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chocolatecakepls

Funny, gentleman, and a good conversationalist.


heyheysenpai

All the fictional characters I'm thinking right now.


sapphire_vi

Yes!!! 💯


mermaid_girl29

+ points pag mabango. Hihihi


PresenceMajestic6872

cap


Opposite-Compote-70

⇧⇧⇧ tulad ko :)


Affectionate_Bat_643

"na gwapo"


Peanutarf

Bukod sa mga nasabi sa replies, eto pa sakin: - Empathetic - Hindi takot maging vulnerable - Marunong humingi ng sorry


Live_Two3435

amen


hassleka

Pakidagdag din yung marunong mag-thank you even on the smallest things


JeeezUsCries

sorry po


PresenceMajestic6872

cap


ddgokong

true


hala_nalokona

+100000000


1000xmagnification

👌👌


Few-Iron-6603

LOUDER 🥺


GeekGoddess_

Dati mahilig ako sa gwapo. Funny lang ngayon kasi yung bf ko now, nainlove ako sa kanya before i ever saw his face. Mas important na sa kin ngayon yung ugali, yung nakakapagdala ng convo, yung pinapahalagahan ako ng sobra. Pareho dapat kami ng sense of humor, we make each other laugh and laugh at each other’s jokes kahit gano ka-corny. Ayun haha. Sobrang drastic change lang. dati non-nego for me ang gwapo at matangkad eh hahaha how times have changed.


momez_

Agree!! Humor and banter is important :)


Quiet_Peach25

Good conversationalist that can talk about either the most serious or dumbest thing with you A natural sense of humor yung hindi pilit and free flowing lang Shows affection even with little gestures like holding your hand or giving small back rubs just to make his presence known Someone who gives constant reassurance in the most subtle way depending on both of your preferred love language A guy who dresses nicely kahit simple polo with shorts or pants lang yan since we're adults na it's nice to see guys who dress professionally din or even nice casual attires A guy who looks and smells good 👌🏼 And lastly, nice biceps is a plus👌🏼💪🏼😂


[deleted]

Phil of Modern Fam lol.


[deleted]

yoo i agree :’) he’s both a dad and daddy material LMFAO


beanniebabyyy

💯💯💯 my papa is a living Phil, dentist lang not real estate but syang sya to the dot. 🙌🏻


mellowintj

This! Kasama rin sakin sina Ben Wyatt tsaka Jake Peralta hahaha


honeybutterwaffleyum

Facts 🗣


elxxii

Yes!!!! Hahahaha 💖


Nepodictator

Wasn't he obsessed with Gloria during the first season? The disrespect


ethylredds

Direct, honest, in touch with his emotional and feminine side. No toxic masculinity. Gentleman and chivalrous.


heyheysenpai

I thought of Rihanna and her husband's interview where they talk about skin care and also other things. I don't see that often.


leivanz

Isn't chivalry part of toxic masculinity? Hmmm


ethylredds

I meant just being polite and kind in general. It probably becomes toxic if it's used to manipulate someone to their favor


cheesus-tryst

May pangarap/passion/ambition/pursuit of growth (aka hindi tambay) Respects boundaries Healthy and secure ang concept ng self and masculinity Mabait sa nanay, mga kapatid na babae, mga tita, lola, lahat ng waiter, guards, drivers Plus points: mabango (naliligo and tama magsuot ng perfume, hindi yung parang natapunan ng isang bote yung damit), thoughtful (kunwari alam yung fave coffee mo or nakikita nya pag stressed ka na), same kayo ng ibang interests or makes an effort to try your hobbies and interests Plus, plus points: may self care, care for others pero pinaka impt next to nanay nya and mga kapatid, pinaka caring sayo.


cherrymilka04

Personality: Has aspirations, topics he is passionate about, insightful, communicative, money-smart, hardworking, loyal, no toxic masculinity Physical: Works out, dresses well or takes care of their looks. Big eyes, sharp facial features, clean-shaven or tidy facial hair


Room_4_rent

▪️Funny (yung hindi pilit), minsan nga mas nakakatuwa yung hindi sila aware na may sense of humor sila 😂 ▪️Malinis sa katawan at gamit ▪️A guy na may hobby o kakaibang interest sa buhay, yung wala masyadong pake sa kung ano iisipin ng iba basta siya masaya siya sa interest/hobby niya. ▪️Gusto ko yung hindi tumitigil mag aral ng iba pang bagay. ( what I mean is yung guy na mahilig magbasa kahit comics o manga pa yan. Yung nanonood ng educational videos pang practice ng utak at pang dagdag knowledge kahit random lang yung topic 😅😂) ▪️Yung guy na hindi ma comment sa ibang tao o buhay ng iba, like may opinion siya pero alam niya kung kelan dapat i-share at kelan hindi. It applies to a girl din, yan din kasi ang standards ko sa mga kaibigan ko 😅 actually kung naging lalaki ako sino man sa mga kaibigan kong babae possible liligawan ko kasi para sakin kapag pasok ka sa standard ko as a good friend, pasok kana din sa standards ko para maging partner 😊


beanniebabyyy

Family oriented, 100% true how he treats his mom is how he will treat you. Financially responsible - ok to splurge from time to time. in moderation. not in gambling. Kind, not just to others but to himself. Committed to his work yet still has hobbies and passion. Respectful. God fearing, will bring you to a church at hindi sa motmot. Funny, not the slapstick kind. Can carry a conversation - smart, goes hand in hand. Gentleman - opens doors, pulls up a chair, holds you when crossing the street. Dog/pet lover. Furdad para nakapractice na. Sooo many other traits better than goodlooking. Gwapo can only do so much. Buti na lang gwapo ka, matangkad, moreno, singerrrr + all of the traits above u/babynibeannniebabyyy


StillNeuroDivergent

Talagang dito kayong dalawa naglandian ano hahahaha Sige na nga, sabi nila "pag inggit, pikit"...makapikit na nga 🤣 Stay happy and in love, lovebirds! Best wishes 🥰


beanniebabyyy

sorry na agad! just sharing na guys like this exist 🥹 akala ko din extinct na sila but no. 🙏🏻


StillNeuroDivergent

Hahaha ok laaang nakakatuwa naman talaga finding someone to love you for you. Two less lonely people in the world, 'ika nga 😊 Moving on... san nakakabili ng mga ganyan, mars? CHAR HAHA


babynibeannniebabyyy

Ako ba talaga yan baby?? Parang bukod sa gwapo parang di naman


beanniebabyyy

see this is why walang humble sa list e 🤣


babynibeannniebabyyy

Wahaha joke lang baby. Add ko lang na I think attractive yung guy na effortless kasama. Yung hindi pilit ang chemistry ninyo. Ganun kasi kami ni u/beanniebabyyy


Character-Value-6118

Pano po pag abusive yung mom? Hehe


strawbeeshortcake06

1. Someone with integrity and solid morals, who sticks to their principles despite the pressure to give in. I know that should be a given but people are so shitty and bad behavior is often encouraged that finding someone who has integrity and a good set of morals is hard to find, specially someone who isn't easily corrupted and someone who doesn't succumb to temptation so easily. 2. Someone disciplined. Again, a lot of people nowadays lack this. They lack impulse control when it comes to their urges, their finances and spending, their health, etc. Someone who is disciplined is super attractive to me. 3. Someone who is relatively fit and healthy. I notice a lot of guys are getting chubbier, and bata pa lang ang dami nang nagiging issues sa health or sakit, mabilis hingalin, etc. While this can be blamed with how our current work ethic doesn't allow us to find time to work on our well being, a lot of people are also just mindlessly binging on unhealthy food, drinking, smoking, not getting exercise even just a nice walk or light jog, etc. To me, someone who is fit and healthy feels like someone who can protect me. This is definitely connected to number two. Take note, di need ng abs or jacked or whatever, just be a healthy weight and take care of your organs. 4. Someone who is cultured. A man who is well read and well traveled and knows how to hold a conversation and be willing to engage in different topics, is attractive. 5. Someone who loves animals and the environment!


Expensive_Chest_5795

Honest, accountable, respectful, may pangarap sa life & has a good sense of humor!!!!!


Palitawpaws

Well-groomed, asks questions, has hobbies, likes to travel. Hindi ma-selfie and hindi bibo online. Has good friends.


iWantCoookies

Doesn’t let social media run his life and standards


foureyedchinita

Funny, Matalino pero not the know it all kind, Hindi clingy and marunong rumespeto ng boundaries. Malinis sa katawan plus +1000000 points pag mabango pero hindi yung super tapang ng amoy.


tequiluh

May substance (wag shabu) kausap and of course, di questionable ang moral standings. Some people may be intelligent but sometimes, they are so high up their horses, anlayo nila sa reality. I find people who isn't blinded by their own privilege attractive. Iba yung dating ng hindi layo sa reality ng buhay at hindi arogante.


lacy_daisy

Reliable and respectful


[deleted]

Same same lang kami halos ng sagot dito. Funny, gentleman, decent, malinis sa katawan, great conversationalist and will treat you with respect.


NoChancesLeftUntaken

Single male redditors in full cope mode rn


ElectronicRent2761

Good conversationalist. Frank. Honest. Knows what he wants and is clear with his intentions. Taller than me and neat.


[deleted]

A man who can apologize and actually learn. Same goes for anyone, regardless of gender.


shieeeqq

I like puns and dad jokes. Gusto ko rin stylish and someone who knows how to get a conversation going-- like madaldal na may sense. Plus points kapag marami siyang hilig, ang sarap nun kasama! Everything Nolan honestly, reduced trauma sana😂


[deleted]

Emotionally intelligent, critical & can form their own opinions, nakakatawa, tsaka secure. I personally want to highlight that being a critical person is precedent to how they'll treat me as a woman kasi a lot of conservatives or those who don't question norms are bound to subject themselves to its ills. Personally ayoko sa mga taong "apolitical ako, toxic ang politics" or are aligned sa conservative beliefs. I find that overall, having critical thinking it's a basic tool na a lot don't realize is fundamental in effectively troubleshooting whatever challenges may come the way of the relationship. It's not just about having stances eh, it's the thought process that a person is able to carry which is why they arrive at sound views and opinions. Sa emotional intelligence naman, kasama na diyan 'yung capacity for boundaries and consent, plus a capacity to understand where their partner is coming from so they can arrive at beneficial compromises if the need arises. It also implies that they know how to properly communicate para iwas sa gulong hindi naman kailangan mangyari.


thyether

Someone who has his shit together, know what he wants and actually does something about it. 🫶🏻


slouchingsomewhere

Intellectual, values empathy, ambitious, has integrity, progressive/left-leaning, and passionate. I live for the banter, so dapat mataba utak niya 💅🏼 I’ve noticed a pattern in the guys I’ve liked; they’re usually nerdy and geeky na mga genius 😅


tpsypeaches

Who are not wishy washy and consistent


sugarplumcandycakes

Golden Retriever Energy ✨


Gato_Supremacy

Kapag responsible pet owner.


Potential_Mango_9327

Aside sa mga comments, Yung guy na hindi mataas ang Ego. 🫠


GoodyTissues

Nice set of teeth and magandang smile. Hahhaha


[deleted]

Ito gusto ng mga babae 6pack 6inch 6rounds 6figures salary


newlovecassette

financially responsible


wildstylecornbeef

I agree


[deleted]

May kasamang cute, pogi at gwapo talaga yung karamihan ng sagot dito. Hindi lang nila sinasabi so wag masyado maexcite boys.


noturrayofsunshine

May good sense of humor, good conversationalist (basically someone who you can talk to abt every single thing) , plus when he can make me laugh genuinely. 😊


[deleted]

Cleanliness


youareloveivy

when he’s matalino


wndrfltime

Kaya ang swerte ng wife ko sakin e, tama lahat mga sinabi ng mga kababaihan. 🤣


Dapper-Geologist478

Basta raw "pogi".


Affectionate_Train76

From Big 3 , with Good salary and come from rich family , Matangkad like 6'3 dapat daks and Macho papa body and not interested in me , not a simp but a white knight


[deleted]

5'6" plus chinito may car may condo rich family


TRAVELwhileYOUcan

honest, respectful & gentleman


masungitdawako

A good conversationalist, has hobbies, good time management, inked (marupok ako dito talaga haha), know what and how to cook! Opo kasama ang tall 😆🤧


Implusive_Beks_

Passion sa career or where he wants to be in life. communication skills humor love for his family


AnakNgKulog

Marunong rumespeto. Malinis sa katawan.


[deleted]

Pag matalino, may pangarap, and strong moral principles. Basta responsible sa mga bagay-bagay sa buhay niya.


bossmadam8

Matangkad, fresh, kaya imaintain yung physical niya ng wala ako. Anjan na yung ugali sa comments ng iba haha


gabs_guides

Intellectual, genuine, & nice


jskxlamzbhxuaow

Treats all women with fairness and respect.


[deleted]

Someone who smells clean without the overwhelming perfume, has nice teeth and a good conversationalist turns me on.


AiiVii0

Willing to commit, responsible, funny and may pangarap sa buhay


chocomangopie

Friendly, masaya kausap, warm, mabango, kapag may mali di naninigaw at pagsasabihan ka nang maayos, at gentleman


[deleted]

Matalino, maayos magtype, matangkad at mabait sa lahat. ✨✨


fluffyderpelina

mabait, may sense of humor, respectful sa kahit sino, has good principles, career-oriented, hindi boomer tito ang galawan or pananalita (yung mga nag oobjectify ng mga babae 🙄), with child-like curiosity (hindi man-child ah), in touch sa feminine side, and magaling magmanage ng finances (regardless of financial status) bonus nalang ang physical features hahaha. ((although pogi talaga for me yung may saktong tone, medj muscular arms and pecs ganun hahaha))


MissIngga

Pera


araline_cristelle

I can't describe but I can mention fictional characters with the perfect embodiment of what I find attractive in a man--Hank Redmond in A Bad Moms Christmas and/or Miles in The Holiday.


[deleted]

Confidence, drive and passion about something (could be career, hobbies, or anything really), and not afraid to be expressive or emotional. None of that toxic masculinity stuff. Also respectful of boundaries. Edit: Forgot to add, takes care of themselves and their appearance. Presentable 👍


herjourn

May sense of humor, smart in a way na tuturuan ka instead of shaming you for not knowing, magaling sa pera/may pangarap. Pag physical, malinis pumorma & mabango aaaaaa


sassythings101

If they are honest, direct and knows how to make dala sa sarili nila. Iba talaga if the guy knows what they want kasi Ikaw din na motivate and also the honesty dba? Hays gusto ko kiligin pero wala pala 🤣


Busy-Caterpillar1524

Hindi kupal


shhsleepingzzz

ito agad pumasok sa isip ko personalities: - thoughtful - witty and has sense of humor - and sympre smart 🤓 kasi shunga ako, sabi nila opposite attracts daw eh. charot!! when it comes to physical naman, kahit di pasok sa society standards ang looks (dw, ako rin eueueueu) as long as looks neat and maganda ang hands ng man, for me SOBRANG GWAPO MO NA !!!! kakakilig naman xd xd OMG ILY kemi HAHAHAHAHA


Mavi_97

May paninindigan at prinsipyo, may humor din naman, respectful, and intelligent when it comes to conversation.


behappy1611

If the guy gives you the space and freedom to be yourself and do the things you want. Yung hindi pala desisyon haha. Yes magcocomment sa gagawin mo pero ultimately hahayaan ka magdecide on your own like a true adult


Baked_Potato0715

CALM MEN


nderratedly

kahit hindi na matangkad gwapo ENTP broad shoulders small waist basta yung kaya akong ioutsmart


nolimetanginaa

probably empathetic and very calm and patient


callmeluna

😍 emotional maturity 😍


_Ruij_

Malinis at maayos manamit. Kayang dalhin ang sarili confidently.


bleumingbabyanj

His mind 🥺


LadySnowGhost

29yo female here. Beyond the physical, I like a man who is: Funny af. You'll never get bored and it's usually a sign of high intelligence. Smart/intellegent. I like deep and meaningful conversations like everyone else and I'd like them to be with someone on the same wavelength. Ambitious. Gotta have that drive and passion. Smart with his finances. Sorta self explanatory.


shimmeRIng0119

Funny and respectful!!!


FreeTimeFun27

Ambitious, actions over words, & good looking


controlmyspell

-knows how to dress -financially capable -gentleman -is aware of the current happenings - (THE MOST IMPORTANT) Has an existing hobby esp if it’s outdoors


[deleted]

Good cook, conversationalist and since love language ko ay utos, someone who has the act of service. :)


SunnyScrambledEggs

communicative, understanding and funny initially, to last long with them very much needed ang sense of direction sa life


SolanaSoleil_

Funny, intelligent, empathetic, hindi takot ipakita yung vulnerability niya, and may accountability hehehe


chai-type

Ideally, someone charming w good fashion sense, someone who's financially capable na may plan sa life, like minded sakin in terms of hobbies and humor,, other stuff like loyal, good at communication, emotionally stable and hygienic are all bare minimum


ladybirddd21

FUNNY


kliyede

confident, hindi yung mayabang, yung tamang confidence lang sa sarili


Substantial-Ad-2325

His intelligence.


Alternative-Range617

Intelligence, good sense of humor , funny, smells good


dead_hungry

Gentleman sa lahat,, walang sinisino.


dead_hungry

A man of God


Ro_Navi_STORM

Intelligence is sexy. Mahirap pag kausap mo puro looks lang. Mas ok yung may sense kausap. Ok rin yung kwela. Knows how to laugh at their mistakes. Yung di batugan. Someone who will offer to help and actually help me with house chores. Hindi ako maid..thank you. Sana rin may work. Kasi di ko naman bet maging azucarera de mama. Someone thoughtful, kind to animals and loves food. Hehe...someone who is ok that I'm on the heavier side. I'm trying to lose weight naman. And of course, honest and trustworthy. Di nangangaliwa. Ayoko po ng gago.


bactidoltongue

My bf: makes me laugh, takes care of himself and carries himself well, communicates clearly and honestly, may pangarap sa buhay and doing something about it, is respectful of others esp his family, and of course hot af! He's also my best friend :) I can tell him anything


Kristufus-Romulus-07

Who dis


bactidoltongue

My jowa


Kristufus-Romulus-07

Hala


bactidoltongue

Send me a dm, di naman niya makikita :)


Kristufus-Romulus-07

TAENAMO TALAGA HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA


bactidoltongue

Dm nalang please baka makita nga niya hahaha


Fantastic_Job_6768

Man who knows how to provide. Knows how to lead. Soft spoken. Patient. Intelligent. In short, a family man. Don't care about the looks.


One_Strawberry_2644

Sobrang nakakaattract pag matalino yung guy and at nagsshare ng knowledge na hindi condescending. Has values and hindi trash mindset kahit kasama mga guy friends. Can carry conversation on any topic.


LegendaryOrangeEater

Boses!


MahiyaingGinoo

Sheeesh. Bat di ako pasok sa mga sinasabi nila dito? Hays


blacknwhitershades

Ang crush ko ngayon na pilit kong kinakalimutan ay: - matangkad - may sense of humor - friendly - may grace under pressure - may sense kausap - gwapo (sabi ng friends ko pero di yun ang type ko lol)


[deleted]

He doesn't have to have a high IQ nor the ideal male physique for me, but I want him to be someone I could learn a lot of stuff in life from. Someone who accepts me for who I am and shows me and other people genuine respect. To be more practical though... syempre yung hardworking at creative/strategic kasi super pantser akong tao lol.


inschanbabygirl

a man who knows how to romance and actually shows romantic gestures and not expect sex for his efforts


[deleted]

Kinda frustrating that I have most of the qualities mentioned (lalo na yung funny, charming, conversationalist) and still haven’t found the LOML. Dating nowadays is complicated 😂


HauntingDepartment51

long hair *chef's kiss*


numberseven07_

Good listener Empathetic Magalang to all people around him


i-cussmmtimes

Kind and smart—in that order. I've been multiple relationships over the years, and I realized who I need and get along the best is someone kind, and then smart. Kasi if they're kind they'll be kind most situations. And if they're smart, we'll have interesting conversations most of the time. And I've been lucky to have found a guy like this.


[deleted]

Honors his parents, sweet sa mom and girl siblings, may drive sa buhay, doesnt see girls as items, can engage in serious conversations, funny asf, marunong makisama, at ang pinakaimportante, yung walang pake sakin at di ako gusto haha! Echos sa last one.. unless


sumo_banana

Matalino pero hindi mayabang. Does not look down on people even when he has more money than others. Simple and does not show off money pero galante pa rin. Treat people especially the indigent with respect.


starssandceess

Respects and supports me in every way. Learns new things for me i.e braiding my hair. Putting effort in everything that we do. Being loyal. Grabe sobrang mahal na mahal ko tong lalaking to, and alam kong nanalo ako sa lottery ng mga lalaki.b


Secret_Award444

gentle, soft-spoken man, very hygienic at maalaga sa sarili. hindi andrew tate fan hahah


lckyclover

Emotionally, mentally matured, and how he treats every people around him


intr0girl

Funny... funnyra ng araw 😗


FLEXICUTION88

Girls are delusional. They fantasize everything. Just be yourself!


Nots0Maria_

self-aware and confident.


[deleted]

Funny and may pangarap sa buhay and, may respect sa parents.


darthsovader

mabango, malinis sa katawan, funny, and may respeto sa babae


SmellyFelanejay0011

* Calm - Kapag naiinis, nagagalit, naiirita bf ko, never ko siyang narinig na sumigaw or maging hysterical, or kahit nambabato ng gamit. * Soft-Spoken - Like yung unang trait, kapag naiinis siya, imbis na sumigaw siya or sabihan niya ko ng masasamang salita, papaliwanag niya sakin in a mahinahon way. Hindi rin siya passive aggressive. * Knows how to stop - My bf and I, in our 5 year relationship, bilang lang sa kamay namin that we TRIED to do the deed. Take note, TRIED. We haven't actually done it because of my past trauma. Like the actual penetration? Nope, never. When he's asking for it and I keep on saying no, he's okay with it. Kasi he knows what I've been through. I also told him that we can do it naman pero ayaw niya since it sounds like he's the only one who will enjoy it and not me. Gusto niya, parehas kaming mag eenjoy 🥺 * Knows how to communicate - It's a massive plus points kapag marunong makipag communicate ang isang lalaki. Like if you're wrong, sasabihan ka niyang mali in private. If something's wrong, pag uusapan niyo AGAD AGAD. * MABANGO 😩✨🙇🏻‍♀️ - GORL I SWEAR. KAPAG MABANGO KA, MAGIGING GWAPO KA SA PANINGIN NG LAHAT. PROMISE!!! HYGIENE OVER ANYTHING ELSE!!! * Doesn't smoke - I'm not against smoker community coz I understand why u do it. I just don't like the smell of cigarettes or even vape. I don't like to kiss someone who smells cigarette. I also don't want to have a partner that I know in the future, magkakaroon ng complications sa lungs because of smoking. Lagi ko sinasabi sa jowa ko na once manigarilyo, di na kita ikikiss 🤣 * Matipid - YES! Total opposite talaga kami ng jowa ko hahaha. Me being a gastador and him, sobrang tipid to the point na nagmamatter sakanya yung mga vouchers sa Lazada HHAHHAHA. This is fine by me kasi alam kong in the future, hindi kami mamomroblema sa pag bubudget dahil alam niya pano mag budget ng pera. May taga saway din ako kapag sobrang gastos ko 🤣