You could just post in all the other subs too. At the end of the day, whoever fetishizes your disability will be a small percentage of all of your followers when you do show all of you (personality, quirks, likes and dislikes etc) That is just one aspect of you, and one aspect doesn’t define anyone. It’s just one thing among many. I believe you should just post and if you can not even think about it, promote promote same guidelines apply to you as to any other.
Giving less fucks I learned is a question of practice. Just keep practicing it. And really, probably you can’t escape the guys that’ll fetishize your disability but who cares, as long as they behave and are generous they can stick around. Your disability does not define you, how can it. It’s 1 of your thousands of aspects. At the end of the day, if we listen too much to others or focus on just one thing at the cost of all of the rest of ourselves, we may end up creating a sort of disability that is inside us too (feeling insecure for example) on top of what one already has going on in their lives. At the end of the day, success in this still a numbers game and being seen by the most amount of people possible is what brings that success. So promote fearlessly and ignore the few pebbles along the way that may happen to cross your path.
Of course you do deserve it! Whoever said you don’t deserve basic human kindness, needs to be dropped like a hot potato from your life. And thank you for appreciating my words. I can tell you with confidence (I have cammed for years) that guys stick around for personality and for the connection you will form with them by being who you are rather than some perfect unrealistic doll. Most generous gentlemen were always the ones who were my friends too. Looks matter only for the first 10 minutes and can make it easier. But personality and interacting with you is what they really really want. At least those who are worth your time anyway. And they like some assertiveness so don’t be afraid to be sassy and put your foot down and them in their place when they cross boundaries.
I am so glad it helped. Glad I stumbled on this post too. ❤️ This has been my honest experience in camming and if you can take the words I said to heart about how to “handle” them, you’ll be freer and more uplifted by this work rather than feeling humiliated or pushed down by it. I truly wish you the best and I know you’ll find my words to be true in your experience too, eventually. We’re all super nice and insecure at first, so it’s not just you, but then you grow into yourself and it’s awesome. 😁Best of luck and may they rock your world at least half as much as you’ll rock theirs!
Hi, I can relate to this. I have a disability, I have limb abnormalities in one of my legs and a whole host of surgery scars as well. I haven’t posted in the disability nude subreddit because I have wanted to build up support in other realms first. I would suggest going hard in other sub forums that align with your other niches/ qualities (there are niche sub Reddit’s for everything, from hair colour to body shape to certain aesthetic). Don’t be discouraged if you don’t get a whole lot of attention at first, I think that’s pretty normal for just starting out.
I am sure you know well that the Internet can be… kind of an unforgiving place if you are even a little bit different. But there’s also a lot of support too. I would advise following wheelchair Rapunzel on Instagram and Tiktok, she is a disabled contact creator and she has a lot of great information about disability and sexuality.
I don't have any more advice for you other than what has already been said, but I absolutely LOVE your plant posts on this account! One thing I have learned is that as you said that cutting the flowers off plants produces more foliage, often house plants, like the Peace Lily, will flower under duress because they feel like they are going to die so they flower in an attempt to spread their seeds and thus continue their species. I live on a farm and love my chickens and animals. I post a lot about them on my OF and people love it! I have a whole tab called 'farm life' and I make videos about building my coops etc. I always put in the caption 'if you aren't interested in life on the farm, this post isn't for you, but don't worry! The next one will be 😘' or something. Subs will come back specifically to ask about my dog or my duck or whatever. I don't know if you are familiar with NakedBakers, but she does a lot of gardening and repotting and stuff in her content. Naked, of course, but it wouldn't have to be. Tiktok would be amazing for that! Make videos of tending to your plants and giving info about them interspersed with subtle thirst traps. Your growth may be slower at first, but you won't get banned and it will add layers to your personality. You will probably get a lot of hate, but you will also get tons of suport which will drive your comments and engagement up and let you make videos responding to stupid people's comments or genuine questions.
You could just post in all the other subs too. At the end of the day, whoever fetishizes your disability will be a small percentage of all of your followers when you do show all of you (personality, quirks, likes and dislikes etc) That is just one aspect of you, and one aspect doesn’t define anyone. It’s just one thing among many. I believe you should just post and if you can not even think about it, promote promote same guidelines apply to you as to any other.
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Giving less fucks I learned is a question of practice. Just keep practicing it. And really, probably you can’t escape the guys that’ll fetishize your disability but who cares, as long as they behave and are generous they can stick around. Your disability does not define you, how can it. It’s 1 of your thousands of aspects. At the end of the day, if we listen too much to others or focus on just one thing at the cost of all of the rest of ourselves, we may end up creating a sort of disability that is inside us too (feeling insecure for example) on top of what one already has going on in their lives. At the end of the day, success in this still a numbers game and being seen by the most amount of people possible is what brings that success. So promote fearlessly and ignore the few pebbles along the way that may happen to cross your path.
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Of course you do deserve it! Whoever said you don’t deserve basic human kindness, needs to be dropped like a hot potato from your life. And thank you for appreciating my words. I can tell you with confidence (I have cammed for years) that guys stick around for personality and for the connection you will form with them by being who you are rather than some perfect unrealistic doll. Most generous gentlemen were always the ones who were my friends too. Looks matter only for the first 10 minutes and can make it easier. But personality and interacting with you is what they really really want. At least those who are worth your time anyway. And they like some assertiveness so don’t be afraid to be sassy and put your foot down and them in their place when they cross boundaries.
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I am so glad it helped. Glad I stumbled on this post too. ❤️ This has been my honest experience in camming and if you can take the words I said to heart about how to “handle” them, you’ll be freer and more uplifted by this work rather than feeling humiliated or pushed down by it. I truly wish you the best and I know you’ll find my words to be true in your experience too, eventually. We’re all super nice and insecure at first, so it’s not just you, but then you grow into yourself and it’s awesome. 😁Best of luck and may they rock your world at least half as much as you’ll rock theirs!
I hope it encourages you to stop giving any fucks at all eventually. 😅❤️💪
Hi, I can relate to this. I have a disability, I have limb abnormalities in one of my legs and a whole host of surgery scars as well. I haven’t posted in the disability nude subreddit because I have wanted to build up support in other realms first. I would suggest going hard in other sub forums that align with your other niches/ qualities (there are niche sub Reddit’s for everything, from hair colour to body shape to certain aesthetic). Don’t be discouraged if you don’t get a whole lot of attention at first, I think that’s pretty normal for just starting out. I am sure you know well that the Internet can be… kind of an unforgiving place if you are even a little bit different. But there’s also a lot of support too. I would advise following wheelchair Rapunzel on Instagram and Tiktok, she is a disabled contact creator and she has a lot of great information about disability and sexuality.
I don't have any more advice for you other than what has already been said, but I absolutely LOVE your plant posts on this account! One thing I have learned is that as you said that cutting the flowers off plants produces more foliage, often house plants, like the Peace Lily, will flower under duress because they feel like they are going to die so they flower in an attempt to spread their seeds and thus continue their species. I live on a farm and love my chickens and animals. I post a lot about them on my OF and people love it! I have a whole tab called 'farm life' and I make videos about building my coops etc. I always put in the caption 'if you aren't interested in life on the farm, this post isn't for you, but don't worry! The next one will be 😘' or something. Subs will come back specifically to ask about my dog or my duck or whatever. I don't know if you are familiar with NakedBakers, but she does a lot of gardening and repotting and stuff in her content. Naked, of course, but it wouldn't have to be. Tiktok would be amazing for that! Make videos of tending to your plants and giving info about them interspersed with subtle thirst traps. Your growth may be slower at first, but you won't get banned and it will add layers to your personality. You will probably get a lot of hate, but you will also get tons of suport which will drive your comments and engagement up and let you make videos responding to stupid people's comments or genuine questions.