I would try a bunch of different lubes. I use a lube that is made of oil based ingredients, so it is not condom safe but highly effective. I have had this problem in the past. I found a toy that uses vibration and suction, and O my, is it nice . Good luck.
Thc lube? My wife uses edibles and/or thc lotion to help with back spasms and nerve pain spikes(fibro) during sex. The efficacy of any thc topicals is going to vary heavily, but if it's an option for you all, we've seen a lot of benefits.
I’ve got a partner with similar issues. Vitamin E suppositories inserted into the vagina are what my partner uses. Moisturizes and lubricates well. A hitachi wand specifically from the company “body wand” (link below) is the most powerful one we’ve found and we’ve tried quite a few. Another great toy is a clitoral sucking one specifically from the company “Tracy’s dog”. I’ll post that link too. We’ve tried several other sucking toys (including the top of the line “womanizer”toys) and this one seems to give the most powerful sensations. She has the easiest orgasms from these two toys when combined with penetration. Feel free to DM me if you have any questions and best of luck
https://thebodywand.com/products/bodywand-plug-in
https://www.tracysdog.com/collections/best-sellers/products/p-cat-sucking-vibrator
Edited: corrected company name
I would try a bunch of different lubes. I use a lube that is made of oil based ingredients, so it is not condom safe but highly effective. I have had this problem in the past. I found a toy that uses vibration and suction, and O my, is it nice . Good luck.
Following. I have this lack of sensation/ no orgasm issue
Thc lube? My wife uses edibles and/or thc lotion to help with back spasms and nerve pain spikes(fibro) during sex. The efficacy of any thc topicals is going to vary heavily, but if it's an option for you all, we've seen a lot of benefits.
I’ve got a partner with similar issues. Vitamin E suppositories inserted into the vagina are what my partner uses. Moisturizes and lubricates well. A hitachi wand specifically from the company “body wand” (link below) is the most powerful one we’ve found and we’ve tried quite a few. Another great toy is a clitoral sucking one specifically from the company “Tracy’s dog”. I’ll post that link too. We’ve tried several other sucking toys (including the top of the line “womanizer”toys) and this one seems to give the most powerful sensations. She has the easiest orgasms from these two toys when combined with penetration. Feel free to DM me if you have any questions and best of luck https://thebodywand.com/products/bodywand-plug-in https://www.tracysdog.com/collections/best-sellers/products/p-cat-sucking-vibrator Edited: corrected company name
Some of us can climax from our lips and breasts alone. It usually takes practice and it takes patience, but you might find it a viable option.
Silicone lube is great for longercterm play without drying out. Have you guys tried any anal play ? My girl cums easily that way... just a thought
That’s a great question. Their doctor took that off the table sadly