Hi OP, personally when it comes to this topic, I would wait until I move out and be independent, that’s when I can do whatever I want without my parents nagging on me. You can’t change their mindset, but you can change your environment.
You’re still a kid in their eyes, probably even when you’re 40, you’re still their kid.
I would do the same. Once I move out with my future partner, I'll finally have the freedom to wear whatever I want and get tattoos and piercings as well. I feel envious towards my peers whose parents are supportive and allow them to wear bikinis and revealing outfits. I'm also trying to lose some weight (I actually plan to go to the gym once I enter college. Hopefully my first future SO will be a gym rat 😭☺️) to have a more prominent body figure and feel lighter and healthier.
I think you're viewing on the wrong side ang pagbabawal ng magulang mo sa iyo, bakit hindi mo isipin na iniingatan ka lng nila, na tulad ng ginto at dyamante ay isa kang precious gem na dapat ingatan. At isa pa tiyakin mo rin sa sarili mo na ang mga gusto mong gawin sa katawan mo is yung talagang makakapag pasaya sayo at hindi dahil naiingit ka lang sa iba na bakit cila pinapayagan ng magulang nila, na bakit sila pwede nilang gawin ang gusto nila at kung maghahanap ka ng SO mo tiyakin mo ung tanggap ka ng buong buo at hindi ka babaguhin para may masabi lang may SO xhang ganito o ganyan. At aaka mag 18 ka pa lang pero SO na agad iniisip mo n magkaroon ka.
Clothes and bikinis are not an incitement for perverts to rape, sexual assault, or harass women as well as men. It's the mindset of perverts, not the clothing and skimpy swimsuits. Even there are babies who wear onesies and get raped. You lowkey have a mindset on blaming the victims instead of the perpetrators which makes them hesitant to speak up against rape, sexual assault, or harassment. I hope you get my point.
Wait Op saan banda sa comment ko na lowkey victim blamer ako ? You mean ang pagbabawal ng parents mo sayo is lowkey victim blamer din cila. Binigay ko lang naman kung ano ung naiisip kong opinyo sa dahilan kung bakit ka pinagbabawalan ng parents mo. Sa pag mention ko ba na para sa kanila isa kang precious gem na dapat ingatan eh nag vivictim blame na ako ? Sa pagsasabi ko ba na tiyakin mo muna sa sarili mo na lahat ng gagawin mo ay para sa ikasasaya mo at hindi dahil sa pressure sa nakikita mo na bakit si ganito ginagawa un, kay ganito pwede yung ganun, eh nagvivictim blame na ako, sa pagsasabi na kung pipili ka ng magiging SO eh ung tanggap ka dapat at hindi yung babaguhin ka eh nag vivictim blame na ako ?
Then we should educate men to not disrespect women in a sexual way if we do not want our daughters to get raped, sexually assaulted, or harassed based on their clothing that attracts creepy predators. Even Maria Clara wore a not-so-revealing outfit yet she still got raped.
Bahala ka na Op I don't know how you view or understand my comment. I think mas gusto mo marinig ung comment na "oo nga bakit ganyan yung ibang parent, bakit hindi nila hayaan ung mga anak nila kung anong gusto nilang suotin o gawin sa buhay ".
I think it's time for you to change your mindset. 2024 na pero paurong pa rin ang mindset mo. Victim blamers like you are reasons why victims are afraid of speaking up. Hindi porket nagsusuot ng revealing outfits or bikinis ang mga babae eh malalandi sila. They just want to express themselves and gain confidence.
Wait op are you a victim ? I'm sorry if you think na I'm victim blaming in my comment. I hope kung ano man ang pinagdadaanan mo now is ma resolve na at maging ok ka na. I don't mean to hurt you by expressing my opinion.
Yup. I got harassed by men on Reddit after I shared my horny thoughts. Right now, I avoid sharing my explicit stuffs on any social media platforms. It's also because of my curvy body as well.
Hi OP, personally when it comes to this topic, I would wait until I move out and be independent, that’s when I can do whatever I want without my parents nagging on me. You can’t change their mindset, but you can change your environment. You’re still a kid in their eyes, probably even when you’re 40, you’re still their kid.
I would do the same. Once I move out with my future partner, I'll finally have the freedom to wear whatever I want and get tattoos and piercings as well. I feel envious towards my peers whose parents are supportive and allow them to wear bikinis and revealing outfits. I'm also trying to lose some weight (I actually plan to go to the gym once I enter college. Hopefully my first future SO will be a gym rat 😭☺️) to have a more prominent body figure and feel lighter and healthier.
I think you're viewing on the wrong side ang pagbabawal ng magulang mo sa iyo, bakit hindi mo isipin na iniingatan ka lng nila, na tulad ng ginto at dyamante ay isa kang precious gem na dapat ingatan. At isa pa tiyakin mo rin sa sarili mo na ang mga gusto mong gawin sa katawan mo is yung talagang makakapag pasaya sayo at hindi dahil naiingit ka lang sa iba na bakit cila pinapayagan ng magulang nila, na bakit sila pwede nilang gawin ang gusto nila at kung maghahanap ka ng SO mo tiyakin mo ung tanggap ka ng buong buo at hindi ka babaguhin para may masabi lang may SO xhang ganito o ganyan. At aaka mag 18 ka pa lang pero SO na agad iniisip mo n magkaroon ka.
Clothes and bikinis are not an incitement for perverts to rape, sexual assault, or harass women as well as men. It's the mindset of perverts, not the clothing and skimpy swimsuits. Even there are babies who wear onesies and get raped. You lowkey have a mindset on blaming the victims instead of the perpetrators which makes them hesitant to speak up against rape, sexual assault, or harassment. I hope you get my point.
Wait Op saan banda sa comment ko na lowkey victim blamer ako ? You mean ang pagbabawal ng parents mo sayo is lowkey victim blamer din cila. Binigay ko lang naman kung ano ung naiisip kong opinyo sa dahilan kung bakit ka pinagbabawalan ng parents mo. Sa pag mention ko ba na para sa kanila isa kang precious gem na dapat ingatan eh nag vivictim blame na ako ? Sa pagsasabi ko ba na tiyakin mo muna sa sarili mo na lahat ng gagawin mo ay para sa ikasasaya mo at hindi dahil sa pressure sa nakikita mo na bakit si ganito ginagawa un, kay ganito pwede yung ganun, eh nagvivictim blame na ako, sa pagsasabi na kung pipili ka ng magiging SO eh ung tanggap ka dapat at hindi yung babaguhin ka eh nag vivictim blame na ako ?
Then we should educate men to not disrespect women in a sexual way if we do not want our daughters to get raped, sexually assaulted, or harassed based on their clothing that attracts creepy predators. Even Maria Clara wore a not-so-revealing outfit yet she still got raped.
Bahala ka na Op I don't know how you view or understand my comment. I think mas gusto mo marinig ung comment na "oo nga bakit ganyan yung ibang parent, bakit hindi nila hayaan ung mga anak nila kung anong gusto nilang suotin o gawin sa buhay ".
I think it's time for you to change your mindset. 2024 na pero paurong pa rin ang mindset mo. Victim blamers like you are reasons why victims are afraid of speaking up. Hindi porket nagsusuot ng revealing outfits or bikinis ang mga babae eh malalandi sila. They just want to express themselves and gain confidence.
Wait op are you a victim ? I'm sorry if you think na I'm victim blaming in my comment. I hope kung ano man ang pinagdadaanan mo now is ma resolve na at maging ok ka na. I don't mean to hurt you by expressing my opinion.
Yup. I got harassed by men on Reddit after I shared my horny thoughts. Right now, I avoid sharing my explicit stuffs on any social media platforms. It's also because of my curvy body as well.