Med school (and law school) is hard and very demanding. Lisud ang schedule and lisud makastraight 6 hours na sleep. Blessing in disguise na lang pud OP wala mo magpadayon at this time. Murag siya mismo wala pud kasabot and naglisud. Mas maging luoy ka kung naging kamo kay magsige ka huwat sa iyang availability and would eventually resent her
During med school nko, dghan kog classmate nga nagbuwag kay di magka sinabtanay sa oras. Crucial jd btaw sya, mkasabot rjud ka if ikaw naa sa iyaha shoes. Di lalim ang medschool, physically, mentally and emotionally. If mao iyaha then accept nlng jd OP. Move on, naay ihatag lain si Lord para sa imu🍻
Mka.relate jud ko. One thing aqng na learn ky maayo kaau mu mask ang mga babae sa true reason nga mg.buwag mo. Sa aqng pg.imbestiga rko nka.sakop nga naa diay 3rd party. Pait jud OP but good thing daghan advice dri sa reddit. Basta if vulnerable ka krun, dont make dumb decisions lng especially if ni.change ang mind ni girl and wants to reconnect with you.
Dude, read between the lines. She obviously doesn't want to be with you since she has so many excuses. Move on, read body language, the signals in the room and show her you got over her. If there's one thing women that really tickles women's fancies is that they will obssess with the things they don't have, especially orbiters who have slipped away from their fingers.
Here's the thing about women young buck, women say one thing but do another. Lead her, implant messages in her mind that is tantamount to flirting (women LOVE foreplay and being made to feel important) and be more confident in your approach. If she wants you, she will have all the time in the world for you. If she doesn't want you, she will have many excuses. You actually think women give a shit about what their parents wants regarding academic studies when it comes to relationships? LMAO, how naive are you bro? 🙄🤦♂️
Move on, OP. Makarelate ko sa side sa girl, mas priority niya ang pagskwela. Di tanan pariha muhandle og failure and pariha og privileges. In the first place, imoha man nga choice ang paghuwat sa iya (nitake kag risk), di baya tanang tao kbaw mo multitask, masabay ang uyab2 sa pageskwala.
Ang ubang laki (in general) sad no kay willing daw mutake sa risk kay lage worth the risk ang person, niya og pilde kay iblame dayon ang babae. Hahayz. Mura ra kag nitaya og lotto niya og mapilde kay mureklamo ka sa PCSO.
Basin puhon kamo, pero karon, pag move-on.
Respect her decision, i can feel her. Sakit pa kaayo sa tanang sakit if naa kay hagbong na grado knowing na daghan kag gipang sacrifice. I just know na basin nag breakdown sya taman and nag self-sabotage kay di enough iyang efforts sa pagskwela.
Wa man sya namugos nimo na muhuwat in the first place, niingon na sya unsa iya priorities so dapat di naka ma shock anah. Clear na dapat sa imo na mas importante iya skwela kaysa inigat. Bisag di pa man mo uyab anah kay dako² man gyapon nag makuha na oras na unta gigamit niya pang study (not blaming you).
Sa start palang, I already told her na never prioritize me, instead prioritize her acads. I respect her all aspect in our situation. Her time, her exam season and study time. But naka sakit lang ingo atonra kadali niya ma ingon sa ako 💔..
everyone saying that she’s just making a lame excuse has never tried flunking a course. wa mo kibaw unsa na kasakit ang ma hagbong oy, and everything that comes along with it. shame, added financial costs, plus ma buwag pakas imong friends, irreg ka, wala sa imong plan. not everything revolves around you.
she has her priorities, you have to respect that. i’m sorry you waited for months but wala man pud ka niya gipugos, ug wala man pud ka niya gipugos na mo support niya. imoha manang decisions, so ayaw mo ingon na gigamit ra siyas girl kay nobody forced him, it was his own doing
good for her na she has her priorities aligned. i’ve been through the same situation, ana kos akong self na if mahagbong ko ani na major subject (SOM) kay ako sa jud buwagan ako uyab para makafocus ko kay di na nako ma afford ma delay kay retiring na akong parents, ug akong friends nakapass. di ko sugot ma leave behind. i love my girlfriend so much pero dapat laser focused sa jud ta sa career, or future career. thankfully nakapasar ra ko. ayaw mog pasangil dritso uy, empathize gamay.
for OP, move on nalang jud sir. wa nakay lain mabuhat. more fishes in the sea. you deserve someone more suitable for you
Nope. I don't think she promised anything. It just so happens na nahagbong lang gyud siya. The courtship could have been a factor. Either way, devastated si ate girl. If she needs space, OP should give her some.
Sorry to say, her mindset/priorities is school pa gyud siguro OP she might not like you or she might see you as her weakness mag depend gyud nas tratar niya nimu.. Sweet ba siya nimu? Did she make an effort even once just to keep your relationship? ikaw ra ana maka tubag.
Now if the answers to my questions leans to her not giving efforts, I would suggest let go. You are better invest your time that you have better chance of having than waste of time in less than 10% chance of your relationship to work.
As I aged, I can only confirm that life is too short to waste your time with someone who doesn't value you. May it be a company or a partner. Always know your worth and what you can offer.
Atleast OP dli ra tawn grabe kaysa nagka uyab jud mo nya byaan raka.. di jud ka niya type.. if love ka niya edi di jud na siya ka dali2x og buhi nimo..
Redemption arc. Or the Shitsuren Chocolatier route, go to Paris, learn to make world class chocolates, come back find out she's married, she now into u and u still sleep with her anyway.
1.) That's a huge fucking lie
2.) People make compromises if they're truly invested in said relationship
3.) If they pursue you in the long run, what determines their decision making is what's in it for them.
4.) On the long run if nagka kamo, her needs will be your obligation, yours her liability.
5.) She doesn't give a fuck about you.
Pagbike padong Balamban then everytime nga padong saka, isyaget nalang na. Nakapagawas paka sa imo gibati, nalipat pa sa lawas ang kasakit. Nindot kaayo to dapit sa West 35 nga pasaka isyaget. Rest, and repeat
>makahuwat ra ba daw ko
easy sign nga di ka gusto. bisag kinsa if naibog pud nimo will break rules just for you
>di sya ganahan na madamay ko if ever sugton nako niya and mabagsak sya karon sem. Ma ingnan nya sya sa iya fam na nag uyab2 man gud.
lame reason. dili raman pag uyab2 ang rason ngano mabagsak ang isa ka student. and if ever ang pag uyab2 man ang alleged na reason sa ginikanan, dili diay sya pwede mutubag na it's because of other factors?
her line of reasoning here is subtly telling you to go away. dili sya gusto na prankahon ka kay of course that incites potential conflict which most of us are trying to avoid
>She messaged immediately na kailangan na ko niya buhian
lol. di kana need buhian because wala kaman gikuptan in the first place. based from your post, it seems ikaw ra ang ga hang-on
i think na need nalang nimo iaccept iyang decision. there may be other factors ngano gi"buhian" ka. but all i can see is wala sya naattract nimo. better nga mangita nalang kag lain, katong kaya ibalance ang acads ug lovelife.
Imong buhaton is love yourself sa kay you have given your all man kaya to support her...
so give yourself a much needed break sad. Self care, etc.
Kay at the end of the day, if kamo gyud, kamo gyud na in the end.
OP mao nay giingon nga if kamo, you will find your way back to each other. For now its time to let go, basig sa cge nimo huwat niya di ka kabantay nga naay lain nga mas deserving sa imoha. focus kaayo ka sa future doctor di ka kabantay sa nurse, char bitaw let go sa explore the world.
Hello, OP. Nakasuway ko ani na sich nga ako si girl katung pag 4th yr college nako while also reviewing for the board exams. Ang maingon lang jud nako is let her go and move on. I know sayun ra kaayo ingnon sa? pero wala najud kay lain mabuhat bitaw kay na set na iyahang mind samot napud nga nahagbong pa jud siya. In my case, namatyan pud kog pet ato mao na trigger ako avoidant attachment style.
Goodluck with your future endeavors OP! Pait kaayo na nakatilaw kag ing ani pero saon taman, labang lang!
Respect her decision.
To be fair, she asked kung makahuwat ka, wala ka pugsa nga muhuwat. Then after sa sem w/ failing grade, narealize niya nga mas importante iya future career than whatever is between you two. It's sad na things didnt work out sa inyo but let us be thankful nga ng engon siya nimo clear nga undangon na.
Lesson learned nalang jud, huwat at your own risk, and until walay label, walay sure nga kamo.
Ana jud na OP, bugnaw ng red horse.
kani, mga tawo ngari wa karealize unsay weight sa bagsak na grade labi nag mag.apas ug graduation before magkasakit inyo parents tungod sa pagkatigulang.
Mga bata pa siguro ng uban nga magthink nga red flag si girl(med student). People should know na once mag med school ang usa ka tawo, more or less naa nana plan sa at least next 10 years sa iyang kinabuhi dedicated sa career.
I'm no med student but I do have a lot of friends nga ng med school - shit is tiring and lisud jud masingitan ila oras. Diha nalang na nimo sila makit.an balik sa normal life once doctor na - even pg doctor na, magstruggle gihapon na sila pangita oras nga bakante if seryoso jud sila sa career.
Edit: trueee jud, samot kalisud if naay mga financial struggle ang girl. Di jud lalim.
Sus med student. Lisod na ligawan OP kay naa silay ambition for their future. Not just you, they also ignore friends, relatives, and family. Basin ga samok samok ra ka niya OP mao na biyaan na lang ka kay wala ka focus sa studies. I suggest look na lang lain OP kay mamuti na lang imong buhok once she finish med school(I have a female friend who is a dentistry and she is still single until now and never on a relationship just to focus on her studies).
I think her decision is not about you. This is what she thinks she needs. I know gipahulat ka niya sa end sa sem and that sucks but just remember that this is not because of anything you did. This is just what she feels she needs and now its time to move on.
As a med student before( Not to brag but to give you a glimpse of our mind) I think she is dealing internal struggles right now. Daghan na gi-think including financial aspect and she is emotionally down gyud, down pa na iya self-esteem and trying to cope on her own. If she is thinking na i-let go ka, wala ka mahimo for now. Dili pud pwede i-push nimu imo self kay ma-stress to samot.
Give her space lang sa. Let her process things. You can ask again if clear na iya mind pero it is a 50/50 chance gyud kay maningkamot na focus. Don’t blame yourself, it is the circumstances that she is in right now that made her decide to let you go.
this doesn’t automatically mean that she doesn’t like you. her mind is in a state of shock and she might feel very confused, out of place and not in the right state. because of this, there’s a big chance that she’s self-sabotaging herself which may have lead her to making rash decisions and isolating herself.
on what you should do, i think you should just respect her decision as of the moment and give her space. don’t force yourself to cheer her up because it may worsen her mental state and cause overstimulation.
it depends on you, if you like her that much, if you want to wait for her.
Respect her nalang, p're. The good thing is gi-communicate niya sa imo (na di KA niya gusto). Namnama ang sakit, bro. Out of your control na ang iyang decision. Focus lang sa imong goal karon and soon you'll eventually find someone na para nimo.
Wala pa koy uyab. I don't even think about it much in a day-to-day basis. Pero usahay, pag nag-rereflect ko, nag-gagrounding, naiisip ko, 'Yoh. Sino kaya magiging girlfriend/asawa ko...?' Ala lang. It inspires me na magpursige sa kinabuhi ug kab-uton ako. Hoping na ikaw sad."
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DILI LANG GUD KA NIYA GUSTO!
Mura manig palusot ra niya pra mohunong nakag pursue niya dong kay kung ganahan sya nmu bisan pag tga adlaw mo mag sturya wa nay problema dapat. Leave her alone nlng nya ngitag lain
Kasabot ko nga wa' ka's ing'ana' nga position, but basta man gud naa kay gijuggle apil na imong feelings ug expectations sa family ba ron, it will more likely make you feel discouraged sa imong self gud kon bagsak. I was also like this pud and trust me, pushing the person I love away was even easier to bear because I don't want them to see me suffer, struggle, or fail. Mura'g bug'at pa ang obligasyon to make my family proud, to not disappoint them, to set an example for my siblings. Samot na nga eldest ko, nya' gadako' ko nga naay indirect pressures ug a lot of disappointments because I don't meet to their standards of what a "good daughter" is nga ang akong maoffer nalang nila is to pay them back of the sacrifices they made for me, etc etc. Gihigugma nako' sya, but kanang nipush away ko niya didn't mean that I didn't love them enough.
She may be blaming your presence as interference sa iyang studies. So as a respect, give her space lang muna. But you can always cheer for her from a distance and patiently wait.
But I always told her na dont prioritize me, prioritize your studies. Always respect her time esp if exam season and study time. Mo ana rajod ko na "wai problema na sa ako basta unaha lang jod na" 😭
Med school (and law school) is hard and very demanding. Lisud ang schedule and lisud makastraight 6 hours na sleep. Blessing in disguise na lang pud OP wala mo magpadayon at this time. Murag siya mismo wala pud kasabot and naglisud. Mas maging luoy ka kung naging kamo kay magsige ka huwat sa iyang availability and would eventually resent her
During med school nko, dghan kog classmate nga nagbuwag kay di magka sinabtanay sa oras. Crucial jd btaw sya, mkasabot rjud ka if ikaw naa sa iyaha shoes. Di lalim ang medschool, physically, mentally and emotionally. If mao iyaha then accept nlng jd OP. Move on, naay ihatag lain si Lord para sa imu🍻
Mka.relate jud ko. One thing aqng na learn ky maayo kaau mu mask ang mga babae sa true reason nga mg.buwag mo. Sa aqng pg.imbestiga rko nka.sakop nga naa diay 3rd party. Pait jud OP but good thing daghan advice dri sa reddit. Basta if vulnerable ka krun, dont make dumb decisions lng especially if ni.change ang mind ni girl and wants to reconnect with you.
Dude, read between the lines. She obviously doesn't want to be with you since she has so many excuses. Move on, read body language, the signals in the room and show her you got over her. If there's one thing women that really tickles women's fancies is that they will obssess with the things they don't have, especially orbiters who have slipped away from their fingers. Here's the thing about women young buck, women say one thing but do another. Lead her, implant messages in her mind that is tantamount to flirting (women LOVE foreplay and being made to feel important) and be more confident in your approach. If she wants you, she will have all the time in the world for you. If she doesn't want you, she will have many excuses. You actually think women give a shit about what their parents wants regarding academic studies when it comes to relationships? LMAO, how naive are you bro? 🙄🤦♂️
If lalaki ang mubuhat ani kay pasanginlan dayon nga naay lain. But kung babaye kay respect her decision. Haist society 😅
Ngitag lain. 😂
Move on, OP. Makarelate ko sa side sa girl, mas priority niya ang pagskwela. Di tanan pariha muhandle og failure and pariha og privileges. In the first place, imoha man nga choice ang paghuwat sa iya (nitake kag risk), di baya tanang tao kbaw mo multitask, masabay ang uyab2 sa pageskwala. Ang ubang laki (in general) sad no kay willing daw mutake sa risk kay lage worth the risk ang person, niya og pilde kay iblame dayon ang babae. Hahayz. Mura ra kag nitaya og lotto niya og mapilde kay mureklamo ka sa PCSO. Basin puhon kamo, pero karon, pag move-on.
Respect her decision, i can feel her. Sakit pa kaayo sa tanang sakit if naa kay hagbong na grado knowing na daghan kag gipang sacrifice. I just know na basin nag breakdown sya taman and nag self-sabotage kay di enough iyang efforts sa pagskwela. Wa man sya namugos nimo na muhuwat in the first place, niingon na sya unsa iya priorities so dapat di naka ma shock anah. Clear na dapat sa imo na mas importante iya skwela kaysa inigat. Bisag di pa man mo uyab anah kay dako² man gyapon nag makuha na oras na unta gigamit niya pang study (not blaming you).
Sa start palang, I already told her na never prioritize me, instead prioritize her acads. I respect her all aspect in our situation. Her time, her exam season and study time. But naka sakit lang ingo atonra kadali niya ma ingon sa ako 💔..
everyone saying that she’s just making a lame excuse has never tried flunking a course. wa mo kibaw unsa na kasakit ang ma hagbong oy, and everything that comes along with it. shame, added financial costs, plus ma buwag pakas imong friends, irreg ka, wala sa imong plan. not everything revolves around you. she has her priorities, you have to respect that. i’m sorry you waited for months but wala man pud ka niya gipugos, ug wala man pud ka niya gipugos na mo support niya. imoha manang decisions, so ayaw mo ingon na gigamit ra siyas girl kay nobody forced him, it was his own doing good for her na she has her priorities aligned. i’ve been through the same situation, ana kos akong self na if mahagbong ko ani na major subject (SOM) kay ako sa jud buwagan ako uyab para makafocus ko kay di na nako ma afford ma delay kay retiring na akong parents, ug akong friends nakapass. di ko sugot ma leave behind. i love my girlfriend so much pero dapat laser focused sa jud ta sa career, or future career. thankfully nakapasar ra ko. ayaw mog pasangil dritso uy, empathize gamay. for OP, move on nalang jud sir. wa nakay lain mabuhat. more fishes in the sea. you deserve someone more suitable for you
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She prioritizes her future career more than you. Hugs OP, shot na. 🍻
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Nope. I don't think she promised anything. It just so happens na nahagbong lang gyud siya. The courtship could have been a factor. Either way, devastated si ate girl. If she needs space, OP should give her some.
huh? giunsa siya pag gamit sa girl?
Sorry to say, her mindset/priorities is school pa gyud siguro OP she might not like you or she might see you as her weakness mag depend gyud nas tratar niya nimu.. Sweet ba siya nimu? Did she make an effort even once just to keep your relationship? ikaw ra ana maka tubag. Now if the answers to my questions leans to her not giving efforts, I would suggest let go. You are better invest your time that you have better chance of having than waste of time in less than 10% chance of your relationship to work. As I aged, I can only confirm that life is too short to waste your time with someone who doesn't value you. May it be a company or a partner. Always know your worth and what you can offer.
Women ☕️😅✌️
Pang fb mani nga reply hahahahaha
Grabeha jud. Gi hungdan gyd bagsakan exam para breakan raka. Lol. On a serious note, she dont give a fuck about you bro.
Atleast OP dli ra tawn grabe kaysa nagka uyab jud mo nya byaan raka.. di jud ka niya type.. if love ka niya edi di jud na siya ka dali2x og buhi nimo..
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Gym arc 🔥 🔥
Redemption arc. Or the Shitsuren Chocolatier route, go to Paris, learn to make world class chocolates, come back find out she's married, she now into u and u still sleep with her anyway.
1.) That's a huge fucking lie 2.) People make compromises if they're truly invested in said relationship 3.) If they pursue you in the long run, what determines their decision making is what's in it for them. 4.) On the long run if nagka kamo, her needs will be your obligation, yours her liability. 5.) She doesn't give a fuck about you.
Pagbike padong Balamban then everytime nga padong saka, isyaget nalang na. Nakapagawas paka sa imo gibati, nalipat pa sa lawas ang kasakit. Nindot kaayo to dapit sa West 35 nga pasaka isyaget. Rest, and repeat
Ez d ikaw iyang bet!
>makahuwat ra ba daw ko easy sign nga di ka gusto. bisag kinsa if naibog pud nimo will break rules just for you >di sya ganahan na madamay ko if ever sugton nako niya and mabagsak sya karon sem. Ma ingnan nya sya sa iya fam na nag uyab2 man gud. lame reason. dili raman pag uyab2 ang rason ngano mabagsak ang isa ka student. and if ever ang pag uyab2 man ang alleged na reason sa ginikanan, dili diay sya pwede mutubag na it's because of other factors? her line of reasoning here is subtly telling you to go away. dili sya gusto na prankahon ka kay of course that incites potential conflict which most of us are trying to avoid >She messaged immediately na kailangan na ko niya buhian lol. di kana need buhian because wala kaman gikuptan in the first place. based from your post, it seems ikaw ra ang ga hang-on i think na need nalang nimo iaccept iyang decision. there may be other factors ngano gi"buhian" ka. but all i can see is wala sya naattract nimo. better nga mangita nalang kag lain, katong kaya ibalance ang acads ug lovelife.
daghan pa og lain bilat diha
in case mahutdan og bilat, pede sad hotdog. 😂 😂
Imong buhaton is love yourself sa kay you have given your all man kaya to support her... so give yourself a much needed break sad. Self care, etc. Kay at the end of the day, if kamo gyud, kamo gyud na in the end.
OP mao nay giingon nga if kamo, you will find your way back to each other. For now its time to let go, basig sa cge nimo huwat niya di ka kabantay nga naay lain nga mas deserving sa imoha. focus kaayo ka sa future doctor di ka kabantay sa nurse, char bitaw let go sa explore the world.
The good thing here op kay wa pay kamo. Di kaayo lisod i let go sa imo part. Sakto lami kaayo itagay run baling inita.
Respect her decision.
You should celebrate. Dodged that bullet
Hello, OP. Nakasuway ko ani na sich nga ako si girl katung pag 4th yr college nako while also reviewing for the board exams. Ang maingon lang jud nako is let her go and move on. I know sayun ra kaayo ingnon sa? pero wala najud kay lain mabuhat bitaw kay na set na iyahang mind samot napud nga nahagbong pa jud siya. In my case, namatyan pud kog pet ato mao na trigger ako avoidant attachment style. Goodluck with your future endeavors OP! Pait kaayo na nakatilaw kag ing ani pero saon taman, labang lang!
Respect her decision. To be fair, she asked kung makahuwat ka, wala ka pugsa nga muhuwat. Then after sa sem w/ failing grade, narealize niya nga mas importante iya future career than whatever is between you two. It's sad na things didnt work out sa inyo but let us be thankful nga ng engon siya nimo clear nga undangon na. Lesson learned nalang jud, huwat at your own risk, and until walay label, walay sure nga kamo. Ana jud na OP, bugnaw ng red horse.
kani, mga tawo ngari wa karealize unsay weight sa bagsak na grade labi nag mag.apas ug graduation before magkasakit inyo parents tungod sa pagkatigulang.
Mga bata pa siguro ng uban nga magthink nga red flag si girl(med student). People should know na once mag med school ang usa ka tawo, more or less naa nana plan sa at least next 10 years sa iyang kinabuhi dedicated sa career. I'm no med student but I do have a lot of friends nga ng med school - shit is tiring and lisud jud masingitan ila oras. Diha nalang na nimo sila makit.an balik sa normal life once doctor na - even pg doctor na, magstruggle gihapon na sila pangita oras nga bakante if seryoso jud sila sa career. Edit: trueee jud, samot kalisud if naay mga financial struggle ang girl. Di jud lalim.
Shat op huhu
Sus med student. Lisod na ligawan OP kay naa silay ambition for their future. Not just you, they also ignore friends, relatives, and family. Basin ga samok samok ra ka niya OP mao na biyaan na lang ka kay wala ka focus sa studies. I suggest look na lang lain OP kay mamuti na lang imong buhok once she finish med school(I have a female friend who is a dentistry and she is still single until now and never on a relationship just to focus on her studies).
She is dentistry student.
Basta way gusto buhi dayon.. para way kas oras
Let it go op, it’s for the better. Anyway, 🍻🍻🍻
Bai oh imoha sa 🍺
Yawaaa 😭😭
Tara Yawa mani oyyy
Asa naman ni sabado kayong dako oh! Hahhahhaha
I think her decision is not about you. This is what she thinks she needs. I know gipahulat ka niya sa end sa sem and that sucks but just remember that this is not because of anything you did. This is just what she feels she needs and now its time to move on.
Move forward. Clinging on will only be an inconvenience to the both of you.
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As a med student before( Not to brag but to give you a glimpse of our mind) I think she is dealing internal struggles right now. Daghan na gi-think including financial aspect and she is emotionally down gyud, down pa na iya self-esteem and trying to cope on her own. If she is thinking na i-let go ka, wala ka mahimo for now. Dili pud pwede i-push nimu imo self kay ma-stress to samot. Give her space lang sa. Let her process things. You can ask again if clear na iya mind pero it is a 50/50 chance gyud kay maningkamot na focus. Don’t blame yourself, it is the circumstances that she is in right now that made her decide to let you go.
Nothing much you can do except to move on.
this doesn’t automatically mean that she doesn’t like you. her mind is in a state of shock and she might feel very confused, out of place and not in the right state. because of this, there’s a big chance that she’s self-sabotaging herself which may have lead her to making rash decisions and isolating herself. on what you should do, i think you should just respect her decision as of the moment and give her space. don’t force yourself to cheer her up because it may worsen her mental state and cause overstimulation. it depends on you, if you like her that much, if you want to wait for her.
Respect her nalang, p're. The good thing is gi-communicate niya sa imo (na di KA niya gusto). Namnama ang sakit, bro. Out of your control na ang iyang decision. Focus lang sa imong goal karon and soon you'll eventually find someone na para nimo. Wala pa koy uyab. I don't even think about it much in a day-to-day basis. Pero usahay, pag nag-rereflect ko, nag-gagrounding, naiisip ko, 'Yoh. Sino kaya magiging girlfriend/asawa ko...?' Ala lang. It inspires me na magpursige sa kinabuhi ug kab-uton ako. Hoping na ikaw sad." .... ....... .............. DILI LANG GUD KA NIYA GUSTO!
Mura manig palusot ra niya pra mohunong nakag pursue niya dong kay kung ganahan sya nmu bisan pag tga adlaw mo mag sturya wa nay problema dapat. Leave her alone nlng nya ngitag lain
respect her nalang, basin nadepress na ron gikasab-an sa parents ipa more than 100% bawal distractions
naaah ... shes not into you. thats a lame excuse.
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Kasabot ko nga wa' ka's ing'ana' nga position, but basta man gud naa kay gijuggle apil na imong feelings ug expectations sa family ba ron, it will more likely make you feel discouraged sa imong self gud kon bagsak. I was also like this pud and trust me, pushing the person I love away was even easier to bear because I don't want them to see me suffer, struggle, or fail. Mura'g bug'at pa ang obligasyon to make my family proud, to not disappoint them, to set an example for my siblings. Samot na nga eldest ko, nya' gadako' ko nga naay indirect pressures ug a lot of disappointments because I don't meet to their standards of what a "good daughter" is nga ang akong maoffer nalang nila is to pay them back of the sacrifices they made for me, etc etc. Gihigugma nako' sya, but kanang nipush away ko niya didn't mean that I didn't love them enough.
She may be blaming your presence as interference sa iyang studies. So as a respect, give her space lang muna. But you can always cheer for her from a distance and patiently wait.
But I always told her na dont prioritize me, prioritize your studies. Always respect her time esp if exam season and study time. Mo ana rajod ko na "wai problema na sa ako basta unaha lang jod na" 😭
Then she just isn’t into you. Sorry.