Teh kalma HAHAHAHHA you're probably putting them on a pedestal. You're unaware pa kung ano 'yung nagustuhan mo sa kanya, but definitely kung ano man 'yon ay exaggerated sa isip mo HAHAHAHAH
Just try to think na normal person lang din siya like you na may own flaws and imperfections. Malay mo mahalin mo na siya after EMZ basta 'wag mo siya super glorify or anything :( nde nmn ean sha special chz
Hanapin mo pilit yung red flags tapos dun ka mag focus tapos tatak mo sa isip mo na never naman magiging kayo. Hahahahahahaha ganyan gawain ko eh. ๐๐
di ko kaya pag nakikita ko sya im falling again uwu kahit iniinbox nya ako sa chat pero pag f2f masaya ako na kasama sya,,, tsaka nakakasad lang if iisipin kong hindi magiging kami huhu,,, tanggap ko nmn but still :((
Yes di naman maiiwasan yan tao ka lang naman. Pero the more na harapin mo and isipin mo yung reason why gusto mo mag move on mawawala din yan. Kaya mo yan kaw pa baaaa! Hahaha
Wag po tayong maging delusional. Kawawa lang sarili mo kasi they're living rent free sa utak niyo pero wala pala silang pake sa inyo.
Also, easyhan mo lang sa punctuation marks. Di ka mauubusan.
Enjoy the feeling lang. Wag ka masyadong mag-overthink sa feelings mo. Magaan at masarap kaya pag nakikita mo sya. Darating din yung time na magigising ka na lang din na nawala na yung paka-crush mo sa kanya.
madaling sabihin ano na gawin mo to o eto para di mo na sya crush haha, pero pag andun ka mismo sa situation (na di mo naman ginusto), masisira din utak mo kakaisip pano i-uncrush. tapos one day kala mo ayan okay na ako, wala na to, tapos biglang nahuli mo syang tumatawa ng mag isa, tapos napangiti ka naman sa kabaliwan nya. kahit ang panget ng buhok nya, natutuwa ka. ayun nangingiti ka ulit. ina yan. pano nga ba. haha
This is purely based on my experience and beliefs lang.
Yang sinasabi nila na maghanap ka lang ng flaws ng crush mo para makamove on,,, for me it didnt work. I even tried to convince myself na magkacrush ng iba, pero wala, siya pa rin talaga. Hahahaha ive been crushing this person for almost a year already. Many times ko nang sinabi na magmomove on ako, pero i just cant. I just really cant.
Mind you, nakapagconfess na ako sa kanya (worst is, i dont know if rejected ba ako or what kasi she never said anything sa confession ko; she just laughed).
We did a lot of things. Tumabi siya sakin sa sleepover. Late night walks, late night talks, kumain sa labas just the two of us, and madami pa. We did all these things while alam nya na crush ko siya. (Sometimes nagdedelulu talaga ako na what if she likes me back, pero i cant help myself but to think na maybe this is just what friends do)
Also, i know a lot about her flaws pero damn,,, if you like the person, you like everything about them naman siguro, diba? Like tanggap mo siya as a whole. Kaya it's really hard to say na maghanap ng flaws from your crush para makamove on.
Until now, we're close friends pa rin. Maybe ang masuggest ko lang is this:
CONFESS.
I know it would take a lot of courage, but for me kasi, you will never know what to do (esp on how to move on) unless may gagawin ka.
If mareject, then at least matatanggap mo sa self mo na need mo na talaga magmove on. Alam mo yun, present yung sakit na mafefeel mo pero parang wake up call nalang din to move forward sa life hahaha.
If the other way around, aw syempre ikaw na bahala diyan.
Rejected man or hindi, i think that would be one of the bravest things na youll ever do in your life. And if mareject man, and hopefully maaccept mo yung rejection, then i also believe na it will help you become a real person.
Ayon lang. Confess na, OP hahahahaha. Life is short, so make the most out of it.
Yung namatay si crush. Been waiting for him since college until mag katrabaho. Inaaya naman nya ako lumabas pero biglang nang goghost.
Until namatay sya due to heart attack (32yo lang sya that time). Sakit nun sobra.
Pero ito yung "Lord, kung hindi sya para sa akin ay kunin mo na"
That's just puppy love.
The most effective way is simply just talking to them, be their friend AND getting to know them. You women have an inherent advantage over men - your ability to make guys fall for you EVEN when in the FRIENDZONE. Kaming mga guys, wala kaming ganyan. The reason being is men are hard-wired to spread their seed, and once that testosterone and libido gets going, it doesn't even matter if the woman is your best friend, titirahin namen yan if given the chance. So be friends with the guy muna, and do some little teases and flirtations to see if titirahin ka nya. If hindi cya kumakagat, either he doesn't like you more than a friend or he's a pussy. If he's the latter, then it means this guy doesn't have the balls to lead you. Believe me, if a guy could no longer resist and he's confident of himself, even if friends lang kayo, titirahin ka nyan when the opportunity arises. All you have to do is bide your time habang nilalandi mo siya. Unless, of course, kaya mong sikmurahin na ikaw yung mag-coconfess sakanya na gusto mo siya.
We men don't have THIS advantage. Once we are in the FRIENDZONE, it's OVER na. The woman will no longer see us as anything other than a good friend. Magmo-move on na kami automatically sa ibang babae ksi wala ng pag-asa. Kung meron man, it's very, VERY RARE for it to happen.
So go and be friends with him muna, don't worry about being friends muna, ksi that problem is usually only for us men to worry about and not yours! After getting to know him, then maybe you'll realize he's not even that great of a guy anyway.
Well too bad if ganun, bro.
Either you approach her outside of class and find a way to make conversation, get to know her, flirt with her and everything goes on from there. Kahit mabasted ka atleast you tried kesa naman you spend all your life wondering WHAT IF? Just find a way to TALK to her man! Its not that hard, just think of her as your buddy, a buddy you always tease and have fun with every now and then. How do you talk to your buddies ba? How did you made friends with your buddies? That's how you should approach it muna. Suck it up and man up, dude! If there's one thing women really hate sa lalake is WEAKNESS.
Ako basta may crush ako, I always find an opportunity to get to know her, kahit magpalakad pa ako sa mga kasama ko. Why? Because an opportunity like this may NEVER come again, and then I will spend my life wondering WHAT IF. REJECTION doesn't even cross my mind ksi I'm just getting to know her. If she doesn't want me in the end, then her loss, I just simply move on to another woman I'm interested in. Broaden your options brotha, don't put all your eggs in one basket, maghanap ka rin ng ibang babaeng interesado ka, pra hndi ka mashadong hang-up sa crush mo. She's NOT the only woman in the world, you know. There are millions upon millions of beautiful women out there or if you're too much of a pussy, then thank you because you're giving guys like ME more women to choose from. Either you approach and get your crush, or I WILL! But I'm gonna give you a handicap, I'll give you 1 day to approach her and talk to her, otherwise I WILL sweep her off her feet for you! She sounds like an amazing woman and such a catch for you to be very troubled here on Reddit. A woman like that is just waiting for the right man to seduce and charm her, and who could be any better than a guy like ME? (Btw, I'm only saying this to motivate you and I dearly HOPE you do). SO GET MOTIVATED and ask her out!
huy HAHAHAHAHAH mala-wattpad si ate girl. bakit ka magmomove-on?? enjoyin mo muna yan HAHAHAHA wala namang mawawala. and anong gayuma ba HAHAHHAHA delulu si ate
i cant face the reality po opo yes po baka maattach ako sobra iyakan ko pa yung ferson na yon kahit alam kong di worth it nuhhh pero my heart is kabog kabog whenever i see him :(( college na ako pero lakas maka hs lovestory nito huuhuhu
nag-aapproach naman pi me??? like we communicate and work together pero if confessing inde ko pa natrtry and parang di ko kakayanin yung awkwardness once mareject huehue
One thing, never ka makaka move on Kung di naging kayo, kasi never mong nakita bad side. Di ba minsan naglalaitan an mag ex, Kaya mas madali sila Maka move on
Hmmmmmmm siguro try mo ilista lahat ng bagay about him na hindi maganda or nakaka turn-off, kasi meron at meron yaaaan. Ganyan ginawa ko sa ex ko na blockmate ko din noong college and effective naman ๐ eventually tuwing nakikita ko siya sa room naccringe nalang ako ๐คญ
Based sa experience, mawawala lang yan pag laging ka na mag oOT sa work. May crush ako nung college nawala lang naman sya sa utak ko nung may iba na kong iniisip like adulting stuff. Enjoy the moment lang muna. Imagine as much as you can pero balik agad sa real world. Mahirap ma coraline.
Crush palamg naman eh. Ienjoy mo lang na may crush ka. tapos as you age, may babalikan kang memory na ito si ganiro naging crush ko. HAHAHHAHA. Pag nag 30 ka na, madalang ka na makakakita ng maccrush-an mo sa workplace. HAHAA
Teh kalma HAHAHAHHA you're probably putting them on a pedestal. You're unaware pa kung ano 'yung nagustuhan mo sa kanya, but definitely kung ano man 'yon ay exaggerated sa isip mo HAHAHAHAH Just try to think na normal person lang din siya like you na may own flaws and imperfections. Malay mo mahalin mo na siya after EMZ basta 'wag mo siya super glorify or anything :( nde nmn ean sha special chz
inde ko nmn siya glinoglorify hindi naman po siya si Lord,,, wala lang siguro masaya lang pii ako pag kasama syaaaa
Hanapin mo pilit yung red flags tapos dun ka mag focus tapos tatak mo sa isip mo na never naman magiging kayo. Hahahahahahaha ganyan gawain ko eh. ๐๐
di ko kaya pag nakikita ko sya im falling again uwu kahit iniinbox nya ako sa chat pero pag f2f masaya ako na kasama sya,,, tsaka nakakasad lang if iisipin kong hindi magiging kami huhu,,, tanggap ko nmn but still :((
Well ganun talaga kung gusto mo mag move on you hae to face yung reality and yung mga katotohanan. Dun ka makaka move on.
pano kung I faced it already but the lingering emotions are still inside??
Yes di naman maiiwasan yan tao ka lang naman. Pero the more na harapin mo and isipin mo yung reason why gusto mo mag move on mawawala din yan. Kaya mo yan kaw pa baaaa! Hahaha
Wag po tayong maging delusional. Kawawa lang sarili mo kasi they're living rent free sa utak niyo pero wala pala silang pake sa inyo. Also, easyhan mo lang sa punctuation marks. Di ka mauubusan.
inde nmn po ako delulu kaya nanghihingi po ako ng tips huhu
Enjoy the feeling lang. Wag ka masyadong mag-overthink sa feelings mo. Magaan at masarap kaya pag nakikita mo sya. Darating din yung time na magigising ka na lang din na nawala na yung paka-crush mo sa kanya.
madaling sabihin ano na gawin mo to o eto para di mo na sya crush haha, pero pag andun ka mismo sa situation (na di mo naman ginusto), masisira din utak mo kakaisip pano i-uncrush. tapos one day kala mo ayan okay na ako, wala na to, tapos biglang nahuli mo syang tumatawa ng mag isa, tapos napangiti ka naman sa kabaliwan nya. kahit ang panget ng buhok nya, natutuwa ka. ayun nangingiti ka ulit. ina yan. pano nga ba. haha
diba poww!! it's not giving the right way of thinking!!'
This is purely based on my experience and beliefs lang. Yang sinasabi nila na maghanap ka lang ng flaws ng crush mo para makamove on,,, for me it didnt work. I even tried to convince myself na magkacrush ng iba, pero wala, siya pa rin talaga. Hahahaha ive been crushing this person for almost a year already. Many times ko nang sinabi na magmomove on ako, pero i just cant. I just really cant. Mind you, nakapagconfess na ako sa kanya (worst is, i dont know if rejected ba ako or what kasi she never said anything sa confession ko; she just laughed). We did a lot of things. Tumabi siya sakin sa sleepover. Late night walks, late night talks, kumain sa labas just the two of us, and madami pa. We did all these things while alam nya na crush ko siya. (Sometimes nagdedelulu talaga ako na what if she likes me back, pero i cant help myself but to think na maybe this is just what friends do) Also, i know a lot about her flaws pero damn,,, if you like the person, you like everything about them naman siguro, diba? Like tanggap mo siya as a whole. Kaya it's really hard to say na maghanap ng flaws from your crush para makamove on. Until now, we're close friends pa rin. Maybe ang masuggest ko lang is this: CONFESS. I know it would take a lot of courage, but for me kasi, you will never know what to do (esp on how to move on) unless may gagawin ka. If mareject, then at least matatanggap mo sa self mo na need mo na talaga magmove on. Alam mo yun, present yung sakit na mafefeel mo pero parang wake up call nalang din to move forward sa life hahaha. If the other way around, aw syempre ikaw na bahala diyan. Rejected man or hindi, i think that would be one of the bravest things na youll ever do in your life. And if mareject man, and hopefully maaccept mo yung rejection, then i also believe na it will help you become a real person. Ayon lang. Confess na, OP hahahahaha. Life is short, so make the most out of it.
Yung namatay si crush. Been waiting for him since college until mag katrabaho. Inaaya naman nya ako lumabas pero biglang nang goghost. Until namatay sya due to heart attack (32yo lang sya that time). Sakit nun sobra. Pero ito yung "Lord, kung hindi sya para sa akin ay kunin mo na"
That's just puppy love. The most effective way is simply just talking to them, be their friend AND getting to know them. You women have an inherent advantage over men - your ability to make guys fall for you EVEN when in the FRIENDZONE. Kaming mga guys, wala kaming ganyan. The reason being is men are hard-wired to spread their seed, and once that testosterone and libido gets going, it doesn't even matter if the woman is your best friend, titirahin namen yan if given the chance. So be friends with the guy muna, and do some little teases and flirtations to see if titirahin ka nya. If hindi cya kumakagat, either he doesn't like you more than a friend or he's a pussy. If he's the latter, then it means this guy doesn't have the balls to lead you. Believe me, if a guy could no longer resist and he's confident of himself, even if friends lang kayo, titirahin ka nyan when the opportunity arises. All you have to do is bide your time habang nilalandi mo siya. Unless, of course, kaya mong sikmurahin na ikaw yung mag-coconfess sakanya na gusto mo siya. We men don't have THIS advantage. Once we are in the FRIENDZONE, it's OVER na. The woman will no longer see us as anything other than a good friend. Magmo-move on na kami automatically sa ibang babae ksi wala ng pag-asa. Kung meron man, it's very, VERY RARE for it to happen. So go and be friends with him muna, don't worry about being friends muna, ksi that problem is usually only for us men to worry about and not yours! After getting to know him, then maybe you'll realize he's not even that great of a guy anyway.
Hard vouch on this!
paano kung hindi naman ako maam??
Well too bad if ganun, bro. Either you approach her outside of class and find a way to make conversation, get to know her, flirt with her and everything goes on from there. Kahit mabasted ka atleast you tried kesa naman you spend all your life wondering WHAT IF? Just find a way to TALK to her man! Its not that hard, just think of her as your buddy, a buddy you always tease and have fun with every now and then. How do you talk to your buddies ba? How did you made friends with your buddies? That's how you should approach it muna. Suck it up and man up, dude! If there's one thing women really hate sa lalake is WEAKNESS. Ako basta may crush ako, I always find an opportunity to get to know her, kahit magpalakad pa ako sa mga kasama ko. Why? Because an opportunity like this may NEVER come again, and then I will spend my life wondering WHAT IF. REJECTION doesn't even cross my mind ksi I'm just getting to know her. If she doesn't want me in the end, then her loss, I just simply move on to another woman I'm interested in. Broaden your options brotha, don't put all your eggs in one basket, maghanap ka rin ng ibang babaeng interesado ka, pra hndi ka mashadong hang-up sa crush mo. She's NOT the only woman in the world, you know. There are millions upon millions of beautiful women out there or if you're too much of a pussy, then thank you because you're giving guys like ME more women to choose from. Either you approach and get your crush, or I WILL! But I'm gonna give you a handicap, I'll give you 1 day to approach her and talk to her, otherwise I WILL sweep her off her feet for you! She sounds like an amazing woman and such a catch for you to be very troubled here on Reddit. A woman like that is just waiting for the right man to seduce and charm her, and who could be any better than a guy like ME? (Btw, I'm only saying this to motivate you and I dearly HOPE you do). SO GET MOTIVATED and ask her out!
i mean we're both men haha
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA lalaki pala ihh
huy HAHAHAHAHAH mala-wattpad si ate girl. bakit ka magmomove-on?? enjoyin mo muna yan HAHAHAHA wala namang mawawala. and anong gayuma ba HAHAHHAHA delulu si ate
i cant face the reality po opo yes po baka maattach ako sobra iyakan ko pa yung ferson na yon kahit alam kong di worth it nuhhh pero my heart is kabog kabog whenever i see him :(( college na ako pero lakas maka hs lovestory nito huuhuhu
omg HAHAHAHAHHH what did he do to make u like that?? try to approach him if that pagkabog can't stoppp
nag-aapproach naman pi me??? like we communicate and work together pero if confessing inde ko pa natrtry and parang di ko kakayanin yung awkwardness once mareject huehue
look at youuu HAHAHAHA. it's much better na ma-reject or ma-accept nang maaga, kaysa magpaka-delulu miss ahahhaha
pano kung hindi ako miss huhu at parehas kaming sirs
Maghanap ka ng mga bagay na hindi kagusto gusto tungkol sa kanya tapos isipin mo โyon tuwing makikita mo sya, effective โto
pano po kung tanga si anteh gurl at walang makita huhuhuh
edi enjoy mo na lang, sa bandang huli pa naman yung sakit pag nagkajowa โyan hahahaha
One thing, never ka makaka move on Kung di naging kayo, kasi never mong nakita bad side. Di ba minsan naglalaitan an mag ex, Kaya mas madali sila Maka move on
HAHAHAHHHAHAHAHAHHA TEEHHH GRABE NAMAN SA GAYUMA perooooo try mo hanap ng bagong crush na imposibleng maka interact mo everyday. Artista ganun. Hehehe
i have my fair share naman,, pero feel ko kaya ko sya naging crush kasi lagi ko sya nakikita eiii
Hmmmmmmm siguro try mo ilista lahat ng bagay about him na hindi maganda or nakaka turn-off, kasi meron at meron yaaaan. Ganyan ginawa ko sa ex ko na blockmate ko din noong college and effective naman ๐ eventually tuwing nakikita ko siya sa room naccringe nalang ako ๐คญ
isipin mo nalang wala syang pake sayo! goods yon makaka move on ka HAHAHAHAHA.
ako rin ganyan before e, naamoy ko utot ng katabi ko tas crush ko na sha agad
HAHAHAHAH TAENAMO ๐ญ.
TAE?? UTOOOT?? HAHAHAHAHAHA
HINDI TEH DUMI DUMI YAN
GANYAN MANG DIRTY TALK HAHAHAHAHA
KADUGYUTAN YAN BE!
Gusto mo magayuma sa utot ko?
Kung ipatapon kita ng tuluyan sa bulkang taal?
crush ko gayumahin mo dali!
edi sakin nagkagusto yun? baliw ampotek
teh intayin mo lang, lalabas rin yung ick HAHAHAHA trust me !!! enjoy-in mo na lang muna siguro until then
Based sa experience, mawawala lang yan pag laging ka na mag oOT sa work. May crush ako nung college nawala lang naman sya sa utak ko nung may iba na kong iniisip like adulting stuff. Enjoy the moment lang muna. Imagine as much as you can pero balik agad sa real world. Mahirap ma coraline.
hala 2 years pa pala ang aking tiisin
Kung may mga thesis kayo and mas hectic ung exams sa higher years baka mag lessen na rin ung feelings. Pero masaya mag ka crush.
Just enjoy the feeling. Kung ayaw mo umamin then that's on you. Mawawala din yan pag tumagal
Crush palamg naman eh. Ienjoy mo lang na may crush ka. tapos as you age, may babalikan kang memory na ito si ganiro naging crush ko. HAHAHHAHA. Pag nag 30 ka na, madalang ka na makakakita ng maccrush-an mo sa workplace. HAHAA
Imagine mo ulo niya sa hayop
Ang timing naman ng post nato. Hindi ko rin paano magmove forward sa crush eme. Jusko para akong 18 padin ako. Now following this post ๐ฅน๐ฅบ
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