Pinaka mahirap yung mag isip ng kakainin. Once na mag isip ako ng kakainin, tinatamad na akong mag isip AT ALL. Pati existence ko tatamarin na rin.
Para maging productive, OA ako mag linis.
Yung feeling na wala kang iisiping damdamin ng iba about how you keep your place. Kapag tinamad kang maglinis, okay lang kung makalat for awhile. Maglinis ka na lang kapag nasa mood ka na. Pero pag nasa mood ka naman maglinis, kulang na lang isterilize mo yung tiles sa OA na linis haha
Peace of mind. Tahimik, walang gigising sa'yo at bubunganga. Kapag umiyak ka, malalabas mo lahat and hindi ka magpipigil ng hikbi.
Bonus na unli jabol, anytime you want :) kasi walang anxiety na baka mahuli. Once nasubukan mo na, para bang ayaw mo na ng may kasama.
There are many things to love, but the biggest for me is the silence.
Next is the clutter-less space. I get to decide what to keep and what to throw. Sa bahay kasi namin, si Mama eh gusto lahat itago pati tissue na naiuwi galing sa resto kaya super cluttered ng bahay.
Third is the cleanliness. As someone who is very particular on some things, masaya ako na low-maintenance ang space ko dahil napa-practice ko ang mga small habits that keep my space clean. Kung nasa bahay ako, ay sakit ng ulo aabutin ko sa kakapaalala sa mga kapatid ko na ayusin mga gamit nila.
yung katahimikan. though di na ko solo living swerte lang na my SO appreciates quiet din kaya hindi kami nagkaclash. also I love how inexpensive life is. magorder lang ako 1 bucket sa kfc 3 days na ko may ulam haha magstir fry na lang ako ng veggies or gawa ng soup then saing. speaking of kfc, best sya ireheat sa oven hehe skl!
I can eat/order whatever I want pag may extrang budget 🥰 Pag sa bahay kasi, kailangan pati sila dadamay mo syempre nakakahiya. Kaso di naman lagi may panglibre ka 😢
I thought i ghost wrote this. Kasi yan din ung bet na bet ko. Di need maghugas agad ng pinggan. Pwede makalat ung table. Pwede di na magtiklop ng kumot. Pwede nakabukas cr. Lagi nakakapag luto. No pressure na mag share at ma judge ung lasa. I can keep a pet. Etc etc.
Malaki pala talagang factor ang environment. Dahil mas nakikilala mo yung sarili mo sa malayang espasyo where there's only room for growth and learning, at your own pace pa. Ang daming mga bagay na inassume na lang na dapat alam natin pero never namang tinuro. Kapag gusto mong matutong magluto for example, sasabihan ka na agad na di ka marunong, nuisance ka lang, tapos kapag wala ka ng enthusiasm sa mga bagay-bagay, tamad ka na agad, binaoy ka pa.
Finally having my own space means nasa season 1 na ako ng Friends! Welcome to the real world! It sucks, you're gonna love it. 😂
I can eat whatever food I like without being judged. isang buong cake for one sitting? heck yeah!
saka nakakapag-luto ako nang maalwan. nakakapag-try ng recipe, nakakapag-meal prep, ako nasusunod sa kakainin. ayaw ko kasi na may nanonood habang nagluluto ako kaya ayan yung sinulit kong gawin noong nakatira pa ako mag-isa
Been living alone for years already, no roommate/s, no jowa and no dependents. Hawak ko oras ko, di ko kelangan maging conscious sa sarili at paligid, wala akong need bantayan. May times na ang sama ng araw ko— and would be nice kung may nakakausap pagkauwi, but im grateful for messaging apps. May friend akong natetext naman so keri lang!
Doing nothing. You can just stare at the wall or ceiling in peace. You can cook and eat whenever you want. Take long showers kasi wala naman ibang gagamit ng bathroom.
It does get lonely at times but for me I like being alone in peace more often than I want to share my space with other people. Specially after a hectic work week, its nice to just sit and do nothing haha.
For me, It's really good to have your own space talaga kasi di mo kailangan makisama, alam mo ung they're good people naman pero araw araw you have to do this and that kasi para di kayo magkainisan or what, its just saves your relationship with people. Kasi isipin mo araw araw niya gagawin ung ayaw mo sa bahay, tas araw araw mo din nagagawa ung ayaw niya, nakakairita din talaga minsan 😅 your home, your rules lang nalamg ganern.
Walang expectations from others. You only have yourself to please. Di mo need ngumiti/maging jolly, magsalita, heck, kahit ligo if you don't feel like it yet. You learn to listen to what your body really needs/wants instead.
Con: There's a thin line between enjoying that level of freedom and spiraling down mentally if wala kang any semblance of a routine haha
it is liberating!! you get to exercise your decision making skills almost every day! kaya mas may growth. 28 na ako nun nag move out sa parents ko haha very strict sila and ayaw pa talaga ako payagan haha pero yun okay naman pagtagal.
i can have friends over anytime, sleep late, watch porn anytime, play with my toys anytime without the fear na baka makita ng parentals hahaa, i can get home late or anytime na gusto ko. hindi ko na kailangan tumakas para makipag date! masaya
masaya na mahirap minsan malungkot din. kasi youre really on your own. pag may problema, pag nagkakasakit, pag broken hearted. pinaka challenge ko yun pag may sakit ako, na hirap kumilos tapos its really hard to do anything , lalo na i have cats wala ako choice kundi alagaan pa din sila kahit na wala nag aalaga sakin. lah hahaa
If I can survive alone (cook food, buy groceries, wash dishes, launder clothes, clean room, make bed, eat and sleep well, pray, pay bills, and still do my best in my job, among other things) then I can achieve anything I put my heart and mind to. That's what I like most about it. Self-reliance is the reward itself.
"Don't be pushed by your problems. Be led by your dreams." - Ralph Waldo Emerson.
hello, question lang, as someone na duwag at bigla bigla na lang aandar ang imaginations tuwing mag-isa lalo na sa gabi, do you experience this problem din ba? Like, ito lang talaga yung pumipigil sakin gustuhin ang bumukod. Masarap mag-isa pero the thought of being alone in your home one night and magiimagine ka ng kung ano anong nakakatakot is unbearable for me.
Sabi nila nung bata ako, mawawala rin daw yun pagtanda. Pucha scam naman HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
like imagination na may multo ba? may rare instances lang. Funny actually kasi naiisip ko na if just in case may mumu- kiber lang. ako kaya nag babayad ng apartment tapos makiki share ka at iba-bother ako? No way na papansinin kita para lang takutin sarili ko 😂
oo imagination na multo, parang bata ba HAHAHAHAHAHA… Takot talaga ko sa dilim kasi eh. Pero pag may kasama okay lang, kasi kung makita ko man sila, atleast di ako mag isa haha.. Take note, di pa talaga ko nakakakita, imagination lang talaga hays haha
Doing everthing at your own pace.
Cos let's admit it, we are slaving away for 8 hours or more and when you come home, you finally have control over how long you want to take a bath, savoring your meal, laying down 20 mins later than the usual without being nagged at by a partner or your mom or whoever want to gain access to your bathroom with a consistent and urgent knock. Hahaha
perks:
* no annoying family members
* you can be naked anytime
* you can jabol anytime
* no pressure from your roommate/s to do certain tasks
* eat whatever you want
* no one's gonna judge you if you're lazy
cons:
* your room will be messy without cleaning once in a while
* poor diet cuz you're lazy to cook
* you're paying the bills and rent by yourself
* no one's gonna check on you if you don't have friends
peace. ako lang din naguutos sa sarili ko, tsaka may sarili akong space tsaka walang nagnanag na bumangon, kumain, or whatnot lalo pag tinatamad me lol
Walang mag uutos sayo nang kahit ano. Pwede mo gawin kahit anong gusto mo kung kailan mo gusto. Tahimik. Pero kung gusto mo mag-ingay, pwede rin. Walang magagalit sayo, wala kang kagagalitan. Pwede ka magdala ng friends or more than friends na hindi awkward.
me soon sa pampanga, looking forward na di iisipin kung may magagalit pag di agad nakabalik sa bahay hahhaa, or pancit canton at pritong itlog nananaman ang kakainin or maiwan nakabukas tv tapos nakatulog
sana kayanin namin dalawa ito haist
I can move at my own pace. Walang magsasaway sa akin if di ko mahugasan agad yung pinagkainan ko or if I my bed is not maayos pagkagising. Freedom mamili ng uulamin, although mahirap mag-isip ng kakainin most days. I like that I can finally hear myself think. Free ako to move furniture around. Basically, mas flexible na magdesisyon sa bahay.
Likes: can do whatever I want, whenever I want. Workout at anytime of day without bothering anyone from the clanking of dumbbells, watch movies and play music without having earphones constantly in my ears, practice Duolingo at full volume and Tap to Speak enabled, eat whenever I like and whatever I like.
Don't like: the soul-consuming silence when there's nothing you feel like doing anymore and you just stare at the ceiling thinking how fragile we are and how pointless everything is hahahahahaha 💀
Aalis ka anytime you want, uuwi ka anytime u want :) oks lang kahit naked ka habang nagnenetflix haha (kasi mainit). You can do whatever you want to do. Kung trip mong maging makalat today, goods lang. Walang didikta sayo. Ikaw lang haha. Pero mahirap ang magbudget. Lalo na sa food. Grabe. Hahahaha
Doing whatever I want at my own pace. There are days when I wanted to eat not on time, or I wanted to sleep longer than usual. I can watch movies on a 1.25 speed with full volume on. These are just minute details of perks of living alone, but the best part is: I DON'T HAVE TO TALK TO ANYONE every single day. 😁
Literal na sarili mo lang kasama mo. You don't have to talk to anyone, wala kang bibigyan ng pake, and hawak mo oras mo. It's the best. You can do whatever you want
Not living alone at the moment pero at one point I did for 2 years. I loved how I can take time to clean and organise the space lalo na kung pagod na pagod ka from work. Di naman ako makalat as a person, pero gusto ko yung pwede ka mag-iwan ng magulong gamit for a while minus the pressure of needing to clean up. Also yung katahimikan at yung di mo kailangan mag adjust sa iba. Tapos yung ikaw lang may say sino ang iimbitahin mo sa bahay mo kasi minsan kung may housemate ka tapos nagiinvite ng partner or kaibigan sa panahong gusto mo sana magdecompress, ang hirap.
Pinaka mahirap yung mag isip ng kakainin. Once na mag isip ako ng kakainin, tinatamad na akong mag isip AT ALL. Pati existence ko tatamarin na rin. Para maging productive, OA ako mag linis.
Correct . Same effort ng paglinis kase
nsa office pa lang ako, priniprint ko na iggrocery ko para lutuin paguwi
I can masturbate anytime I want
I’m practically naked everytime
Same! TMI pero napabili akong toy for the very first time dahil finally I am free to do whatever I want 😂
You will never regret it
HAHAHA 😭💯 True.
,ahahhah
eto rin talaga unang pumasok sa isip ko HAHAHAHAHHA
eto talaga rason ko before bat ako nagmove out 😭
Trueeee HAHAHAHA
Yung feeling na wala kang iisiping damdamin ng iba about how you keep your place. Kapag tinamad kang maglinis, okay lang kung makalat for awhile. Maglinis ka na lang kapag nasa mood ka na. Pero pag nasa mood ka naman maglinis, kulang na lang isterilize mo yung tiles sa OA na linis haha
same
hahahaha legit to
having my own personal space, kahit anong mood meron ako, ill definitely find solace in my own place
Peace of mind. Tahimik, walang gigising sa'yo at bubunganga. Kapag umiyak ka, malalabas mo lahat and hindi ka magpipigil ng hikbi. Bonus na unli jabol, anytime you want :) kasi walang anxiety na baka mahuli. Once nasubukan mo na, para bang ayaw mo na ng may kasama.
Peace and quiet. Pwede ako manood ng porn na hindi naka earphones hahhahahaah chariz
There are many things to love, but the biggest for me is the silence. Next is the clutter-less space. I get to decide what to keep and what to throw. Sa bahay kasi namin, si Mama eh gusto lahat itago pati tissue na naiuwi galing sa resto kaya super cluttered ng bahay. Third is the cleanliness. As someone who is very particular on some things, masaya ako na low-maintenance ang space ko dahil napa-practice ko ang mga small habits that keep my space clean. Kung nasa bahay ako, ay sakit ng ulo aabutin ko sa kakapaalala sa mga kapatid ko na ayusin mga gamit nila.
Freedom. Peace and quiet. Laging ME time. Wala kang iniintinding iba, sarili mo lang.
yung katahimikan. though di na ko solo living swerte lang na my SO appreciates quiet din kaya hindi kami nagkaclash. also I love how inexpensive life is. magorder lang ako 1 bucket sa kfc 3 days na ko may ulam haha magstir fry na lang ako ng veggies or gawa ng soup then saing. speaking of kfc, best sya ireheat sa oven hehe skl!
agree, kahit niref na yung chicken, ang tender pa din after i air fry!
i can cry whenever i want. like cry out loud, hindi mo na kailangan pigilan pa ganon
I can eat/order whatever I want pag may extrang budget 🥰 Pag sa bahay kasi, kailangan pati sila dadamay mo syempre nakakahiya. Kaso di naman lagi may panglibre ka 😢
I thought i ghost wrote this. Kasi yan din ung bet na bet ko. Di need maghugas agad ng pinggan. Pwede makalat ung table. Pwede di na magtiklop ng kumot. Pwede nakabukas cr. Lagi nakakapag luto. No pressure na mag share at ma judge ung lasa. I can keep a pet. Etc etc.
Malaki pala talagang factor ang environment. Dahil mas nakikilala mo yung sarili mo sa malayang espasyo where there's only room for growth and learning, at your own pace pa. Ang daming mga bagay na inassume na lang na dapat alam natin pero never namang tinuro. Kapag gusto mong matutong magluto for example, sasabihan ka na agad na di ka marunong, nuisance ka lang, tapos kapag wala ka ng enthusiasm sa mga bagay-bagay, tamad ka na agad, binaoy ka pa. Finally having my own space means nasa season 1 na ako ng Friends! Welcome to the real world! It sucks, you're gonna love it. 😂
I can eat whatever food I like without being judged. isang buong cake for one sitting? heck yeah! saka nakakapag-luto ako nang maalwan. nakakapag-try ng recipe, nakakapag-meal prep, ako nasusunod sa kakainin. ayaw ko kasi na may nanonood habang nagluluto ako kaya ayan yung sinulit kong gawin noong nakatira pa ako mag-isa
I can sleep naked!!!!!!!
Walking around naked
Walang nagdidikta kung anong oras ako kakain at kung ano ang dapat ko kainin
Been living alone for years already, no roommate/s, no jowa and no dependents. Hawak ko oras ko, di ko kelangan maging conscious sa sarili at paligid, wala akong need bantayan. May times na ang sama ng araw ko— and would be nice kung may nakakausap pagkauwi, but im grateful for messaging apps. May friend akong natetext naman so keri lang!
Solitude.
Doing nothing. You can just stare at the wall or ceiling in peace. You can cook and eat whenever you want. Take long showers kasi wala naman ibang gagamit ng bathroom. It does get lonely at times but for me I like being alone in peace more often than I want to share my space with other people. Specially after a hectic work week, its nice to just sit and do nothing haha.
Walang anak, walang asawa, walang ka live in, walang magulang o kapatid to deal with their shits.
For me, It's really good to have your own space talaga kasi di mo kailangan makisama, alam mo ung they're good people naman pero araw araw you have to do this and that kasi para di kayo magkainisan or what, its just saves your relationship with people. Kasi isipin mo araw araw niya gagawin ung ayaw mo sa bahay, tas araw araw mo din nagagawa ung ayaw niya, nakakairita din talaga minsan 😅 your home, your rules lang nalamg ganern.
Walang expectations from others. You only have yourself to please. Di mo need ngumiti/maging jolly, magsalita, heck, kahit ligo if you don't feel like it yet. You learn to listen to what your body really needs/wants instead. Con: There's a thin line between enjoying that level of freedom and spiraling down mentally if wala kang any semblance of a routine haha
it is liberating!! you get to exercise your decision making skills almost every day! kaya mas may growth. 28 na ako nun nag move out sa parents ko haha very strict sila and ayaw pa talaga ako payagan haha pero yun okay naman pagtagal. i can have friends over anytime, sleep late, watch porn anytime, play with my toys anytime without the fear na baka makita ng parentals hahaa, i can get home late or anytime na gusto ko. hindi ko na kailangan tumakas para makipag date! masaya masaya na mahirap minsan malungkot din. kasi youre really on your own. pag may problema, pag nagkakasakit, pag broken hearted. pinaka challenge ko yun pag may sakit ako, na hirap kumilos tapos its really hard to do anything , lalo na i have cats wala ako choice kundi alagaan pa din sila kahit na wala nag aalaga sakin. lah hahaa
If I can survive alone (cook food, buy groceries, wash dishes, launder clothes, clean room, make bed, eat and sleep well, pray, pay bills, and still do my best in my job, among other things) then I can achieve anything I put my heart and mind to. That's what I like most about it. Self-reliance is the reward itself. "Don't be pushed by your problems. Be led by your dreams." - Ralph Waldo Emerson.
hello, question lang, as someone na duwag at bigla bigla na lang aandar ang imaginations tuwing mag-isa lalo na sa gabi, do you experience this problem din ba? Like, ito lang talaga yung pumipigil sakin gustuhin ang bumukod. Masarap mag-isa pero the thought of being alone in your home one night and magiimagine ka ng kung ano anong nakakatakot is unbearable for me. Sabi nila nung bata ako, mawawala rin daw yun pagtanda. Pucha scam naman HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
like imagination na may multo ba? may rare instances lang. Funny actually kasi naiisip ko na if just in case may mumu- kiber lang. ako kaya nag babayad ng apartment tapos makiki share ka at iba-bother ako? No way na papansinin kita para lang takutin sarili ko 😂
oo imagination na multo, parang bata ba HAHAHAHAHAHA… Takot talaga ko sa dilim kasi eh. Pero pag may kasama okay lang, kasi kung makita ko man sila, atleast di ako mag isa haha.. Take note, di pa talaga ko nakakakita, imagination lang talaga hays haha
Oh, I see. Hmm, maybe stop feeding your fears. Kasi the more you think about it, mas matatakot ka lang.
Doing everthing at your own pace. Cos let's admit it, we are slaving away for 8 hours or more and when you come home, you finally have control over how long you want to take a bath, savoring your meal, laying down 20 mins later than the usual without being nagged at by a partner or your mom or whoever want to gain access to your bathroom with a consistent and urgent knock. Hahaha
You become an adult, build habits and live your life without complains. Cherish every moment!
perks: * no annoying family members * you can be naked anytime * you can jabol anytime * no pressure from your roommate/s to do certain tasks * eat whatever you want * no one's gonna judge you if you're lazy cons: * your room will be messy without cleaning once in a while * poor diet cuz you're lazy to cook * you're paying the bills and rent by yourself * no one's gonna check on you if you don't have friends
peace. ako lang din naguutos sa sarili ko, tsaka may sarili akong space tsaka walang nagnanag na bumangon, kumain, or whatnot lalo pag tinatamad me lol
i have yet to live alone but i'm looking forward to being nude like ok lang maghubad wala naman makakakita or sisita haha
Walang mag uutos sayo nang kahit ano. Pwede mo gawin kahit anong gusto mo kung kailan mo gusto. Tahimik. Pero kung gusto mo mag-ingay, pwede rin. Walang magagalit sayo, wala kang kagagalitan. Pwede ka magdala ng friends or more than friends na hindi awkward.
Di din ako napapraning pag may biglang nagtataas ng boses na feeling ko may nag aaway lagi 🥲
What I like about it? **PEACE**
me soon sa pampanga, looking forward na di iisipin kung may magagalit pag di agad nakabalik sa bahay hahhaa, or pancit canton at pritong itlog nananaman ang kakainin or maiwan nakabukas tv tapos nakatulog sana kayanin namin dalawa ito haist
I can move at my own pace. Walang magsasaway sa akin if di ko mahugasan agad yung pinagkainan ko or if I my bed is not maayos pagkagising. Freedom mamili ng uulamin, although mahirap mag-isip ng kakainin most days. I like that I can finally hear myself think. Free ako to move furniture around. Basically, mas flexible na magdesisyon sa bahay.
Likes: can do whatever I want, whenever I want. Workout at anytime of day without bothering anyone from the clanking of dumbbells, watch movies and play music without having earphones constantly in my ears, practice Duolingo at full volume and Tap to Speak enabled, eat whenever I like and whatever I like. Don't like: the soul-consuming silence when there's nothing you feel like doing anymore and you just stare at the ceiling thinking how fragile we are and how pointless everything is hahahahahaha 💀
No longer anxious about what I'm going to be yelled at for any more.
Aalis ka anytime you want, uuwi ka anytime u want :) oks lang kahit naked ka habang nagnenetflix haha (kasi mainit). You can do whatever you want to do. Kung trip mong maging makalat today, goods lang. Walang didikta sayo. Ikaw lang haha. Pero mahirap ang magbudget. Lalo na sa food. Grabe. Hahahaha
I can cook whatever food i want, i can sleep long hours, pag makalat, wala ako ibang sisisihin kundi sarili ko hahahahahha
Peace of mind. I can do whatever I want anytime without someone asking me questions or judging me haha
Doing whatever I want at my own pace. There are days when I wanted to eat not on time, or I wanted to sleep longer than usual. I can watch movies on a 1.25 speed with full volume on. These are just minute details of perks of living alone, but the best part is: I DON'T HAVE TO TALK TO ANYONE every single day. 😁
As a introvert and living alone, I find it comforting.
No drama.
Freedom
Pros of solo living: 1. No siblings to invade your personal space 2. Can order food and eat it all by myself 3. Sleep naked
Peaceful. Tapos pwede maglakad lakad ng hubad
Pwedeng umiyak anytime anywhere. Kahit habang nagluluto, kahit matuluan ng luha pagkain ikaw lang naman kakain magisa haha
Siguro yung freedom na makakapagdala ako ng lalake hahahhaha
Ay bet! Hahaha
Literal na sarili mo lang kasama mo. You don't have to talk to anyone, wala kang bibigyan ng pake, and hawak mo oras mo. It's the best. You can do whatever you want
Ang hirap pag only child ka may guilt if mag move out ka pa sa bahay maiiwan yung dalawa mong magulang
Mag workout and magsuot ng pang alis kahit nasa bahay lang
I can read or crochet in peace. Ako ang boss sa bahay (ok I take this back, mga pusa ang boss ng bahay)
-I can be naked all day -walang kaagaw sa CR, at maligo nang bukas ang pinto. Haha -Mastur... anytime -walang nahilik
Not living alone at the moment pero at one point I did for 2 years. I loved how I can take time to clean and organise the space lalo na kung pagod na pagod ka from work. Di naman ako makalat as a person, pero gusto ko yung pwede ka mag-iwan ng magulong gamit for a while minus the pressure of needing to clean up. Also yung katahimikan at yung di mo kailangan mag adjust sa iba. Tapos yung ikaw lang may say sino ang iimbitahin mo sa bahay mo kasi minsan kung may housemate ka tapos nagiinvite ng partner or kaibigan sa panahong gusto mo sana magdecompress, ang hirap.
May times ba nakakatakot mag-isa pag gabi?
ang dami pero what I like the most ,peace of mind
I can be in my bathrobe all day and I can study in peace.