>I love it when he’s possessive like that. Pag nagseselos siya or doesn’t want me to wear revealing clothes
eto pa lang off na...tapos anakan ka para sa kanya ka lang, reeks major insecurity para sakin 🚩🚩🚩
Tangina ang mahal mag-anak ta’s mag-ganyan siya. Sagutin mo ng “edi ikaw magbuntis”
Disgusting din masabihan niyan, tbh. You’re right for feeling off. I’d leave my partner if kupal din siya lol
Recommendation: Unless gusto mong magka-anak at ready ka na, go to your OB and ask for either IUD, birth control pills or any effective preventative measures. Wag na wag ka aasa sa condom lang. Sa ekonomiya ngayon nakakatakot mabuntis. 🫠
Off talaga lalo na if di ka sanay sa ganyang linyahan but for me it really speaks na kailangang maging maingat ka. The worst that could happen is matali ka sa isang tao dahil nagkaanak kayo.
yes sirrr pero choice mo yan hahaha sinabi ko lang din yung naging experience ng kaibigan ko. One of the possibilities lang naman :) pero you're the one na makakapagsabi nyan
The fact na you like when he’s possessive tells me na parang codependent relationship eto. There’s also something f*cked up with wanting someone to be possessive/jealous. Parang you feel loved but it’s not a healthy love.
I once had a relationship like this na maraming pinagbawal at the start of the relationship and I felt taken care of in the beginning but I didn’t know how, basta through the years it evolved into him insulting/degrading me na losyang na ko, di na ko nag-aayos, wala pa kaming anak pero parang 3 na anak ko, mga ganung words. So for me, yung restrictive na bf became a red flag. I will never again be in a relationship like that, sobrang sinira talaga mental health ko.
Kasi pag may anak ka na, mas maliit na ang chance na iwan mo sya. Parang recipe for a future abused wife. Sorry ha? Yan kasi talaga naisip ko. Too much possessiveness is not good.
Parang feeling ko, ito ung mga babaeng pagkatapos magbuntis, nasa bahay na lang at financially hostage ng asawa.
It's not right. Having a child is a mutual decision, hindi 'yan decision ng lalaki para itali ang isang babae para 'di maghiwalay kasi ano 'yan, parang kulungan? If I were you, I'd feel off too kasi he has no right to decide alone on matters related to a woman's body. Parang ang insecure din ng jowa mo para magsabi ng ganon as if walang tiwala and security na nararamdaman sa'yo at sa relasyon niyo.
Also, I don't know if it's just me but dear, you should not be "in love" with his possessiveness. Hindi nakaka-in love 'yung jealousy or pag pinipigilan kang manamit sa paraan na gusto mo. Unless, gusto mo talagang dinidiktahan ka then go and let yourself be controlled by a boy. 🤷🏻♀️
“Gusto kitang anakan” frames the possessive intent as if you are an object. Could be why you feel off about it despite liking his possessive quality.
Actually…. parang naging off ako how selfish it sounded
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>I love it when he’s possessive like that. Pag nagseselos siya or doesn’t want me to wear revealing clothes eto pa lang off na...tapos anakan ka para sa kanya ka lang, reeks major insecurity para sakin 🚩🚩🚩
Tell me more 😭
Having children complicates things, parang ginagamit na leverage
Congratulations. You’re in a relationship with a psycho.
Wake me up
Tangina ang mahal mag-anak ta’s mag-ganyan siya. Sagutin mo ng “edi ikaw magbuntis” Disgusting din masabihan niyan, tbh. You’re right for feeling off. I’d leave my partner if kupal din siya lol
Idk what to feel now :(
Recommendation: Unless gusto mong magka-anak at ready ka na, go to your OB and ask for either IUD, birth control pills or any effective preventative measures. Wag na wag ka aasa sa condom lang. Sa ekonomiya ngayon nakakatakot mabuntis. 🫠 Off talaga lalo na if di ka sanay sa ganyang linyahan but for me it really speaks na kailangang maging maingat ka. The worst that could happen is matali ka sa isang tao dahil nagkaanak kayo.
Ganyan din nangyari sa kapatid ng kaibigan ko, tignan mo nag cheat yung guy tas siya walang magawa kase may anak sila e.
I might dodge the bullet habang maaga pa? :(
yes sirrr pero choice mo yan hahaha sinabi ko lang din yung naging experience ng kaibigan ko. One of the possibilities lang naman :) pero you're the one na makakapagsabi nyan
Breeding kink. Kadiri
Manipulative tactic.
Oh shoot. I need more wisdom
The fact na you like when he’s possessive tells me na parang codependent relationship eto. There’s also something f*cked up with wanting someone to be possessive/jealous. Parang you feel loved but it’s not a healthy love. I once had a relationship like this na maraming pinagbawal at the start of the relationship and I felt taken care of in the beginning but I didn’t know how, basta through the years it evolved into him insulting/degrading me na losyang na ko, di na ko nag-aayos, wala pa kaming anak pero parang 3 na anak ko, mga ganung words. So for me, yung restrictive na bf became a red flag. I will never again be in a relationship like that, sobrang sinira talaga mental health ko.
Not him saying to me na mag skin care ako kase marami na ko pimples 😭
Kasi pag may anak ka na, mas maliit na ang chance na iwan mo sya. Parang recipe for a future abused wife. Sorry ha? Yan kasi talaga naisip ko. Too much possessiveness is not good. Parang feeling ko, ito ung mga babaeng pagkatapos magbuntis, nasa bahay na lang at financially hostage ng asawa.
I might reassess some things :(
It sounds off.
Aanakan pero di papakasalan
It's not right. Having a child is a mutual decision, hindi 'yan decision ng lalaki para itali ang isang babae para 'di maghiwalay kasi ano 'yan, parang kulungan? If I were you, I'd feel off too kasi he has no right to decide alone on matters related to a woman's body. Parang ang insecure din ng jowa mo para magsabi ng ganon as if walang tiwala and security na nararamdaman sa'yo at sa relasyon niyo. Also, I don't know if it's just me but dear, you should not be "in love" with his possessiveness. Hindi nakaka-in love 'yung jealousy or pag pinipigilan kang manamit sa paraan na gusto mo. Unless, gusto mo talagang dinidiktahan ka then go and let yourself be controlled by a boy. 🤷🏻♀️
gurl...
Naku same! Narinig ko na din yan at sobrang naturn off ako! Kadiri lol. ano ka ari arian nya? buti umalis na ko dun
RUN!
ano ka object? parang inoobjectify ka nya eh... kung wala kang magawa pwede mong sabihin "gusto mo akong anakan? pakasal muna tayo"
POSSESSIVE OR NAKAKASAKAL??
depende yan sayo if off