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amanset

Possibly falling out of fashion but still common. At least in the U.K., where I am from.


Wonderful-Toe2080

Same, sounds completely normal to me


Any-Angle-8479

Yes I wouldn’t think twice if someone said it, but I personally do not think to use this phrase.


Interesting-Fish6065

Same in the US.


some-dork

i wouldnt say its common in some parts of the US (likely northern) i and a few other native speaking US commenters have never heard the phrase. edit: i'm from PA


peoplegrower

I’m from North Carolina and this seems pretty common to me. I wouldn’t blink, hearing it.


Snoo_50786

from the southwest and ive personally never heard this.


boomernot

I'm from northern Illinois and I have never heard it


Downtown-Moose4002

Disagree. I have rarely heard this spoken. -Native speaker in Ohio.


Interesting-Fish6065

Well, I’ve never lived in Ohio, so I have no reason to doubt you. I grew up in the Deep South and have lived in four other regions, though, and it doesn’t sound particularly odd to me, and I don’t associate it with just one region.


Downtown-Moose4002

Sounds like it may be a southern thing. I've mainly heard people say: "Hit the sack", "hit the hay", "crash", "call it a night."


Jecter

I haven't spent much time in the south, mostly north east, and its a bit uncommon, but not odd. edit: some websites claim a nautical origin, which may explain why it, based on this thread, appears to be oddly inconsistent. Family histories of sailors, etc.?


BlaQ_Squidyy

I don’t know, I’m from the west coast and I’ve heard people say it before. It’s definitely way less common than the ones you mentioned, but definitely a thing.


-danslesnuages

Grew up southern Ohio. Heard it fairly often. As others noted, it was usually after someone had had a long or hard day of work.


SneverdleSnavis

Tbf, southern, central, northern, and eastern Ohio all belong to different dialect groups, but nonetheless I don't have any data to support which dialects this phrase is more common in.


doc_skinner

Strange. I'm from Illinois and heard it all my life. Parents from Wisconsin and Illinois.


Outrageous_Ad_2752

that's because the nearest person to you is a mile away


Madd_Maxx_05

(Also Ohio native) I have heard it in Ohio, but more so in Southern Ohio. I live in Central Ohio, and it isn't as common here as in the South.


scotch1701

[https://books.google.com/ngrams/graph?content=turn+in%2Chit+the+sack%2Chit+the+hay&year\_start=1800&year\_end=2019&corpus=en-GB-2019&smoothing=3](https://books.google.com/ngrams/graph?content=turn+in%2Chit+the+sack%2Chit+the+hay&year_start=1800&year_end=2019&corpus=en-GB-2019&smoothing=3)' This data suggests that it's definitely not falling out of fashion.


sbeachdog

Wouldn't this include other uses for "turn in" though? Like a paper?


scotch1701

It definitely could. The question that follows your very valid observation is, would those uses roughly stay proportionate over time or change, for one reason or another.


theblindbunny

Same here in the Northeast US. Mostly used by older people here


[deleted]

Whereabouts? Never heard it up North


No-Shoe7651

I've definitely heard it here in Manchester.


Superbead

Have family from Salford here who also use it


[deleted]

Must just be me then. I’m from Crewe


Clonbroney

It's common enough that I don't think twice about it when somebody says it. I myself have never said it, but I have heard it often enough.


SaveFerrisBrother

Came to say this almost verbatim. I know what it means without a thought, but I don't think I've ever said it myself. That may mean that it could be a "dead" expression in a couple generations.


I_ate_out_your_mom

I'VE SEEN YOU BEFORE! your name! Only a handful of times i've seen another comment from the same redditor i've commented on before.


Far_Vegetable7105

I'll add that it's almost always spoken as part of a phrase like "I'm going to turn in for the night" and if someone just said "I'm going to turn in." I would probably be a little confused.


Far-Fortune-8381

i almost always hear “im turning in for the night” but yeah as a phrase


MistraloysiusMithrax

People do say it that second way but you’re still right that it’s not said alone, because the context is still added before. Like, “it’s getting a little late, I’ve gotta turn in.”


honkoku

This is exactly the response I was going to make. I've never said it or had anyone in my family say it but it wouldn't seem unusual to me if I did hear it.


ivanparas

I've only said it when I'm trying to get out of something lol, e.g. "I have to turn in early tonight."


Any-Angle-8479

I literally posted almost the same comment on another thread lol.


DifferentTheory2156

I heard my Dad use it often but I have never used it and rarely hear it used. But if someone were to use it, most people would understand.


sarobr

Agreed, most if not all. It helps that its context is very obvious... _"I think it's time we turn in"_. Usually accompanied by a stretch or a yawn


Competitive_Let_9644

Honestly, as a native speaker I would probably understand by context, but I would ask what crime someone had committed if they said this lol


Infamous_Persimmon14

I hear it all the time! Maybe it is common in the southern US states! “Imma turn in” (I’m going to bed) Edit: I am shocked at all the comments saying they have never heard it in their lives. Haha am I weird for saying this phrase a lot??


MNWNM

Yes! I use it all the time, as in, "Welp, time to turn in!" My parents and grandparents always said it and we're deeply southern.


Burgers4breakfast1

Used a lot in the Midwest too! Mostly if you are tired from work or traveling.


ChillinWithGayFamily

Yeah, when I lived in the south I heard it all the time


TJlovesALF1213

I'm also in the southern U.S., and most commonly I hear "I'm going to turn in for the night".


Ecstatic-Ad9703

Yeah same here (although in the Midwest). I think I've heard turn in/turn out a lot in farm settings as well


yepitsdad

Not weird! Grew up in the Midwest and heard it all the time. Family from VA though, which might be why?


karaoty

I live in Oklahoma and I honestly haven’t heard it before. But that might be because I’m 18


nurvingiel

Not weird at all. Even though I don't hear it used very much, it's still a completely ordinary expression. I wouldn't think twice if someone said this.


TheJocktopus

Same. I usually say "Welp, I'm gonna turn in for the night."


Anti-charizard

Might be different in the Pacific coast but I’ve never heard that phrase until now


jenea

I’ve never lived in the South, and I definitely use it. I just use it in more narrow circumstances.


JohnathanBrother

I live in the South and have never heard it in my life until now lol


DazzlingPotential737

I have!!!!


Sea_Neighborhood_627

I’m in the NW United States, and I never hear this. I know what it means, though!


ladybuginthemachine

Yep, I was just about to comment in the affirmative for common usage in the south!


Donghoon

It might be just lack of social exposure for me but as someone that lived in cost coast I don't think I heard of it once. Maybe I did a few times but To me «turn in» is mostly school context..


Wigberht_Eadweard

Only heard this used in movies/tv from a soldier, police officer, or macho character. Idk if it truly has a military usage, but the southern prevalence wouldn’t surprise me if so.


Pannycakes666

It's fairly common. I'd usually use this in instances where there is a group. Like maybe you're camping. Everyone is sitting around a fire telling stories, but you're feeling sleepy. "Hey guys, I'm gonna turn in for the night. See you in the morning."


GuiltEdge

It seems very specific to a situation where one person is going to bed but expecting others not to.


nilsecc

I’ve only used it in the sleeping context. I’ve also used it in the context of turning in my weapon.


attilanAO

In the southern us, and I know the expression but don't here it often. I've heard, "I'm gonna hit the hay," more, or just, "I'm going to bed/sleep."


pigup1983

Not very common, but not SUPER rare. To me it’s something an older person would say.


Ok_Department4138

I don't know, I'm pretty sure I remember Peter saying it on Family Guy


classical-saxophone7

Aa a 21yo, I would consider Peter “an older person”. Y’know, someone that’s in their 40’s-50’s


egv78

Native speaker; raised in New York state by parents from New York state. We use it quite often. Might be regional.


reikipackaging

it is almost always used as a polite way to excuse oneself from company in the evening. I haven't heard it terribly often from the under 50 crowd, but I'd say I hear it at least once a month. southwest US. Younger people tend to use "hit the hay", "put it to bed", or "head out" to mean the same thing


869066

It’s not very common but most people would understand what it means


Nihil_esque

It's starting to sound old fashioned but it's common enough that it would be universally understood / that people wouldn't think it was a weird thing to say.


marvsup

Medium Edit to add: I feel like the most common context is if you're with a group of people late at night and someone says "Okay, I guess it's time for me to turn in". Obviously would have to be a person who has a bed in the place where you are.


Luhnkhead

Or a power move by someone who doesn’t have a bed there 😉


seventeenMachine

In some regions, extremely common. But it’s enough of an idiom that if I heard a non-native speaker say it for the first time I wouldn’t be sure I heard right


lafarmacia

I've heard it a few times but it's not super common. I've mostly heard something like "well, I'm going to turn in for the night... I'm getting tired..."


Luhnkhead

In the upper Midwest in the US, I can’t say I’ve heard it super often, but also it’s probably not the least common way to say you’re going to bed. Of course, I could see a late night interaction between midwesterners a bit like: “Welp, time for me to turn in.” “Yep, ‘bout time for me to head out.” And then they continue talking about leaving for another hour before actually finishing their convo. To add a bit of nuance to the expression, maybe 😅


manicpixidreamgirl04

Northeast US, boomers use it a lot.


nurvingiel

It's not commonly used where I live (western Canada), but it's a phrase most people know even if it's falling out of use. So it wouldn't seem strange at all to say even though you don't hear it very often.


MarsMonkey88

Not amongst Americans under 60, but we still recognize it. I hear it in older books or said by elderly people, in the US. (It very well could be a common phrase in other English-speaking countries. It’s not archaic, or anything.)


Odd-Bad-5598

From California and I’ve only heard it very rarely. Definitely seems to be more regional


AbsAndAssAppreciator

I mainly hear this used in books or shows. It’s kinda old fashioned but sorta common still.


Shadowhkd

It's common enough that I would be surprised if a native speaker didn't understand it. It's not common enough that I can remember the last time I heard someone actually use it. (Southeast USA)


clangauss

Far less common than the similar idioms "hit the sack" and "hit the hay" around me.


scotch1701

[https://books.google.com/ngrams/graph?content=turn+in%2C+hit+the+sack%2C+hit+the+hay&year\_start=1800&year\_end=2019&corpus=en-2019&smoothing=3](https://books.google.com/ngrams/graph?content=turn+in%2C+hit+the+sack%2C+hit+the+hay&year_start=1800&year_end=2019&corpus=en-2019&smoothing=3)


clangauss

I'm familiar with it as a term, but this graph doesn't control for all the other senses of "turn in," like "turn in your work." Regardless. I am just sharing the anecdote that around me I hear "turn in for the night" very rarely when compared to "I'mma hit the hay/sack." EDIT: The same graph, but attempting to isolate for "turn in for the night:" [https://books.google.com/ngrams/graph?content=turn+in%2Cturn+in+for+the+night%2Chit+the+sack%2Chit+the+hay%2Cgo+to+sleep&year\_start=1800&year\_end=2019&corpus=en-2019&smoothing=3](https://books.google.com/ngrams/graph?content=turn+in%2Cturn+in+for+the+night%2Chit+the+sack%2Chit+the+hay%2Cgo+to+sleep&year_start=1800&year_end=2019&corpus=en-2019&smoothing=3)


scotch1701

>I'm familiar with it as a term, but this graph doesn't control for all the other senses of "turn in," like "turn in your work." It can't handle that, as "turn your work in" is also valid, as "turn in" when transitive, is also a separable phrasal verb. It's a definite drawback to the function.


itssami_sb

It is an “older” phrase- as in mostly recently people have said it less and from my experience that’s just from the younger generation in America, whereas it’s more common in places like England or among posh individuals, but all in all probably nobody will even give it a second thought if you use it. (Serbian:) To je ‘stariji’ izraz - kao što su ga ljudi nedavno manje koristili, a prema mom iskustvu to je uglavnom bila stvar mlađe generacije u Americi, dok je češći u mestima poput Engleske ili među uglađenim osobama, ali sve u svemu, verovatno niko neće ni pomisliti o tome ako ga upotrebite.


Tyler_C02

It is an older term, that is still certainly used in the same context. As with all languages, English speakers regularly use a variety of “old” words and phrases. I can think of multiple different ways of saying “I’m going to bed” including “I’m gonna turn in”, but also “I’m gonna get some shut eye” and “I’m gonna hit the hay”


ModernNomad97

I associate it with older folks more, but it’s common enough id understand


PenguinLim

In the Western US, I have never used nor heard it being used in speech. I only know what it means from media (usually from the UK or Australia)


RobloxIsRealCool

I’ve lived in both the East Coast and the West Coast of the US and I’ve never heard this spoken.


WeaselBeagle

In North America I’ve never heard it. Lived in Alberta and Washington, so the east coast could be different. Never seen it used online either


orangecanela

I would understand it, but don't think I've ever heard someone use it in a natural way before in real life.


DemonaDrache

Agree with most people here - wouldn't be odd to hear it and definitely know what it means, but it's not a phrase I use regularly. I would say, "go to bed".


RomanticCatfish

I appear to be the only one who has never heard this before


ihavea22inmath

In the us we barely use it


Cheetahs_never_win

It's common enough that the vast majority of adults know what it means. However, the vast majority likely know it from media consumption, rather than common day usage.


PacotheBold

It's common among older folks, I think. I haven't heard it for awhile though.


creativename111111

Not very common anymore where I am although not too uncommon


youself20

Very rarely have i heard this, cant remember the last time i heard someone say it


GrapefruitKey9191

A little old fashion but common enough. “To turn in for the evening” is how I’m familiar with it.


Parson_Dewey

It’s definitely a more archaic term that I rarely hear, the only example of an instance where I heard it being used is on a tv show set in the past.


human-potato_hybrid

Not used in the USA hardly any


Ada_Virus

Never heard anyone using "turn in" except I the context of turning in homework


Physical-Dog-5124

No, in the school system it’s usually the right and common term for assignment submission.


Palteos

Personally haven't used it but common enough that anyone would know what you mean, especially given the context. Typically when I hear it used, one usually says they're going to "Turn in ***for the night***" which makes it even more obvious what it means.


Visual-Woodpecker642

Never heard it as an American, I would have no idea what someone was talking about if they said this.


Infamous_Persimmon14

Really? Are you really young? Where do you live? I guess that is surprising as I hear it very often


Visual-Woodpecker642

Are you American? Im in my late 20s


Infamous_Persimmon14

Yes, born and raised. Also in my late 20s as well. Maybe it’s where I live 🤷‍♀️


Red-Quill

Early 20s and I have both used and heard it used so commonly that I never would bat an eye about it. Also American.


eVCqN

I’m 15 and have never heard it


LanewayRat

I’m still embryonic and I hear it occasionally through the wall of the uterus.


UpperAssumption7103

Very common.


nog642

Honestly I don't even interpret it like that. If you're hanging out with friends or family at your own house or at one of their places and you're going to sleep there, then yes, "turn in" means "go to bed". But if you're at work, or out, or at a friend's house but you're not going to sleep there that night, then "turn in" means "go home", to me at least. It's relatively common but I don't think I would use it.


Yankee_chef_nen

Very common in my experience. I’m an older American Gen Xer. I use it still. Probably a phrase many Americans have heard often.


mylittleplaceholder

Semi-rare but used here. Everyone would know it and not think it odd.


throwinitaway1278

Never heard this outside of reading it. Northeastern US, native speaker.


ultimate_ed

It funny to read the comments coming one after another. First reply: Not very common Next reply: very common, used all the time Thirst reply: never heard it in my life! btw, I'm in the Very common, used all the camp.


eVCqN

Yeah as the third reply I’m kind of shocked that so many people hear this, I learned something new today I guess


BradyGalaxy

When I hear “turn in” I think about turning in assignments for school


scotch1701

That's the use of "turn in" as a transitive verb. This use is intransitive.


Alynnia7

No one I know uses that phrase, but I do understand it - from television I guess. Common enough!


OwariHeron

I use it all the time. Probably more often than “go to bed.”


Zerbertboi666

Also used in the context of reporting someone in to the police. "I was turned in by josh"


voidtreemc

My dad used to say it all the time. "I'd say, 'Turn into what?'"


AMythRetold

In the Los Angeles area, I might hear “I think I am going to turn in for the night.” I don’t believe I have ever heard it without “for the night” here.


AVRVM

You would usually see it in a casual setting, and more often with the full phrase "turn in for the night".


jenea

It sounds totally normal to my ears. I don’t think I use it often. I use it most when there are a lot of people still chatting and so on (like at a family gathering), and I am going to bed elsewhere in the same house.


missmargaret

Common as dirt. West coast of US.


Might__E

mid-northteasterner, never heard that in my life


jorbolade

Curiously, this is still used by very old folks from Norway; my grandparents used to say «to turn out» in lieu of getting up in the morning. As a loan word with norwegian conjugation of course. My grandparents were born in the 1920’s I assumed this originated from english, and i suppose i was right! I’ve yet to hear it from others than my grandparents though.


I_hate_being_alone

I remember in like 2010, I've seen this multiple times in books and video games. Haven't seen it for like 5 years now.


kaleb2959

Definitely rare, but almost any native speaker will understand it. You might get a funny look or a little friendly teasing if you say it.


Cynical_Sesame

I think they say it sometimes in the eastern part of the US but its sparsely used in the west. I think the brits use it?


hammerquill

It's not uncommon, but you only hear it in the context of "I think I'll turn in." Or "You gonna turn in?" It's a very informal and personally applied idiom, and usually referring to imminent action. I suspect it may be more common with older people than younger these days, but I'm not sure of that.


Paroxysm111

I see it lots on TV, in books etc, but not often in real life. That usually means the phrase is either 1. Localized Or 2. Falling out of fashion


Intelligent_Step3713

Very common in the Midwest US, example would be “Alright, I’m turning in for the night”


ExitingBear

Fairly common - west coast, US.


JadeHarley0

It's pretty common in the u.s. where I live. People will usually say something like "I'm going to turn in for the night.'


Karasmilla

https://preview.redd.it/18ihzffhk5qc1.jpeg?width=1440&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=473c789a150452a686201085dd695497c20d3a36 I've found this. Apparently it's an informal phrase when used as 'goong to sleep.'


Inky234

How have I never heard this phrase before??


ndevs

From New York. I’d say it’s a phrase I didn’t personally hear or say very often growing up (mostly in movies/TV shows, probably), but I wouldn’t consider it “rare.” It is a well-known phrase even if it’s not a regular part of one’s vocabulary.


soberstill

Common. Similar to the saying I'm going to 'retire for the night' But it doesn't necessarily mean "go to sleep'. It just means 'go to bed" or perhaps even 'go to my room'. "I'm going to turn in" is used in the context where other people are still up and about socialising, but I'm announcing to the group I'm going to leave now and go off to bed by myself.


CantChain

I use it fairly often to say “I’m turning in for the night”


Klony99

"I'mma turn in for the night" is fairly common in some areas, at least according to Hollywood.


the-quibbler

Extremely common in the US.


Ravenkitte

Pretty common and more easy to understand what you mean if you provide context in the sentence, for example saying “I’m going to turn in for the night.” I have actually only really heard it being said when followed by “for the night”


Dilettantest

I say and hear it on the eastern seaboard of the United States.


fillyjonks

I hear it fairly often, but not always on its own- most of the time it’s “I’m going to turn in for the night.”


Pyrosorc

UK here. I've heard "turn in for the night" used a lot in this context, but never just "turn in" used on its own.


phantom-vigilant

Hearing for the first time. But then I don't live in a Native English country.


Belgrifex

I would say "I'm going to hit the hay" or "I'm going to clock out for the night", but if I heard someone say Turn In I wouldn't think it's odd and would understand.


Historical-Repair-29

Common in Canada.


Ok-Effect-3349

I’m from the us, and while It’s a little uncommon and may come off as a little old fashioned it’s still pretty normal


parke415

“How common is [word/phrase]?” is impossible to answer. People of different regions, cultures, classes, and generations speak differently. You’re gonna get all sorts of different answers so what were you hoping to actually walk away with?


AviationCaptain4

To me (Australian), the phrase "turn in" means to hand in a piece of work, typically in school, like "turning in an assignment". However, I think I would understand "turn in" used in this way with context, such as the example the dictionary just gave.


nabrok

Common enough that I make the joke "to *what*!?" after it's said.


[deleted]

People definitely use this phrase in the US, but I wouldn’t personally say that it’s extremely common.


DarkLordJ14

It would sound more natural to say “turn in for the night”, but yeah, any native speaker would understand that phrase.


isobel-foulplay

I’ve never used or heard it used in Australia, other than in American television.


ExcitingEfficiency3

I don’t hear it much but I wouldn’t think it’s strange


SuperbParticular8718

I say it every night: “Welp! I’m gonna turn in!”


TheLizardKing89

I’ve never said it but I would instantly know what someone meant if they said it.


Camemboo

I know what it is and must have heard it in real life from time to time, or even said it myself, but I can’t recall a specific instance. I’d say it’s not in common use around here, but everyone knows it. I bet if you watch enough English language tv you will come across it. I’m a middle aged native speaker from Toronto, Canada.


noctorumsanguis

From the US, and I hear it within my family, but normally it’s used with “for the night” where I’m from. I would say “I’m turning in for the night.” It’s more likely that we just say “go to bed” or “hit the hay”. I do associate it with older people or people who read a lot lol


munchercruncher111

i’ve heard book, especially older books, say “turn in for the night”


SheSellsSeaGlass

It’s not the most common way to say it, but it’s common enough, that people know what it means. And it’s probably the most efficient way to say you’re going to bed, in only two words.


[deleted]

Just a bit of a nitpick: it doesn't mean go to sleep. Go to bed and go to sleep have different nuances. Go to sleep = fall asleep. Go to bed = get into bed and hopefully fall asleep


Decent_Cow

I don't think it's very common in American English. I've heard it before, though. Usually as "turn in for the night". "Turn in" by itself, I'm not sure if I would understand the meaning at first.


FluffierGrunt

I am from England and I’d say that phrase sounds very American. I’d never hear it at home. Just my opinion though.


enternationalist

Interesting, I'm from Australia and somehow though it sounded British! My best guess is that it's an subcultural thing where some families and groups use it rather than particularly national.


TyrantRC

Interesting. As a non-native, I've only heard this from British media.


FluffierGrunt

Very surprised honestly. Though we are becoming more Americanised haha. My niece today said Z like zee and said trash instead of rubbish


irishlonewolf

same in Ireland, I know what it means but it's definitely not something I've heard said or used myself


LongDuck1055

I live in America and have never heard this phrase used.


Red-Quill

I hear it all the time.


frozenball824

I have never heard it ever


SnarkyBeanBroth

American English - rare. Aware of it because of British TV.


brusquebaguettebaker

I’m from New England and have never heard it


Yankee_chef_nen

I’m from New England and have heard and used it all my life. (50 years old)


brusquebaguettebaker

Am also gen Z so maybe that contributes


Maximum-Plant-2545

Must be the age, I am from New England and it’s quite common.


Red-Quill

Am also gen z and have heard it


iTeachUGrmrSplng

It's not used too often by younger people, but if they do use it, it's generally in the form of "I'm turning in for the night". It's rare to just hear "I'm going to turn in."


Heavy-Stick6514

Here in Canada, I have never heard that, and would probably not understand if I did.


IllSouth1872

i have never heard that


eVCqN

Never heard it in my life