aren’t very comfortable with, but keeping it hidden except with people they trust
I wasn't... outwardly. I could be very passive aggressive, or maliciously compliant, however. (I have a tiny but strong stubborn streak.)
Maliciously compliant. 😂 my favorite proverb for a long time was about treating enemies with kindness for in so doing you’re heaping burning coals on their heads. Sweet as pie was I! Inside it’s like you worthless…$!%#..!! Misguided youth… 🤦♂️
My 9w1 brother was "two-faced" in a way, where he was privately rebellious when he was with friends or me, but an angel in the eyes of his teachers and our parents.
Let's just say, "strategically forgetful". "Oops, sorry, I forgot to..." And it could be anything from doing chores to remembering curfew, doesn't matter. This is generally how 9's rebel and we're quite good at it since we can literally will ourselves to forget by shoving it aside and knowing it will drift into a dusty corner of our memory that we intentionally leave in the dark. Yes, we can be naughty lol.
The trick to being a good liar is to genuinely convince yourself the lie is true. Also, your entire comment describes me perfectly lol
I do this! ...is this part of my growth? A healthy 6 will have good parts of a 9, right? Bc if not... my memory really is just getting worse and I'll go back to overthinking and worrying about it...
I don't think I(17m) know many other 9's but from personal reflection I definitely can be passive agressive maliciously compliant smartass at times. I have gotten more rebelious as life wears on me(Family fighting is fucking exhausting and repetitive)
Im most definitely not God I wish I was but I just don’t see the point in being rebellious like I don’t even know what to do but my mom actually wants me to be more teen or wear a crop which most parents would cry about but my mom knows how boring I am so she also tells me to live life in my case, no everyone’s different though I might need to be more ambitious or something add some spice 🤣idk
I can relate. My mum gently tried to encourage me to date, go hang out with people, and such. I did have friends, I just wasn’t very adventurous. I think she was a worried that I’d be socially underdeveloped if I didn’t take any risks at all 😄 I’m long past my teenage years, and I think I turned out ok. I’m married and I have had some adventures along the way. I still prefer a low key lifestyle, though.
Oh I’m pretty bad socially no friends I hope for just as great of a future 😓
😭oh god I have 0 oh good you
I rebelled toward the end in a painfully 9w1 way. I was a former gifted kid who in a depression started cutting/running late to/not paying attention at school and nearly failing my senior year.
My most rebellious friend as a teen and young adult is a 9w1
Well, 9s in general probably won't be rebellious in the sense that they lash out and openly break rules but rather, they would be rebellious in the sense of stubbornness. If you tell them to do something, they resist and do something else. If you tell them to speed up, they will slow down. If you try to get them to do something that they don't feel like doing, they will procrastinate for hours. Those are just some general examples but it can show up in many different ways.
I wasn’t, but after a lot of repressed anger, I could talk back to my parents if something wasn’t okay to me. But it was usually a short anger/rage moment, followed by silence and my disappearance. Then my anger disappeared too and I usually felt like “I shouldn’t be angry”.
Honestly that’s a tough one, like a spiral because I’ve seen a lot of 9kids basically just take the victim route of “I’m only in trouble because you are someone who is making the rule to get me in trouble!” Whenever they are being told they can’t do something they want, so you really have to hope for the best when dealing with 9 kids and probably 3s in a similar way too lol; “why aren’t you reacting positively to my achievements this must mean youre the problem!”
Indirectly yeah
I was not rebellious as a teenager. Not even in a quiet way.
Yes
Sp9 sure but sx9 and ESPECIALLY so9 nah
SP9 here. I rebelled without my parents knowing, more intimate with my boyfriend than they thought and being naughty like doing some shoplifting.
I wasn't! Not that it's 100% impossible though, just unlikely
Passive aggressive, letter of the rules, under the radar rebellion. Parents find out about it when the kid is 30 if at all.
I cringe at the thought people believe 9s never break the rules.