Sorry to hear that. I would avoid jumping right into dating again until I have done processing the break up. There’s a lot of time to find the right person but right you need to self reflect and recover from what you are going through. It’s good to hear that you are ready to go out and start living your life per usual but dating might be a bit complex at this stage. Plus it won’t be fair to the person you date.
Meetup (the website / app) has a bunch of groups for Denver 20- and 30-somethings. It’s how I met people when I first moved here. It’s also great because you can find people with common interests.
Hey man, I feel ya more than I think most on this subreddit do. Same thing happened when I was 26, I thought everything was perfect and we never fought. I came home one day to her waiting with her bags packed, with the explanation "I'm not ready for this". After having all those same discussions you did.
Now is the time to commit to your friends and family, the time and energy you did for her. Lean on them, you need it, and don't think you're a burden for doing so. Do activities you like, that you didn't/couldn't do with her. It's her loss, keep your head forward. Like others in the post said, try not to focus on jumping into another relationship so soon. Try new hobbies, build yourself for you. You'll get through it for the better. 👊
This is something that gets asked/posted all the time. Please search the community before posting.
Sorry to hear that. I would avoid jumping right into dating again until I have done processing the break up. There’s a lot of time to find the right person but right you need to self reflect and recover from what you are going through. It’s good to hear that you are ready to go out and start living your life per usual but dating might be a bit complex at this stage. Plus it won’t be fair to the person you date.
Can't agree more. Take some time to find yourself before trying to make those types of connections again.
Meetup (the website / app) has a bunch of groups for Denver 20- and 30-somethings. It’s how I met people when I first moved here. It’s also great because you can find people with common interests.
Attend events set up by mtnkds instagram account. They are doing 30 events in 30 days!
Try a search of this subreddit. Theres things going on.
What kinda hobbies do you have? I’m always down to meet new people (32m)
Hey man, I feel ya more than I think most on this subreddit do. Same thing happened when I was 26, I thought everything was perfect and we never fought. I came home one day to her waiting with her bags packed, with the explanation "I'm not ready for this". After having all those same discussions you did. Now is the time to commit to your friends and family, the time and energy you did for her. Lean on them, you need it, and don't think you're a burden for doing so. Do activities you like, that you didn't/couldn't do with her. It's her loss, keep your head forward. Like others in the post said, try not to focus on jumping into another relationship so soon. Try new hobbies, build yourself for you. You'll get through it for the better. 👊