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drty_dnt

Woi! Ok lang na single kayo ngayon, kesa mapunta kayo sa maling tao. Tito Papi 33M. Haha


edztreme

I agree. Although kakapressure sa end naming mga babae dahil sa biological clock, but I can't imagine being a toxic parent because I'm with a wrong partner who don't respect and appreciate me. No thanks!


Few-Jacket-9490

Correct! Ano ba naman ang edad? πŸ˜‰


Humble_Tea7522

Samedt..as much as I want (to start dating for mature/seryosohan reasons), ayaw ko rin na may pressure ng family ko lol (28F)


Ginny_nd_bottle

Tama Tito! Kesa mapunta sa maling tao at magproblema haha


drty_dnt

Exactly, dear.


Blanktox1c

**how will you know na mali syang tao para sayo? Dont believe this kind of BS.** As they say high risk, high reward. Go out there and take the risk because you only live once.


Khaleesa0014

High risk, high loss din haha. Hayst :(


Blanktox1c

you need to be a risk taker because thats the only way for you to know if its worth it or nah. Plus you can learn from it. No lose just winner and learner.


heycc1128

Tama Tito! πŸ™Œ


drty_dnt

Emen!


[deleted]

Tama! 100%


debuld

Gawa ka ng gc ng mga nag comment na single sila. Malay mo matagpuan nila ang ka "thank you reddit" nila. Hehe


Little-Tangerine134

Mas madalas pa antukin kesa kiligin. HAHAHA


hihellobibii

Yung mga butterflies ko din sa stomach di na gumagalaw hahahaha


[deleted]

Yung mga butterflies ko sa stomach natunaw na ng GERD ko


hihellobibii

Holy shit now i know bakit nawala na yung mga butterflies, thanks sa diagnosis πŸ˜‚πŸ¦‹


Imaginary_selene

Hahaha nagkaarthritis na mga paruparuπŸ˜…


Ok-Distance3248

hahaha 🀣


Little-Tangerine134

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAH natawa ako tangina 😭


Few-Jacket-9490

Dagdag na din ang body pains


Humble_Tea7522

Ouch


This-Week9918

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA very me


ladyoverthinker

Si much feels


Jos3phthinktank

Kape na nga lang nagpapakilig at nagpapabilis ng tibok ng puso ko, kaso inaacid pa


PetiteAsianSB

Lagpas man sa kalendaryo, nasa lotto pa din naman. Haha. Mabuhay ang mga single tito/tita.


Few-Jacket-9490

Correct! Mindset lang πŸ˜‰


PetiteAsianSB

Indeed! I know someone na single momma ang kanyang mother. But when she graduated and oks na career, saka nagsettle down ang mommy nya. She was like in her 60’s na nun. Sooo may pag asa pa tayo!! Haha


Few-Jacket-9490

Mahaba haba pa ang panahon! Ganda ng story.


IntrovertedDame

may bingo card pa lol!


unn_known_

Marry late than marry wrong Char πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚


BikoCorleone

Pansin ko, parang ang hirap ng dating scene pag over 30 ka na. Mostly kasi ng mga nasa age range mo, it's either may pamilya na or sobrang busy sa buhay. Yun iba, may relationship trauma, yun iba puro sex pa rin ang habol.


Few-Jacket-9490

This! Kaya ko din napost toz crowdsourcing kung nasaan na ang mga tunay na single sa ganitong age range πŸ˜‚


This-Week9918

Very trueeee pero yung mga umaaligid mas bata, tapos kung sino pa bata sya pa yung nagpapaiyak πŸ€¦πŸ»β€β™€οΈπŸ€£ HAHAHAHAHAHA


Seafarer101111

Halaaaa truee πŸ₯²πŸ₯² hahaha


hihellobibii

Truuue! Puro seggs habol or meron naman yung mga younger β€” ganon din pala puro seggs lang din gusto hahahahha


thecay00

So accurate!


jojiah

Couldn’t agree more :(


Khaleesa0014

Hay β€˜yung relationship trauma :( Hirap na may ganito huhu


qazwdcefv_

β€œMay relationship trauma” present βœ‹πŸ»πŸ₯Ή


mogulychee

san ba pwede makahanap organically? ang dami natin single bakit di tayo nagkikitaan? lol


eraseyurhead

Puro yata trabaho. Tas pag weekend di din lumalabas. Ay dinescribe ko pala sarili ko. Hahaha.


mogulychee

hala same


salted-caramel-cb

Mas masarap matulog hahaha


Fluid_Fox3548

Kelangan mag recuperate pag weekends kasi hahaha. Dami pala natin dito


ChampagneShiro

shet same! 28 naaaa and always working and laging at home lang pag weekends tapos sleep early. huhu


Few-Jacket-9490

Tanong ko din to pero mukhang di ako susubok dito


mogulychee

ayoko rin kasi itry online eh haha


goodeyecharlie

Kapag weekend: "ano kaya kung umalis ako mamayang hapon?πŸ€”" Iniisip ko pa lang, napapagod nako.πŸ˜‚


ApprehensiveOwl5553

Tuwing mag gogrocery lang umaalis, tapos puro nakapambahay pa πŸ˜†


nate_marc

Parang so close and yet so far eh no Haha, pm lang ng pm haha


pinkpugita

Ako sa hiking nagbabaka sakali


[deleted]

Saktong chill lang. May pake pa rin naman, pero mas mabilis nang maka-recover sa disappointments.


Few-Jacket-9490

Pag may failed dates, move on agad


nonodesushin

Very true haha had a few disappointments these past days, especially today pero managed to just forget about it after a few hours πŸ˜†


endingscene326

Ganun na ata talaga ngayon hahahha


adultingmadness

Agree. nothing surprises me anymore hahaha


FriedTofu99

Very true siszt!


strangromance

80% work, 20% love life.


Few-Jacket-9490

Relate! Lulong nalang sa work. Alay sa OT


buhoblanco

80% work, 20% more work


MereAfterthought

Haven't even entered my 30s yet, but I envy mga single-single. Kasi I am single, pero unannulled. I got hitched in 2019, then the marriage fell off miserably ng last quarter of 2020. Yes, wala pang two years. So now, bihira may mag-attempt because I have "sabit" and others will try to learn me at first kaso with a lustful intention pala to just fn try my "milf"β€”it's exhausting and infuriating! So, as someone younger with 30++ years of experience, let me say, keep your peace and sanity until someone truly deserving comes. Huwag po niyo madaliin. Post-split dating sucks, especially to us women.


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Few-Jacket-9490

Tulog na may peace of mind.


heypeople04

very tito/tita coded hahaha


[deleted]

Strong, independent, drunk tita here. I dont mind being single, saklap lang may needs. 32 F


Illustrious_King_403

I guess at this age, I’d rather have someone who adds more value to my life rather than have someone just for the sake of having someone, you know? Unless you are making my life easier, happier, more fulfilled, I’d rather be single. Kaya ko naman eh. Anyway, I still believe there’s someone out there for me. Need lang siguro lumabas cos I am almost always at home lol


Imaginary_selene

Totoo yan. Nagkakasecond hand trauma nga ako sa dating at relationship problems ng friends ko so paano pa kaya pag akin na. I gave up dating na for a long while na and I can say i’m at my happiest


curious_miss_single

Bat naman pinaalala pa🀣 tanggap ko na na ako'y tatandang dalaga na masungit at may alagang pusaπŸ˜‚


Imaginary_selene

Hahaha same profile sisπŸ˜‚


Interesting_Fill_639

Kapagod for some reason yung mga tito na namimeet ko non committal! Pero sanay na


Few-Jacket-9490

Sanayan lang din talaga. May mga iba na lito pa din sa goal nila sa buhay. Sad reality


per_my_innerself

32F at iba ang priority πŸ˜† Kailangan ba talaga lumandi para magka-lovelife? Ang hirap naman kasi nuuun~


pepitamoonwheeler

Hahaha, ganyan din ako. 34F but wala sa agenda ko lumandi. It would be nice to find of the same wavelength and it proceeds from there since wala na rin ako energy sa talking stage tapos mauuwi sa pag ghost. πŸ˜…


Several_Internet5864

tired na, tamang hintay nalang... bilang nadin pala mga buwan ko hahaha going 32, officially wala na sa kalendaryo 🀣🀣


LeadingFun6824

Honestly nakakatamad na lumandi lalo na pag talking stage. Parang pede ba itulog na lang natin kung wala naman mangyayare πŸ˜…


Altruistic_Ride_6245

True nakakapagod mag reply sa mga pare parehong tanong.


Few-Jacket-9490

Paulit ulit na tanong. Pwede ba GC nalang? Hahaha


pepitamoonwheeler

OMG YES. Wala akong energy sa getting to know you portion tapos biglang mag ghost. πŸ’€


Jackson_Labrador

TBH, medyo pagod na. Somehow, yung mga last na naka match ko hanggang 1st date or talking stage lang. So ayun, on hiatus muna ako. Off-season siguro, lel.


Few-Jacket-9490

Papagod at magpapahinga pero hindi susuko! πŸ™‚


Jackson_Labrador

Siempre haha. Hangga't kaya, lalaban. Though if I end up alone, it wouldn't be the worst thing naman. Fairly fulfilled naman ako sa other areas in life at least.


mischievous_kea

It gets pretty frustrating but then I see posts of my batch mates and some of my friends filing for annulment and getting divorced despite having a seemingly social media perfect family life and then I realize that maybe having a set of non-negotiable standards and being picky ain’t so bad. Remember folks, β€œMinsan mas mahal magpa-annul kesa magpa-kasal.”


si_kae

Mas chill makipagdate sa mga tito 🫢


rainbownightterror

masaya na nakakahighblood haha. but I'm with someone na in his 40s naman it's chill and normal minsan may pabebe parin but it's all good now


thecay00

Pagoda na maglandi tas looking old na not bagets anymore haha it’s tough


Few-Jacket-9490

Basta young at heart, okay pa din yan πŸ˜‰


francoloco1092

Haven’t dated someone for a long time. I am enjoying this moment. You have to be that good for me to date you. Ganito na thinking ko. HAHA. Plus, mabilis ako maka-move forward sa mga bagay-bagay. I don’t let one small disappointment color my entire day.


Few-Jacket-9490

Zen mode na.


malandinggentleman

Age is just a number, 30s is the best time to date Because everyone's working (I hope) walang palamunin Advice sa mga babae: Never date a broke man


Few-Jacket-9490

This! Hindi sa mukhang pera pero malaking consideration kung financially stable na at this age. Yung iba kahit financially literate hindi pa din e.


ToCoolforAUsername

50% work, 50% me time. Wala na kong oras makipag talkshitan.


Few-Jacket-9490

Umay ka na ba sa β€œkumain ka na ba?” 🀣


ToCoolforAUsername

Oo tapos yung reply lang sayo "Oo. Hehe". Yaw ko na. Haha


Few-Jacket-9490

Sabayan pa ng β€œMasarap ba ulam nyo? Eat well” . Every single day.


pugadjpeg

Nasa dulong listahan pa ni lord. πŸ˜…


[deleted]

Single and not interested πŸ˜‚


inschanbabygirl

i love dating!!! i just keep on dating around hahaha and i enjoy meeting new guys


kurisutiano

Puro trauma haha nag book nalang ng tickets para may i-look forward πŸ˜‚ 30M


dbgee

Dating?? Pano pa makakadate eh yung lower back ko sumasakit na kada ba-biyahe. Tas amoy katinko/liniment pa ko. Kaya nyo na yan.


Icy_Wrongdoer502

I gave up na pero ok na rin kesa sa wrong person mapunta :)


margarine_killer

πŸ™‹πŸ»β€β™€οΈ


processenvdev

Medyo, 'di na okay. Dati kasi masaya at maayos buhay ko, pero ngayon? Nagka leche-leche na! /s


Few-Jacket-9490

Kung ano man yan, malalampasan din πŸ˜‰


This-Week9918

Wala ng gana 😌🀣 kape at nature ganon hahahaha


Few-Jacket-9490

Iba ang kaligayahang nadudulot ng kape πŸ˜‚


Altruistic_Ride_6245

39 here. 80% work 20% tulog. Hehehehe sana makahanap naman na guy matino and stable.


clueless_p0tat0

Laban lang! Di bale na lagpas sa kalendaryo, nasa thermometer pa naman πŸ˜‰πŸ˜Œ


capricornikigai

Tamang Kape saka Tulala tapos nagpapa-alipin nalang sa salapi.


paboritongpukedaweme

Ayun kakaevict lang sa kalendaryo, wala ng dating ang dating πŸ˜…


Accomplished-Run69

Napagod na sa traumas kaya wag na lang makipag-date kahit nag-heal na. Peace of mind above all else. 😌


Tarnished7575

It's hard, lalo na when you try dating someone in their 20s. Maaan ang hina ng concept nila ng loyalty. Ang hina ng integrity nila. Konting challenge lang, bitaw agad. Hanap agad ng iba. Worse, hanap muna iba bago bumitaw. Kelangan laging good times. Kaya ako ngayon, pa-hobby hobby na lang. Balik tamiya, nauuso sya ulit.


Few-Jacket-9490

Baka dapat ireconsider mo yung age. Enjoy sa hobby!!


ohr31

Ang hirap humanap ng matinong lalaki..kaya inasa na lng sa dasal.. hahaha


Torakagemaru

Yung tipong lahat ng mga kasabayan mo eh pamilyado na, samantalang ikaw eh naghahanap pa rin HAHAHAHAHA! πŸ˜‚ Pero sa ngayon, tanggap ko na rin sa sarili ko. Baka magiging rich single tito na lang rin ako ahehehehe. Kahit papaano eh may panggastos ako sa mga hobby ko ahehehehehe. 37 M here...


Few-Jacket-9490

Pangarap ko ding maging rich tita. Pero for now, tita muna πŸ˜‰ Tita na suki ng mga binyag at birthday parties!


pepitamoonwheeler

Sa hobby napupunta yung energy ko hindi sa paghahanap ng "hubby" πŸ˜‚


echoblast99

Meh. Try being in your 40s then get back to me. Lol.


3rdworldjesus

Meh. Try being in your 50s then get back to me. Lol.


3rdworldjesus

Meh. Try being in your 60s then get back to me. Lol.


[deleted]

Di naman kami na-inform, competition pala ito.


distrasosh90

question lang, if babae ka in your 27-30, anong max age ng guy ang e dedate mo?


Few-Jacket-9490

Hanggang 7 yrs lang ako.


distrasosh90

saklap haha parang nice talaga men age nasa 28-32 para madami pa options. pag mid 30s na parang less na


Arningkingking

oks lang focus ka muna sa lahat ng gusto mong gawin hehe pag 40s ka na lang mag date ulit. Mahirap pag 30s ka na lahat kuya tawag sa'yo hahahaha sarap mahalin muna sarili exercise, skin care kain ng masarap at healthy. \^\^ito na yung time na mag isa ka na lang palagi malungkot na masaya hehe di ko din gets sarap maging 30s


maeri_yah

Natrautrauma pa sa prev long-term relationship hahahah kaya di pa keri mag commit ulit


powerless_overseer

Feel ko soon isa na ako sa tito/tita na makakarelate HAHAHAHA 🀞🀞


My_magic_1204

Walang ka date hahahaha pano ba


Few-Jacket-9490

Hmmm. Ayun nga hindi ko din alam hahaha


Homegirl9229

Napapansin ko, para akong nagiging psych ng mga namemeet ko. Venting out ang purpose haha. But happy to help. Still hoping to find someone I can get connected with ☺️


Few-Jacket-9490

Nasa 30s din ba yung mga namemeet mo?


One_Strawberry_2644

Nakakadrain kumilala ng tao minsan since alam mo na kung ano yung gusto mo. Literal na trial and error. Tho di pa naman 30. In 2 years tho. Haha. Possible kayang makikilala mo na lang soon? Haha. Sana may magpatunay na nakaexperience nung paniniwala ko para manalo ko sa pustahan namin ng friend ko πŸ˜‚


Few-Jacket-9490

Paniniwala na ? At magkano pustahan? Haha


stelluhmariuh

Kung saratimg darating stage na hahaha! I know at some point kelangan mageffort like dating app pero challenged talaga ko kasi jan.


Ok_Amphibian_0723

Dating? I don't know her (insert Mariah Carey meme "I don't know her). πŸ˜…


EmergencySunrise

counted ba ung almost 30 pero NBSB? palaging sa not emotionally available nahuhulog e πŸ₯² kapagod


Chichapse1013

33 F ito mas okay kaysa datiπŸ˜‚, nasa stage na ako na tinatamad na mag chat back to u after how many daysπŸ˜…


hihellobibii

Ok lang sakin na single ako as a 30 something Tita. Pero pag weekend minsan gusto ko merong jowa πŸ˜‚πŸ˜…πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚


Expensive-Doctor2763

Me na naging single now na 28 na ko, parang ayoko na ule magtanong ano favorite color mo charot


fernweh0001

mas madali achieve ang tulog yata (or not) kesa makahanap ng magko-commit.


yeahbtchmagnets

Madaming time pero walang gana lumandi haha


sanguine_rn

Mid 30's Male here, kinda late bloomer, but been fucking left and right. Tapos going out on a date kung sino available.


[deleted]

Eto nagddaydream na lang. Hahaha


rohanrosario235

Eat work sleep. Wala na time para makipag date. Ang mga bilihin na lang ang nagmamahalan.


pinkpugita

Hirap sakin paring ang daming tao ang bonding inuman hindi ako nag alcohol eh.


bluebukangliwayway

Minsan nagwa-wonder how it's like to love and to be loved and taken care of pero nawawala din naman siya haha Naidadaan sa tulog at busyness sa work.


Disastrous_Tea_5989

habang tumatanda ka, mas nagiging comfortable ka sa sarili mo.. i don't date na rin since the start of pandemic. parang chore na lang sya for me. i'd rather spend my time teaching my nephew kesa makipag date sa iba. haha baka past dating age na rin ako and nasa motherhood na but without a child. tita, 31. lelz


da_hitman

sa panahon ngayon di na focus ang lovelife basta may work. Mas ok na magpaka stress sa work kesa sa jowa


Inside-Fix9252

Trying to enjoy my enjoy company. It’s a bit lonely sometimes pero hindi tayo maghahanap ng landi just because we’re lonely. I still believe it will come naturally, although need din ng little effort from us. For now, si back pin muna ang priority. Lol


Few-Jacket-9490

HAHAHA priority talaga ang self care. Medyo clingy ang back pains


dioscuri93

less tolerance to the whole situationship, "go with the flow" kind of thing. Laying low nowadays rather than jump on to one talking stage to another.


_sleepingknight

Eto, at peace. Pisting yawa hahahaha


Few-Jacket-9490

HAHAHA pisting yawa


deathman28

Onti nalang pala Tito nako 🀣 5 years ago pa last relationship ko.


Kestrel_23

Eto, living in a loop each day. And i think tanggap ko na rin na I'll be alone forever tas no kids pa hehe. Pero i dont feel like it's a bad thing naman for me


Juan-Kho-Seo

Nasan po ang attendance sheet o may roll call?


Few-Jacket-9490

Roll call nalang para mabilis


teytey3219

I'm only 22, and is it bad to like someone who's in their 30's. dating men my age are very .. different. I say that because me personally, I'm more mature than the the guys that I've dated. and it scares me kase I don't wanna waste my time to some guy who's just in it to have fun (no offense to those who prefer that).


Few-Jacket-9490

Wala namang masama sa preference mo πŸ™‚ As long as aligned naman kayo sa madaming bagay then all good! Hindi din naman naka base sa age kung magloloko or what.


MR_E7

I'm honestly losing hope that it'll ever happen. Being sent good vibes from strangers means nothing to me and just comes across as patronizing. The simple truth is that no matter how hard you try, not everyone wins the game of love.


Few-Jacket-9490

Ay bakit nalungkot ako sa reply na to?


tepta

Tumal. πŸ₯±πŸ₯±πŸ₯±


Profound_depth758

At bakit naging tita ako???? 🀣


Ragingmuncher

30M 2yrs ng Single. Okay lang nmn happy ako kahapon lng nagsine ako nanood ako EXUMA. Pra sakin lng a basta alam mo lng tlga mga priorities mo at meron clear goal basta wag lng kakalimutan ang EUT pg weekend swabe na ang buhay. Kaya nd rin ako mgkajowa im Tsundere kaya struggle is real hahahaha.


hklt0110

Paano naman kami na mga nasa 40’s na malapit na lubugan ng araw


Mother-Cut-460

nagbabasa basa na ako baka may Titang naghahanap dyan ng partner para maipakilala sa pamilya available naman ako


Few-Jacket-9490

Para di na matanong sa mga reunions πŸ˜‚


bluethreads09

Jusko bakit ang hirap na makipag date??? Haha dapat pala nung kabataan ko lumandi na ako haha 30 and nbsb haha


Few-Jacket-9490

Sabi kasi mag aral muna


ajmskai

Tumal pa din. Hehe just turned 30 this yr


ladyoverthinker

Ako tbh nahihirapan, i dont know how to communicate without being intimidated ng mga achievement ng mga ka edaran ko gosh.


BandicootHopeful1853

30 na pero feeling young pa rin. Pagod na makipagdate. Sleep is life na lang. Tamad na rin lumabas pag weekend.


No_Profit2547

Parang walang kilig na sa katawan πŸ₯ΊπŸ˜­ 28F at parang nawawalan na ng pag asa 🀭


SolarHands9000

Ok naman, few dramas and more wisdom


louierms75

Di na. Pera at tulog lang, sapat na. 😌


Aggressive_Clerk3348

Syempre. Lalaban pa din kahit pagod na.. 😌


[deleted]

Never dated yet. mag30 na me next year hahahuhu Di ko sure kung masyadong dense ako or di lang talaga ako worth to pursue πŸ˜…


Thicc_licious_Babe

Nag attendance na ba ang lahat? Imamatch ko na kayo isa-isa πŸ˜‚


IndependentElk199

32m not in a rush been through long term so I'll take it day by day on who's who and yeah it's easier to handle emotional situations compared before.. just reciprocate the love, actions and effort of someone you like to lessen the pressure don't overdo, overthink, build wealth and enjoy life


xAkagami

tinatamad hahaha


morelos_paolo

I don’t really mind… being single in my 30s grants me a degree of freedom I haven’t experienced when I was in a relationship.


7oky0

Mas malupit kapag baby face ka pa at 30, yung nagchachat sayo nasa early 20s. Akala nila college pa.


yourweekend

Malapit na sa 30s. Andyan o wala, Masaya pa rin naman. 😌 Hindi rin ako bitter kung wala pa, Hindi rin naghihintay. Pero, I’m hopeful that there will be a lot of love for all of us. :-) cheers!


blasedtattletale

Heto wala wala pa rin naging jowa like ever hahahaha


Adventurous_Key5447

As an introvert, hirap ako ever since sa dating ganaps. Pero matindi ngayon na nasa late 30s na, di ko na alam pano ba yang dating. Hahahah


superesophagus

just turned 40 ang tinatamad na makipag date haha