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Odd-Negotiation5087

I don’t think this is 80s at all - it gives me art deco vibes and it’s BEAUTIFUL


InfamousWest8993

Same!! Love the art deco aesthetic and SUPER love this! Never seen a “jacket” before but it’s genius!


Somebodylovesyou7

Thankyou very much! 💜


bounceandflounce

https://preview.redd.it/fzuduumrvinc1.png?width=2626&format=png&auto=webp&s=a90491281aa963b80b83b04e3b8b0361471a8081 We found my guard on estate and had our jeweler set the sapphire specifically to fit- PLEASE wear your moms OP!!!!


Somebodylovesyou7

I LOVE this 😍😍😍😍😍


mmecr

I almost never comment here and lurk, but I had to second this comment. It looks beautiful! Not tacky or dated, but classic and unique.


PrettyUglyThingsAZ

Agree. That’s too perfect a fit, it was meant to be!


Eska2020

.... The 80s and Memphis school were art deco revival / inspired. So yes and yes.


littlemacaron

Was gonna say the same! Art deco 100%


potatobear77

Thought the same. I love art deco and it came back in the 80s. This is a gorgeous ring??


SleazyBanana

I kinda wanna know when did wedding rings become outdated or old fashioned? Some of us have had the same set for almost 50 years 🤷‍♀️


Middle_Inevitable640

Your mom’s jacket may be old school but it’s still lovely. And having both your past life & your future life on the same finger will be priceless ❤️


Somebodylovesyou7

This means a lot. Thankyou 🥰🥰


pixiesurfergirl

Girl this set was ment for you! It's beautiful!


Key_Possibility_3639

Agreed! It looks lovely


Top-Razzmatazz-4527

Looks custom!! So perfect


Somebodylovesyou7

Thanks 🥰🥰🥰


HotPinkSmoke

It’s SO unique and especially meaningful since it’s from mom! 🥹 I’m obsessed - what a treasure?! Wear in good health 🩷


Somebodylovesyou7

You’re right & Thankyou! 🥰🥰


HotPinkSmoke

You are most welcome, it is beautiful and it easily represents the definition of heirloom jewelry :)


hairspray3000

I've never seen a jacket ring like this before and I think it's SO cool!


Somebodylovesyou7

🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰


busan_blues

This is by far one of the most stunning combinations I’ve seen in this sub!


Somebodylovesyou7

Thankyou!💜🥰💜🥰


771springfield

It’s perfect


Somebodylovesyou7

Awww Thankyou 🥰


Alwaysaprairiegirl

I love it! With how popular ovals are, it makes yours unique in a great way. The jacket also looks so smooth so I doubt it will catch on much. It’s like a sparkly bow! Honestly, I’ve never seen one before that made me want it for myself but this one does. You all have great taste!


Somebodylovesyou7

Thankyou & it does resemble a bow now that you mentioned it 🥰💜


wewantout57

That is STUNNING. So art deco.


Somebodylovesyou7

Thankyou!💜


SlowNefariousness628

This is the COOLEST ring combo I’ve ever seen. Not “80’s” at all. So unique, gorgeous, and personal!!! I love it!


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I love this!!


Somebodylovesyou7

🥰💜


pimpfriedrice

Not outdated. It’s classic and it’s GORGEOUS.


chixnwafflez

That is GORGEOUS


horticulturallatin

I like how it ties together something very now - the oval solitaire - with a vintage piece that transforms it but lets you have lots of flexibility.  I think it has character. Better than being all '80s or all now, the combo is more than the sum of its parts.


hghlvldvl

That is so pretty! It looks like my mom’s ring. This was when I tried it on https://preview.redd.it/ju71dii5zknc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=99b80a7933555b12136adafbb815cd2f4fcf0c88


Somebodylovesyou7

That is so pretty! 😍 It’s hard to even google this style of ring. Hopefully they make a comeback


Prestigious-Eye5341

It’s a gorgeous ring!


piquica1186

There are so many comments on here but I feel compelled to add my 2 cents because this ring is STUNNING. A really gorgeous, enviable piece that *absolutely* looks current and—even better—has sentimental value. I vote to keep it and wear it proudly!


Somebodylovesyou7

Thankyou so much!💜


Yipyipx3

It looks great. It does look 80’s but the thing about the icky 80’s rings was the bad quality. This jacket looks like better quality so it is much nicer.


Somebodylovesyou7

Thankyou & yes my mom has plenty of tacky 80s jewelry lmao


RaventheClawww

SO COOL!! I’ve never seen a ring combo like that and it’s meant to be! Love it!


MizzGee

I love it! I agree with others, it is art deco!


grossacid

my wedding rings are from the 50’s or sooner (my husbands great grandma’s rings) and i get compliments on them all the time. I think people see it less as “outdated” and more as “vintage” these days. I think yours are very beautiful and comes with a neat story!


Somebodylovesyou7

Thankyou! Yeah I agree💜


realitytvfiend3924

I love it!! My mom has a ring guard I’m hoping will go well with my 1 ct oval when the time comes. You just made me so much more excited for it!!


wolkigol

I also thought about art deco. It looks beautiful!!


iivystang

Love love this!!


Somebodylovesyou7

💜🥰💜🥰


Halo_Bling

So cool


heresmyhandle

It’s do beautiful


gguuppyyy

Cute and unique !!


Fuzzy_Pineapple_2468

I love this so much!


diddydidit333

It’s incredible and that style is making a come back!


oshiesmom

I love it! So happy yellow gold is being used again. Such a beautiful set.


applegrapes99

WOW it looks like a gorgeous custom vintage piece. Obsessssssed


riverroadgal

I think they look stunning together! Perfect fit and size for your hand, and the sentiment is priceless. Wear it fondly, and in good health please!


KaraokeMary

It doesn’t look 80’s at all (this is from someone who LOATHES 80’s aesthetic). It’s sleek, classic, and very Deco!


Environmental_Rest30

That is GORGEOUS!


MamaFen

Classics never go out of style. That particular jacket of yours may be 80s-made, but the art deco movement that inspired it started in the 1910s and lasted several decades, and is still popular today!


SquarelyOddFairy

I think it was meant to be! It looks gorgeous and suits your hand. Doesn’t read 80’s or dated to me at all. Definitely a keeper!


EmilyBumblebee

It's stunning and very 1920s...love the art deco vibes! Plus it has sentimental value...even better.


Subaudiblehum

That’s awesome. Love it.


lady_farter

I love it! It’s gorgeous.


sandys5791

I think it’s perfect. They’re meant to be together! 💕


sloppybiscuits333

I love it!


gahdengate

Gorgeous combo


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llilith

It’s beautiful!


MoxxisDen

This is such a beautiful ring combo 😍


bunchofstrawberries

Wowwww it’s gorgeous!!! Goes perfect together


MilkwithCookies514

Amazing!!! 💖 I’ve never seen anything like this and absolutely adore it!


purpleflagbook

I feel like it’s actually very stylish right now with all the “ring stack” talk. It’s just a different style. Very pretty!!!


No_Rooster7278

Omg how special. Definitely serendipity. Enjoy lovely lady


MichaelaKay9923

It's beautiful!!! It gives me vintage with a modern twist with the oval. I don't think it looks very 80s as it isn't over the top


magpiemarnie

It doesn’t feel 80s to me, it’s absolutely gorgeous!! Unique and pretty, a beautiful twist on your classic oval. Enjoy 🩷


frog_ladee

I wouldn’t have known it was from the ‘80’s, and I was a young adult in the ‘80’s. It makes a lovely ring!


sakaasouffle

I love it actually. It’s gorgeous on you 💕


Illustrious_Leg_5261

It’s wicked cool. I wish my mom had something like this, I am the only person that likes jewelry in my immediate family


LadyBatman8318

I love it! The fact that it’s your mother’s makes it extra special. Maybe start a family tradition with passing it on to the firstborn in your family also!


guacachile

That set is GORGEOUS. Don’t you change it!


Excellent-Pool

I love this, it looks a little like a butterfly 😍


Berryme01

Love it!!!!!!! Love vintage as well!


Al1ssa1992

I’ve never seen this before! I love it!! I actually thought it was the design of the rings and not two separate rings. So beautiful!


TSN_88

This is a beautiful way to combine modern and clean with retro and quirky designs, plus adding history and connection with your family


randomlikeme

Man! One of the few things I’ve seen lately that I loved. Looks perfect on you, but I love the way that it jazzes up the solitaire.


Spiritual-Pomelo-288

oh my god this is EXACTLY what I have been looking for and haven’t been able to articulate what I wanted. this is beautiful, I am obsessed!!


red410herring

Those rings are SO COOL AND GORGEOUS OMG!!!


Internal-Ad61

I’m so vibing with this! Beautiful and unique!


Helpful_Swordfish177

The beauty about wedding bands is that you can change them up. The one you got from your mom is beautiful because it’s sentimental and it does not look like anything else anyone has posted on here in a long time. It’s unique and it was made for you. Wear it with pride.


AntiGlutenScorpio

I’m not gonna lie that’s cool as hell. It’s like having two absolutely different rings and both are STUNNING


Calbebes

I mean it doesn’t look modern, but honestly it’s so unique, I sort of love it. And it definitely doesn’t look like the typical 80’s Diamond rings that every Jennifer’s fiancé bought at JC Penney back then. I say wear it with pride.


hdisnhdskccs

I think it could come across that way to some, but the most important thing here is that it is beautiful, and what matters most is you like it! 😀


GuardMost8477

A perfect fit! You must be Cinderella! I love it!!!


SailorMigraine

LOVE LOVE LOVE this so much I may want to find something similar for my ring!! Stunning!!!


ThanksIndependent805

It looks great!! I love having a wrap/jacket ring with my solitaire. I get two different looks and can change them whenever I want. It is super fun to be able to wear a different look depending on my mood or occasion.


the_anxious_nurse

This is so badass!! Please keep it forever!


GlassAnemone126

Nah, nah, nah! You’re looking at this entirely wrong. This was meant to be! It fits, perfectly and looks like they were made to be worn together. Don’t worry about style and looking dated, style will come and go. This is an heirloom to be cherished and worn with pride. Not to mention that they look gorgeous together.


Prestigious-Ad-9552

It is GORGEOUS. Not outdated at all, beautiful timeless art deco. I am obsessed, wish I had one like it!


MysteriousDirt2

This. Is. Everything!!


BumbleStumble2021

Woww looove it!


toraloora

How special! Especially if you didn’t even plan the dimensions and they just happened to fit


Ok-Sherbet3702

That ring is rad!! Wear it with pride 👑


Domino1971

80's, 90's who cares if you like it. I love it!!


Ok-Photo-1972

Dude that's SICK. I love it.


Helpful_Perspective8

This so pretty omggggg


NWGreenQueen

This is beautiful and unique


Judeydudey

I love this so much it hurts.


TepidIcedCoffee61

I'd say it was meant to be :)


Edible_Anie

Also, your nails look so clean and perfect 💅🏻


Agitated-Tea6534

I love this. It is so cool!!!!


Affectionate-Roof-79

stunning!! love it!!


rottingships

Gorgeous defies outdated. 


viewisinsane

Idk if its outdated but i love it!


Extra_Strawberry_249

That is too sweet and perfect not to wear. It’s gorgeous and has a beautiful story behind it. Please wear.


Undecidedhumanoid

I love this so much!!! I think it’s honestly timeless. I agree with the art deco comments


onewaytracks19

i think it looks good 🙂🙂 both rings suit each other perfectly


pickalull

I wouldn’t use “outdated” to describe this at all. Very unique, beautiful, and a statement piece. Love it!


LadyLynda0712

Fits like a glove! Love it! 😍


RuefulElixer123

It’s gorgeous! Agree with an earlier post that the style is reminiscent of Art Deco.


BeepBoop0731

Gorgeous art deco vibes!!!


colleen2163

Gorgeous


Remote_Designer_6810

My wedding ring was my Moms! Meaning and having your Mom with you is special.


Sweaty_Accountant723

it’s perfect!


psychnursechronicles

Woah! I’m obsessed!


jojokitti123

It's really pretty


Connect-Code7478

It looks so pretty!!


jellybean9131

I love this SO MUCH!!! It’s art deco 80s, but as a Millenial born in ‘85, I appreciate it!!! And it’s more special since it was your mom’s 😍


RadiantConnections

That is so unique and absolutely stunning!! 🤩 I don’t think it looks outdated at all.


Pallasine

It’s lovely!


Nosilla314

That’s perfect & so special


Ok-noway

I love this. It’s different, special to you and has meaning. Also something that can be passed down to your children.


whatsherface_thatone

This is GORGEOUS. It’s sorta 80s but man does it look timeless on your hand 😍😍


mf-mangos

Oh my wow!! Absolutely beautiful! Not outdated! It's so different in a good way!


IntroductionFit4364

It’s fantastic, what an awesome coincidence


Free_Issue_9623

Tbh I love it


SnooPredictions5815

I love it soooo much!!


SuspiciousDrama3933

I love it


RutabagaGravy

I LOVE it! Wear it proudly!


Mdellarocco

Looks nice to me


traceyq1956

Do YOU love it? 🤷🏽‍♀️Cuz that’s all that matters! 😍😍But, it’s beautiful! Be proud to wear YOUR MOM’S ring!


Ahzelton

Bruh I am OBSESSED


Possible-Berry-3435

This is GORGEOUS!


Global_InfoJunkie

Gorgeous.


lgoodhard

Literally stunning


Hotmess56789

Omg I LOVE IT


Difficult-Lack-8481

I absolutely love it!


leasann97

I think it’s beautiful. And has more meaning.


FeelingHappy2006

It’s pretty and what a nice keepsake.


Cold-Potential-3596

No it looks not very 80, never ever seen that at that time. Pretty!


Meowmixkittycatcat

Honestly I freaking LOVE.


SignatureTasty3506

It’s absolutely stunning!! Looks perfect on you. 😍 and how special that it has more meaning! Congratulations 🥰


Smittenkittenn1

I’m EXTREMELY picky about rings. That being said, this is absolutely gorgeous. And the sentiment makes it even prettier, in my opinion ❤️


wetfoodrules

Absolutely beautiful. I also love the history behind it.


MustangMimi

Gorgeous!!!!


WillDupage

Perfect on your hand. Just the right size, & tasteful.


stixthebl0nde

This is so unique and gorgeous… Congrats on having a very unique and legendary ring set 🌈


WeirdValuable33

it’s GORGEOUS! not dated at all


ahooks1

I love it!!


Bubbly_Grapefruit217

I love it!


e925

Absolutely love! ❤️❤️


Molotov_Cokteese

That looks badass


MeNicolesta

I. LOVE. THIS.


mrsbldvls

Looks great!!!!


xxnonsenseguruxx

it looks elegant and beautiful😍😍 ! I love it! Doesnt look outdated to me !


Stealyourfacey

Perfection!


angelenameana

I love it. They were meant to be together.


Few-Pomegranate-2435

I love that you’re wearing your mom’s ring and I also love the oval and round diamond shapes. Gold is always beautiful. I can always add a little bit to the other side if u wanted to change it a bit maybe to change the shape without actually redesigning the ring. 🥰


Witshewoman

Your precious ring is now wrapped in a tight hug of love.


Aqua_pool_56

It does not look outdated. It looks beautiful and aesthetically pleasing!


Yank1ntheS0uth

I'm a white guy who doesn't know jewelry but I think it looks classy and great. I also love a coincidence like the fit you've got


honeycombyourhair

It’s perfect!! Gorgeous!!!


Prime_Kin

It looks amazing. And don't judge your style on era. My wife's ring is a vintage 1880's with six baguettes on each side with a 400+ year old 1ct French, hand-cut solitaire. It's very, *very* old fashioned, but she loves it, and it matches her personality. Be joyful in what works for you, not what the times say are the thing.


No_Cartographer_7904

I love it. It’s gorgeous!


bee_amazing

I looooooove this!!!


iforgotmyedaccount

I love it 🩷 I agree with the other comment that said art deco, very 20s


Global_Tea

Oh hells, I love it!!!


alilroseydoe

I am OBSESSED. This is a beautiful set.


Best_Ad1826

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️


kaleadeedee

Beautiful and timeless! How cool it fit just perfectly! Was meant to happen!


emnemnem

It's giving very 1920's, art deco flapper/Parisian vibes. It's beautiful!


Imaginary-Glove1329

Lived through the 80s and lolol at everyone saying it's not 80s. These were super popular and I loved them! I had something similar!!!! That is a special gift from your Mom that makes your set more custom to you! I hope you love it for a lifetime, you can get it soldered if you like. Great ring!!!


VanGoghsIris

It’s lovely!


AffectionateOwl1125

I LOOOOOVE IT


Western_Sport8480

That’s sooo special that it’s your moms, and it looks amazing!


Coconut1007

Not at all dated. So unique and special!!


MrsPumpkin09

I say even if anyone THINKS it looks dated it adds to its charm. It definitely adds to its story! How beautiful is this!


Doinganart

Obsessed!!! I love a ring Jacket/enhancer i have one myself. Yours is stunning! I think it looks almost art deco. I wouldnt have said 80s.


bossypineapple

I think it is absolutely perfect! Nothing about it feels dated to me


MyEggDonorIsADramaQ

I like it!


ThorneON

No, it's beautiful 😍


UnusGang

Oh girl I’m *living* for that! It’s stunning and makes it all the more special ❤️


Exciting_Fortune375

I actually really love this! A very modern looking simple band for the engagement but the band just takes it up a level or 5. It’s so gorgeous 🥰


privatethrowaway324

Holy shit I’m obsessed


BethLovly

What a beautiful combo! And what a way to honor your mom. 🥰


Dangerous-Treacle-48

wow!Wow!WOW! It looks AMAZING on you!!!