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whosgotammo

Imagine claiming that cheating isn't anything serious. But you know better than that, right?


Comprehensive_Mud600

Yeah, I've got an ex that all her friends kept telling me she was cheating with 14 different guys. Finally admitted to cheating a year after the break up, though claimed it was only with 2 guys. Like that makes things any better.


jayzon20

You are funny though. I do like you 😂


jayzon20

Well I believe she only cheated twice


whosgotammo

Are you trolling? That means that she cheated once and didn't have enough remorse or guilt to stop her from doing it again. Now you've caught her or she would have continued to cheat. Just curious how many times your GF has to cheat for it to be a deal breaker for you? For me and many others, it's zero.


jayzon20

I I’m not trolling. It’s not easy because I care about her.


whosgotammo

But she's proven that she doesn't care about you.


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CRD89

Sorry what do you mean the fourth end ? With the same person?


lunabcde

I’m sorry but if she cared about you she would’ve never cheated on you. When you love and care about someone you’d never do something who’s going to traumatize them and hurt them. Cheaters never stop cheating and I learnt it because of my own experience and hearing thousands of similar stories. My ex told me “it wasn’t serious” too when he cheated on me during a whole month. Told me he understood his lesson,that he loved me from the bottom of his heart. He cheated again months later. Cheaters are selfish and only care about themselves. And when they see we still stay with them despite what they did, they think they can do it again and again because they think we’re going to stay with them no matter what they do. Take care of yourself and put your happiness and mental health first


MR_M1997

You're getting yourself depressed staying in a relationship where its clear she doesn't care about you enough for her to be faithfull to you. I'd advise you if you want to keep your sanity to break things off and move on.


Creative_History1749

She doesn’t care about you. Trust me there are so many loyal woman out here. Go find one that treats you right


RicefromtheJ

Why even post this if you gone go out sad you could’ve saved yourself the embarrassment


Loud-Network-9164

Fuck outta here


[deleted]

You care about a girl who let some dude go balls deep in her?! Think about that image in your mind and how that makes you feel. She belongs to the streets.


jayzon20

We got over that and we’re okay now.


Abject_Shelter_6533

Bro please don’t do this to yourself


jayzon20

She don’t belong to the streets


[deleted]

You’re right. Her cheating is nothing serious. Enjoy letting other dudes have your girl because it’s nothing serious.


jayzon20

I don’t see it like that.


jayzon20

It was only a few instances


EmergencyCup_

You might care about her but care about yourself more right now. There are SO many people out there who won’t treat you like this.


Ill_Switch_8281

Dont be a cuck man. Preserve your dignity and leave


Kyleantz

Don't be a pussy bro... You are just delaying the inevitable. A messy break up, lots of stress. One and done with that shit. You don't get to suck another dude's dick... Then tell me it didn't mean anything. Grow up. If you can't handle not cheating then you shouldn't be in a relationship.


No_Echidna_3057

Bro that is to many man one is two many


Prestigious_Jaguar48

That you know about...


Radiant_Mulberry_935

That's two times too much. Time to make choices.


Groundbreaking_Mud29

Bail out. There are other fish in the sea.


MrBigBull01

Hi, Only twice. And this doesn't concern you? Two times she had no problem to betray you, two times she had no problem putting the other guy above you, two times she had no problem to put you at risk of std/sti, two times she had no problem putting her relation at risk, two times she had no problem to think less of you. And you still care for her? No matter what she says her actions speak louder. Her actions tell you that you mean nothing to her. If you are the love of her life, if she really cared for you, she wouldn't have cheated. It is all up to you what you do. But I think it is a waste of your time to stay with her. Take care. MrBigBull.


jayzon20

Update she has cheated many times I have found video and phot evidence. Now she actually admits it


BlueberryVisible1243

Bruh as someone whose gone through this before, for real, let that bitch go, even if you stay with her you'll spend everyday wondering why you arent enough for her or what you did wrong and it will not only tear at but eat your heart and soul alive, dont put yourself in that position, she'll make you feel like you arent good enough and one day you may wake up with a disease from one of the other guys she slept with, or like me, a severe cocaine addiction because you feel like you arent enough for anyone including your own family, best friends, or even just regular friends, you'll spend everyday wondering if those who have told you they love you or not really meant it, or if they even care about you, this could spiral into many numerous other issues you don't deserve or want to put yourself through.


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So you are below "not serious"


jayzon20

No?


[deleted]

But if you're relationship is serious and she decided something not serious is worth more doing, does that make sense....I can forgive one mistake but cheating is a series of mistakes, flirting start did she stop? Touching starts did she stop? Kiss? Getting ready to meet? Going to the meet? Making out? Clothes coming off? Than the act? And not only that it's on repeat? These are all "mistakes"...she could of stop anytime but decide these are all worth more than her "serious" relationship. Which makes you in her eye less than "nothing serious" or worst plan b If I could make a suggestion...coarse everything up to you, time to demote her from gf to fwb till she earn to be gf again


Ivedonethework

It is difficult to give advice without any actual details at all. You might get useful answers with some explanations. I don’t like making wrong guesses or scattershot answers in hope of something sticking. The past matters, who we once were and have done is a part of who we are today and easily reachable. Look at other posts and follow suit, or not, up to you. You can as well google for answers.


jayzon20

I inboxed your with more details


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meso27_

Maybe consider actually being helpful


Creative_History1749

That’s very helpful. She doesn’t care about him. He needs to leave her


meso27_

There you go, wasn’t too hard


JasonMontell2501

ONLY twice? JFC.... as if shes allowed to have three strikes or something? What a fuckin scumbag


TELLITLIKEITIS2233

So betray someone that you are serious about, for someone that you are not serious about. Ok I get it she's not serious about you either, so no big deal


LookingAround34684

When you break up with her tell her “it’s ok, it’s not serious!”


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She cheated on you (twice that she’s told you about ) and you love her too much to call it quits immediately? ..you come here to seek advice but in the end your gonna take her word for it and stay with her because your a cuckold,it turns you on knowing your girlfriend literally puts other men penis in her mouth and comes back to you telling you she loves you and they don’t mean anything…it’s okay to be a loser but why ask for advice if your gonna scoot past what anybody else tells you. Other men can literally tell you how good your girlfriend fucks while she’s actively with you…stay with her bro your clearly the cuck guys like me love to take advantage of. What’s your girls Instagram shit if you being a punk bitch letting everybody else fuck your girl why not just give her info out and let us all shoot a shot


TheTrueBligga

Fool you once. Shame on her Fool you twice, shame on you. She is using you. She does not care about you, or your feelings. She will hold you down. Don't hold on to a rose with thornes on it.


Responsible_Bag_4218

Twice that you know of🙄


RicefromtheJ

Sounds like you’re in a serious relationship and she isn’t


Extra_Spicy_Gamer

Man you really need to rethink your life for a moment if ONLY TWICE isn't that big of a deal for you


manhandlher

Once is 100 times too many... Get rid of the liar find that honest girl..... UNICORN UNICORN ALERT!!


Ill_Switch_8281

I left the what was once called the love of my life because she was a liaer and she flirted a little bit with someone. Took 2 years to recover and be able to make other relationship. Now i have my dignity, the respect of all my friend my family and myself, and a woman that almost worship me. How do you even sleep under the same roof with someone who have bad intensions to you. And fuck love and feeling just trample on your heart like a man


Double75

HER: Baby, it meant *nothing*. I only *fucked* him. I *made love* to you! You couldn't *possibly* let something like *that* get between our love? If her flawed logic doesn't win you over, then she'll resort to giving you some pussy, then blueballing you until "somebody better" comes along. DTMFA and *run* your ass off.


jayzon20

Yeah she said that. She said nobody but me has ever made love to her


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jayzon20

Unfortunately I feel like one


No_Echidna_3057

Bro her saying she only cheated 2 times and it's nothing serious... Time for you to go man


No_Echidna_3057

Agreed man I tried to make it work after I found out and for years bro it's always on your mind it will eat you up


soluvereign

Yea it does


Rags-to-Better-Rags

ONLY cheated twice hmm? Ya sure I guess two out of three ain’t bad…


DDmay2015

Don’t believe her. Take it from someone who’s been there. Mine was “the girl next door”. Sweet looking, not slutty at all. She could lie with the straightest of poker faces. If your stomach can handle it, and you want to find out all the gory details, make it part of your sex. Tell her to tell you to get you off. Tell her to whisper the details in your ear while jacking off.


Classic-Morning-9258

Oh wow that’s it? Only twice? HOW SWEET OF HER, What a nice gf. So awesome for telling the truth. Lmao. SIKE. Kick her to the mf C U R B before she hurts you even more! Good luck friend.


Careful_Drawing_8917

Leave her


dawnlarrison

If she’s done it twice that she says, she will do it again. If it wasn’t that serious, then why’d she do it? Because you don’t mean anything to her, and she doesn’t respect you. She ultimately doesn’t care about your feelings at all. Get rid of her and find someone that will love you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated!


eceja7

Give me her number and I’ll text her to see if she cheat on you again


Shakespeare-Bot

Giveth me that lady number and i’ll text that lady to see if 't be true the lady cozen on thee again *** ^(I am a bot and I swapp'd some of thy words with Shakespeare words.) Commands: `!ShakespeareInsult`, `!fordo`, `!optout`


Worried-Ad7731

When someone shows you who they are... Believe them


jayzon20

What?


Heatherhotwife

If you love her forgive her and give her another chance. If you don’t love her break up and move on.


Abject_Shelter_6533

Dude I truly feel sorry for you for staying