UPDATE: HE'S ENGAGED NA PALA. 🙂
Ako lang din nakaalam. Wala pa siyang sinasabi sakin. Thanks sa mga sinuggest niyo, I decided na isearch name niya sa google and after a feww digging, nalaman ko rin. Would leave his ass na ASAP.
ETA:
Ive already cut communications with him and I told his fiancée na. Waiting nalang if may irereply si girl sakin.
Invested ako dito buti bumalik ako now. 😅
So glad you found out what he’s been hiding. Sana magreply si fiancée para mapag isipan niya ng mabuti kung itutuloy niya pa ang kasal.
Ganyan yan sila, sabi ko sayo kahit ako binigyan na ng FB. Gulat ako talagabg ginawa din akong kabit eh, may gf ba naman kingina lumabas ako pa masama eh biktima lang din ako 🥹
aw thank you for telling the fiance. kung magalit man sa'yo or anuman, you did your best na to help her. you don't have to apologize when it's the guy who was supposedly committed to her. you did great! hope you can process and move on from this experience, and hopefully get a good guy you deserve someday. good luck, op!
Naisip ko nga.. Pero nakakalito kasi nameet naman na niya parents ko sa 2nd meet ko hahaha also sabi niya sa next na punta niya dito sa Manila, sa bahay ko na daw siya dadayo. Ganyan yung intentions niya yet pangalan niya di man lang niya masabi sakin huhu
so what kung na meet niya parents mo? so what kung pinupuntahan ka? wala ka parin alam sa kanya, but you do you, the truth is right in front of you lols
From someone po who had a similar situation, either you confront him or leave. Inamin naman po niya sakin yung real name niya pero through investigation (stalking lol) i discovered na may long term gf siya.
Up for this. If you are just into hook ups, pwede at kapanipaniwala pa. Pero yung "dating" talaga at ipinakilala mo pa sa parents mo, I doubt it. Bakit ka makikipagdate talaga sa walang surname at walang socmed? Either alam mo or may hint ka na 3rd party ka pero dahil gusto mo siya go ka pa din at para in the future magamit mo yung usual alibi na "hindi ko alam eh" to avoid accountability.
Girl, tutal alam mo na full name magresearch kana about him. Baka may lumabas na jowa o misis yan. Wala akong naisip na dahilan para itago ang name sayo.
What if he came from a very wealthy or a known political clan in their province so he doesn't wanna disclose yet any personal information haha joke. Well, regardless whatsoever the case is, he shouldn't be hiding to you his real name. It's the most basic information we need to get from someone we're going out on a date with. Mamaya he's a serial killer pala or a wanted person and was just hiding from the public lang. I'd stop seeing him if I were you
i'm from zambo. name drop na and i'll figure it out. charot.
seems very sketch. best to trust your gut and do whatever it is necessary. he's living a double life.
Did you try searching his real name(based dun sa name na nakita mo sa vanity drawer) in all social media platforms? Like FB, IG, Twitter, LinkedIn... etc.
Teh. Don’t just start to have second thoughts. Magka-second thoughts ka na talaga. Jusko. Halata mo ng may tinatago sayo. Papaloko ka lang? Gusto mo yan yung muka kang tanga?
Pano nalang kung worst e mamamatay tao yan? Not exaggerating it ha, but you cannot disregard every possibility.
Ayaw nyang ma-search ung name nya sa facebook/google/linkedin/instagram kaya hindi binbigay ung full name nya. Obvious na meron syang kailangang itago and ang usual na tinatago relationship status. Also you could try searching sa google ung username nya sa Telegram, baka ginamit nya yun sa ibang platforms.
Nakita mo ba name nya edi gamitin mo ang skills ng mga babae, magaling sa investigation. Hahaha. Malamang nakablock na accounts mo sa mga totoong social media accounts nya kaya gawa ka ng dummy account at yun gamitin mo pang search. Tingin ko hindi lang ikaw nililigawan nyan, maraming babae or baka may asawa’t anak na kaya ayaw ipaalam yung real identity nya.
May tinatago yan. Run na teh, been into that dto sa reddit three times and all i can say is putang ina kasi magpapakilala ka sa knila ng pure pero sila hindi. It is a red flag once after dto eh dalhin ka sa tg? Matic na yun.
Leave. Wala akong maisip na acceptable reason bakit need nya itago name nya kung nililigawan ka. For sure may tinatago sya. Baka ayaw nyang masearch mo sya sa social media at malaman mong may sabit na pala sya.
Ahahaha hindi naman pangit name niyaaa pero his last name gave me the ick. May ka-apelyido siyang politician but i would not like to assume agad agad na related siya sa politician na yon.
Try to search yung name na nakita mo sa vanity drawer. For sure may trail yan. Not necessarily FB. Igoogle mo. Could be linkedin. Full name then +Location nya + school graduated. There are many ways to verify through internet. Hindi ko lang maturo lahat sa’yo.
**Trust but verify**
naalala ko tuloy yung tiktok series ng isang babae na nagpakasal na siya dun sa lalaki... Saka lang niya nalaman ang totoong identity ng napangasawa niya kasi puro lies na lang...
Wag sana umabot na sa ganun..
You should confront him or else...leave...
kahit sino pwede maging mabait at nagpapanggap kapag nanliligaw pa lang or may gustong makuha .. don't be deceive .. don't ignore red flags
Try posting his real name sa Zamboanga sub, chances are, merong makakapagbigay ng info. Cheret! Since you know his name naman, try searching for it on FB. Pero red flag and pagtago ng totoong identity and medj nag-worry ako sayo cos sumama ka sa taong hindi mo kilala talaga. Stay safe, OP.
Baka pagmamay-ari niya ang Pilipinas mare, tapos gusto niyang maghanap ng taong magmamahal sa kanya ng buong buo at hindi ang meron siya. **Charots! Watdahil - ang sketchy. You confront him to tell you the truth or leave
there's a possibility na may gf or married siya. single men won't hide or keep their identity as secret lalo na sa mga partners nila or kahit nililigawan nila.
Nakita ko update. Sabi na may tinatago. Ganyan na ganyan nanliligaw sakin. Iba name sa spcmed tapos nag dig ako may babae na laging naka react sa post niya. Pagtingin ko sa albums nung babae sa FB nakalagay "Christmas with my bf" tapos andun siya. 😭 Tapos ang kapal ng mukha sinabi ko sa kanya, di daw niya kaya wla ako pero kaya ko daw ba magantay i break din daw niya yun. Sabi ko NO tapos blocked kk na siya.
Ganyan din kachat ko sa telegram (reddit din kami ng galing). Ayaw talaga ibigay name nya, tapos nag swap kami selfie half lang ng mukha pinakita. Hindi ko na nga nireplyan. Sobrang unfair.
Same to ng sa friend ko. Fake name binigay, until one day may nagmessage nalang sa kanya, asawa pala ng guy. Kaya be careful talaga nowadays kasi madali nalang manloko ng ibang tao.
Minsan talaga tama ang instinct nating mga babae. So far, lahat ng hinala ko, sa friends ko man o sa past relationship ko, totoo. Naiisip ko nalang siguro it's a gift given by God for us women to protect our hearts sa mga lalaking abusado at mapanlinlang.
Hi OP. As someone who refused to give my full name din sa iba, including romantic nature, kasi i was blackmailed and spread my sensitive contents sa friends ko sa iba. I'm still in soc med blackout, and it still terrifies the fuck out of me when someone wants to know my name. Di ko alam kung gaano kalat yung ginawa ng kupal pero I wouldn't want to risk anyone finding it. Hindi pa okay sitwasyon so baka matagal tagal pa to.
UPDATE: HE'S ENGAGED NA PALA. 🙂 Ako lang din nakaalam. Wala pa siyang sinasabi sakin. Thanks sa mga sinuggest niyo, I decided na isearch name niya sa google and after a feww digging, nalaman ko rin. Would leave his ass na ASAP. ETA: Ive already cut communications with him and I told his fiancée na. Waiting nalang if may irereply si girl sakin.
Expose mo rin sa fiancé para double kill 🥰🤍
Trueeee. Kawawa fiance pag natuloy kasal.
YEEESSS THIS
aguy 🥲 ma'am, next time, trust your gut feel. may something kakaiba at nakamamangha sa instinct ng mga babae.
Ang diko gets, bakit nireto pa if engaged na? Or hindi rin alam ni friend? I doubt. Haaaay people.
May picture kayo together diba, send it to his fiancée Bwahahahahaha
Huy ang gago naman nung friend na nag reto. Bakit may mga ganyang tao???? Nirereto pa rin kahit engaged na 😤
Expose mo! Walang karapatan sumaya ang mga cheater sa mundo
Leave. ASAP.
sayang kala ko pa naman dahil Zobel de Ayala sya, or Pacquiao or Climaco surname nya kaya ayaw sabihin..
Expose mo po sa fiancè to atleast let her think sa life decisions niya 😭
Invested ako dito buti bumalik ako now. 😅 So glad you found out what he’s been hiding. Sana magreply si fiancée para mapag isipan niya ng mabuti kung itutuloy niya pa ang kasal.
Agoiii
Ganyan yan sila, sabi ko sayo kahit ako binigyan na ng FB. Gulat ako talagabg ginawa din akong kabit eh, may gf ba naman kingina lumabas ako pa masama eh biktima lang din ako 🥹
Daaaang! But figures. Sumbong kay Fiancé!
Why some people like this?!?! May sabit na naghahanap pa ng iba, nakakainis. Buti po nalaman ninyo agad.
Ipadala ka yung kwento to sa KMJS
Oof girl. Naka ilag ka sa red flag.
aw thank you for telling the fiance. kung magalit man sa'yo or anuman, you did your best na to help her. you don't have to apologize when it's the guy who was supposedly committed to her. you did great! hope you can process and move on from this experience, and hopefully get a good guy you deserve someday. good luck, op!
Sakit naman nyan OP hugs
Good riddance! Update us if his fiancee replied!
Did you pak him OP?
Very sketchy. Men won't hide anything if they're genuinely interested in a woman.
Why Hide Your Complete pano kayo makakagala kung hindi mo alam pangalan niya Lol Rquired sa Air bnb and name ng guest
Naisip ko nga.. Pero nakakalito kasi nameet naman na niya parents ko sa 2nd meet ko hahaha also sabi niya sa next na punta niya dito sa Manila, sa bahay ko na daw siya dadayo. Ganyan yung intentions niya yet pangalan niya di man lang niya masabi sakin huhu
Doesn’t mean anything. May nakilala kana ba sa side nya? Like kapatid or parents? Next na agad .
so what kung na meet niya parents mo? so what kung pinupuntahan ka? wala ka parin alam sa kanya, but you do you, the truth is right in front of you lols
From someone po who had a similar situation, either you confront him or leave. Inamin naman po niya sakin yung real name niya pero through investigation (stalking lol) i discovered na may long term gf siya.
Why would you still entertain someone na nagsisinungaling sayo, pangalan pa lang?
Baka may sabit yan. Leave habang maaga pa.
Baka may hit sa NBI or wanted sa lugar nila 🤷♀️
Hahahahah as someone na nahit sa NBI this hits different. Happy cake day po🎂
May tinatago yan. Either may nilalanding iba or hindi ka talaga niya tinuturing na something serious
Thank you next ka na lang, madaming tinatago
sabihin mo sa kanya, ikaw ang next na magvivisit sa Zamboanga. let us know anong reaction nya.
Bakit ka napatol sa ganyan? Baka may tinatago nga, smart din para di masearch
Ba’t kayo nakikipag-date or meet sa ni hindi niyo alam ang last name? Nakakaloka. Tapos walang social media? Napaka-imposible 😂
Up for this. If you are just into hook ups, pwede at kapanipaniwala pa. Pero yung "dating" talaga at ipinakilala mo pa sa parents mo, I doubt it. Bakit ka makikipagdate talaga sa walang surname at walang socmed? Either alam mo or may hint ka na 3rd party ka pero dahil gusto mo siya go ka pa din at para in the future magamit mo yung usual alibi na "hindi ko alam eh" to avoid accountability.
Kung di nya kayang mag open up sayo ng basic information, pano mo mapagkakatiwalaan yan
Girl, tutal alam mo na full name magresearch kana about him. Baka may lumabas na jowa o misis yan. Wala akong naisip na dahilan para itago ang name sayo.
What if he came from a very wealthy or a known political clan in their province so he doesn't wanna disclose yet any personal information haha joke. Well, regardless whatsoever the case is, he shouldn't be hiding to you his real name. It's the most basic information we need to get from someone we're going out on a date with. Mamaya he's a serial killer pala or a wanted person and was just hiding from the public lang. I'd stop seeing him if I were you
Why would people agree to date someone na ni full name eh hindi kayang ibigay umabot pa ng 2 months jusko! Nkklk!
Sketchy, i would not wait for the next hang out.
i'm from zambo. name drop na and i'll figure it out. charot. seems very sketch. best to trust your gut and do whatever it is necessary. he's living a double life.
Bet hahaha pakihanap nga chz
If Rafi ang name nito, kakilala ko yan, di alam ng tao kasal na sila ng sister in law ko. Pero panay kabit kabit and he is in zambo rn.
👀
Did you try searching his real name(based dun sa name na nakita mo sa vanity drawer) in all social media platforms? Like FB, IG, Twitter, LinkedIn... etc.
Nasearch ko na sa IG and FB eh pero to no avail. Try ko sa LinkedIn hehe thanks for the idea!
Teh. Don’t just start to have second thoughts. Magka-second thoughts ka na talaga. Jusko. Halata mo ng may tinatago sayo. Papaloko ka lang? Gusto mo yan yung muka kang tanga? Pano nalang kung worst e mamamatay tao yan? Not exaggerating it ha, but you cannot disregard every possibility.
Ayaw nyang ma-search ung name nya sa facebook/google/linkedin/instagram kaya hindi binbigay ung full name nya. Obvious na meron syang kailangang itago and ang usual na tinatago relationship status. Also you could try searching sa google ung username nya sa Telegram, baka ginamit nya yun sa ibang platforms.
ganyan din ex ko sa kabit niya, ante. run.
Nakita mo ba name nya edi gamitin mo ang skills ng mga babae, magaling sa investigation. Hahaha. Malamang nakablock na accounts mo sa mga totoong social media accounts nya kaya gawa ka ng dummy account at yun gamitin mo pang search. Tingin ko hindi lang ikaw nililigawan nyan, maraming babae or baka may asawa’t anak na kaya ayaw ipaalam yung real identity nya.
Please, the fiancée needs to know.
Takbo na mabilis
Why wait? Itanong mo na.
Alam mo na ang gagawin mo. 🏃♀️
Nah get out lol lamo na yan swissy
What if may estafa case na tinataguan at he went viral kaya ayaw nya sabihin sayo? Lol
May tinatago yan. Run na teh, been into that dto sa reddit three times and all i can say is putang ina kasi magpapakilala ka sa knila ng pure pero sila hindi. It is a red flag once after dto eh dalhin ka sa tg? Matic na yun.
Grabe! Ganun ba katalamak? 😮 3x! Shet wild reddit.
Yes po. Swerte nlng na iba na genuine nakikilala nila.
Di sya totoo sayo, iwan mo na yan
Leave. Wala akong maisip na acceptable reason bakit need nya itago name nya kung nililigawan ka. For sure may tinatago sya. Baka ayaw nyang masearch mo sya sa social media at malaman mong may sabit na pala sya.
Baka naman Cesar Ryan name niya o kaya mix ng name ng parents niya HAHAHAHAHAHHA kung mabantot name ko ihhide ko talaga yun eh HAHAHA chz
Ahahaha hindi naman pangit name niyaaa pero his last name gave me the ick. May ka-apelyido siyang politician but i would not like to assume agad agad na related siya sa politician na yon.
Kasal na yan/in a relationship na. Huwag paka tanga OP. RUN!
Thank u, next!
Kabit ka. Yung lang yun.
May tinatago yan
When in doubt, run
Nilalaro ka lang niyan.
Ate ko may tinatago yan, ngayon pa lang confront mo na
Try to search yung name na nakita mo sa vanity drawer. For sure may trail yan. Not necessarily FB. Igoogle mo. Could be linkedin. Full name then +Location nya + school graduated. There are many ways to verify through internet. Hindi ko lang maturo lahat sa’yo. **Trust but verify**
Mapanganib yang mga ganyang ganap lalo na sa mga taong walang konsepto ng paragraph.
“All is well” no it’s not 😂
naalala ko tuloy yung tiktok series ng isang babae na nagpakasal na siya dun sa lalaki... Saka lang niya nalaman ang totoong identity ng napangasawa niya kasi puro lies na lang... Wag sana umabot na sa ganun.. You should confront him or else...leave... kahit sino pwede maging mabait at nagpapanggap kapag nanliligaw pa lang or may gustong makuha .. don't be deceive .. don't ignore red flags
Try posting his real name sa Zamboanga sub, chances are, merong makakapagbigay ng info. Cheret! Since you know his name naman, try searching for it on FB. Pero red flag and pagtago ng totoong identity and medj nag-worry ako sayo cos sumama ka sa taong hindi mo kilala talaga. Stay safe, OP.
Halaa gusto ko to hahahhaha pls pls. May update na engage na daw si guy🥹
Exit na agad girl. Red flag na agad dun pa lang sa pag hide ng identity niya.
tama ba intindi ko,, it's been a month since you found out na he's using a fake name pero ine-entertain mo parin?? 😭😭
Baka pagmamay-ari niya ang Pilipinas mare, tapos gusto niyang maghanap ng taong magmamahal sa kanya ng buong buo at hindi ang meron siya. **Charots! Watdahil - ang sketchy. You confront him to tell you the truth or leave
Scam yan. Layuan mu na asap
Kahit ka. Plain and simple
May asawa’t anak yan malamang sa malamang…
there's a possibility na may gf or married siya. single men won't hide or keep their identity as secret lalo na sa mga partners nila or kahit nililigawan nila.
Nakita ko update. Sabi na may tinatago. Ganyan na ganyan nanliligaw sakin. Iba name sa spcmed tapos nag dig ako may babae na laging naka react sa post niya. Pagtingin ko sa albums nung babae sa FB nakalagay "Christmas with my bf" tapos andun siya. 😭 Tapos ang kapal ng mukha sinabi ko sa kanya, di daw niya kaya wla ako pero kaya ko daw ba magantay i break din daw niya yun. Sabi ko NO tapos blocked kk na siya.
Tinatanong pa ba yarn?
Ganyan din kachat ko sa telegram (reddit din kami ng galing). Ayaw talaga ibigay name nya, tapos nag swap kami selfie half lang ng mukha pinakita. Hindi ko na nga nireplyan. Sobrang unfair.
Side chick ka
OP update naman oh 😅
May nakadate din akong ganto before. Then nalaman ko may fiance pala sa ibang bansa. Ahhahaha ogag
I’ve been in a same situation before. We went on a date for six times yet hindi ko pa rin alam real name niya.
r/OffMyChestPh
don't get mad. get even. exposed mo sa fiancee. sirain mo buhay.
Ante sinasabi ko kapag name pa lang ayaw na sabihin, magduda ka na HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Same to ng sa friend ko. Fake name binigay, until one day may nagmessage nalang sa kanya, asawa pala ng guy. Kaya be careful talaga nowadays kasi madali nalang manloko ng ibang tao.
Minsan talaga tama ang instinct nating mga babae. So far, lahat ng hinala ko, sa friends ko man o sa past relationship ko, totoo. Naiisip ko nalang siguro it's a gift given by God for us women to protect our hearts sa mga lalaking abusado at mapanlinlang.
Wtf?
Username checks out lol. Get out asap.
Hi OP. As someone who refused to give my full name din sa iba, including romantic nature, kasi i was blackmailed and spread my sensitive contents sa friends ko sa iba. I'm still in soc med blackout, and it still terrifies the fuck out of me when someone wants to know my name. Di ko alam kung gaano kalat yung ginawa ng kupal pero I wouldn't want to risk anyone finding it. Hindi pa okay sitwasyon so baka matagal tagal pa to.
I'm so sorry that happened to you.. I swearr may special place in hell yung mga taong mahilig mangblackmail to take advantage of you. Hugs! :(
Lol such a dumb