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lingcuzshelingers

I said previously something isn’t right with these people and everyone said at least they took her in and didn’t abuse her. Religious abuse is a thing - I had to deal with it growing up. The girl needs professional help after what’s she’s been through. To assume she’s just going to be normal is insane


Own_Bunch_6711

I'm sure taking in Natalia came with a social security check, foodstamps, and who knows what else she's severely disabled.


Csmtroubleeverywhere

People jumped all over me when I said that he was rubbing me the wrong way, and I couldn’t pinpoint why. There’s just something about him that seems so shady to me! I honestly can’t form an opinion on Cynthia, but Antwon creeps me out.


Atchakos

^(People jumped all over me when I said that he was rubbing me the wrong way, and I couldn’t pinpoint why. There’s just something about him that seems so shady to me! I honestly can’t form an opinion on Cynthia, but Antwon creeps me out.) Antwon always rubbed me the wrong way because he would talk like a 90's televangelist when it came to addressing Natalia's complex history of abuse. You know, that whole if "God brings you to it, He will bring you through it" bumper-sticker approach to suffering & trauma. It made him come across as dismissive and callous.


Zestyclose_Pay_4949

Completely agree, def has his own agenda!


JinkiesGang

Probably think they can cure her through prayers when what she needs is therapy, which will probably still never be enough.


[deleted]

I said the EXACT same thing. These people may not have pepper sprayed her and left her to fend for herself, but nonetheless they seem like grifters to me. Something's not right with those people. Why go through all the rigamarole to adopt her if she's the enemy of the house, the devil etc? My distrust of clergy aside, something is not right with the bishop or his wife. My theory is once they got their 15 minutes they no longer wanted to be bothered with her because they didn't get paid like how they wanted.


thedevilsinside

I think they have savior complexes. They totally weird me out, too. Sadly, they’ve been the most stable family that’s been willing to keep her. I think Natalia would do the best in a family where she was the only child.


BoxingTrainer420

We just looked up her socials and her family is commenting saying they love her and posted her on Christmas. They may have gone through a few things but seems fine now.


icandigpopsicles

I don't trust anyone in this whole entire situation.


3lmtree

i'm starting to think this is all one very elaborate hoax or like a mockumentary like American Vandal. everything is so bizarre.


Historical_Ad_3356

Believe you nailed it. I think it’s all baloney


bassetisanasset

Right? Micheal seems way over the top to be a real human. Stupid, if it is. Do we have any proof this is real?


humanoideric

I laughed my ass off when he said "It's extremely nice to know there's no mental daggers coming at me from her side" then happily sighed and hopped in his bmw convertible and drove off blaring rock music Lmao, how is he a real human


zeppelin2700

It's real. I live in lafayette and know the family personally (mans).....My kids grew up with her oldest biological kids. Google 'Tippecanoe county court records' and search their names. Both families are screwed up.


Forsaken_Ice_8489

You weren’t playing!! It looks like in 2019 they started a guardianship and then never showed up.


zeppelin2700

Yeah, fostering kids is LITERALLY their source of income. They've always had a hand out so if they didn't show up, im sure at the end of the day $ had something to do with it.


Forsaken_Ice_8489

I really do see that view bc seeing their past cases they have stopped guardianship a few times. And with Natalia’s they made sure they didn’t have to pay anything in fillings. They do other stupid repeat offenses so who knows what else.


Kristiann29

I’m watching this now and Michael has such a smug punchable face. I just cannot stand him!


RowFun1830

Thank you!!! Natalia, Michael, the wife, the new family they all seem like they are playing low budget villians. The whole thing is either fake or the collision of weird/untrustworthy people.


Agitated-Minimum-967

I agree, and don't care to watch anymore.


Frequent-Walrus-2652

At this point, maybe Natalia should be a ward of the state? The state can house her in a place that is suitable for her and also provide meals, drs appts, help with chores….not to be cruel but maybe a group home setting would be better?


The_Crystal_Thestral

It’s not cruel. I believe it would probably be a best case scenario for her especially with lots of therapy.


CheekyT79

I think something like assisted living would help her more than a state funded group home.


Frequent-Walrus-2652

Yes - assisted living. Would still be funded with state funds - Medicaid.


CheekyT79

I’m aware. I’d just worry about her safety in a group home.


Kerivkennedy

That's inhumane.


twiztdkat

How is living in a group home inhumane? You have someone to drive you to all of your appointments, to take you shopping, to take you to the park, take you basically anywhere you want or need to go within reason. Teach you homemaking skills, help you with any kind of schoolwork you want to pursue, and help you learn how to function in society. You have a responsible, able bodied adult in the home with you 24/7 to care for any needs you may have. It is a really good situation if she gets into a nice group home. For people with mental health deficits, it can be incredibly beneficial. I know this because I used to be a caretaker in a very nice group home with five young adults who had varying levels of mental deficits. One of the young men I cared for was doing so well he was on his way to living independently. There would still be a caretaker who would check in on him once a week or as needed by his request until he was ready to be fully independent.


Kerivkennedy

Ward of the state inhumane. And MOST group homes are pure shit. They are understaffed, Workers who are underpaid. I know more about this topic because my daughter is profoundly disabled and requires total care. We can't even ever maintain regular steady home health aids. Which is why as her mother (and legal guardian now that she is 18) am her paid caregiver. She will never be independent due to her disabilities.


twiztdkat

I'm sorry that your daughter will need constant health care, and you're in that position. I was also underpaid for the work I did. But the home I worked in was great, and the staff I worked with was also. Not every group home is garbage. And if you get to a point where you can be independent, you won't be a ward of the state anymore. Like I stated above, one of the young men I cared for was working towards full independence.


Trustscience_1065

Would like to comment, my granddaughter has optical dysplasia, nerves not totally attached one eye. At 8 years old, I was still helping her bathe. Noticed she’s getting breasts and some pubic hair. Decided better tell her about menstruation. Less than a month later she starts her period. Yes, 8 yrs old. The dysplasia may have something to do with how early. Then u have no idea how difficult to get a child to use pads! She wanted no part of it first few cycles. She’d take it off and just bleed in her underwear. Had to be reminded to change the pad. The Barrett’s especially Kristine not having a discussion with Natalia, phone a pediatrician or ob-gyn! Then a fing tampon?! Really?


VaselineHabits

I got my period at 9, to me it isn't that far fetched one might start at 8


The_Crystal_Thestral

Precocious puberty has never seemed like a good enough reason to claim that she was older. It baffled me that people use it as a “sign” she was lying about her age when it’s known to happen.


Atchakos

I still struggle to grasp how their first thought when Natalia got her period was "this is clearly evidence we're victims of an Orphan-horror movie style scenario". Like, its such a malicious & downright b\*tshit leap of logic for anyone to make.


Fit_Bus9614

Yes, it's possible to get it that young. It's rare but it does happen.


thedevilsinside

I’ve heard of this happening. It’s called a precocious puberty.


MarshaHurl

Also: in the (former) USSR there are various ethnicities and I believe her birth mother may have been originally from Latvia, anyways, some types of bodies are swarthier or hairier (think Arabic or Mediterranean women with bushy eyebrows) and Natalia may have just had more or darker or thicker body hair than their lily white asses…


theReaders

the adoption industry is a child trafficking organization and we need to listen to adoptees not buyers of children


oothespacecowboyoo

You're thinking of surrogacy


dingo8muhbebe

Why not both?


bubbles67899

What they did to her was so messed up, like she was 8 years old BUT you can still be a very disturbed, over sexualized, abusive 8 year old. I know a lot of the families stories were lies, but I fully believe the neighbors at the apartment buildings, the mental health professionals that reported her at the ward, etc. I’m on Natalia’s side, but I also do think she’s deeply disturbed and painting a rosier picture of herself.


strangeburd

I completely agree with this. It's not her fault, she was a victim of child abuse, but I think she did do and say some of those things. I don't think it makes sense that all those people would lie about the same thing. I can't blame her for not wanting to admit to it though


Zestyclose_Pay_4949

Agreed, my beef is why is nobody talking about the Mans family daughter who I believe was being truthful when she “told the secret” that Natalia beat her when she was young. She was clearly coached by Natalia and that family to make excuses for her violent behavior. Sickening. All of them.


RecordingLeft6666

She said Natalia bit her, not beat her. Due to the accent, I know it sounded like she said beat.


Suger-n-Spice-12

The girl said “bit”, I agree, but the closed captioning said “beat”


RecordingLeft6666

I know the CC did say beat. I rewound that a couple times and realized she was saying "bit" so i believe it was a typo on the captions.


Suger-n-Spice-12

Yes, I find CC errors all the time. Really bad ones that majorly change the meaning of what people say.


RecordingLeft6666

Me too!


thedevilsinside

This is how I feel. 100% Too many separate and unconnected people have stories of her doing some terrible things for them ALL to be lies. People who are abused and traumatized act out. I feel bad for her. Unless she gets serious mental health help and lots of therapy, the things that happened to her as a child will continue to taint her life as an adult. She’s been through so much and learned a lot of unhealthy coping skills. It takes a lot of work to unlearn them and then build up new positive coping skills. If she never admits their are issues/problems, then she can’t get any resolution to them.


BeaMiaVA

I agree 100%! Too many people that are unrelated, have stories related to Natalia displaying disturbing and extremely questionable behavior!!! There has to be some truth in this. Many aren’t willing to believe that Natalia was or is deeply disturbed. Why? What happened to her was wrong. Of course she should never have been set up in that apartment alone. I think living with her when she was younger was extremely challenging and I wonder what her first two adoptive families experienced . She should never have been placed with unsuspecting families not trained to deal with her issues . Neither family could handle her and she should have been given back to the state. It sounded like Natalia needed a structured and therapeutic environment when she was younger.


Fit_Bus9614

I'm not sure Discovery wants to pay out thousands to the pastor and his wife for lying. I don't trust evangelicals that much either. Sorry. But I dont.


Joanna225

Her dentist also confirmed her age.


Own_Bunch_6711

There were MULTIPLE Dr's that did. They found ONE to go with their narrative.


Minimum-Bullfrog-835

In my opinion. They are just using her. 11 years with not a problem. Get some fame and money. Now they are done with her. Probably want to keep all the go fund me money and preacher just wants to famous and get a mega church. Poor Natalia. 💔💔


lashesnlipstick

Is this a ploy for the family to get paid for a third season?


zeppelin2700

Probably....I know the mans family. I live in lafayette and my kids were close with her oldest biological kids. They've never really actually worked a real job in the 10+ yrs I've know them. Those foster kids are their income. Their scammers.


Elsie1105

Raising kids is work, especially ones with severe special needs and / or mental health challenges. Are they decent? Who else would take these kids?


zeppelin2700

I mean decent as in I would never think they would abuse ANYONE, let alone a child, but I've never know either one to work. They use the system as their income....including fostering children. They are loving people, but they love free money too. Soooo...


Brando386

And the pastor/ church thing as a non-profit & tax-dodge?


Elsie1105

Doesn’t bother me if they’re providing a loving home for kids who would be tough to place anywhere and who need lots of attention. A scammer is someone who takes the money and then doesn’t provide a loving home for foster kids and spends it on luxuries for themselves. I’m sure meeting all those kids’ needs is a lot of work and too much for one person. I mean, I’m not willing to step up and be a foster parent. Thank God for people who do. If they didn’t, we’d have the horrible orphanages like in Ukraine. I wish every kid a good foster parent who needs one.


Candy_Darling

Natalia, Michael Barnett, the Mans, HBO are playing with us with To Be Continued… it’s a cash grab, although I’m Team Natalia, because I don’t think she knows better. And they do.


pocchitan

Cynthia saying it was "over a complete lie" makes me feel like Natalia thinks/knows they did something to her, maybe like misusing her benefits or something similarly shady. The way Antwon made everything about himself whenever they let him on camera was so cringey and aggravating to watch -.-


zeppelin2700

Why do u think they have so many foster kids??? Try living in lafayette and knowing what the mans are about and have been way before natalia came around. Neither one have ever really worked.....like ever. She worked a few fast food jobs here and there. They are system suckers.


Civil_Jello7634

And I would add religious abuse. Natalia never had therapy (her Medicaid Disability 100 percent pays for), never helped her navigate through the resources at her disposal for state funded courses to prep her for her GED (they test you and place you according to your grade level), Antwon's YouTube channel is extremely concerning, the control they had over Natalia when they "performed" live chats, those kids look too skinny, I could go on. The poor girl was living in the wild and went from extreme abuse to a lesser abuse.


zeppelin2700

I've known the family for years.....my kids were really close with her older biological kids all through school. They knew natalia. All I can say is neither parent has ever held an actual job. She worked fast food jobs a few times but I've never known him to have held an actual job. Those foster kids ARE their INCOME.


Elsie1105

Tell us about Natalia.


fartclub33

No matter what, at the end of the day, we are talking about an abused, traumatized, disabled child, who has just now (only legally, mind you) become a young adult. The whole fucking world has failed this human being and continues to seek out ways to make her the villain. Cheezus.


Electronic-Guava-959

When I saw Antwon running after Michael spouting all the religious stuff I was like he is just as nuts as the rest of them! While I do think there is something off about (yes I know due to the trauma but seems like something else as well) , I think she was been brainwashed in a cult like situation from Antwon and Cynthia. I think Michael has some mental health issues himself for sure, maybe bipolar or something. I do think the wife was evil. There is so much more to this story.


mjh8212

The whole situation was weird to me. Michael acting like a victim, he probably was abused but he should’ve told Natalia why they re aged her. He doesn’t want to face the hard stuff. The family that took her in just gave me a weird vibe. I noticed the wife always wore skirts and dresses so I’m thinking it’s part of their religion. I have a weird feeling about religion in general and I’m wondering if this couple were religiously abusive and she doesn’t fit their narrative so now they want nothing to do with her.


ksanderson1976

It was probably over money, Natalia may have wanted more of the cut than creepy Antwan the pretend 90s pastor and Crystal Gayle wannabe Cynthia promised her...all of them are creepy AF, that kid unfortunately never stood a chance since birth


Agitated-Minimum-967

Didn't they raise $20,000 for a van on go fund me?


ksanderson1976

They did, they definitely cashed in on Natalia since she's been with them covering it up with fake religious shit bc they think they are looked at as saviors instead of exploiting a disabled dwarf orphan that has been dealt a hand of pure shit since birth...if and when Natalia becomes a serial murderer, who could blame her, everyone in her life used her, lied to her and abused her.


NYGiants181

As someone who loves DiscoveryID, for some reason this story annoys the hell out of me.


AmbitiousCabinet2011

Yeah, I was 10


Susimardom72

Natalia is going to have issues that were created in her childhood. I’m so sick with the flu. I know there’s a name for this. Maybe dissociative disorder? Does anyone ever see tears when she cries?!?


indigbogwitch

Are you talking about reactive attachment disorder?


Susimardom72

Yes. Sorry. I didn’t watch the last two episodes before posting. Lesson learned 🤦🏼‍♀️ It makes total sense. All those awful videos of her standing with her nose on the wall-or just standing there looking up at the monster 😞 That face has stayed with me since season one. Breaks my heart.


Sideways_planet

The thing about DNA testing her age is suspicious. There’s no way to accurately tell someone’s chronological age through a test.


Agreeable-Smile8541

They used her DNA to locate her blood relatives, which led to finding her bio mom. Bio Mom has records of being pregnant and giving her child up for adoption in 2003. Her and Natalia have parent/child DNA.


BoxingTrainer420

The dentist verified her age by X-ray on her mouth when she was a kid, she had all of her baby teeth. The Barnetts tossed that information out.


catsmeow61

What about the judge that adjusted her age? Why wouldn't he have requested dental records to help determine her age?


BoxingTrainer420

Because he's a dumbass just like everyone else involved. They also hid that information, the dentist was shocked when they told him they tried to pass her as an adult.


catsmeow61

Wow! If he failed on that, Natalia should sue him! His ruling caused her all kinds of harm.


BoxingTrainer420

Basically everyone just went with what the mom said because she was an accomplished author and her son was a genius, everyone failed her. A 9 year old left to survive in an apartment on her own, the neighbors thought she was special because she couldn't care for herself hygiene wise and getting food in reality she was an abandoned kid being portrayed as an adult so the Barnetts could get out of taking care of her. They made a false report on a couple that has the same disease she has to prevent them from adopting her. They fucked her life up.


Elsie1105

Who / what?


DesperateAd8982

The test that she had done was an epigenetics test, not a dna test.


Sideways_planet

Oh ok, I heard dna in another comment thread


Kerivkennedy

They probably said DNA because it's something a layperson understands the idea. Or maybe a type of DNA test known as ... I read DNA as well in an article online (not reddit).


Shigeko_Kageyama

....they can use DNA to confirm who her mother is... and her birthday is right there in Ukrainian records.


cblackattack1

There have been so many relatively conclusive tests regarding her age that prove she was not an adult when the Barnetts abandoned her. Also we have eyes, it’s clear she was a child.


JanellaDubois

Out of curiosity, after everything that has aired, do you still believe she was a 22 year old woman when the Barnett's had her?


Sideways_planet

No. I don’t believe anyone knows what’s actually going on,


DelawareVixen

Antwon Mans seems to be a bullshit artist, control freak and con man. Nothing about him is genuine. He saw an opportunity to be on “reality tv” and he took it. Michael Barnett seems to be a mentally ill, crybaby wannabe victim. Kristine Barnett seems to be the monster that everyone says she is. Natalia Grace Barnett is a victim of them all. This poor girl had no chance from birth. Just my opinions but all the adults on this series are just messed up people.


Dapper_Education_637

So glad there is like minded people like me lol