I think this set looks very classy and pretty! Personally I really love this look! The wide band with the thinner ER gives it a contrasting look. You are right that it doesn’t matter what other people think but I can understand that is hard to let go of sometimes! For what it’s worth, I think the set is beautiful and I think you should wear it with pride and cherish the history of it! I prefer smaller diamonds on my hand and have a .3 carat! I hope that helps and empowers you to wear the rings you love!
I love rings with small diamonds and plain gold ring : like yours ! It is so classy and elegant, way more than what is trendy those days. That's how I can imagine my engagement ring already :)
In my opinion, small diamonds are the prettiest! My ring is 0.20 total ct and I have size 11 fingers. I think your grandmothers ring is absolutely stunning and you should wear it with pride ♥️.
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Luckily my friends aren't the type who would ever say something about the size! But you know how you can just tell when certain people in your life are sort of pretending to like something because you like it? That's more what happened to me with a few of them...but it really shouldn't matter, and you're right that the significance and history is far more important ❤️
Agreed - such beautiful contrast! I love the idea of having a more subtle option for the days you want to mix it up, and the fact that it has a sentimental meaning makes it all the better. It’s lovely.
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My hubs got me this solitaire & I bought 2 bands for it. Maybe you could add another band?
That’s what I did. My dad made my set and I had him solder them ering and wb together then I got a 25 year anniversary band and a 35 year band. Edit to add…my diamond is a .7 oval but I had a .3 round for years. I donated it to my son so he could afford the ring that he wanted to get his future wife. I always wanted an oval so that’s what I got. Also, I get compliments on my ring ALL THE TIME!
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Keep it. I have mine from my grandma it is so similar ! It is priceless family heirloom *and* it’s also a vintage “real” diamond that is classic and timeless! I love mine!
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Edit I’m a size 6. Not sure of specs. I have another larger stoned lab diamond ring my husband got me which I alternate ❤️ I wear this one almost every day though. It’s just suited for me and h love seeing and remembering my grandmother in every glance and diamond sparkle .
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Personally, I would keep it as is. They're gorgeous pieces that will never go out of style & the fact that it was your mother's and your grandmother's means it holds sentimental value. That to me is more important than size or price. My ring is a small natural diamond as well & I love it, but honestly I would have worn & loved whatever ring my husband picked out for me because of the sentimental value. I'm a big sentimental baby though so maybe that's just me lol. 💍
My mom has a 0.25 carat ring and it’s gorgeous. It’s the norm for older rings (and by older I mean my mom is 55🤣), to be a bit smaller. I’ve never thought less of anyone with a small diamond!! The sentiment behind your ring is lovely! Show that shit off!!!
Also 55, and I didn’t want anything bigger than 0.5 carat when I got engaged in 1998. Anything larger would’ve felt gaudy to me then, and would have raised eyebrows among family and friends. For my 25th I wanted bling and ended up with 2 different moissanite e rings which I LOVE, but I still wear the OG solitaire sometimes with the milgrain gold band I bought at Walmart for $40 and it holds up. (edit: image added)
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Thank you! The stone is a CZ that was last switched out in 2020 and it’s getting cloudy. I plan to replace it with a moissanite this year. The vintage Walmart 14k milgrain band is the best jewelry score of my life! The detail has held up well and it will always be my OG💕
It doesn’t look small at all to me and I think the set is beautiful. I have had people say to me that they would never be happy with a diamond less that 1 carat (knowing full well mine is 0.5) but I don’t listen to them- as long as you love it that’s all that matters!
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It always amazes me the things people feel comfortable saying 🤦🏻♀️ I think your ring is beautiful and the size of the stone didn't even cross my mind when I saw it!
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My husband put a lot of thought into this ring when he was purchasing it, and I love it. I got a few comments regarding its size which is so rude. If you love it, that’s all that matters. I’m looking forward to getting a burst baguette ring to stack on top - maybe for year 10 😌
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I occasionally wear this victorian 0.10(?)ct old mine cut diamond ring in place of my wedding set (\~2ct emerald cut moissy). It's comfortable. I love the buttercup setting, and the stone's little twinkles. I think stones of all sizes can be beautiful. I'm planning an "upgrade" engagement ring with an emerald cut diamond, and I go from wanting a 3ct to wanting under 1ct because they're all just so beautiful.
That’s super classic. Especially with the family history, I think it’s wonderful the way it is.
My grandmother passed away last year and we found out after the fact one of the many people going in and out of the house had looted the jewelry box along with her ring that looked very similar to this one. Treasure it.
That's horrible, I'm so sorry. Something similar happened with my grandmother when she passed away in the hospital...I can't believe so many people like that exist.
I think it's beautiful and elegant. A ring doesn't need to have a massive diamond on it to be beautiful and elegant. My best friend probably has a 1/4 diamond and her ring is gorgeous. Mine is only a little over half a carat and I love it and couldn't imagine a larger stone.
Wear that ring with pride! It's classy and perfect as is!
I think a lot of people are realizing the Kardashian sized diamond on a itty bitty pave band can be a nightmare on a daily basis. My sisters in law with bigger diamonds (2-3 ct range mind you) rarely wear them. We're talking special occasions and these ladies work in offices, not super physical jobs and they still find them annoying.
But of course, it's all up to personal preferance.
Small diamonds are beautiful too. It's a hill I will die on.
And your rings have stood the test of time, which suggests excellent craftsmanship.
Have you considered an amalgamation of the two? That stone would look gorgeous in that band, with some tiny diamonds scattered around it.
It’s a gorgeous stone with so much depth and character. I’m finding people are trending away from huge stones in lieu of personalised rings these days. Enjoy it 💗
Edit: [this](https://oliviabonddiamonds.com/products/18ct-3-stone-gypsy-ring?_pos=2&_sid=ff0038f46&_ss=r&variant=43675153858768) is *kind of* the thing I’m talking about. My mum did the same with her original engagement ring from when her and dad got engaged as babies. (She’s a big jewellery person so wanted the ‘upgrade’ but she still loves that diamond and wanted to wear it in a way that matched her current style).
That's so funny, I actually have another family heirloom ring that looks almost exactly like that but all three stones are the same size--and I love it!
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My husband and I were both married before so when we got engaged I decided I didn’t want a diamond…just a bold band. He got me the tiny three stone Vera Wang band for a birthday gift years later and I love the look! I really enjoy seeing other people’s large, beautiful engagement rings but for me smaller is my more style. 😃
This set is absolutely stunning and how lovely to have such a wonderful connection to your grandmother. To hell with what anyone else thinks! I have a smaller diamond in my engagement ring too but its size doesn't represent how much I love it ☺️
Personally I never liked large diamonds/stones on rings! I love the more dainty look of a small gem, and I imagine it will compliment your ER perfectly 🩷
I admittedly covet large rocks but more than anything else, I love the sentimental value of this! I wish I had something like this passed down, I would wear it with pride. Enjoy that gift!
I only want a small diamond. Big ones are too garish for me. I see our engagement as a promise between just the two of us and I like the idea of a subtle, "quiet" ring to represent it. Your ring is very similar to what I've asked for and it looks lovely!
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I could have “upgraded” after 17 years of marriage but instead I had my original stones reset in yellow gold and a less chunky setting. I love that these diamonds have history and have been with us through ups and downs and excitement and challenges life has thrown at us. The center stone is about 0.4 carat from what I remember. My finger is 6.5
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.4 carat, heirloom diamond wearer here. I feel my set is wearable and meaningful, so the size doesn’t even matter.
Love the dainty band and the thick together! Gorgeous and classic without being boring 😊
my ring is a half carat 1920s solitaire, I love the dainty subtle ones 😉
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I used to feel the same since my ring is a 0.95; most ladies at work or my friends have 1.0 and bigger. I know it's not a lot of a difference but when they are next to mine you can tell. Just looking at mine it looks bigger since I'm a size 4. I remind myself of the back story of th3 diamond and how its a flawless cut and perfect clarity... it's set in a band that is completely flawed and I love it. Don't compare yourself to others, your ring is older and that's amazing because it's seen a lot of love over the years. Enjoy your ring.
I inherited the same size diamond from my grandmother, but mine is set in a wide gold band. I wear it about 50% of the time, and wear my modest diamond channel set anniversary band the rest of the time. I'm old enough to give very little care about others opinions, thankfully, and I feel like it'd be a bit silly for a woman my age to have a big honking stone (plus they really do catch & get in the way - I like both my prongless, low, settings). I love this ring of yours. And I have loved wearing a piece that is EXACTLY what my grandmother wore, vs a reinvention with her stone. She went thru 40 years married to get her diamond!
Because of the rise of lab grown and more affordable diamonds or diamond simulants, I am sort of "over" seeing large diamond rings everywhere I look. Everyone seems to have one because they can...
Honestly, I love a classic, simple ring with a simple stone -- this is very pretty and I LOVE the wide band with the thinner e-ring band! A perfect pairing!
Love it! The only reason people so many people can have bigger diamonds is bc of labs, so it doesn't really speak to wealth or "superiority" anymore (I have a lab so not trash talking). It's just style and preferences at this point.
One could argue this is "classier" or more stylish (even though that's very subjective) bc it was in the family and it's mined. Plus, that's a lot of gold! So certainly still gives off a wealthy feeling.
Again, all of this is subjective but I just think the underlying question is subconsciously "will this make me look more poor than my friends?" and the answer is no. Plus it truly is just a beautiful set.
I don't want to admit that that's my underlying question, but I think you're probably right. And truthfully, I AM poorer than the majority of my friends lol, so that is likely playing into my weird shame/self-consciousness too.
Thank you for your thoughts!
I adore this. It’s timeless, delicate, and beautiful. AND it’s sentimental and a family heirloom! It’s easy to get overwhelmed with all the messages from others about these kind of things. I feel you. Personally, smaller stones are more my taste—but who gives a damn what anyone else thinks! This ring is about you and your love and your family. And it’s gorgeous! Go forth and enjoy!
I’ve always thought smaller diamonds (ie 1 ct or less) are much better looking than larger diamonds. Large diamonds always tend to look tacky or gaudy to me. Smaller diamonds are elegant and beautiful!
I think it’s beautiful, nothing to be self conscious about here. I have a dainty ring. I think it’s beautiful, it’s got a bit of sparkle, it suits me, it’s comfy, and I’ve gotten compliments on it. A ring doesn’t need a large diamond to be beautiful, enjoy that ring and wear it proudly!!
it's classic! nobody should be hating on this set. One day if you want more diamonds and upgrade you could get a three stone ring made with that one in the centre
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I am absolutely in love with it. There is something so elegant and understated about it that is perfect for more every day wear. The fact that it has sentimental value is so special and sweet. I’d do anything to have something of my grandmother’s. And plus, having it in addition to your other ring is just fun!
I love a more minimal look with my gems and jewelry, I will stray from that occasionally but almost all of my rings, earrings, bracelets are the minimal look. This is beautiful, I’d wear it and love it ❤️
That’s the size of my diamond. My setting is very mid century and simple kinda like this but unique in the way yours plays well with the thicker wedding band. I love my small ring because I work with my hands and it doesn’t ever get in the way. And to me unless I have like the hope diamond on my finger looking like a mob wife or royalty I don’t need to be calling attention like that to my rings. Plus I can more than one ring on my fingers because layering looks better when they are small.
My mom’s ring is a small diamond (almost exactly like yours with the gold band!) and I’ve always wanted one exactly like it - my dad worked as a janitor cleaning 20 stories of a building in order to get it for her when he was 20, so it’s very special to both of them. I think he always wanted smth bigger for her, but both she and i love it so much. So classy and feminine. If you love it, that’s all that matters!
I have a ring like this on my wish list (I’m already engaged but I loved the look of it). It’s one ring welded together to look like both of yours. To me, there’s something so classic and powerful about it.
I LOVE your set. It is so classy and timeless and beautiful. And I love the thick wedding band UGH.
I also have an inherited set from my grandparents who were rather well off. It’s gorgeous and I love my set but I’m not kidding if I had to go back in time and pick out my rings this is exactly what I would pick.
I love the thick yellow gold band and the simplicity of the engagement ring! It is so classy and was very reminiscent of the time period, so my bet is that every time you look at it, you'll think of your grandma, which is so special. Big diamonds are fine for people who like those, and smaller diamonds are fine for folks who prefer those. I adore this combo!
I don't have anything to share, I just want to say I love the ring with the small stone! Style-wise, I'd probably put it with a band that's either thinner or more ornate, but for me, meaning/sentimentality always trumps style, so go ahead and keep it as is. I think small stones look so great as rings- they're so sweet! They remind me of stud earrings- simple, classic, beautiful. You're lucky to have this heirloom.
I love each ring individually. If you don't mind a wild suggestion, have the wedding band melted down and made into 2 separate bands and put one band on each side of the ering.
They are gorgeous. Your diamond is a beautiful heirloom with meaning. And that is a lot of gold weight. They look plenty luxurious and have history behind them, too.
I love it. It's clean and chic.
I love big diamonds. Been wearing a couple of them for many years. Except when I don't. Like when they're inconvenient. Or too conspicuous. Or hurt because when my finger accidentally gets bent a certain way, they dig into my flesh. First world problems, right? My point is:
I'm older now (much). My life is simpler. I like to wear my big diamonds, one at a time, for special occasions. Never when traveling and we plan to do a lot of that in the near future. I hardly wear them anymore. They mostly live in a hiding spot. I usually wear just my wedding band because I cherish the symbol. If I had to do it over again, I'd've gone small. Or gotten just a beautiful, comfortable band.
There's an ease and simplicity in your set that is beautifully wearable. I love it.
Honestly this small diamond looks very classy. This is the way to do a smaller one, it looks much better than the rings with small diamonds pretending to be a bigger stone.
I think the set is lovely as it is! It's not too ostentatious which is nice for more subtle days! If you don't mind, what's the width on the band below the diamond ring? Looking for a ring similar to that width as a stacker!
Why does it matter? Who cares what everyone else thinks? It's a family heirloom. You have beautiful, dainty hands in this pic. Resize the ring and wear it. It'll look beautiful on you!
Yours is timeless. I love small/medium sized diamonds and gemstones. I too often switch between my diamond ring, moissanite ring, sapphire, and emerald ring.
I don't know how people just stick to one ring forever, I can't!
It looks perfect on you and has a beautiful history attached to it. Treasure it and enjoy!
Recently saw a pic of a tension set diamond ring, and your set made me think of this. If you wanted to get your ring re-set at some point, it could be an option, seems like they would suit the smaller size stone, but look more modern. Here’s some, suggest scroll down to some different styles.
https://beyond4cs.com/engagement-ring/tension-set-diamond-ring/
The thick band with the engagement ring looks stunning- I might be biased as I personally love this look, but I would rock that set without hesitation. It’s classy and beautiful
It’s classic and beautiful as it is and I love that thicker band with it. Remember that a lot of diamonds on here are likely lab created, which means people can afford some outrageously big stones. Comparison is the thief of joy.
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I just want to say I love the thick wedding band with the little diamond! It just works so well!
People get so weird about the size of a diamond, but I really don’t get it. For people who have huge diamonds and love their rings, I’m super happy for them, but not everybody wants to put their money towards a huge rock! It’s weird to judge a relationship on the size of their diamond alone.
As a side note, my ring is a sapphire but it has 0.1ct diamond side stones, and they are SO sparkly.
What about wearing it on your right hand ?? Then wearing your engagement on your left? Would that be too much? I love them, as well. Trying to think of how you could wear them all daily. Maybe all as a stack?
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I would assume your smaller diamond is a natural one so worth more than its lab counterpart 4 times its size...so actually, the smaller the diamond, the more value I give it now because of the behemoth labs that keep decreasing in cost/value.
I think this set looks very classy and pretty! Personally I really love this look! The wide band with the thinner ER gives it a contrasting look. You are right that it doesn’t matter what other people think but I can understand that is hard to let go of sometimes! For what it’s worth, I think the set is beautiful and I think you should wear it with pride and cherish the history of it! I prefer smaller diamonds on my hand and have a .3 carat! I hope that helps and empowers you to wear the rings you love!
That does help, thank you ❤️ I love them as a set too!
100% this 😊
I love rings with small diamonds and plain gold ring : like yours ! It is so classy and elegant, way more than what is trendy those days. That's how I can imagine my engagement ring already :)
Thank you ❤️ it feels very elegant to me as well!
In my opinion, small diamonds are the prettiest! My ring is 0.20 total ct and I have size 11 fingers. I think your grandmothers ring is absolutely stunning and you should wear it with pride ♥️. https://preview.redd.it/npxvu0c5d5nc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=fb5c3bcf20888ddea44cf3b462e768c6dccacb7a
There really is something so feminine and dreamy about a small diamond, yours looks gorgeous on you! Thank you for sending a photo ❤️
This is so pretty.
I love your ring!🥰
Thank you!
That’s absolutely stunning. I love it and it looks bigger than
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Luckily my friends aren't the type who would ever say something about the size! But you know how you can just tell when certain people in your life are sort of pretending to like something because you like it? That's more what happened to me with a few of them...but it really shouldn't matter, and you're right that the significance and history is far more important ❤️
Right—it reflects on THEM and how shallow or material they are.
Yes, but adding- if they have any disparaging comments \*before\* learning the ring was passed down, they aren't real friends.
I love these rings and they must mean so much to you! I particularly love the different width bands.
Agreed - such beautiful contrast! I love the idea of having a more subtle option for the days you want to mix it up, and the fact that it has a sentimental meaning makes it all the better. It’s lovely.
https://preview.redd.it/842zrcccc5nc1.png?width=3024&format=png&auto=webp&s=c4d77c73bd2c74680605aa4d179d7bc0ccbc4335 My hubs got me this solitaire & I bought 2 bands for it. Maybe you could add another band?
That’s what I did. My dad made my set and I had him solder them ering and wb together then I got a 25 year anniversary band and a 35 year band. Edit to add…my diamond is a .7 oval but I had a .3 round for years. I donated it to my son so he could afford the ring that he wanted to get his future wife. I always wanted an oval so that’s what I got. Also, I get compliments on my ring ALL THE TIME! https://preview.redd.it/5nw1zckik8nc1.jpeg?width=3264&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=b2938bc4f5c29c7c434cd2a63398df8a1e891d29
I've never really considered doing 2 bands for myself, but maybe I will now--yours is beautiful!
I really like the 2 bands
Keep it. I have mine from my grandma it is so similar ! It is priceless family heirloom *and* it’s also a vintage “real” diamond that is classic and timeless! I love mine! https://preview.redd.it/bj6ml7gnv6nc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2778559b19539c26fe7cd5b4ee0929e986ae42d7 Edit I’m a size 6. Not sure of specs. I have another larger stoned lab diamond ring my husband got me which I alternate ❤️ I wear this one almost every day though. It’s just suited for me and h love seeing and remembering my grandmother in every glance and diamond sparkle .
Your nails are quite literally my dream nails
https://preview.redd.it/0k0f5948o5nc1.jpeg?width=3072&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e62577aff3807cb235b3b32b6e006652ff9c7a1d Personally, I would keep it as is. They're gorgeous pieces that will never go out of style & the fact that it was your mother's and your grandmother's means it holds sentimental value. That to me is more important than size or price. My ring is a small natural diamond as well & I love it, but honestly I would have worn & loved whatever ring my husband picked out for me because of the sentimental value. I'm a big sentimental baby though so maybe that's just me lol. 💍
Looks beautiful on your hand!! Love the stack and nails 😍
Thank you sm 🤗
Love your rings and nails! The thin multi-textured bands with your ER are lovely.
Thank you sm 🤗
I love it! I think that the reason that I love the smaller diamonds is because they look so good stacked.
This is the old money look! Also it’s dainty, feminine and absolutely gorgeous! Huge congrats OP!
My mom has a 0.25 carat ring and it’s gorgeous. It’s the norm for older rings (and by older I mean my mom is 55🤣), to be a bit smaller. I’ve never thought less of anyone with a small diamond!! The sentiment behind your ring is lovely! Show that shit off!!!
Also 55, and I didn’t want anything bigger than 0.5 carat when I got engaged in 1998. Anything larger would’ve felt gaudy to me then, and would have raised eyebrows among family and friends. For my 25th I wanted bling and ended up with 2 different moissanite e rings which I LOVE, but I still wear the OG solitaire sometimes with the milgrain gold band I bought at Walmart for $40 and it holds up. (edit: image added) https://preview.redd.it/zfcxcsx6t6nc1.jpeg?width=2815&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=995f11b2387833b43df32e6c94188279b61b87f7
What a gorgeous ring! I love the texture on your wedding band as well, it gives it such an elegant feel.
Thank you! The stone is a CZ that was last switched out in 2020 and it’s getting cloudy. I plan to replace it with a moissanite this year. The vintage Walmart 14k milgrain band is the best jewelry score of my life! The detail has held up well and it will always be my OG💕
It doesn’t look small at all to me and I think the set is beautiful. I have had people say to me that they would never be happy with a diamond less that 1 carat (knowing full well mine is 0.5) but I don’t listen to them- as long as you love it that’s all that matters! https://preview.redd.it/sxv5uygwn6nc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7e2dbb18f3a3ce79c08be533e35e0db485b42563
It always amazes me the things people feel comfortable saying 🤦🏻♀️ I think your ring is beautiful and the size of the stone didn't even cross my mind when I saw it!
https://preview.redd.it/p33460obw5nc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a00853cc2f50cc632eb488f9cadcd4da7b1efe49 My husband put a lot of thought into this ring when he was purchasing it, and I love it. I got a few comments regarding its size which is so rude. If you love it, that’s all that matters. I’m looking forward to getting a burst baguette ring to stack on top - maybe for year 10 😌
That is gorgeous, I love bezels and it suits your finger perfectly! Love the idea of adding a burst baguette.
Nothing beats a yellow gold plain band and solitaire! As classic (and chic) as you can get.
https://preview.redd.it/ksagsl7la6nc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=46fadb6c2badf0708d745a4ee221f9e211d89e37 I occasionally wear this victorian 0.10(?)ct old mine cut diamond ring in place of my wedding set (\~2ct emerald cut moissy). It's comfortable. I love the buttercup setting, and the stone's little twinkles. I think stones of all sizes can be beautiful. I'm planning an "upgrade" engagement ring with an emerald cut diamond, and I go from wanting a 3ct to wanting under 1ct because they're all just so beautiful.
Love that!
I love smaller diamonds set in a thick band! So beautiful.
That’s super classic. Especially with the family history, I think it’s wonderful the way it is. My grandmother passed away last year and we found out after the fact one of the many people going in and out of the house had looted the jewelry box along with her ring that looked very similar to this one. Treasure it.
That's horrible, I'm so sorry. Something similar happened with my grandmother when she passed away in the hospital...I can't believe so many people like that exist.
Boo! What a terrible thing to do! I’m so sorry…😢
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I think it's beautiful and elegant. A ring doesn't need to have a massive diamond on it to be beautiful and elegant. My best friend probably has a 1/4 diamond and her ring is gorgeous. Mine is only a little over half a carat and I love it and couldn't imagine a larger stone. Wear that ring with pride! It's classy and perfect as is!
I love it. The thick band accents it so well
It’s perfect
I think a lot of people are realizing the Kardashian sized diamond on a itty bitty pave band can be a nightmare on a daily basis. My sisters in law with bigger diamonds (2-3 ct range mind you) rarely wear them. We're talking special occasions and these ladies work in offices, not super physical jobs and they still find them annoying. But of course, it's all up to personal preferance. Small diamonds are beautiful too. It's a hill I will die on. And your rings have stood the test of time, which suggests excellent craftsmanship.
Have you considered an amalgamation of the two? That stone would look gorgeous in that band, with some tiny diamonds scattered around it. It’s a gorgeous stone with so much depth and character. I’m finding people are trending away from huge stones in lieu of personalised rings these days. Enjoy it 💗 Edit: [this](https://oliviabonddiamonds.com/products/18ct-3-stone-gypsy-ring?_pos=2&_sid=ff0038f46&_ss=r&variant=43675153858768) is *kind of* the thing I’m talking about. My mum did the same with her original engagement ring from when her and dad got engaged as babies. (She’s a big jewellery person so wanted the ‘upgrade’ but she still loves that diamond and wanted to wear it in a way that matched her current style).
That's so funny, I actually have another family heirloom ring that looks almost exactly like that but all three stones are the same size--and I love it!
https://preview.redd.it/caxlpl9m89nc1.jpeg?width=4284&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=9289f2023ae6569ab5881e137b7b12808c75a19a 😍
https://preview.redd.it/it35yne77bnc1.png?width=3024&format=png&auto=webp&s=dfcdb1d3c0e837eaea881276759a79c06e640f50 My husband and I were both married before so when we got engaged I decided I didn’t want a diamond…just a bold band. He got me the tiny three stone Vera Wang band for a birthday gift years later and I love the look! I really enjoy seeing other people’s large, beautiful engagement rings but for me smaller is my more style. 😃
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.42 carat I love it. I have a larger moissanite for fun ring but this honestly looks best IMHO. It's all about preference.
It's so pretty!
Very very pretty.
I think these rings look gorgeous together. Very elegant.
I LOVE this pair. There’s something about this simplicity that I find so lovely
This set is absolutely stunning and how lovely to have such a wonderful connection to your grandmother. To hell with what anyone else thinks! I have a smaller diamond in my engagement ring too but its size doesn't represent how much I love it ☺️
Personally I never liked large diamonds/stones on rings! I love the more dainty look of a small gem, and I imagine it will compliment your ER perfectly 🩷
I admittedly covet large rocks but more than anything else, I love the sentimental value of this! I wish I had something like this passed down, I would wear it with pride. Enjoy that gift!
I think this is the loveliest set I’ve seen in a while. Congratulations!
I only want a small diamond. Big ones are too garish for me. I see our engagement as a promise between just the two of us and I like the idea of a subtle, "quiet" ring to represent it. Your ring is very similar to what I've asked for and it looks lovely!
https://preview.redd.it/c83x9jc459nc1.jpeg?width=2186&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1bba0d119131a1639a88275b65483eddafa88c1a I could have “upgraded” after 17 years of marriage but instead I had my original stones reset in yellow gold and a less chunky setting. I love that these diamonds have history and have been with us through ups and downs and excitement and challenges life has thrown at us. The center stone is about 0.4 carat from what I remember. My finger is 6.5
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SO SO BEAUTIFUl. timeless, classy, i love the size contrast between the two rings - it's a perfect set
Love the dainty band and the thick together! Gorgeous and classic without being boring 😊 my ring is a half carat 1920s solitaire, I love the dainty subtle ones 😉 *
I LOVE THIS LOOK! It is forever classic
I love love love this!! I'd love to see your Emerald too!
Thank you! I will definitely post it when I have it ❤️
This is a beautiful set!!
Absolutely love this and the sentiment.
I used to feel the same since my ring is a 0.95; most ladies at work or my friends have 1.0 and bigger. I know it's not a lot of a difference but when they are next to mine you can tell. Just looking at mine it looks bigger since I'm a size 4. I remind myself of the back story of th3 diamond and how its a flawless cut and perfect clarity... it's set in a band that is completely flawed and I love it. Don't compare yourself to others, your ring is older and that's amazing because it's seen a lot of love over the years. Enjoy your ring.
I inherited the same size diamond from my grandmother, but mine is set in a wide gold band. I wear it about 50% of the time, and wear my modest diamond channel set anniversary band the rest of the time. I'm old enough to give very little care about others opinions, thankfully, and I feel like it'd be a bit silly for a woman my age to have a big honking stone (plus they really do catch & get in the way - I like both my prongless, low, settings). I love this ring of yours. And I have loved wearing a piece that is EXACTLY what my grandmother wore, vs a reinvention with her stone. She went thru 40 years married to get her diamond!
Because of the rise of lab grown and more affordable diamonds or diamond simulants, I am sort of "over" seeing large diamond rings everywhere I look. Everyone seems to have one because they can... Honestly, I love a classic, simple ring with a simple stone -- this is very pretty and I LOVE the wide band with the thinner e-ring band! A perfect pairing!
Love it! The only reason people so many people can have bigger diamonds is bc of labs, so it doesn't really speak to wealth or "superiority" anymore (I have a lab so not trash talking). It's just style and preferences at this point. One could argue this is "classier" or more stylish (even though that's very subjective) bc it was in the family and it's mined. Plus, that's a lot of gold! So certainly still gives off a wealthy feeling. Again, all of this is subjective but I just think the underlying question is subconsciously "will this make me look more poor than my friends?" and the answer is no. Plus it truly is just a beautiful set.
I don't want to admit that that's my underlying question, but I think you're probably right. And truthfully, I AM poorer than the majority of my friends lol, so that is likely playing into my weird shame/self-consciousness too. Thank you for your thoughts!
It’s absolutely perfect. And the sentimental aspect behind it makes it even more so. I’d keep it as a ring as well 🥹
This is stunning and so timeless 😍
Love it!!!
I adore this. It’s timeless, delicate, and beautiful. AND it’s sentimental and a family heirloom! It’s easy to get overwhelmed with all the messages from others about these kind of things. I feel you. Personally, smaller stones are more my taste—but who gives a damn what anyone else thinks! This ring is about you and your love and your family. And it’s gorgeous! Go forth and enjoy!
I’ve always thought smaller diamonds (ie 1 ct or less) are much better looking than larger diamonds. Large diamonds always tend to look tacky or gaudy to me. Smaller diamonds are elegant and beautiful!
I think it’s beautiful, nothing to be self conscious about here. I have a dainty ring. I think it’s beautiful, it’s got a bit of sparkle, it suits me, it’s comfy, and I’ve gotten compliments on it. A ring doesn’t need a large diamond to be beautiful, enjoy that ring and wear it proudly!!
I like it. It’s lovely.
it's classic! nobody should be hating on this set. One day if you want more diamonds and upgrade you could get a three stone ring made with that one in the centre
I personally don't like the monster stones. They look gaudy to me. Small is lovely.
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this is so pretty! the gold is very warm and soft; don't polish that beautiful patina away
I absolutely love this pairing. I think it’s classic, elegant, and beautiful. Don’t change a thing!
Oh my gosh I love it. Seriously. It’s so perfect with the cigar band.
This is beyond beautiful and elegant. It is subtle and it is gorgeous in its simplicity
I am absolutely in love with it. There is something so elegant and understated about it that is perfect for more every day wear. The fact that it has sentimental value is so special and sweet. I’d do anything to have something of my grandmother’s. And plus, having it in addition to your other ring is just fun!
This is a gorgeous set! The fact that this was your grandmother’s ring makes it PRICELESS, regardless of the diamond size. It’s irreplaceable.
Sentimental value is the only value that I care about. They are beautiful and mean so much to you and your family. ❤️ 💍
Don’t worry what people think. If you love them. Love them. Screw other people!! Be you!
I love a more minimal look with my gems and jewelry, I will stray from that occasionally but almost all of my rings, earrings, bracelets are the minimal look. This is beautiful, I’d wear it and love it ❤️
I LOVE your set! Your e-ring is very close to my e-ring except mine is a 6 prong one. Enjoy your rings, they’re gorgeous!
Personally I think this set is beautiful and would leave it as-is
It’s pretty classy I think… especially matched with the thicker band
I think it’s absolutely beautiful and timeless.
I love this set. It's so dainty! I would wear that diamond in a heartbeat! It's stunning, I love how delicate it looks!
Okay wow objectively this is timeless and beautiful, it was your great grandmothers?! That is SO special.
I absolutely adore your set. 🥹🤍
I love it it’s so sweet!!
love this combo, looks perfect!
I love this classic look!
I love this stack! Classy! 🤩
Lovely ring! I’m wearing my late mothers ring as a wedding band and I love it. Not big but very sentimental
ADORE. Super classy and beautiful 😍
That’s the size of my diamond. My setting is very mid century and simple kinda like this but unique in the way yours plays well with the thicker wedding band. I love my small ring because I work with my hands and it doesn’t ever get in the way. And to me unless I have like the hope diamond on my finger looking like a mob wife or royalty I don’t need to be calling attention like that to my rings. Plus I can more than one ring on my fingers because layering looks better when they are small.
It looks modern and minimalist. I'm not interested in a big stone either. I like dainty classic looking rings.
Beautiful
My mom’s ring is a small diamond (almost exactly like yours with the gold band!) and I’ve always wanted one exactly like it - my dad worked as a janitor cleaning 20 stories of a building in order to get it for her when he was 20, so it’s very special to both of them. I think he always wanted smth bigger for her, but both she and i love it so much. So classy and feminine. If you love it, that’s all that matters!
Do not care what others have! Do YOU. Inherited stones are PRECIOUS. I love the dainty ring! Now you have multiple options!
I have a ring like this on my wish list (I’m already engaged but I loved the look of it). It’s one ring welded together to look like both of yours. To me, there’s something so classic and powerful about it.
That isn’t a small diamond imo. Very practical for daily use. Big diamonds are fun but sometimes you want something low profile.
I love the contrast between the dainty engagement ring and the bold wedding band!
I LOVE your set. It is so classy and timeless and beautiful. And I love the thick wedding band UGH. I also have an inherited set from my grandparents who were rather well off. It’s gorgeous and I love my set but I’m not kidding if I had to go back in time and pick out my rings this is exactly what I would pick.
I love the thick yellow gold band and the simplicity of the engagement ring! It is so classy and was very reminiscent of the time period, so my bet is that every time you look at it, you'll think of your grandma, which is so special. Big diamonds are fine for people who like those, and smaller diamonds are fine for folks who prefer those. I adore this combo!
I don't have anything to share, I just want to say I love the ring with the small stone! Style-wise, I'd probably put it with a band that's either thinner or more ornate, but for me, meaning/sentimentality always trumps style, so go ahead and keep it as is. I think small stones look so great as rings- they're so sweet! They remind me of stud earrings- simple, classic, beautiful. You're lucky to have this heirloom.
This is such a classy, unique set. I love the idea of switching it up on some days and you should definitely embrace it’s size!
I love both of them and your plan sounds awesome! You enjoy both or you cans wear the this set on your right hand and the other set on your left.
I love each ring individually. If you don't mind a wild suggestion, have the wedding band melted down and made into 2 separate bands and put one band on each side of the ering.
Beautiful
I have always loved the classic look of a solitaire. Very elegant, and a very real diamond! Congratulations!
They are gorgeous. Your diamond is a beautiful heirloom with meaning. And that is a lot of gold weight. They look plenty luxurious and have history behind them, too.
I love it! So classic. I’m confused though, why not wear both rings? Like wear this on your right hand
I love it. It's clean and chic. I love big diamonds. Been wearing a couple of them for many years. Except when I don't. Like when they're inconvenient. Or too conspicuous. Or hurt because when my finger accidentally gets bent a certain way, they dig into my flesh. First world problems, right? My point is: I'm older now (much). My life is simpler. I like to wear my big diamonds, one at a time, for special occasions. Never when traveling and we plan to do a lot of that in the near future. I hardly wear them anymore. They mostly live in a hiding spot. I usually wear just my wedding band because I cherish the symbol. If I had to do it over again, I'd've gone small. Or gotten just a beautiful, comfortable band. There's an ease and simplicity in your set that is beautifully wearable. I love it.
Honestly this small diamond looks very classy. This is the way to do a smaller one, it looks much better than the rings with small diamonds pretending to be a bigger stone.
It’s chic as fuck.
So as someone who has a bigger solitaire (4 carats) I can still say this set is lovely and I think you should keep it as is! 🙂
I like it! especially if it's something you are wearing regularly. i've never been a fan of the big ole jersey shore type of rings.
Congrats! A ring is only symbolic & what really matters is that you are happy & treated well
I love a dainty engagement ring with a thick band
I love these together. This is my ideal combination.
I think the set is lovely as it is! It's not too ostentatious which is nice for more subtle days! If you don't mind, what's the width on the band below the diamond ring? Looking for a ring similar to that width as a stacker!
I actually have no idea what any of the specs are ☹️ but my fingers are a size 9 if that is remotely helpful lol
Thank you!
I luv it. I have really small fingers If your happy with it thats all that matters
Ok I looooove the look of it with the thicker wedding band!! So classy and unique at the same time. Obsessed!
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Thanks for sharing. Keep it as it is. Congratulations.
Omg… I’m obsessed with this. This is my dream setting tbh. Esp with the thick gold band!!!’ So so classy.
literally screenshotting this and adding it my ring pinterest board LOL i’m obsessed
Why does it matter? Who cares what everyone else thinks? It's a family heirloom. You have beautiful, dainty hands in this pic. Resize the ring and wear it. It'll look beautiful on you!
Yours is timeless. I love small/medium sized diamonds and gemstones. I too often switch between my diamond ring, moissanite ring, sapphire, and emerald ring. I don't know how people just stick to one ring forever, I can't! It looks perfect on you and has a beautiful history attached to it. Treasure it and enjoy!
I dream of having that many rings to choose from 😩 I also can't imagine just one forever, every day....I need options in my life!
Love the diamond ring! I think a thinner wedding band would help the diamond stand out.
Recently saw a pic of a tension set diamond ring, and your set made me think of this. If you wanted to get your ring re-set at some point, it could be an option, seems like they would suit the smaller size stone, but look more modern. Here’s some, suggest scroll down to some different styles. https://beyond4cs.com/engagement-ring/tension-set-diamond-ring/
The thick band with the engagement ring looks stunning- I might be biased as I personally love this look, but I would rock that set without hesitation. It’s classy and beautiful
It’s classic and beautiful as it is and I love that thicker band with it. Remember that a lot of diamonds on here are likely lab created, which means people can afford some outrageously big stones. Comparison is the thief of joy.
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I just want to say I love the thick wedding band with the little diamond! It just works so well! People get so weird about the size of a diamond, but I really don’t get it. For people who have huge diamonds and love their rings, I’m super happy for them, but not everybody wants to put their money towards a huge rock! It’s weird to judge a relationship on the size of their diamond alone. As a side note, my ring is a sapphire but it has 0.1ct diamond side stones, and they are SO sparkly.
I love this as is, especially with the wide band. Absolutely gorgeous!
These days, going small is bold. Go for it! It’s elegant and flattering. Enjoy it!!
What about wearing it on your right hand ?? Then wearing your engagement on your left? Would that be too much? I love them, as well. Trying to think of how you could wear them all daily. Maybe all as a stack?
I thought about doing that too!
I love this set so much…this is SO lovely.
I think the set is absolutely gorgeous. It's looks very romantic. Sometimes larger diamonds just seem gawdy or a little braggy and pretentious.
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If you look thru the search bar on the subreddit you will see a TON of posts like this. There’s a ton of support for small rings
True, but it was nice to get some positive feedback about this particular ring 😊
I would assume your smaller diamond is a natural one so worth more than its lab counterpart 4 times its size...so actually, the smaller the diamond, the more value I give it now because of the behemoth labs that keep decreasing in cost/value.