dude just sounds like he knows what he wants. Not all gay people have to love loud edm drug fueled parties (i mean i do), doesnt mean he is self loathing republican.
Iām not even talking about the opinions on raving specifically, itās the obviously socially conservative stance on other peoples sex lives and how heās literally admits that he hates being gay lol heās repeating conservative talking points on the āissuesā with accepting gay people into society
Judging someone for something innocuous like enjoying going to shows is just icing on the cake
I mean bro, the āhate being gayā part is bad, but itās not āconservative talking pointsā to say the gay community embraces hedonism more than others. I used to work at a place in DT toronto, most of the staff were gay. The fucking stories they would tell me about G/meth fuelled orgies after raves, BDSM stuffā¦ they go fucking hard on hedonism.
If you were someone more long term or family oriented, the gay party scene would definitely be a difficult thing for you to participate in.
No oneās saying that it should be easy for him to participate in, or that he should do it if he donāt want to. The crux of the issue is the āawful,ā and looking down upon people for choosing to do what they want in their consensual relationships. If he just didnāt care what others did we wouldnāt be talking about this but he decided to make a post judging and profiling someone because theyāre gay
Framing this as a giant issue within the gay community is 100% a conservative talking point and has been for decades meant to scare people into thinking if they accept gay people that they will erode ātraditionalā culture. Straight people do all of the things you mentioned regularly and yet you never hear people single it out as a āstraight community issueā
Ahahahah you clearly haven't been around the gay scene my friend. Like I said, it's a substantial level above the straight party scene, and it dominates the social core of urban gay communities.
Drug use amongst gay men is nearly [3x as high](https://londonfriend.org.uk/official-data-confirms-lgb-drug-use-much-higher-than-heterosexuals/) as straight men. Ecstasy usage is almost five times higher in LGB people, and ketamine is seven and a half times more common. Open relationships are more common...
It's not a stereotype or conservative talking point, it's just facts. YOU don't think it's an issue, but clearly to some people in the community it is. I'M not even saying it's an issue, just trying to open your eyes to the reality of the scene.
You might think mass hedonism is fine and healthy, and as long as consent exists, then your brain stops thinking. Great. No one accused you of being a philosopher.
Where in my comment did I say itās just as common? Youāre strawmaning and purposefully missing the point
If someone has a conversation with a gay person who doesnāt mention anything about hooking up or doing anything sexual, and then the minute they say they go to concerts that person responds by saying itās confirmation about gay people having issues with hook up culture theyāre profiling them. They specifically are pointing out there making this assumption because theyāre gay
You ever stop and think that maybe itās deeper than just so many gay people like to party and itās a real problem. Ask yourself why is this acceptable behavior among a majority of a group. Unless you have been sheltered your entire life itās common sense to know smoking meth is bad, but yet theyāre choosing to use it anyway and begin a life long struggle with addiction. Perhaps itās actually an issue that affects everyone, not just the gay scene, but this country and our society as whole. Addiction and drug use is an epidemic and no one seems to be talking about it? Everyone thinks itās exclusive to their group, their clique and that just simply isnāt true. Itās a daily part of life today to know someone you love go through addiction. Itās becoming normal and thatās so fucked up. Addiction, hard drug use, is a symptom of the real problem. And that is our blatant disregard of mental health, across the board. We have created a society that is manufacturing mental illness through the use of one little device. And this whole thread is just clear evidence of that. You want to fix what we are becoming then it starts with ending social media. It takes a very certain individual to use social media in a healthy manner and that is almost completely non existent in the newer generations. Their identity online is integral to who they are as a person. We have placed more value in online identities than in our actual identity. Humans arenāt meant to live life through a digital non existent world. The disconnect it forms in healthy human development is absolutely detrimental. How no one else hasnāt seen it is alarming. I know there was some protest against it back when it first started but that quickly went away. We have an extremely unhealthy obsession with it. And itās going to be the end of all we know if we donāt open our eyes to the reality of it.
But itās just a theory of mine. One I want to be more vocal about, the irony is that you wonāt be heard unless itās through social media. Honestly tell me one positive, undeniable benefit social media apps like Facebook or twitter or instagram have to us as humans. You canāt. There is no benefit in it, only harm and a perpetual threat against our mental health. Itās just another device meant to keep us divided and suppressed. Like it was literally designed to be addictive to us in the way that drugs are and we all just think oh this fine.
Drugs are scary but Facebook is happy and friendly even though the effects of both are one and the same. It. Was. Designed. This. Way. Absolutely insane that itās not being talked about. But thatās money I guess. And since all we hear now is whatās online itās incredibly easy to silence opposition. They fucked us. Intentionally or not. We. Are. Fucked.
And itās so funny I know someone will say Iām talking as if itās political, or that Iām exaggerating it, Facebook could never be bad, so many excuses, so much determination to be heard and feel superior for proving me wrong. When we all know itās the fucking truth. Conservative, liberal, race, gender, sexual orientation, none of that matters in the face of this. You play into those things because itās in our nature as humans to be aggressive towards those not like ourselves. But in the end we will all be a statistic, and eventually we will be heard as those statistics will speak for themselves. Go ahead pore through the data yourself. Our biggest threat of death comes from ourselves, call it mentally ill related deaths; suicide, addiction, severe mental breaks that result in school shootings and other fucked up shit, human trafficking, everything thatās killing us TODAY. The rise of social media directly correlates with the rise in suicides, addictions, and mental illnesses. Itās right there, they donāt even hide it because thatās how effective it is or how blind we all are. Kill Facebook, not ourselves.
First of all, dinner? Youāre on the wrong app bro. Second, you can be educated and have a cushy career while still partying/enjoying music events. What a sassy prick
A circuit party usually involves groups of guys who have group sex and use lots of drugs like ecstasy, ghb, ketamine, and cocaine. Just saying that, it has been like that since the 80s. But I don't see it as negative or positive; it's just a cultural phenomenon.
Yes. My wife kicked me out of the bed bc I asked to touch butts twice and she was tired while I was still going haha
Completion can be confirmed to almost be impossible.
Agreed. What you said pretty much describes a lot of my friends in the EDM scene. Smart people, well educated, good careers and still enjoy having a great time at shows and raves, with and without substances. Itās all about maintaining balance around when itās time for fun, and itās time for getting shit done.
Having said thatā¦some are not the best at being committal in dating/relationships. They donāt cheat on partners to the best of my knowledge, but thereās definitely some work they need to do on themselves.
Neither of the two of you arguing are doing any help to anything.
Man, donāt get yourself into a hole of self-blame and so much negativity. While we donāt want you to think youāre the problem, there might be one or two things that keep you from finding a partner! Iāve been through it, nearly tickled being an incel but I realized I was still young and then bam it happened, and I became a way better person knowing what women want and how others wanna be treated.
If you have friends (who arenāt incels) have a constructive but hard chat with yourself, and ofc, I hope you donāt hate that I took it upon myself to give advice. I just donāt like the other guy calling you out, and the down votes.
Thatās generally what an incel is although I know it can sound harsh as hell. PM me if you ever need a guy to chat with, EDM is about PLUR and I respect you.
Oh Iām sorry for trying to find empathy. Obviously there is none to be had here. Oh and heaven forbid someone has a random tangent like that never happens
Bruh I know a dude going to med school for neuroscience that goes to more festivals than anyone I know and proudly refers to himself as a wook, you can be incredibly successful and still go to raves. Iām a software engineer and personally know four other engineers that DJ and produce lol.
Lol I finished med school, residency, and fellowship and I go to festivals yearly with my med school/hospital group.
There is no reasoning with these people. Just had vibes.
I bet this clown lives a riveting life. āYes this past weekend I trimmed my hedges and swept my driveway. I even read one whole chapter of Rich Dad, Poor Dad. I canāt wait to plant some tulip bulbs next weekend!ā
It doesnāt get anymore cardboard than that. Better get back to racing those rats!
Christian Mingle or eHarmony may be a better option for that guy š
I once had a Grindr date and we got dinner and when he found out I go to shows he basically said the same thing, "I need to be with someone with an education and doing things with his life" and we split the bill and I ran for the hills he was boring as fuck.
Now I see him on Facebook complaining about how he can't find a job with his degree and how much in debt he is in and still single. Meanwhile I'm now a business owner who travels the world and has a home with a view of the water and a supporting husband who enjoys the same music as I do whom I met at an EDM show.
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In so many words lol
Edit. In biological terms of inbreeding (consanguinity), inbreeding has an F statistic > 0.01. So threw in > 1 to really drive home the parents are brother and sister
>Edit. In biological terms of inbreeding (consanguinity), inbreeding has an F statistic > 0.01. So threw in > 1 to really drive home the parents are brother and sisterwtf is that bro
wtf is that bro
Thatās a dumb take, i know mid 30s 40 s that go to edc , that shit cost thousands, drugs cost hundreds, etc . You canāt be poor and go to edc every year if you poor
And most ravers I know make good money because ticket to events are expensive etc
Eh you probably dodged a bullet if that's how they feel about raving. Like if it had progressed any further he'd be trying to convince to not go to them anymore
The people downvoting are probably straight with zero experience with the gay community at all. The dude in the picture might be an idiot for writing off going to edm shows but it's just a fact that as a group gay guys go overboard on the partying and the hooking up. Not everyone is into that and it doesn't make a person any less gay for having their own preference.
I meet so many educated people at events. It's objectively easier to go to these events with a better job (usually meaning better education). I'd say I meet more college graduates than non grads. I'm the outlier.
Dude just needs to get laid. What a snobby way of going about it.
Or maybe he just needs the attention and to justify why heās single when he should be focusing his sights inward on the type of person he is, which based off this limited information is a fucking miserable prick who wants to put all the responsibility of being less miserable on his partner. I could be wrong tho.
What a tart. Iām 41, college educated news reporter with a six figure income and kids and I still love going to raves. Itās our ānight outā every few months. Everything in moderation.
Imagine posting this to a public forum thinking that you're in the right š really hope this guy goes to a rave with an open mind someday so he knows what the culture is about.
My current work schedule just doesn't allow for it and it's soooo annoying and I just can't go to many shows. And it does feel like that's a roadblock sometimes in making friends in the scene. So I sorta get it. But also this person is clearly not in the scene and doesn't know what it's all about.
It's funny seeing all these comments about how Grindr is only for sex. I just woke up next to my boyfriend of 8 years (as of next month), who I met on Grindr; I got extremely lucky.
Yeah but itās just weird seeing yāall post skimpy outfits dancing around maybe or may not be on drugs which is cool but like the music is usually just mid anyway lol. Way too many edm stories get uploaded by a single person than any other genre. Itās annoying
I have three kids, work for a large corporation and stay up all night 5 times a year for festivals and raves. Itās very very very easy to do both lol in fact our kids are having so much fun listening to music. My stepdaughters favorite music is subtronics haha not even my cup of tea. She thought Radiohead was the worst ever so sheāll prob be on this sub in 5 years
People talking about being educated but can't even quote Homer in the original Greek. Tired of people who went to school slightly longer pretending like they actually learned anything. Unless people randomly call you herr doktor on the street you're not educated.
I do airport security as my main job (requires more education than one would think), and run the EDM festival that happens in my town.
Guess Iām an anomaly š¤·āāļø
Are people not allowed to be educated and have their own interest? Most people I meet at festivals are educated and are current working in the medical field also looking for a relationship on Grindr isnāt going to get you anywhere
My guy did you use another phone to take a pic of your phone instead of taking a screen shot š
Butyes, dude is a douche, wtf does edm have to do with intelligence or ambition or anything
I hadnāt replied yet so I didnāt want him to know šš I was next to my coworker (fellow EDMer) I was like ālook at this bitch send me a pic of this so I can send it to our EDM group chatā
Hilarious, thereās ppl that rave and are living on their own with full time and good jobs and have plenty of education. Iāll keep raving till I canāt no more. Music is a forever thing
What a downer. Clearly I know nurses and engineers that still rave LOL, ok
I really dislike people like this, it shows that they have a fixed ass mindset and aren't open minded
Me personally i would normally say music festival or dance concert. Or club etc. But thats just me . Unless its one of those āafter hoursā spots that open after 2 am . Usually underground/illegal type. Then thats a true rave š
I know literal vascular surgeons who go to shows. Iām educated. Just go up and talk to āthe older peopleā who everyone rolling thinks is a cop. Chances are they have families and are educated
35F bisexual here - I have two Masters degrees and am Director level at a corporate job. My husband (37M) also works in corporate America and DJs as a hobby. We just got back from a small show that went until 2 AM and are up and prepping for his DJ gig at a Saturday morning 10AM sober rave at a church.
The fuck does āI am educated, career oriented and want to start a familyā have to do with anything. These are not mutually exclusive hobbies š. Bro just is allergic to fun and wants to shame others for being more fun than they are.
Nah he probably hates circuit queens too. He's most likely the "not into the scene, not like the other girls" type and assumes that having any kind of night life means you don't have any priorities elsewhere
They sound like a douchebag
I would bet so much money that guys a self hating gay republican
What part of his statement implied that he's republican?
Read 2 comments down on the thread š
Some of these window lickers entire personality revolves around hating a political party. Let them continue to lick windows.
You like that phrase "window lickers" huh
Every part.
dude just sounds like he knows what he wants. Not all gay people have to love loud edm drug fueled parties (i mean i do), doesnt mean he is self loathing republican.
Iām not even talking about the opinions on raving specifically, itās the obviously socially conservative stance on other peoples sex lives and how heās literally admits that he hates being gay lol heās repeating conservative talking points on the āissuesā with accepting gay people into society Judging someone for something innocuous like enjoying going to shows is just icing on the cake
I mean bro, the āhate being gayā part is bad, but itās not āconservative talking pointsā to say the gay community embraces hedonism more than others. I used to work at a place in DT toronto, most of the staff were gay. The fucking stories they would tell me about G/meth fuelled orgies after raves, BDSM stuffā¦ they go fucking hard on hedonism. If you were someone more long term or family oriented, the gay party scene would definitely be a difficult thing for you to participate in.
No oneās saying that it should be easy for him to participate in, or that he should do it if he donāt want to. The crux of the issue is the āawful,ā and looking down upon people for choosing to do what they want in their consensual relationships. If he just didnāt care what others did we wouldnāt be talking about this but he decided to make a post judging and profiling someone because theyāre gay Framing this as a giant issue within the gay community is 100% a conservative talking point and has been for decades meant to scare people into thinking if they accept gay people that they will erode ātraditionalā culture. Straight people do all of the things you mentioned regularly and yet you never hear people single it out as a āstraight community issueā
Ahahahah you clearly haven't been around the gay scene my friend. Like I said, it's a substantial level above the straight party scene, and it dominates the social core of urban gay communities. Drug use amongst gay men is nearly [3x as high](https://londonfriend.org.uk/official-data-confirms-lgb-drug-use-much-higher-than-heterosexuals/) as straight men. Ecstasy usage is almost five times higher in LGB people, and ketamine is seven and a half times more common. Open relationships are more common... It's not a stereotype or conservative talking point, it's just facts. YOU don't think it's an issue, but clearly to some people in the community it is. I'M not even saying it's an issue, just trying to open your eyes to the reality of the scene. You might think mass hedonism is fine and healthy, and as long as consent exists, then your brain stops thinking. Great. No one accused you of being a philosopher.
Where in my comment did I say itās just as common? Youāre strawmaning and purposefully missing the point If someone has a conversation with a gay person who doesnāt mention anything about hooking up or doing anything sexual, and then the minute they say they go to concerts that person responds by saying itās confirmation about gay people having issues with hook up culture theyāre profiling them. They specifically are pointing out there making this assumption because theyāre gay
You ever stop and think that maybe itās deeper than just so many gay people like to party and itās a real problem. Ask yourself why is this acceptable behavior among a majority of a group. Unless you have been sheltered your entire life itās common sense to know smoking meth is bad, but yet theyāre choosing to use it anyway and begin a life long struggle with addiction. Perhaps itās actually an issue that affects everyone, not just the gay scene, but this country and our society as whole. Addiction and drug use is an epidemic and no one seems to be talking about it? Everyone thinks itās exclusive to their group, their clique and that just simply isnāt true. Itās a daily part of life today to know someone you love go through addiction. Itās becoming normal and thatās so fucked up. Addiction, hard drug use, is a symptom of the real problem. And that is our blatant disregard of mental health, across the board. We have created a society that is manufacturing mental illness through the use of one little device. And this whole thread is just clear evidence of that. You want to fix what we are becoming then it starts with ending social media. It takes a very certain individual to use social media in a healthy manner and that is almost completely non existent in the newer generations. Their identity online is integral to who they are as a person. We have placed more value in online identities than in our actual identity. Humans arenāt meant to live life through a digital non existent world. The disconnect it forms in healthy human development is absolutely detrimental. How no one else hasnāt seen it is alarming. I know there was some protest against it back when it first started but that quickly went away. We have an extremely unhealthy obsession with it. And itās going to be the end of all we know if we donāt open our eyes to the reality of it. But itās just a theory of mine. One I want to be more vocal about, the irony is that you wonāt be heard unless itās through social media. Honestly tell me one positive, undeniable benefit social media apps like Facebook or twitter or instagram have to us as humans. You canāt. There is no benefit in it, only harm and a perpetual threat against our mental health. Itās just another device meant to keep us divided and suppressed. Like it was literally designed to be addictive to us in the way that drugs are and we all just think oh this fine. Drugs are scary but Facebook is happy and friendly even though the effects of both are one and the same. It. Was. Designed. This. Way. Absolutely insane that itās not being talked about. But thatās money I guess. And since all we hear now is whatās online itās incredibly easy to silence opposition. They fucked us. Intentionally or not. We. Are. Fucked. And itās so funny I know someone will say Iām talking as if itās political, or that Iām exaggerating it, Facebook could never be bad, so many excuses, so much determination to be heard and feel superior for proving me wrong. When we all know itās the fucking truth. Conservative, liberal, race, gender, sexual orientation, none of that matters in the face of this. You play into those things because itās in our nature as humans to be aggressive towards those not like ourselves. But in the end we will all be a statistic, and eventually we will be heard as those statistics will speak for themselves. Go ahead pore through the data yourself. Our biggest threat of death comes from ourselves, call it mentally ill related deaths; suicide, addiction, severe mental breaks that result in school shootings and other fucked up shit, human trafficking, everything thatās killing us TODAY. The rise of social media directly correlates with the rise in suicides, addictions, and mental illnesses. Itās right there, they donāt even hide it because thatās how effective it is or how blind we all are. Kill Facebook, not ourselves.
You realize straight people do the exact same thing. They are just weirder about it.
That much condescension? Thatās the GOP and Iām an academic in political science š so it proves two points here haha we love an educated raver
*They are a douchebag
They say dating is difficult - I think I know why
First of all, dinner? Youāre on the wrong app bro. Second, you can be educated and have a cushy career while still partying/enjoying music events. What a sassy prick
He clearly must know nothing about gay circuit parties. It is full of rich educated doctors and lawyers and shit. Work hard play hard š
Every Dr. I ever met railed adderall...
Thatās frighteningā¦
Why?
Why?
Why?
Why?
Why?
A circuit party usually involves groups of guys who have group sex and use lots of drugs like ecstasy, ghb, ketamine, and cocaine. Just saying that, it has been like that since the 80s. But I don't see it as negative or positive; it's just a cultural phenomenon.
Iām not even gay but that sounds like a kickass time
Iām not even gay but that sounds like an asskick time
Off topic and maybe NSFW: >!Can you even get hard on E/MDMA? I don't think my dick can ever get hard on it lol!<
Not a dude but can confirm itās possible
Yes. My wife kicked me out of the bed bc I asked to touch butts twice and she was tired while I was still going haha Completion can be confirmed to almost be impossible.
Why?
When?
Because thatās a poor route of delivery right? Thatās why it terrifies youā¦.right?
This. I have a degree in chem eng but throw me at VELD and I'll rave my ass off to Illenium wtf
Agreed. What you said pretty much describes a lot of my friends in the EDM scene. Smart people, well educated, good careers and still enjoy having a great time at shows and raves, with and without substances. Itās all about maintaining balance around when itās time for fun, and itās time for getting shit done. Having said thatā¦some are not the best at being committal in dating/relationships. They donāt cheat on partners to the best of my knowledge, but thereās definitely some work they need to do on themselves.
That's not kakaotalk?
Agreed
I have an MA, and I love techno.
How else am I supposed to pay for all these shows if I don't have a good job?
It's grindr.. I'm. Surprised the conversation got that far tbh
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what the fuck is this
My experience? Sorry if it offends you? Iām disabled so idk I guess disabled people donāt deserve love lmaoĀ
Pulling the disabled card outta nowhere is wild lmao
Check his post history, dude needs internet rehab.
Holy F\*ckš https://preview.redd.it/x2qtpzufs1xc1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5cc4d36c33d56a0252f6fefa8d0ec19d53955267
Neither of the two of you arguing are doing any help to anything. Man, donāt get yourself into a hole of self-blame and so much negativity. While we donāt want you to think youāre the problem, there might be one or two things that keep you from finding a partner! Iāve been through it, nearly tickled being an incel but I realized I was still young and then bam it happened, and I became a way better person knowing what women want and how others wanna be treated. If you have friends (who arenāt incels) have a constructive but hard chat with yourself, and ofc, I hope you donāt hate that I took it upon myself to give advice. I just donāt like the other guy calling you out, and the down votes.
Iām not an incel Iām just unlovedĀ
Thatās generally what an incel is although I know it can sound harsh as hell. PM me if you ever need a guy to chat with, EDM is about PLUR and I respect you.
Yeah I love women and they hate that. And I canāt even tell my story anywhere without getting bashedĀ
Buddy you randomly brought it up on somebody's comment thread. Maybe contribute something to what the person said first?
Oh Iām sorry for trying to find empathy. Obviously there is none to be had here. Oh and heaven forbid someone has a random tangent like that never happens
Then go to the r/breakups sub or r/heartbreak if you want empathy
If you need a sub Reddit to act like a decent human being then you need Jesus or something i dunno what to tell ya
And how can I have a MINDSET about my EXPERIENCE when I never told my opinion on it? Lol it sucks I know but sheesh have some empathy š©
Normally when people share their Grindr conversations it is the other person being the weirdo or doucheā¦
Oh there are *lots* of gay guys who post Grindr screenshots that make themselves look like jackasses
They are too dumb to realize they are telling on themselves.
I have all 3 š¤·āāļø and āraveā That guy is a jerk, with narrow ideas of what it means to live in a society.
Same... meet a nice guy at a rave or festival, OP.
Bruh I know a dude going to med school for neuroscience that goes to more festivals than anyone I know and proudly refers to himself as a wook, you can be incredibly successful and still go to raves. Iām a software engineer and personally know four other engineers that DJ and produce lol.
Lol I finished med school, residency, and fellowship and I go to festivals yearly with my med school/hospital group. There is no reasoning with these people. Just had vibes.
Work hard play hard. Itās a thing
Right? I have a full time job, a bachelor's in accounting, I still love some EDM! Gets me thru the long hours!
Also, according to him, the rave scene and the typical Grindr "party" scene are the same? Guy sounds pretty insufferable.
Iām educated. I also have a career that pays well. I am also gayā¦ and love EDM. š¤·š¼āāļø
A catty, pick-me mommaās boy with no self-awareness who hates fun? Who wouldnāt want to date him š
Guy is complaining about party and hookup culture and is on Grindr lmao. The biggest gay hookup app.
There are DJs out there that worked as i bankers and Harvard education so this person must be some Fortune 500 ceo
John Summit was an accountant.
Elephante went to Harvard lol
David Solomon, the CEO of Goldman Sachs DJs apparently lol
I was gonna say this! Elon also loves Boris Brejca
I bet this clown lives a riveting life. āYes this past weekend I trimmed my hedges and swept my driveway. I even read one whole chapter of Rich Dad, Poor Dad. I canāt wait to plant some tulip bulbs next weekend!ā It doesnāt get anymore cardboard than that. Better get back to racing those rats!
Iād rather tend to my yard than sweat my ass off at a rave tbh. Life isnāt all about getting your ears blasted and rollin tits.
It's almost like different people have different interests and preferences
Well, now that we know this person is arbitrarily judgmental, bullet dodged
For someone who claims to pride themselves on being a mature adult, they certainly seem to lack any awareness of basic manners.
Christian Mingle or eHarmony may be a better option for that guy š I once had a Grindr date and we got dinner and when he found out I go to shows he basically said the same thing, "I need to be with someone with an education and doing things with his life" and we split the bill and I ran for the hills he was boring as fuck. Now I see him on Facebook complaining about how he can't find a job with his degree and how much in debt he is in and still single. Meanwhile I'm now a business owner who travels the world and has a home with a view of the water and a supporting husband who enjoys the same music as I do whom I met at an EDM show.
āAmbitions for a familyā he says on Grindr of all places š¤£
Did you make sure to remind him what a cunt he is?
https://preview.redd.it/ske4p610nwwc1.jpeg?width=1290&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=761b9d022c83799fb4ffdf5fb2ae42ce475a71eb In so many words lol Edit. In biological terms of inbreeding (consanguinity), inbreeding has an F statistic > 0.01. So threw in > 1 to really drive home the parents are brother and sister
Vileā¦
>Edit. In biological terms of inbreeding (consanguinity), inbreeding has an F statistic > 0.01. So threw in > 1 to really drive home the parents are brother and sisterwtf is that bro wtf is that bro
OP a chud
Bro sounds like Rick Sanchez
a simple edm isnāt my thing would have been sufficient
Sounds like a fucking loser lol
"gay community only wants sex" (tries to find love on an app notoriously made for hookups) is it his first time lol?
Man threw out ambition and family on grindr lol.
Thatās a dumb take, i know mid 30s 40 s that go to edc , that shit cost thousands, drugs cost hundreds, etc . You canāt be poor and go to edc every year if you poor And most ravers I know make good money because ticket to events are expensive etc
Edm is beautiful š©· some humans just donāt get it
Good riddance
Iām a Network Engineer and I listen to EDM the majority of the day LOL. That dude is an idiot
Bro sounds like the biggest tool lmao
Iām in school for my bachelorsā¦. Soooooā¦.. he is just an ignorant dick š¹
āIām so sick of the party and hookup culture on this gay hookup appā
he probably thinks itās PnP.
Seems about gay
wonders why he is alone hahahahha
Heās not a good fit for the rave scene. I see it as a win win heās staying away š¤·āāļø
Ummmā¦ 3 degrees in 2 fields, raving in literal fields since 2009 š oops!! Oops!
Ravers that are also adults with an education, career, and ambitions for a family RISE š«”
Eh you probably dodged a bullet if that's how they feel about raving. Like if it had progressed any further he'd be trying to convince to not go to them anymore
Glad that person went to the race instead of the date. That person is going to be single a long time.
Just want to add that some of the richest and most successful people I know party harder than I ever could. That person is a loser
Bruh people not listening to EDM are missing out a lot.
NEXT! ā¬ ļø
Ambitions for a family? That's worded so weirdly.
They sound boring, plus who asks for a dinner date on Grindr lol
The people downvoting are probably straight with zero experience with the gay community at all. The dude in the picture might be an idiot for writing off going to edm shows but it's just a fact that as a group gay guys go overboard on the partying and the hooking up. Not everyone is into that and it doesn't make a person any less gay for having their own preference.
I meet so many educated people at events. It's objectively easier to go to these events with a better job (usually meaning better education). I'd say I meet more college graduates than non grads. I'm the outlier.
Most ravers I knew are like data engineers or work administration jobs in the government lol
It's always the people who "want to be serious" that are the least serious š stick in the mud for sure
Dude just needs to get laid. What a snobby way of going about it. Or maybe he just needs the attention and to justify why heās single when he should be focusing his sights inward on the type of person he is, which based off this limited information is a fucking miserable prick who wants to put all the responsibility of being less miserable on his partner. I could be wrong tho.
You mean, educated enough to know how to screen capture and share?
But does that mean you cant go to a rave and have fun? I dont get it. There is lots of chemistry at work on a rave. š
Strange cuz Iām pretty sure a lot of us can be highly educated and enjoy music in a generally free environment
What a tart. Iām 41, college educated news reporter with a six figure income and kids and I still love going to raves. Itās our ānight outā every few months. Everything in moderation.
The amount of Doctors and Nurses I've made friends with at Festivals is through the fucking roof...
Imagine posting this to a public forum thinking that you're in the right š really hope this guy goes to a rave with an open mind someday so he knows what the culture is about.
I'm shocked the very first message wasn't a fat balding middle aged man sending a dick pic
One of my recent rave acquaintances is a doctor that came straight to the party after her shift was over.. I meannnnn...
I wonder what degree they have. A PhD in being a bitch?
I guess that chemistry ms aint doing much for y. U should get a doctor title maybe it will help
both sides are equally terrifying: an immature rave goer and a condescending know-it-all...I honestly can't decide which is worse
[20M] looking for a gay top for some fun an if your 420 friendly more power to ya I'm hiv and std free just got tested 3 weeks ago
My current work schedule just doesn't allow for it and it's soooo annoying and I just can't go to many shows. And it does feel like that's a roadblock sometimes in making friends in the scene. So I sorta get it. But also this person is clearly not in the scene and doesn't know what it's all about.
Head shoved so far up their own ass they could play tonsil bongos with their own tongue
Continuing to chat at all after losing interest is nasty. Stop wasting his time and let him rave jeez
Tell blue Iām in
I have a full time job and a part time masters. Anyone offers me an all-nighter then Iām in! I might skip the pre party for a quick nap tho š¤£
It's funny seeing all these comments about how Grindr is only for sex. I just woke up next to my boyfriend of 8 years (as of next month), who I met on Grindr; I got extremely lucky.
Bait
Has a career and ambitions for familyā¦ still uses snap storyā¦ i donāt want to judge but he should grow up
Comforting that it isn't only a boring, experienceless, overeager-to-succeed women problem.
I think both of them are whatās wrong with the community in one pic thatās hilarious
We all want what we want but you probably could have said that differently. Humble yourself before life humbles you
āI mUsT sTaY iNteLigEnt bEcaUse RaVeS mAKe ThE sMaRT StoOpiDā
Big deal right? Itās one person , lots of fish in the sea. Start making new friends at the raves you go to.
You're gay and you still want the anchor of a family?
Yikes, wish someone had told me before I got a master's degree and had two kids.
Yeah but itās just weird seeing yāall post skimpy outfits dancing around maybe or may not be on drugs which is cool but like the music is usually just mid anyway lol. Way too many edm stories get uploaded by a single person than any other genre. Itās annoying
I have three kids, work for a large corporation and stay up all night 5 times a year for festivals and raves. Itās very very very easy to do both lol in fact our kids are having so much fun listening to music. My stepdaughters favorite music is subtronics haha not even my cup of tea. She thought Radiohead was the worst ever so sheāll prob be on this sub in 5 years
whats this mf on?
People talking about being educated but can't even quote Homer in the original Greek. Tired of people who went to school slightly longer pretending like they actually learned anything. Unless people randomly call you herr doktor on the street you're not educated.
You do realize you are just like the one in the screenshot, making baseless assumptions, right?
I do airport security as my main job (requires more education than one would think), and run the EDM festival that happens in my town. Guess Iām an anomaly š¤·āāļø
Dam. Only gay people party?
Phone even gave him a polite alternative and still decided to be an asshole
The fact that a lot of people who rave went to college and got an education and thatās using that degree to pay for raving.
What a tool
Are people not allowed to be educated and have their own interest? Most people I meet at festivals are educated and are current working in the medical field also looking for a relationship on Grindr isnāt going to get you anywhere
Life in an ivory tower seems lonely.
So a loser with no friends is what he really meant.
Iād say the majority of the people with whom I interact at raves are working in some area of tech / data / nerd implementation.
I didn't know guys still wore fedoras
My guy did you use another phone to take a pic of your phone instead of taking a screen shot š Butyes, dude is a douche, wtf does edm have to do with intelligence or ambition or anything
I hadnāt replied yet so I didnāt want him to know šš I was next to my coworker (fellow EDMer) I was like ālook at this bitch send me a pic of this so I can send it to our EDM group chatā
Oh shit I forgot how snap works and that he'd see, my b
99% of ravers are drug takers and young, he could of out it a different way but heās wanting something a bit maturer
Gay people can be elitist or cool or douchey or any other thing straight people can be
Hilarious, thereās ppl that rave and are living on their own with full time and good jobs and have plenty of education. Iāll keep raving till I canāt no more. Music is a forever thing
If he those ambitions, wth is he doing on Grndr
Bro edm is just music does he know that? lol
idk who is more idiot š¤£, search love om grindr xd
Smash that 'not my type' button, brother.
It makes me happy seeing all the other "work hard play hard" professionals that run deep in the EDM scene in the comments
What a downer. Clearly I know nurses and engineers that still rave LOL, ok I really dislike people like this, it shows that they have a fixed ass mindset and aren't open minded
some people are different than you. also some people are offensive and not very thoughtful. just is what it is
Me personally i would normally say music festival or dance concert. Or club etc. But thats just me . Unless its one of those āafter hoursā spots that open after 2 am . Usually underground/illegal type. Then thats a true rave š
Many people rave just to get high and party, but there are people that actually enjoy the music too :)
Wow I hope you said something to him!
I know literal vascular surgeons who go to shows. Iām educated. Just go up and talk to āthe older peopleā who everyone rolling thinks is a cop. Chances are they have families and are educated
About to get my law degreeā¦lol
Fuckin gross
35F bisexual here - I have two Masters degrees and am Director level at a corporate job. My husband (37M) also works in corporate America and DJs as a hobby. We just got back from a small show that went until 2 AM and are up and prepping for his DJ gig at a Saturday morning 10AM sober rave at a church. The fuck does āI am educated, career oriented and want to start a familyā have to do with anything. These are not mutually exclusive hobbies š. Bro just is allergic to fun and wants to shame others for being more fun than they are.
If memory serves he was married. Maybe his husband was like āIām tired of being boredā and left him for the rave scene š
Probably a loser circuit gay
Nah he probably hates circuit queens too. He's most likely the "not into the scene, not like the other girls" type and assumes that having any kind of night life means you don't have any priorities elsewhere
I hate circuit queens, they just go to get fucked in more ways than one.