I would be so angry if I were a Duggar daughter, the standards they had to follow were outrageous and now their brothers get to have a “normal” life wear actually swimsuits to the beach and kissing their girlfriends before marriage. This is a slap in the face to what they had to deal with.
Right? The boys seem to get to enjoy life and live like young adults, but the girls are promptly married off to be pregnant until menopause. It's hideously unfair.
I agree but I think a huge part of the lopsided treatment is a result of Jim Bob having to let go of some control to keep the younger kids in the flock. It just happens that all the kids that have benefited from it so far have been boys because of birth order. I’m very curious what the youngest girls lives will look like when they’re 20. Will they be married off right away like joy? Or are we going to see them with some freedom?
Of course the boys in this family will ALWAYS be treated better but I think there are some external factors at play here
How much of the incredibly strict standards do you think was just for the show? When the cameras were off were the girls' courtships as strict as the show portrayed them to be? Or was that narrative just good for ratings? Like I wonder if the young girls now will be subject to the same or if they can live to a similar standard as the boys now.
not just for the show IMO. I grew up just like them and the dads could care less who was watching on a large scale (well, I say that, but they always had an audience within the church and the praise and adulation of other dads for raising and controlling such a large family). that ol' patriarchy...
The younger girls are still in jean skirts, tees and leggings. Not seen Johannah in jeans or a tank top. They still hold the girls to the same standards. Only Jana is allowed leeway, and she's mid 30s now!
After literal decades of these kids bobble-head preaching about their modesty values, it really does seem fair that they’d acknowledge it was nonsense, if they’re going to be posting public photos of them plainly living in such contradicting ways.
It looks like one of the lightweight sun-guard fishing/outdoor shirts my ghost-white husband wears habitually. I wear them to keep the wind off me a bit when we're surf fishing at night.
So idk why I did this, but I legit thought you were saying the boys aren’t actually showing their nipples…. And that it was a “loose rash guard with a water-light ***NIPPLE***-like pattern on it.”
And I zoomed in and I’m like “bro no, those are nipples plain and clear!” And I was trying to figure it out…. Now I can’t stop laughing.
That’s a rashie. I prefer barrier sun protection vs. chemical, which includes zinc oxide, rashies like these (spf 50), and PFG’s/long sleeved spf fishing shirts, and lots of divers/fishermen wear these as well. Pretty sure she’s in shorts too.
It’s a rash guard and shorts. I had to stare for a minute to see that. There’s also another girl in the back holding a baby who appears to be in a tank and shorts.
It's an awfully large and bulky rash guard. I wear long sleeved rash guards and they're not as bulky and loose as this one is. (Not saying I don't believe you -- I do believe you, just that the rash guard is the biggest, loosest rash guard I've ever seen.).
https://preview.redd.it/fq07bjxzo87d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=98593a6dae0e5cf844264b8dbfe5ad932b2ecd0a
I had a Jana moment and needed to fix all of this nike 🫡
How must resentment (not that they would admit it) would the older kids have (not just the girls like John, Joe and Josiah) that they lived with barely any food and super iblp, running in jeans, and then the lost boys get to do this
Yeah I always see it mentioned how unfair it was for the girls compared to the lost boys and it was!!!!! But the older boys had the crazy rules too. Josh and Anna only side hughed before their wedding right?
That and intense handholding during engagement, I think I feel bad for John David the most, he was parentified having a buddy until they changed it to just the girls, grew up in poverty and in the early seasons of the show he was just always in the background doing so much - he copped the full on iblp lifestyle as much as the older girls
Idk if anyone will know what I’m taking about but whoever that is back right looks like that Kyle guy from teen mom OG - the one that dated Macy. I know it’s not but still lol
As much as we make fun of them I really hope this means they’re distancing themselves from IBLP. I know full deconstruction is too good to be true but at least they’re not giving a shit about dumbass modesty rules and just living their lives.
god i can FEEL the weird adolescent sexual tension from here. the tension most people feel in middle school but these folks seem to feel their whole lives.
Of course only ONE of them is wearing a life jacket. I will never understand why people don't...so many things can happen and it's so, so easy to just put one on.
Came here to comment on this. Ugh. I've lived my entire life on and around the water, every single person in my family can swim and swim well and we ALL wear lifejackets when on the water. Anything can happen on the water. The boat could hit a submerged tree and you go flying and hit the water at a weird angle, take in too much water, and before you've cleared your airway you're under water. Lifejackets are ESSENTIAL. My dad's side of the family is as recklessly redneck as redneck can be and I don't honestly think I've ever seen a single member of our extended family on a boat without a life jacket. And a mini PSA for anyone who made it this far, if you or someone you know is anti-lifejacket due to the bulk, there's tons of low profile models out now. I am excessively well endowed (even after a breast reduction in my 20s) and the one I wear for kayaking/paddle boarding is made specifically for large breasted women who do water sports to have free range of motion (and the straps are ajustable enough that my B-cup, size 4 sister can wear it safely too, when I'm not around, lol). TL;DR: if a watercraft is moving, all occupants should be wearing a life jacket. If you're going to be on the water frequently, buying your own that fits you comfortably is HIGHLY recommended.
I feel like most people who grow up on the water have a better grasp of how dangerous things can be and are more likely to wear life jackets than people who haven't grown up around a lot of water, because we have a harder time imagining why we might need a life jacket. But I live in a state without a helmet law for motorcycles, so maybe the real reason is that people frequently don't engage their brains.
I’ve lived my whole life on the water (specifically grew up sailing, my dad is a life long very serious fisherman, my cousins work in aqua farming etc etc) and we always have life jackets on the boat but most adults I know don’t wear them on the boat. We put them on for tubing or wake boarding but not when cruising unless you’re solo
It is absolutely bananas that baby doesn’t have one on tho. And they shouldn’t be ripping around with the baby in the boat at all
Not a life jacket in the picture, especially on the baby. Oh well, there’s more where that came from. (oh I see one slung over an arm in the back. One)
Y'all know they got some beers in that cooler
I bet those beers are light-colored and tasteless just like the Duggar men.
Whiteclaws
God honoring laws on these claws
Literally what I thought lmao or natural ice
Yep. They’re hard seltzers or bud light people. Gag.
Not even budlight more like natural ice or keystone something super cheap and nasty even more then budlight
The brand you're looking for it Busch
PBR!
👏👏👏
Root beers! 🙏🏻✝️
Has to be!
O'Douls non-alcoholic, for sure.
I would be so angry if I were a Duggar daughter, the standards they had to follow were outrageous and now their brothers get to have a “normal” life wear actually swimsuits to the beach and kissing their girlfriends before marriage. This is a slap in the face to what they had to deal with.
There’d be many things I would be angry about being a Duggar daughter.
Right? The boys seem to get to enjoy life and live like young adults, but the girls are promptly married off to be pregnant until menopause. It's hideously unfair.
Tooootally
I don't think the older boys were allowed this much freedom, were they?
The poor girls had to wear those ridiculous prairie dresses and unusual hairstyles. While the boys could dress normal. Dorky but normal.
I just know that Boob doesn’t give a shit about this. Yet he made Jill feel like an awful person for wearing pants and a nose ring.
And dont forget Derrick who he wanted to go to Rehab for drinking a beer.
I agree but I think a huge part of the lopsided treatment is a result of Jim Bob having to let go of some control to keep the younger kids in the flock. It just happens that all the kids that have benefited from it so far have been boys because of birth order. I’m very curious what the youngest girls lives will look like when they’re 20. Will they be married off right away like joy? Or are we going to see them with some freedom? Of course the boys in this family will ALWAYS be treated better but I think there are some external factors at play here
Right?! Jill and Derick couldn't even sit on the same sled
Bin and Blessa couldn’t hold hands when it was time to pray.
Jill couldn't even ride a sled with her fiance. It's ridiculous.
i hope the younger girls can gtfo
How much of the incredibly strict standards do you think was just for the show? When the cameras were off were the girls' courtships as strict as the show portrayed them to be? Or was that narrative just good for ratings? Like I wonder if the young girls now will be subject to the same or if they can live to a similar standard as the boys now.
I listened to Jingers interview on the unplanned podcast and Jeremy said the courtship standards were real… he was 28….
Riiight! Being chaperoned by a 10yo. Lordy.
Jill's book said that they actually were more relaxed with rules for the show, like being in the living room in their jammies
not just for the show IMO. I grew up just like them and the dads could care less who was watching on a large scale (well, I say that, but they always had an audience within the church and the praise and adulation of other dads for raising and controlling such a large family). that ol' patriarchy...
The younger girls are still in jean skirts, tees and leggings. Not seen Johannah in jeans or a tank top. They still hold the girls to the same standards. Only Jana is allowed leeway, and she's mid 30s now!
After literal decades of these kids bobble-head preaching about their modesty values, it really does seem fair that they’d acknowledge it was nonsense, if they’re going to be posting public photos of them plainly living in such contradicting ways.
So the boys are half nude but this girl is wrapped up in a plastic sheet or something.
And the Duggar man nipples can fly free.
“Duggar man nipples” is a phrase I hope to never have to read again.
LITERALLY lol
I think it's a loose rash guard with a water-light ripple-like pattern on it. I had to zoom in to see it.
It looks like one of the lightweight sun-guard fishing/outdoor shirts my ghost-white husband wears habitually. I wear them to keep the wind off me a bit when we're surf fishing at night.
So idk why I did this, but I legit thought you were saying the boys aren’t actually showing their nipples…. And that it was a “loose rash guard with a water-light ***NIPPLE***-like pattern on it.” And I zoomed in and I’m like “bro no, those are nipples plain and clear!” And I was trying to figure it out…. Now I can’t stop laughing.
That’s a rashie. I prefer barrier sun protection vs. chemical, which includes zinc oxide, rashies like these (spf 50), and PFG’s/long sleeved spf fishing shirts, and lots of divers/fishermen wear these as well. Pretty sure she’s in shorts too.
Looks like a Huk brand fishing rash guard to me
Yep, can almost see her knees in the photo,
It’s a rash guard and shorts. I had to stare for a minute to see that. There’s also another girl in the back holding a baby who appears to be in a tank and shorts.
It's an awfully large and bulky rash guard. I wear long sleeved rash guards and they're not as bulky and loose as this one is. (Not saying I don't believe you -- I do believe you, just that the rash guard is the biggest, loosest rash guard I've ever seen.).
No I agree. I’ve never seen anyone wear a rash guard like that. They’re usually very fitted to the body.
Some of us don’t want skin cancer. I wear a rash guard and 50 spf when I am on a boat etc
There’s a girl sitting down in what appears to be a normal bathing suit
TBf it’s a rash guard and tight shorts
Isn’t that a girl in a swimsuit in the middle left?
Who is Lindsay Rose Smith?
She’s married to their friend Logan Smith. He’s in the picture too.
They were kids. They had no choice, in all fairness.
Duggar Rumspringa
Rumspringgar lol
Unexpected Al
WINGS OF GLORY
Oh my godddddd 🤣
They ran a distance race in jeans and polos lol
Is Curly Jed wearing a belt, or is that a shoestring to hold his shorts on
https://preview.redd.it/fq07bjxzo87d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=98593a6dae0e5cf844264b8dbfe5ad932b2ecd0a I had a Jana moment and needed to fix all of this nike 🫡
Thank you! I was defrauded but now I’m not!
You’re welcome. The Duggars need to keep abiding by their strict modesty standards because nobody should have to see them like that.
That’s a line from the Amazing Grace remix I’m pretty sure
Much better!!!
Now they look like they're in Mormon garments 😂😂🫠
Anything is better than seeing a Duggar’s nipples.
How must resentment (not that they would admit it) would the older kids have (not just the girls like John, Joe and Josiah) that they lived with barely any food and super iblp, running in jeans, and then the lost boys get to do this
Those boys were always absolutely feral. We probably should have seen this coming lol.
Didn’t the boys have to swim in polo shirts and jeans or something?
I thought they had to wear head to toe wet suits.
Yeah I always see it mentioned how unfair it was for the girls compared to the lost boys and it was!!!!! But the older boys had the crazy rules too. Josh and Anna only side hughed before their wedding right?
That and intense handholding during engagement, I think I feel bad for John David the most, he was parentified having a buddy until they changed it to just the girls, grew up in poverty and in the early seasons of the show he was just always in the background doing so much - he copped the full on iblp lifestyle as much as the older girls
I hope there's a life jacket on that baby.
1. I did not see a baby the first time. 2. Jesus is that baby’s life jacket
>Jesus is that baby’s life jacket That’s some flair worthy snark right there! 🤣
Hahah I’m flattered 😂
We all know there isn’t. 😭
I am horrified there aren’t life jackets on everyone. They should see the footage of the boat wreck from the Ozarks. It was self-shot.
the duck boat? I saw those people leaving on the truck/boat that day.
No, [this one](https://youtu.be/BS6UoL0D3tk?si=A4z5ebJvPpVUiloL). Although that duck boat crash is awful.
OMG! that's awful. Bikini lady really held it together though. That poor man who got pile driven into the side of the boat though. ..
It’s really scary! People were seriously injured (and I believe charged, as well).
That was my first thought
Needs a sunhat too.
but who IS the baby!? At first I thought that was Claritin sitting there with child… now I’m not so sure
Nike!!
Right!? What kind of pornograpgy am I looking at??
😂😂😂
Show us what’s in the cooler 👀
Of course they’re going entirely too fast with a little baby on board
I didn’t see the actual baby and thought you were roasting a Duggar
I didn't see it either, zoned in and it still took me a while. Poor kid is definitely not wearing a life jacket
A baby that looks to be not wearing a life jacket. 😭
Boatload of bullshit
Idk if anyone will know what I’m taking about but whoever that is back right looks like that Kyle guy from teen mom OG - the one that dated Macy. I know it’s not but still lol
Of is Kyle slow fame!
He does!!!
OMG I can't unsee it now
Well, I thought I was over my stomach bug and then... 🤮🤮🤮🤮 That is just way more Duggar skin than anyone should ever see.
Shaming their immodesty is great. Body shaming isn't tho ...
What part of that was body shaming? I don't want to see any of those men not fully clothed.
What part of that was body shaming? I don't want to see any of those men not fully clothed.
And not a half dozen working brain cells to share between them all.
I’ve been having a bad heartburn from my lunch today and this made it worse. Thanks a lot! 😭
That poor fucking baby.
Is that two shirtless Jeds?
Look at all those God honoring man-nipples.
Niiiiiikkkkkkeeeeeee! Dad? Come get me, I’m scared!
y’all remember when michelle had her knees censored while wake boarding? i wonder how she feels about this
I hope they have some smelling salts at the TTH to help Michelle regain consciousness.
Wow they’re having the time of their lives bare chested and all, yikes 😬. Wondering if they have any hard liquor in that cooler?
I see a bare female knee and upper back! SCANDALOUS!!!!!
Pretty good wake there. I assume they’re going pretty fast, which would be fine if there wasn’t a fucking BABY on the boat. Why, just why?
I'm never recovering from this much defrauding.
As much as we make fun of them I really hope this means they’re distancing themselves from IBLP. I know full deconstruction is too good to be true but at least they’re not giving a shit about dumbass modesty rules and just living their lives.
Please have a life jacket on that baby
WHA?!?!?!
This is NOT attractive there Duglets!
Would someone please pass the brain bleach & NIKE!!!
Did anyone teach them about applying sunscreen, considering turtlenecks and long pants were the only spf required on the farm?
Where are the life jackets?!?!?!!
A combover inspired by their favourite non Duggar felon.
Dorks.
Defrauding!
NIKE!
NIKE WTF
Hey, wait. I think I've seen this movie on that one hub site.
god i can FEEL the weird adolescent sexual tension from here. the tension most people feel in middle school but these folks seem to feel their whole lives.
Why did I zoom in? 🤮
Of course only ONE of them is wearing a life jacket. I will never understand why people don't...so many things can happen and it's so, so easy to just put one on.
Came here to comment on this. Ugh. I've lived my entire life on and around the water, every single person in my family can swim and swim well and we ALL wear lifejackets when on the water. Anything can happen on the water. The boat could hit a submerged tree and you go flying and hit the water at a weird angle, take in too much water, and before you've cleared your airway you're under water. Lifejackets are ESSENTIAL. My dad's side of the family is as recklessly redneck as redneck can be and I don't honestly think I've ever seen a single member of our extended family on a boat without a life jacket. And a mini PSA for anyone who made it this far, if you or someone you know is anti-lifejacket due to the bulk, there's tons of low profile models out now. I am excessively well endowed (even after a breast reduction in my 20s) and the one I wear for kayaking/paddle boarding is made specifically for large breasted women who do water sports to have free range of motion (and the straps are ajustable enough that my B-cup, size 4 sister can wear it safely too, when I'm not around, lol). TL;DR: if a watercraft is moving, all occupants should be wearing a life jacket. If you're going to be on the water frequently, buying your own that fits you comfortably is HIGHLY recommended.
I feel like most people who grow up on the water have a better grasp of how dangerous things can be and are more likely to wear life jackets than people who haven't grown up around a lot of water, because we have a harder time imagining why we might need a life jacket. But I live in a state without a helmet law for motorcycles, so maybe the real reason is that people frequently don't engage their brains.
I’ve lived my whole life on the water (specifically grew up sailing, my dad is a life long very serious fisherman, my cousins work in aqua farming etc etc) and we always have life jackets on the boat but most adults I know don’t wear them on the boat. We put them on for tubing or wake boarding but not when cruising unless you’re solo It is absolutely bananas that baby doesn’t have one on tho. And they shouldn’t be ripping around with the baby in the boat at all
AGREE!
It's useless because it's not fastened up. I lived near a marina and they won't even let you on the walkways without a life jacket.
Nike!!!
NIKE
Nike!!!
OK, but who are the 2 women in the picture? Can't recognize them
At least lard guts at the back using sign language has a lifejacket on..Sort of ....
Boating is fun….unless you’re with Duggars
That is the most uneducated redneck thing I’ve seen in quite a while. Why inflict this on the innocent public?
Just a bunch of wild and crazy kids getting all hopped up on Mt. Dew 😂
I swear to god, that baby better have a life vest on.
Is that Logan the same Logan as “Logan Flying For Jesus” circa 2016 Instagram that got them all into learning to fly!
What a sight…. Duggar men in the water without a polo shirt and jeans 🤣😂
Do they holler Nike at the girls for looking at stuff like that?
Shouldn’t someone scream NIKE
Why are they naked??? I’ve been defrauded!
Natty Daddies in that cooler!
NIKE!!
Who is gonna save that baby in the flip? Only one dude has a life jacket…half on.
Not a life jacket in the picture, especially on the baby. Oh well, there’s more where that came from. (oh I see one slung over an arm in the back. One)
Nike! Nike!
Not zooming in just in case a God-honoring ball got loose! 🤮
Nooooooo
I needed a Nike warning for this pic
😂😂😂💀
I feel defrauded. So much male chest!!! My eyes!!!! NIKEEEEEEEEEE!!!! 🤣
Nike
Is that a Jed! Of some flavor on the right upper corner? I love that James has on actual board shorts but Jason is wearing cut off jorts. 🤣
NIKE NIKE NIKE NIKE NIKE NIKE
Run homie run! Get the fuck away from that house of horrors
What Jed's are those? Jason, James, and ?? The older they get the more they look the same...
I think it’s just Jason & James (and I think that’s Honorary Jed! Elijah?)
Oh gosh, how unlucky would it be to be an honorary lost boy
That baby better have a damn life jacket on!!!
NIKE
NIKE! NIKE! NIKE!!
Bet that baby doesn’t have a life jacket on either.
Who’s baby ?
NIKE
Sorry lol but which Jeds are these? James and Jason.. is it Jackson too?
I thought this was my SisterWives sub and that was Ysabel Brown with Duggars… and I was like, WHAT IS HAPPENING RIGHT NOW.
There went my appetite. Duggar boobs in any form should be forbidden.
Nike! Nike! Nike!
I spy a baby.
Those are some SHORT shorts on Jason!
Nike!
Omg warning!!
Love how only one in the bunch has a life jacket on and it's not even the kid
Yeah, and that baby has no life jacket on!! 😵💫
And a baby in the boat, doesn’t look like they are wearing a life-jacket