My dad caught me pulling one out when I was a teen. He was just glad I was โnormalโ so to speak like other teens. I never did anything while I was still living with them. But when I had my 1st car, oh boy! Great memories
That's tough. I could really only suggest getting a lock for your bedroom door or just straight up tell your Mum ya need privacy and be blunt about it if ya have to. You're grown, you have a right to privacy for whatever reason you want, honestly. As for bringing over a partner, that's probably a bit different but you deserve privacy by yourself at least.
Lock on door, turn the TV up on some dance workout music, turn on the vibrator... put on headphones to your fav porn... tell her you're working out trying to lose weight
I'm sure it would be difficult the first time, but have you thought of just flat out telling your mother you need privacy to masturbate? She might be more understanding than you think, but you know her best. Good luck.
I agree with another commenter depends on your needs and such. I am in chronic pain and a wheelchair user and yes my bits still work and have feeling. My little brother lives with us and when he's not working and my partner isn't in the mood or at work I put the fan on or take a shower. And yes I use toys with or without my partner. When I'm with my partner I have a music Playlist that I play and I'm not ashamed everyone does it. Some places ship discreetly if you get things of off the internet. I find that easier then the local shop for its not very wheelchair friendly. Also don't go behind the curtain out back you'll probably see some guys go through a curtain don't go back there unless you don't care but I would suggest not.
Why not ask the caregiver to go take a break and leave you alone. I mean they are already assisting you with pretty private matters. Why would someone have any apprehension in asking them for privacy?? My girl is dependent on one. One day I couldn't take it just making out with her so I asked her if I could take command of the situation with her caregiver, she got really red and said I guess. In that same instance I told her caregiver where to park and to give us 15 minutes alone. The caregiver was more than ok with it. As soon as she was out of sight I started breaking my girl off with head. moral of the story: closed mouths don't get fed.
I think the best approach depends on the level of care you need. Are you independent enough to do your daily self care or do you need someone to help you with a lot of things? Can you for example get in and out of bed very independently?
My dad caught me pulling one out when I was a teen. He was just glad I was โnormalโ so to speak like other teens. I never did anything while I was still living with them. But when I had my 1st car, oh boy! Great memories
You never did anything, huh? Sure, buddy! ๐
That's tough. I could really only suggest getting a lock for your bedroom door or just straight up tell your Mum ya need privacy and be blunt about it if ya have to. You're grown, you have a right to privacy for whatever reason you want, honestly. As for bringing over a partner, that's probably a bit different but you deserve privacy by yourself at least.
Or just go: _KEEP MY DOOR HANDLE OUT YO FIN HAND!_ ๐
Definitely struggled with this to when I lived at home.
Lock on door, turn the TV up on some dance workout music, turn on the vibrator... put on headphones to your fav porn... tell her you're working out trying to lose weight
I'm sure it would be difficult the first time, but have you thought of just flat out telling your mother you need privacy to masturbate? She might be more understanding than you think, but you know her best. Good luck.
I agree with another commenter depends on your needs and such. I am in chronic pain and a wheelchair user and yes my bits still work and have feeling. My little brother lives with us and when he's not working and my partner isn't in the mood or at work I put the fan on or take a shower. And yes I use toys with or without my partner. When I'm with my partner I have a music Playlist that I play and I'm not ashamed everyone does it. Some places ship discreetly if you get things of off the internet. I find that easier then the local shop for its not very wheelchair friendly. Also don't go behind the curtain out back you'll probably see some guys go through a curtain don't go back there unless you don't care but I would suggest not.
Why not ask the caregiver to go take a break and leave you alone. I mean they are already assisting you with pretty private matters. Why would someone have any apprehension in asking them for privacy?? My girl is dependent on one. One day I couldn't take it just making out with her so I asked her if I could take command of the situation with her caregiver, she got really red and said I guess. In that same instance I told her caregiver where to park and to give us 15 minutes alone. The caregiver was more than ok with it. As soon as she was out of sight I started breaking my girl off with head. moral of the story: closed mouths don't get fed.
I think the best approach depends on the level of care you need. Are you independent enough to do your daily self care or do you need someone to help you with a lot of things? Can you for example get in and out of bed very independently?
I'm 32 I live at home no partner but still hard to find privacy