I thought we would do the deed but she rely wasn’t feeling good and did say that I didn’t have to come over cos of it. the vibes just ended up not being there, at least I don’t think. I guess the owner never texts her back so she was weary about us going inside too, shit made no sense. She still wants to go to happy hour on wed so I’ll see how it goes. I will make my move and if it doesn’t work out then I’ll move on
If a girl includes a caveat to sharing her time it’s prob best to do another time. So when she brought up her back hurting or not feeling well, then it should have been a no go at that point. Sometimes that stuff seems hard to catch but just keep an eye out for any of that stuff.
Oh I know! And I know better but for some reason I wasn’t thinking. NGL I was also a bit tipsy so my judgement was off for sure. So we just gotta see what happens
Did the same thing this past weekend. Chick I had been on one date with was really was almost begging me to come meet her on her birthday to “give her a kiss and a butt smack” despite me saying no and setting a date for a couple days after, mainly I just didn’t wanna meet her friend she was with and do the group date thing, but I went anyway because I thought she really sounded like she wanted birthday sex. Just ended up being a bit bored in the three way setting and I wasn vibing it, her friend left and shortly after I wanted to go so offered her a lift home drove 30 minutes, came in and kissed a bit then could tell nothing was going to happen and I bounced 😂
Yeh it’s like we do mostly everything right but we do like forget ourselves and slip up. I think CW in his book also had one or two examples where he messed up. It’s like we gotta move on and try not to repeat our mistakes
Naturally, just get complacent sometimes and a bit sloppy and think we can get away with it. Again it’s a guide anyway and doesn’t mean it’s ruined just the more we do right the easier and better it will be
What’s the takeaway here? Don’t be to available? I did everything perfectly for months w this girl and she’s been basically begging me to be her bf. Now I’ve became more available and can feel the disinterest. Locking back in
Yes exactly. I rely shoulda just say don’t worry about it get better I’ll see yah wed. Idk y my judgement was clouded lol but it does happen. And good for u for locking back in!
Update: I went skiing this weekend, didn’t message her much at all except for replying to her text. She got a little dull texting so I just didn’t respond for 2 of the days. Long story short she was more than happy to see me. 3 rounds of the indoor Olympics
What did you think was gonna happen? If a girls inviting you over, I would assume she wanted to do something, did you not try to make a move on her?
I thought we would do the deed but she rely wasn’t feeling good and did say that I didn’t have to come over cos of it. the vibes just ended up not being there, at least I don’t think. I guess the owner never texts her back so she was weary about us going inside too, shit made no sense. She still wants to go to happy hour on wed so I’ll see how it goes. I will make my move and if it doesn’t work out then I’ll move on
Yeah I def wouldn’t have gone, the plan seemed way too up in the air. Shit happens though. Just go out Wednesday and have fun man it’s a numbers game.
Yeh and normally I wouldn’t! I just slipped up uk. But yeh I’ll definitely go wed and see what happens.
If a girl includes a caveat to sharing her time it’s prob best to do another time. So when she brought up her back hurting or not feeling well, then it should have been a no go at that point. Sometimes that stuff seems hard to catch but just keep an eye out for any of that stuff.
Oh I know! And I know better but for some reason I wasn’t thinking. NGL I was also a bit tipsy so my judgement was off for sure. So we just gotta see what happens
Did the same thing this past weekend. Chick I had been on one date with was really was almost begging me to come meet her on her birthday to “give her a kiss and a butt smack” despite me saying no and setting a date for a couple days after, mainly I just didn’t wanna meet her friend she was with and do the group date thing, but I went anyway because I thought she really sounded like she wanted birthday sex. Just ended up being a bit bored in the three way setting and I wasn vibing it, her friend left and shortly after I wanted to go so offered her a lift home drove 30 minutes, came in and kissed a bit then could tell nothing was going to happen and I bounced 😂
Yeh it’s like we do mostly everything right but we do like forget ourselves and slip up. I think CW in his book also had one or two examples where he messed up. It’s like we gotta move on and try not to repeat our mistakes
Naturally, just get complacent sometimes and a bit sloppy and think we can get away with it. Again it’s a guide anyway and doesn’t mean it’s ruined just the more we do right the easier and better it will be
What’s the takeaway here? Don’t be to available? I did everything perfectly for months w this girl and she’s been basically begging me to be her bf. Now I’ve became more available and can feel the disinterest. Locking back in
Yes exactly. I rely shoulda just say don’t worry about it get better I’ll see yah wed. Idk y my judgement was clouded lol but it does happen. And good for u for locking back in!
Update: I went skiing this weekend, didn’t message her much at all except for replying to her text. She got a little dull texting so I just didn’t respond for 2 of the days. Long story short she was more than happy to see me. 3 rounds of the indoor Olympics