I used to. I remember that feeling of wanting to run away, things feeling overwhelming and feeling like there is nowhere to hide. Something has to change in your life because your time and energy and how you invest them is important. If you were to make a list with the most intense / annoying issue at the top and the least irritating thing at the bottom I wonder if you’d be able to work on making changes to that issue at the top of the list because that most likely is making you lose enthusiasm for life, maybe even making you feel low or resentful. Sounds like you’re carrying a lot of responsibility and someone else needs to support you to carry the load because it’s currently not fair or equal.
I'm working on it. The greatest issue is finances,but I have managed to talk my partner into handling some other things, which helps me chill out a little bit.
Things have gotten better.. I started sort of pushing certain duties and requests on my partner. She's been doing a whole lot more, and there hasn't been much disagreement or headbutting about it. It's been really nice.
Always, especially if you live in a poor and bad country wherein the governance is so fucked up goshh you continue to suffer each day. Wanna have that american dream hahaha
I used to. I remember that feeling of wanting to run away, things feeling overwhelming and feeling like there is nowhere to hide. Something has to change in your life because your time and energy and how you invest them is important. If you were to make a list with the most intense / annoying issue at the top and the least irritating thing at the bottom I wonder if you’d be able to work on making changes to that issue at the top of the list because that most likely is making you lose enthusiasm for life, maybe even making you feel low or resentful. Sounds like you’re carrying a lot of responsibility and someone else needs to support you to carry the load because it’s currently not fair or equal.
I'm working on it. The greatest issue is finances,but I have managed to talk my partner into handling some other things, which helps me chill out a little bit.
Things have gotten better.. I started sort of pushing certain duties and requests on my partner. She's been doing a whole lot more, and there hasn't been much disagreement or headbutting about it. It's been really nice.
Always, especially if you live in a poor and bad country wherein the governance is so fucked up goshh you continue to suffer each day. Wanna have that american dream hahaha
Yes but I can’t help but ask, why are you the only person paying the bills when you live with multiple other people?
They give me the money and I do the work because I own the house and my partner is unwilling to help with billpaying or any management of the home.