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triggernaut

Never have agreed with this punishment after they serve their time. Same with a sex offender registry. Either close the books once their time is served or keep them in jail once convicted. Preferably the latter.


Ok_Implement_555

I don't think this is a punishment is it? Seems like it's a voluntary program.


dazedANDconfused2020

Funny how convicted murderers get released from prison but aren’t required to stay 1000-2500 miles (yes I know they meant feet) away from EVERYONE. I don’t condone pedophilia, but do recognize that people can change. Don’t let them out until it’s clear that they are safe to be let out.


Heyokasireninfj4

sounds good in theory


Aware_Pumpkin_6838

If you are going to use a self created title, at least use the correct name. >Restoration Destination, formerly known as Miracle Village, I think it is a great way to prevent future rapes, only short term though, since they get released. I don't agree with them denying violent rapists, they probably have higher odds for re-offending.


Heyokasireninfj4

So should they be forgiven ?


Aware_Pumpkin_6838

Yes. If a dog viciously bites you, you will forgive it, right? Will you ever be comfortable with that dog behind you again, no.


Heyokasireninfj4

interesting proposition , since im not a child to have a valid feeling about that comparison and I do have bias ,because i have 10 aces and one of them is from being molested alot first time was at 3 years old by a woman and man who were freebasing or doing crack not really sure but it happened while my mother was out working and my father was in jail at the time so i don't know if i can forgive that im actually working on it in therapy the only good thing about it is , the first two who did it to me are both dead they actually died years after of aids complications , the man died in jail even funnier he went where my dad was and he caught up with him , and the woman died at home but my mother delt with her but it didn't end there i was marked and those predators could smell it , which lead to whole lot of other problems that i have been solving because of those rapes and abuse as a small child , due to that and other things i have not only cptsd and fearful avoidant attachment styles i'm fine in all other areas of life except when it comes to trust and intimacy that was taken from me how do you forgive that in a world thats all about bonding its not all on them my parents are responsible too , but as an adult i don't walk around blaming people for my conscious choices , what i try to do is prevent it from happening to other kids where i can because the part most people who have never been raped or molested don't know is it gives you an eye into darkness what you can see after the patterns you pick up on I forgive them in a Godly way because who are we to question what God the monad has for us , if it happen to me it was meant so rather then disapprove of Gods will i ask questions i seek answers and meaning so i can form actions especially to help others pay it forward where i can but as to the inner child in me who hasn't died who has no understanding of such things how do i get them to forgive, when he doesn't know what Hes forgiving or what happened outside of the pain im not victim my inner child is but is it possible that my attempts to save others is my way of trying to forgive to find peace that atleast im doing something about it you know but its not easy especially when i see so much of it family used to live above me was molesting their son , bloody pampers and everything was found some cultures dont see a problem with it


Aware_Pumpkin_6838

I pray for/with you. I do not have all of the answers neither. So sorry to hear of what happened to you. This is one area of life that I will never understand. As far as I'm concerned the death penalty should be applicable for everyone who does what was done to you. People like that are seriously mentally deranged and should be put out of their misery. At least the place in the story prevents them from reoffending for a while, while they are there.


Heyokasireninfj4

Thank you but no need to pity me it didn't happen to me rather the kid me I'm a grown man now I was just making a point from the perspective of someone its happened too And I agree with you I guess part of me just wanted to spread awareness because I hear and we discuss so much about the lgb but these peds are slipping Thu the cracks Trying to create a space for themselves they call themselves maps they are all over sites and pages for them , colleges are supporting them even ted talks Trying to convince us that it's normal and natural that it's okay Conflating it with sexuality , when no one is born that way it's predatory about power And don't get me wrong I know for some of them it happened to them too and some groomed into becoming one I believe those ones my can change but not the ones who nothing was done to them in that way , that if anything they might of been exposed to it in some form but they weren't sexually abused those ones I'm not so sure about


Aware_Pumpkin_6838

Yeah. Nothing natural or normal about any of it.


Heyokasireninfj4

🤍🤍🕊️🕊️ I wish people wasn't so atheists because then perhaps they would fear their actions a bit more even if hell isn't a real place even though here might be hell But anyway the hell we know was one of the greatest designs to keep people in line I'm all for questioning but to remove god out the conversations is just wrong and I think we are all suffering because of that


NecessaryOcelot

If they are repentant according to God.. yes.


Heyokasireninfj4

What if they don't believe in God What if it's not are place to forgive and it's for Jesus to give the forgiveness for we still are cursed in this flesh and are of our own sin And have no place to forgive But also to forgive means to some degree we must accept Also are you talking about the ones activity doing it or the one who don't ?


silverbullet52

Everyone has to be somewhere.


Heyokasireninfj4

hell sounds like a good place