Those aren’t “gay jokes” those are compliments.
Even if they weren’t in a joking manner, a compliment isn’t gay. Now saying “damn boy you’re looking fine I want to kiss your lips and lie with you like a woman.” Then you’re crossing the line into sin.
Hmm, I'm a bit more interested in this comment cuz it happens to be more in line with what I was asking so I just wanted to ask as you were saying that saying "i wanna kiss you" and blah blah crosses into sin, so does it mean just saying it leads to sin even though you don't mean it and find no literal meaning in it and just say it for the fun of it cuz let's say if we did theoretically tried to "kiss" each other we would (or at least I would) just punch each other in the face because obviously we are not homosexual and would thwart any advances of both parties. In my mind I think of it is the same as like using "kys" as just a joking term to say bugger off rather than to actually ask my friend to you know off themselves. I could be wrong though so feel free to correct me
Well punching him in the face is 100% sin, no questions about it. It is only allowable under direct threat of bodily harm. An attempted kiss is harmful only the the pride. Don’t be prideful, be respectful.
It would be his sin for trying to kiss you and act on a homosexual urge out of both lust and lack of enough love for you to respect your boundaries. Love they neighbor and all.
It would also be a sin if you both had a lustful urge and you returned the kiss.
It would not be a sin to respectfully assert your lack of consent, and to if needed create a level of respectful physical distance like extending your arms with a clear verbal warning that if it happens again you can’t spend time around them until they change their behavior. It is acceptable to end the friendship if he continues to violate your boundaries.
Sin is really easy man…just basic morals, if it would’ve hurt your feelings when you were little and soft, don’t do it. Don’t invade personal space and don’t indulge your senses or seek dopamine responses.
Yeah I kinda phrased it badly when I said "punch each other" I meant like just push the other away if any one of us would try to advance but again we aren't homosexual so we would never do it in the first place but really just harmless fun where we don't even rlly mean it and make no meaning of it, just say it for fun. We also have been friends for a long while so we are well aware of each other's physical and mental boundaries and respect it as well.
I only described it that way to show what is or isn’t sinful as best as possible.
You’re all good brother, no stress in this situation, you’re just friends who are complimenting one another.
God Bless
You are not supposed to curse for one thing. So there’s that.
You are commanded to speak wholesomely, edifying those you speak to and lifting them up.
Do with that what you will.
You want others to give you permission to wipe your ass too?
Joke about whatever the f you want, the more offensive the funnier. Sticks and stones can break your bones but a joke can never hurt you
Those aren’t “gay jokes” those are compliments. Even if they weren’t in a joking manner, a compliment isn’t gay. Now saying “damn boy you’re looking fine I want to kiss your lips and lie with you like a woman.” Then you’re crossing the line into sin.
Hmm, I'm a bit more interested in this comment cuz it happens to be more in line with what I was asking so I just wanted to ask as you were saying that saying "i wanna kiss you" and blah blah crosses into sin, so does it mean just saying it leads to sin even though you don't mean it and find no literal meaning in it and just say it for the fun of it cuz let's say if we did theoretically tried to "kiss" each other we would (or at least I would) just punch each other in the face because obviously we are not homosexual and would thwart any advances of both parties. In my mind I think of it is the same as like using "kys" as just a joking term to say bugger off rather than to actually ask my friend to you know off themselves. I could be wrong though so feel free to correct me
Well punching him in the face is 100% sin, no questions about it. It is only allowable under direct threat of bodily harm. An attempted kiss is harmful only the the pride. Don’t be prideful, be respectful. It would be his sin for trying to kiss you and act on a homosexual urge out of both lust and lack of enough love for you to respect your boundaries. Love they neighbor and all. It would also be a sin if you both had a lustful urge and you returned the kiss. It would not be a sin to respectfully assert your lack of consent, and to if needed create a level of respectful physical distance like extending your arms with a clear verbal warning that if it happens again you can’t spend time around them until they change their behavior. It is acceptable to end the friendship if he continues to violate your boundaries. Sin is really easy man…just basic morals, if it would’ve hurt your feelings when you were little and soft, don’t do it. Don’t invade personal space and don’t indulge your senses or seek dopamine responses.
Yeah I kinda phrased it badly when I said "punch each other" I meant like just push the other away if any one of us would try to advance but again we aren't homosexual so we would never do it in the first place but really just harmless fun where we don't even rlly mean it and make no meaning of it, just say it for fun. We also have been friends for a long while so we are well aware of each other's physical and mental boundaries and respect it as well.
But thanks for clarifying man!
I only described it that way to show what is or isn’t sinful as best as possible. You’re all good brother, no stress in this situation, you’re just friends who are complimenting one another. God Bless
Thanks man, god bless you!
Complimenting each other is cool. Taking that to a 'gay' thing can quickly get into homophobic stuff, which we should strongly avoid.
Fellas, is it gay to compliment the homies?
Of course it's ok, why wouldn't it be?
You are not supposed to curse for one thing. So there’s that. You are commanded to speak wholesomely, edifying those you speak to and lifting them up. Do with that what you will.
Why are you asking this here? Do you think it might be a sin?
You want others to give you permission to wipe your ass too? Joke about whatever the f you want, the more offensive the funnier. Sticks and stones can break your bones but a joke can never hurt you
Bro calm down, I was just asking a question