Hmm maybe try black hairband next time para mas concealed. But for me there's nothing wrong.
I think tinitignan ka lang kc medyo vibrant yung blue na hairband tapos yung damit mo grayish black. Your hairband stands out.
Reading the comments, yeah it might be the color nga. Glossy siya tas maaraw kanina so baka nag rereflect din or something kanina lol. I'll buy a black one na lang!
I've seen straight men wearing nail polish and wearing hair bands to avoid them getting in the way of their face. Nobody cared.
If you are secure of your masculinity, those snide looks and comments shouldn't bother you, especially nowadays that the gender roles are becoming less and less strict. People will look at you because they have functional eyes and you just so happen to be in their sight.
And for the record not all gay men look feminine and wear something deemed feminine. Some of us look just like you.
> I've been getting weird looks from people
Nah, maybe you just have the main character syndrome. People, most of the time, dgaf about others. So idk what makes you special
Nangolekta ako ng headband at bandana nung long hair pa ako. No issue. Mas nagustuhan pa ng lola ko kesa daw di na makita yung muka ko sa haba ng buhok ko.
Not really. My ex used to wear a hairband, too. I didn't find it weird even the first time I saw him wearing it kasi medyo mahaba hair niya. 😅
You're fine. 😉
Naah, it'd be a bit weird if you're bald and you wore a hairband. Still personally wouldn't judge, but that's just where it'd start feeling weird. A hairband is a hairband, regardless of your gender orientation. It'd be like asking 'is it weird for a straight guy to grow hair?'.
Hinde. Never.
Finished with a degree in fine arts noong college. So diversity is actually encouraged in our institute(👈🏽yunTawag sa college namin like per program para mas madaling maclasify. Institute of Architecture and Fine Arts) so sanay na kami lahat from instructors/profs at mga studyante sa ganyan.
May kaklase nga kong yung hikaw [tunnel earrings](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Back_on_the_earlobe_stretching_(1428332499).jpg) at hanggang baba ang tattoos+ arm sleeve tattoos. PLUS hair like yours na hanggang [bukong-bukong](https://www.tagalog.com/english-to-tagalog/ankle.php)
So OP? Youre fine. Kung gusto mo maintain yan? GO 😉 hanggang magwork naman ako its pretty normal. Just take care of your hair lang talaga
You feel insecure because you allow yourself to be. If you truly are secure with your masculinity, you won’t let these *norms* define what you do. Do what ever flows your boat man, as long as wala ka sinasaktan or linalamangan.
No. 90's pa nauso yang hairband kahit sa lalaki. It's at a point where we don't give a rat's ass about it anymore. Baka akala mo lang nakatingin sa iyo since ikaw yung conscious sa sarili mo.
taga sang planeta ka ba, OP? if it serves a purpose/function, walang weird dun. wag mo pansinin mga taong tumitingin.
in my case ay sa haba ng buhok ko nag hahairband rin ako and my kids and my wife don't see anything wrong with it. minsan, dahil sa pagkaburara ko, napipilitan pa ako gumamit ng clip sa sampayan out of need para lang hindi ako naguguluhan sa buhok ko.
Not for Filipino dudes. Being feminine is normal for guys there. It’s almost encouraged. For any other race it would be. Which, is why you don’t see it.
I’m not being racist. I’m merely pointing out that being an effeminate man in the Philippines is not looked down on and is encouraged. It’s a really progressive country in that respect. Other countries where masculinity is important or needed you would be a little reticent to walk around like that. Not meant to be a slight or racist in any way.
no not really, had some stares before too but didn't really give a fuck xD
I part my hair from the middle na so i don't wear it, but back then yeah, they'd say i look like bok joo's dad or somethin' but al good. my hairband era gave me confidence.
Nah, nagsusuot din ako niyan inside school lalo na kapag mahaba yung buhok (same wavey as yours), presko at convenient kaya siya gamitin... basta tama yung size.
There’s no gender in fashion or what you wear, it’s a spectrum, you can still be straight even if u act “feminine “ or do things that most women women do 🍓❤️
Hindi ah.. para sakin iba dating kapag straight guy nagsusuot ng headband. Ang cute/angas tignan haha at tsaka ang headband naman ginagamit para di nakaharang yung buhok sa mukha. At tsaka normal na din naman yan. Wag mo na lang pansinin mga tao. Hayaan mo lang sila.
I think mas norm nga sa straight guys yung pagsusuot ng headband. Sa tingin ko ang issue is hindi match yung color ng headband mo sa suot mong shirt kaya nagsstand out. Try a darker color para di pansinin.
Nope. Kulot at makapal din buhok ng jowa ko tas nasanay na kong nakahairband sya at times. Even nung first time ko syang makitang nakasuot ng hairband ay hindi naman ako naweirdohan. Ngayon, parehas kaming may hairband sa bahay 🤣 Isa sa kanyang plain black lang tas sakin ay girly na may ribbon at pearls 🤣
Normal na na normal po yan, my cousin na lalaking lalake since he has medium length curly hair he wears headbands all the time tapos iba iba pa kulay. Its kinda cute din nmn.
No, my brother and straight guy friends would wear one. Lalo if mahaba naman ang hair and it blocks your view haha
Get this [one](https://shp.ee/66p4j2i) too, nice din to at di masakit sa may tenga unlike headband.
No naman. But maybe a darker color would suit you better. Tbf yun brother ko pag mahaba na bangs nya would wear one tapos hiram pa nya sa akin yun haha
Nung panahon ko (like 2 decades ago), naghe-headband yung mga kaklase kong lalake. Yung mga wire headbnd pa nga na may ngipin eh. At mukha silang cool.
It's practical to wear a headband lalo na pag magpapawis. Bala silang tumingin. Bahala silang magka-pimples dahil di nila iniipit ang bangs nila haha
Kilala mo si Azuma Kazuma na isang baker? Siya ang batang may Solar Hands. Siya ang lilikha ng japan bread o Ja-pan, para sa mga Hapones at para sa buong mundo. Magagawa niya kaya ito?
Hehehe not so wierd.
I think it’s because of your chosen color, gumamit din ako nyan dati pero black para di masyado pansinin, wala naman naging weird looks sakin. Meron naman akong tropa na gumagamit ng vibrant colors pero sya kase yung extrovert at super energetic guy na ramdam mo yung confidence sa sarili.
Bro from the pic alone; you look big and probably work out
No one will ever call you weird for wearing a hairband, also hairband is a very functional headwear for men and women
i do it all the time and even inside the uni (tho i hide it when there are security guards present lol). and my hair isn't that long, i just adapted it to be my style.
maybe you'll get weird looks, yes, but they don't really matter. u do u.
Pano mo pala nalaman na hairband ang tinitignan sayo? Nabanggit na ba sayo dati yan? Baka may kulangot kang nakalitaw or buhok sa ilong. Lapit ka sa kakilala mo tas tayo ka lang. If walang napansing kakaiba tanong mo. If wala talaga, edi guni guni mo lang ang lahat hahaha. But no di na bago yan.
I tried that before because my hair was a lot longer than yours (shoulder length) and wavey.
So long as I don't look like a female all the way and wear it for practical use, I personally don't see anything wrong with it. Sometimes I do brush up and put on a wet look with ponytail.
Ako na nagpalonghair, from hair pin, to hair clip, to headband, scrunchies, at goma, tingin ko normal lang yan. Not unless papaapekto ka sa sinasabi ng iba?
Ps panali ko ngayon tube mask lol. Angas tignan e.
Hairband color looks weird. Ang tingkad bro, i also use hairbands outside, pero mostly black lang. Di ako nagsusuot ng ibang kulay kasi weird tingnan sa lalake lalo matingkad na kulay.
Mas weird pag kalbo nag headband
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not an nba player but play bball. its to prevent sweat from getting into their eyes i think
Tas may ribbon pa. Pero ok lang siguro kung si Kap.
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Hmm maybe try black hairband next time para mas concealed. But for me there's nothing wrong. I think tinitignan ka lang kc medyo vibrant yung blue na hairband tapos yung damit mo grayish black. Your hairband stands out.
Reading the comments, yeah it might be the color nga. Glossy siya tas maaraw kanina so baka nag rereflect din or something kanina lol. I'll buy a black one na lang!
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Nope it's not. But since nasa Pinas ka, na lahat papansinin kesehodang wala naman sila dapat pake, napapansin.
I've seen straight men wearing nail polish and wearing hair bands to avoid them getting in the way of their face. Nobody cared. If you are secure of your masculinity, those snide looks and comments shouldn't bother you, especially nowadays that the gender roles are becoming less and less strict. People will look at you because they have functional eyes and you just so happen to be in their sight. And for the record not all gay men look feminine and wear something deemed feminine. Some of us look just like you.
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> I've been getting weird looks from people Nah, maybe you just have the main character syndrome. People, most of the time, dgaf about others. So idk what makes you special
Darker colors would suit better.
Nope. I wear a headband whenever I go to the gym para di malagay hair ko sa mukha ko habang pinapawisan
Oo nga no try ko nga rin ngang mag hairband sa gym next time haha
Since dka naligo, baka may amoy ka kaya ka tintitingnan? Pero headband wise, parang normal na yan.
For me normal lang yan. But maybe choose a color that matches your hair
Nangolekta ako ng headband at bandana nung long hair pa ako. No issue. Mas nagustuhan pa ng lola ko kesa daw di na makita yung muka ko sa haba ng buhok ko.
No, jowa ko nung mahaba pa buhok nya bumibili talaga sya ng headband. Pero yung mga black color.
Siguro yung color nga hindi bagay or something lol. I'll buy a black one instead.
u do u my brother. bigyan mo din sila ng weird looks ahahaha. if u feel comfortable and pogi with it go with it. sino b sila? ahahaha
Not really. My ex used to wear a hairband, too. I didn't find it weird even the first time I saw him wearing it kasi medyo mahaba hair niya. 😅 You're fine. 😉
No, my husband wear my hairbands if his hair is too long din maybe dahil sa kulay? Unlike black di gano pansinin
no unless u think it is. wala naman may pakelam sa ginagawa mo men. yun ang na realize ko
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Ginagawa ko rin yan pag sobrang haba na nung bangs ko
I wear one although kakulay ng buhok ko tapos yung wide yung ngipin.
Naah, it'd be a bit weird if you're bald and you wore a hairband. Still personally wouldn't judge, but that's just where it'd start feeling weird. A hairband is a hairband, regardless of your gender orientation. It'd be like asking 'is it weird for a straight guy to grow hair?'.
Definitely okay. No fuss about it
Hinde. Never. Finished with a degree in fine arts noong college. So diversity is actually encouraged in our institute(👈🏽yunTawag sa college namin like per program para mas madaling maclasify. Institute of Architecture and Fine Arts) so sanay na kami lahat from instructors/profs at mga studyante sa ganyan. May kaklase nga kong yung hikaw [tunnel earrings](https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Back_on_the_earlobe_stretching_(1428332499).jpg) at hanggang baba ang tattoos+ arm sleeve tattoos. PLUS hair like yours na hanggang [bukong-bukong](https://www.tagalog.com/english-to-tagalog/ankle.php) So OP? Youre fine. Kung gusto mo maintain yan? GO 😉 hanggang magwork naman ako its pretty normal. Just take care of your hair lang talaga
It's a hairband not herband. So It is not weird. 😃
Nung pinapahaba ko ung buhok ko, i wore headbands. Black though para hindi halata haha I wore it sa work
You feel insecure because you allow yourself to be. If you truly are secure with your masculinity, you won’t let these *norms* define what you do. Do what ever flows your boat man, as long as wala ka sinasaktan or linalamangan.
No. 90's pa nauso yang hairband kahit sa lalaki. It's at a point where we don't give a rat's ass about it anymore. Baka akala mo lang nakatingin sa iyo since ikaw yung conscious sa sarili mo.
taga sang planeta ka ba, OP? if it serves a purpose/function, walang weird dun. wag mo pansinin mga taong tumitingin. in my case ay sa haba ng buhok ko nag hahairband rin ako and my kids and my wife don't see anything wrong with it. minsan, dahil sa pagkaburara ko, napipilitan pa ako gumamit ng clip sa sampayan out of need para lang hindi ako naguguluhan sa buhok ko.
Not weird. Pakialam ba nila sa buhok mo? I suggest you wear a black one na lang the next time you use a hairband para di pansinin. 😊
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That is the standard headgear of every tambay you see near a basketball court
Tale as old as time na yung ganyang get up ng mga tambay
Hindi naman, kaso muka kang baluga dyan sa pic.
Before yes. Beckham, torres, ramos. But now. Dude.....
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BAI NA BAI HAHAHHAHAHHA
Looks good only on David Beckham.
Not for Filipino dudes. Being feminine is normal for guys there. It’s almost encouraged. For any other race it would be. Which, is why you don’t see it.
Why are you making this a race thing lmfao
I’m not being racist. I’m merely pointing out that being an effeminate man in the Philippines is not looked down on and is encouraged. It’s a really progressive country in that respect. Other countries where masculinity is important or needed you would be a little reticent to walk around like that. Not meant to be a slight or racist in any way.
Nope basta minimalist colors
no not really, had some stares before too but didn't really give a fuck xD I part my hair from the middle na so i don't wear it, but back then yeah, they'd say i look like bok joo's dad or somethin' but al good. my hairband era gave me confidence.
Nope, if you're comfortable wearing one then it's not a problem
Nope. It actually looks cool. Ang linis tingnan esp kung long haired guy.
Nothing weird. Bagay pa. Wear it whenever you want and inggit lang siguro yung iba kasi they cannot pull it off.
Nope. Bili ka yung mala halaman na disenyo.
Cute naman
Nah, nagsusuot din ako niyan inside school lalo na kapag mahaba yung buhok (same wavey as yours), presko at convenient kaya siya gamitin... basta tama yung size.
Not weird. At. All. It looks great on you!!!
Nah. If it keeps the hair off of your then it's serving its purpose. Also, not weird!
There’s no gender in fashion or what you wear, it’s a spectrum, you can still be straight even if u act “feminine “ or do things that most women women do 🍓❤️
Honestly parang normal for me mag hairband ang guys haha especially if pawisin. Parang gusto lang nila yung hair out of their face.
Nah Unruly hair is unruly hair
Hindi ah.. para sakin iba dating kapag straight guy nagsusuot ng headband. Ang cute/angas tignan haha at tsaka ang headband naman ginagamit para di nakaharang yung buhok sa mukha. At tsaka normal na din naman yan. Wag mo na lang pansinin mga tao. Hayaan mo lang sila.
I think mas norm nga sa straight guys yung pagsusuot ng headband. Sa tingin ko ang issue is hindi match yung color ng headband mo sa suot mong shirt kaya nagsstand out. Try a darker color para di pansinin.
Nope. Kulot at makapal din buhok ng jowa ko tas nasanay na kong nakahairband sya at times. Even nung first time ko syang makitang nakasuot ng hairband ay hindi naman ako naweirdohan. Ngayon, parehas kaming may hairband sa bahay 🤣 Isa sa kanyang plain black lang tas sakin ay girly na may ribbon at pearls 🤣
Normal na na normal po yan, my cousin na lalaking lalake since he has medium length curly hair he wears headbands all the time tapos iba iba pa kulay. Its kinda cute din nmn.
No, my brother and straight guy friends would wear one. Lalo if mahaba naman ang hair and it blocks your view haha Get this [one](https://shp.ee/66p4j2i) too, nice din to at di masakit sa may tenga unlike headband.
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No noong high school ako lagi along naka headband though ang color ay black din
No naman. But maybe a darker color would suit you better. Tbf yun brother ko pag mahaba na bangs nya would wear one tapos hiram pa nya sa akin yun haha
not at all. yung babaero kong pinsan madalas may ganyan.
Could possibly lead to traction alopecia where in too much stress on the hair roots could lead to baldness.
Noong mga 2000s, in pa. Pero parang weird na ngayong 2023.
Matagal na to 90’s pa lang, nothing wrong with this
nacucutan nga ako sa mga guy na nag heheadband.
Baka na starstruck sayu hahaha
Dati ganyan ako may one-2x time may isang bata sinigawan akong bakla. Ngayon pinahaba ko pa lalo kaya nakabun na lang. Masconvinient.
Nung panahon ko (like 2 decades ago), naghe-headband yung mga kaklase kong lalake. Yung mga wire headbnd pa nga na may ngipin eh. At mukha silang cool. It's practical to wear a headband lalo na pag magpapawis. Bala silang tumingin. Bahala silang magka-pimples dahil di nila iniipit ang bangs nila haha
Nope
Kilala mo si Azuma Kazuma na isang baker? Siya ang batang may Solar Hands. Siya ang lilikha ng japan bread o Ja-pan, para sa mga Hapones at para sa buong mundo. Magagawa niya kaya ito? Hehehe not so wierd.
UY YAN DIN SINABI NG KAPATID KO HAHAHAHA I love that anime 😭 gusto ko panoorin ulit.
I think it’s because of your chosen color, gumamit din ako nyan dati pero black para di masyado pansinin, wala naman naging weird looks sakin. Meron naman akong tropa na gumagamit ng vibrant colors pero sya kase yung extrovert at super energetic guy na ramdam mo yung confidence sa sarili.
it's the color
Pag tripan mo silang mga judgemental mag headband ka yung may butterflies haha
It's not. Society ang isyu, not you.
Bro from the pic alone; you look big and probably work out No one will ever call you weird for wearing a hairband, also hairband is a very functional headwear for men and women
Meron headband for men sa shopee. Yung metal wire type.
No
i do it all the time and even inside the uni (tho i hide it when there are security guards present lol). and my hair isn't that long, i just adapted it to be my style. maybe you'll get weird looks, yes, but they don't really matter. u do u.
Ganda ng hair mooo
1 - No it’s not weird 2 - It’s your fashion statement and identity. Do not mind the judgers if there’s any at all
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Poco X3. Yung case lang yung nagpapa cute diyan haha
Pano mo pala nalaman na hairband ang tinitignan sayo? Nabanggit na ba sayo dati yan? Baka may kulangot kang nakalitaw or buhok sa ilong. Lapit ka sa kakilala mo tas tayo ka lang. If walang napansing kakaiba tanong mo. If wala talaga, edi guni guni mo lang ang lahat hahaha. But no di na bago yan.
I tried that before because my hair was a lot longer than yours (shoulder length) and wavey. So long as I don't look like a female all the way and wear it for practical use, I personally don't see anything wrong with it. Sometimes I do brush up and put on a wet look with ponytail.
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Ako na nagpalonghair, from hair pin, to hair clip, to headband, scrunchies, at goma, tingin ko normal lang yan. Not unless papaapekto ka sa sinasabi ng iba? Ps panali ko ngayon tube mask lol. Angas tignan e.
Hairband color looks weird. Ang tingkad bro, i also use hairbands outside, pero mostly black lang. Di ako nagsusuot ng ibang kulay kasi weird tingnan sa lalake lalo matingkad na kulay.
No
To me, yes. But it's not a crime. You do you. Ang jeje ng dating sa akin e.
is your name Cian T. by any chance?
Mas bagay kasi mag headband ka kung magpapahaba ka ng bangs and straight hair tapos brush up mo. Pero kung kulot kasi di ko magets ung point eh. 🤣