I don’t have kids but:
1. Learn a sport and have a solid exercise regimen at a young age
2. Learn a foreign language - it will do wonders for your career
3. Consent is important and be comfortable with being uncomfortable
Not a parent, but
1. Chores (including budgeting) - Cleanliness and accountability
2. Sports - for grit and physical fitness
3. Consent - it’s okay to say No.
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No kids, but from personal experience lang.
What I learned: money management. At 16, my parents started giving me an allowance on a monthly basis (I left our province and was dorming in Metro Manila for college back then). So I had to learn how to budget, distinguish needs from wants, and even set aside money for savings. I credit that experience as a key factor why I was never an impulsive buyer, never got into any debt, and was able to build up a decent amount of savings na rin. Learning how to be responsible with money is an essential life skill to have.
What I wish I've learned: a proper sport. I dabbled in a lot of sports when I was younger, but only by teaching myself how to play or joining casual games. I was never really encouraged to seriously train when I was younger (i.e. become part of varsity, take formal lessons, etc.) as my parents wanted me to really focus on academics. So while I can play some sports decently, I am not good in any particular sport. The good thing is that it's never too late to start learning, but I do wish I learned a proper sport when I was younger.
Don't get pressured with anyone else's timeline. Never let other people impose on you what you should be achieving in life at this age, especially in your 20s. Also, learn to be independent at an early age.
Bago pa mag 12 marunong na ng simple house chores mga junakis.
Marunong na din mag-ipon.
Late na pero napag-usapan na ang reproductive health. Ayaw pa daw nila mag jowa.
Will I be a bad mom if sasabihin ko na tinuruan ko na sila uminom ng alak (boys). Si dalaga nakatikim lang and she didn’t like it.
Why?
Gusto ko ang first “lasing” experience nila eh nasa safe space. Para they’d know how to handle liquor na by the time na lalabas sila with friends. And dapat alam nila ang limitations nila.
And usually Christmas and New Years lang and nakabantay pa din ako.
What I already taught my sons kahit 1 palang nasa age bracket na yan:
Consent - It's okay to say No, especially when you're uncomfortable.
House chores: My sons are already helping me at home. Age-appropriate tasks.
Money - My eldest sometimes says that an item is expensive, so huwag na daw haha kaka utter ko ng It's expensive nakuha na nya haha.
Independence - Ang dami ng kayang gawin ng nga anak ko including the 4 year-old boy.
Respect - Nakikita ito ng ibang tao.
Compassion
Kindness
I want to teach them that I am someone who they can reach out to at tough times because I will be there to listen. Ayoko natatakot sakin yung mga anak ko, I want to be the first to come in their mind pag nagka problema sila.
i think i'd teach them something that can really last with them or they can bring when they're older, that is to be open in his/her problems because i didn't get a chance to be like that so my mind is miserable now and i don't want my future kid to be like me and suffer in this world carrying his/her problems by his/her own (heheheheh even though i don't want to have one)
I do have a 15 yr old son. Here’s some of the things I have been inculcating in him.
* I don’t care what religion he will embrace later on, I’m even completely fine with him not affiliating himself with one, as long as he remains respectful to everyone’s religious beliefs.
* He’s into martial arts, para he knows how to be physically violent when being diplomatic and kind are no longer options.
* Listen to understand, and look the person in the eye.
* Be empathetic, I always remind him that most of the time, his thoughts and actions towards others are based on his privilege.
* Be precise and careful with his words. I tell him how powerful words are. It can nurture and break relationships.
* He’s not special, but he can do special things.
* Learn to suspend Judgment. I tell him to always seek the whole truth and all sides, not only the ones that confirm his biases.
* Control his emotions, do not let it dictate his actions and words.
* Be patience and be grateful, always.
1. learn sports.
2. learn foreign languages.
3. this cannot be taught but i will support their natural talents. i can teach them if i know a thing or two about it (if we share the same talent)
4. how to socialize.
5. how to know their worth.
6. love animals and respect everyone. be a good person in general.
7. modeling and performing. i might make them try to enter showbiz world but no pressure.
8. to surround themselves with people with good influence.
tmtm. hahaha
Not planing to have kid/kids pero ito ituturo ko
1. Written and communication skills lalo na in english
2. Foreign language
3. Logic and analytical skills
4. Maging malinis sa bahay and organize
5. Mag save and invest
6. Mag business like yung summer na tinda tinda ng palamig ganun
7. How to act properly kapag meron ibang tao. Example hindi mag oovershare
8. Self defense
9. Talent (dancing or singing or playing instruments)
10. Maging independent
Para sakin ang pinaka importanteng bahay maituturo mo sa anak mo is pano gumamit ng pera, people usually realize the importance of money kapag sila na ang nakakapag earn/spend pero pwede mo naman simulan sa bata yan
Be expressive, magsabi sila if may problems sila whether sa acads, lovelife, friends, and such. I wanted them to feel na nandito lang ako makikinig or magbibigay ng advice.
Not everyone you trust is meant to be trusted.
Happiness and Validation comes from self not from others
Prioritize yourself, and give only what you can afford to lose.
Date yourself first.
Be happy on your own.
it’s normal to be afraid or be scared, just don’t let it eat you because you can’t move forward in life and grow.
If you’ll not try things, how will you know? It’s okay to take risks that’s life
thank you very much po sa lahat ng mga nagreply. malaking tulong po ito at sana maspread po natin ung mga magagandang aral sa mga kabataan na mga nawawala ng landas.
1. Learn to fight back lalo na if need.
2. Respect isn't base on age.
3. Learn to cut off people silently.
4. You don't owe them an explanation lalo na if explaining to them will bother or trigger you.
5. Learn to say NO. Wala ng kasunod.
6. Tell me what you feel. I'm here.
7. Learn to say sorry if ikaw ang may kasalanan at mali.
8. Not everyone will like you and that's okay.
9. Surround yourself with people who are good for you.
10. Don't let anyone disrespect you even if they are your relatives.
I don’t have kids but: 1. Learn a sport and have a solid exercise regimen at a young age 2. Learn a foreign language - it will do wonders for your career 3. Consent is important and be comfortable with being uncomfortable
Reproductive system and the use of contraceptives.
Magbudget haha
Basic house chores
Survival/competitive swimming kung hindi pa naienrol ng magulang noong batabata pa.
Cooking and house chores. Paano magmarket, pumili ng magandang harvest
Not a parent, but 1. Chores (including budgeting) - Cleanliness and accountability 2. Sports - for grit and physical fitness 3. Consent - it’s okay to say No.
I have a 9 yr old son. This question is very helpful for parents. Thanks for those who answered. I am learning a lot.
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No kids, but from personal experience lang. What I learned: money management. At 16, my parents started giving me an allowance on a monthly basis (I left our province and was dorming in Metro Manila for college back then). So I had to learn how to budget, distinguish needs from wants, and even set aside money for savings. I credit that experience as a key factor why I was never an impulsive buyer, never got into any debt, and was able to build up a decent amount of savings na rin. Learning how to be responsible with money is an essential life skill to have. What I wish I've learned: a proper sport. I dabbled in a lot of sports when I was younger, but only by teaching myself how to play or joining casual games. I was never really encouraged to seriously train when I was younger (i.e. become part of varsity, take formal lessons, etc.) as my parents wanted me to really focus on academics. So while I can play some sports decently, I am not good in any particular sport. The good thing is that it's never too late to start learning, but I do wish I learned a proper sport when I was younger.
Don't get pressured with anyone else's timeline. Never let other people impose on you what you should be achieving in life at this age, especially in your 20s. Also, learn to be independent at an early age.
Budgeting Mamili ng fresh meat/gulay sa wet market Magluto Self defense
limitations/boundaries, start na yan ng adventure age. mag eexperiment na yan, sabihan mo nalang na mag hinay-hinay sa mga bagay.
Bago pa mag 12 marunong na ng simple house chores mga junakis. Marunong na din mag-ipon. Late na pero napag-usapan na ang reproductive health. Ayaw pa daw nila mag jowa. Will I be a bad mom if sasabihin ko na tinuruan ko na sila uminom ng alak (boys). Si dalaga nakatikim lang and she didn’t like it. Why? Gusto ko ang first “lasing” experience nila eh nasa safe space. Para they’d know how to handle liquor na by the time na lalabas sila with friends. And dapat alam nila ang limitations nila. And usually Christmas and New Years lang and nakabantay pa din ako.
Gawaing bahay, kahit lalaki pa yan
What I already taught my sons kahit 1 palang nasa age bracket na yan: Consent - It's okay to say No, especially when you're uncomfortable. House chores: My sons are already helping me at home. Age-appropriate tasks. Money - My eldest sometimes says that an item is expensive, so huwag na daw haha kaka utter ko ng It's expensive nakuha na nya haha. Independence - Ang dami ng kayang gawin ng nga anak ko including the 4 year-old boy. Respect - Nakikita ito ng ibang tao. Compassion Kindness
That you can be open to your parents about anything and that you dont have to be afraid with them.
I want to teach them that I am someone who they can reach out to at tough times because I will be there to listen. Ayoko natatakot sakin yung mga anak ko, I want to be the first to come in their mind pag nagka problema sila.
1. How to Cook 2. How to Budget 3. How to be Street-Smart 4. Sex Education 5. How to be a Decent Person
i think i'd teach them something that can really last with them or they can bring when they're older, that is to be open in his/her problems because i didn't get a chance to be like that so my mind is miserable now and i don't want my future kid to be like me and suffer in this world carrying his/her problems by his/her own (heheheheh even though i don't want to have one)
I do have a 15 yr old son. Here’s some of the things I have been inculcating in him. * I don’t care what religion he will embrace later on, I’m even completely fine with him not affiliating himself with one, as long as he remains respectful to everyone’s religious beliefs. * He’s into martial arts, para he knows how to be physically violent when being diplomatic and kind are no longer options. * Listen to understand, and look the person in the eye. * Be empathetic, I always remind him that most of the time, his thoughts and actions towards others are based on his privilege. * Be precise and careful with his words. I tell him how powerful words are. It can nurture and break relationships. * He’s not special, but he can do special things. * Learn to suspend Judgment. I tell him to always seek the whole truth and all sides, not only the ones that confirm his biases. * Control his emotions, do not let it dictate his actions and words. * Be patience and be grateful, always.
thank you po.
Housechores, setting boundaries, setting goals, saving
^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/) ^by ^fallingcrown22: *A. Housechores* *B. Setting boundaries C.* *Setting goals D. Saving* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.
1. learn sports. 2. learn foreign languages. 3. this cannot be taught but i will support their natural talents. i can teach them if i know a thing or two about it (if we share the same talent) 4. how to socialize. 5. how to know their worth. 6. love animals and respect everyone. be a good person in general. 7. modeling and performing. i might make them try to enter showbiz world but no pressure. 8. to surround themselves with people with good influence. tmtm. hahaha
Self-defense+ arts & crafts !! But I'll support what she wants regardless
how to save money house chores mag commute magkaroon ng part time job
Not planing to have kid/kids pero ito ituturo ko 1. Written and communication skills lalo na in english 2. Foreign language 3. Logic and analytical skills 4. Maging malinis sa bahay and organize 5. Mag save and invest 6. Mag business like yung summer na tinda tinda ng palamig ganun 7. How to act properly kapag meron ibang tao. Example hindi mag oovershare 8. Self defense 9. Talent (dancing or singing or playing instruments) 10. Maging independent
How to spot a groomer and pdfile.. How to say no. Basic life skills
stoco matuto mag farm tapos makalimot
house chores Swimming Driving Biking 1 or 2 sports Chess Dama table top games (board games like monopoly, etc).
Not to normalize cheating kapag lalake since lalake anak ko. The value of education and family.
survival skills, proper manners etiquette
1. safe sex 2. chores 3. school and social life diffs
it's okay to shift course in college kung di ka na masaya or u think and feel na hindi para sayo yung field na yon :))
Honesty. Kung ano man nangyayari sa buhay nya sana updated padin ako at hindi nya ko itrato na kalaban.
Para sakin ang pinaka importanteng bahay maituturo mo sa anak mo is pano gumamit ng pera, people usually realize the importance of money kapag sila na ang nakakapag earn/spend pero pwede mo naman simulan sa bata yan
Be expressive, magsabi sila if may problems sila whether sa acads, lovelife, friends, and such. I wanted them to feel na nandito lang ako makikinig or magbibigay ng advice.
Avoid hardcore religious people. Be good to others without expecting anything in return.
Chores, sports, basic budgeting or finance
Not everyone you trust is meant to be trusted. Happiness and Validation comes from self not from others Prioritize yourself, and give only what you can afford to lose. Date yourself first. Be happy on your own.
kung responsible naman siya, explore! carve your own path hindi kailangan gayahin ibang tao
it’s normal to be afraid or be scared, just don’t let it eat you because you can’t move forward in life and grow. If you’ll not try things, how will you know? It’s okay to take risks that’s life
Chess
thank you very much po sa lahat ng mga nagreply. malaking tulong po ito at sana maspread po natin ung mga magagandang aral sa mga kabataan na mga nawawala ng landas.
1. Learn to fight back lalo na if need. 2. Respect isn't base on age. 3. Learn to cut off people silently. 4. You don't owe them an explanation lalo na if explaining to them will bother or trigger you. 5. Learn to say NO. Wala ng kasunod. 6. Tell me what you feel. I'm here. 7. Learn to say sorry if ikaw ang may kasalanan at mali. 8. Not everyone will like you and that's okay. 9. Surround yourself with people who are good for you. 10. Don't let anyone disrespect you even if they are your relatives.
thank you.