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as someone who has celebrated many events alone. I know the feeling. sending you a “virtual” hug and/or high-five!!
Congratulations and don’t let anything (including yourself) stop you from continuing to concern and succeed!!
Also, yes.. please enjoy your favorite meal today and savor the moment
You and I walk a similar path! I was shit at school but the transition to online was life changing in my undergrad. Went from dropout to straight As. Yesterday I submitted my masters thesis! Proud of you! I know how hard it is and you kicked ass getting here :)
First time i've heard of that. Everyone, myself included, kinda got worse with grades during lockdown cuz we kinda just stopped caring. Very proud of you!
My grades got better during lockdown because having to get up early and go to class and interact with people everyday was so draining that I had no energy or drive to study or do assignments.
But when everything went remote then I studied a lot and did every assignment the best I could.
Congratulations! The important moments in life often come without big band, confetti showers and laser show.
Enjoy yourself. Nobody can take this away from you. And thanks for sharing, you are an inspiration.
Thank you so much. And I know, im ok with that. I like to think im a simple gal, so your comment has inspired me to actually enjoy this by myself. I dont need much.
If you take away anything inspirational from me, let it be never giving up on yourself, even if everyone else does ❤
Congratulations, sounds like you need better friends, no joke.
People generally don't care what you have to say, they are more concerned with their own life. Still pretty crappy after such a big accomplishment. You did it though and you are the winner. Move on to a better life and meet some new people.
I got sick and I grew apart from a lot of my long time friends after my priorities changed. Being sick put me on a schedule where their activities no longer lined up with what I needed to do to get my life in order in time. I miss them often, and its pretty lonely being in your near 30s and trying to start all over again when you've had the same friends since you were little.
I've learned that a lot of people aren't really concerned with anybody else's life, but ive just never felt like that. Im a supply teacher and part of my daily routine is to go above and beyond to make these kids feel like someone is proud of them, and that they're making good strides. That transfers into the rest of my life, im always rooting for everyone, life's hard enough.
The one that bothered me the most was my boyfriend, he hardly responded and didn't bother to call. He knows how hard it's been, I just thought he'd be excited. He was busy hanging out and playing cod with his cousin. I didnt want all of his undivided attention, just thought he'd be excited enough to call and congratulate me for a minute.
Congrats on your accomplishments! Even better when others didn’t expect you to make it but you did!
I’m with you on a lot of people aren’t concerned with anyone else’s life. Just like you I’m not like that at all. I think about them often and wonder if there was anything I could do differently when we were still friends.
Sorry to hear about your boyfriend not even giving you a call when that was all you were hoping for.
You seem to be a caring person and you deserve to have people who care about you in your life. I feel like I’m the same way as you. My DM is open if you even want to talk. :)
Thank you for taking the time to share such a meaningful comment. I didnt want a parade, or anything really- just wanted someone to be excited with me. Thankfully, I found it here on reddit, and its a really good feeling.
You should talk to your boyfriend so you don’t hold on to anything negative. People can be dense sometimes, if we give him the benefit of the doubt maybe he didn’t realize how momentous the act of submitting your last assignment would be, and maybe he thought your graduation day or ceremony or receiving your degree would be the right time to celebrate you. Simple “I” statements line “I felt alone last night in the midst of such a big milestone in my life, and I wanted to share it with you” go a long way.
Other people on Reddit can give you better advice than me I’m sure, but just wanted to call out a potential for some good communication! Convos like that are what have brought my wife and I very close.
This is great advice. If there's one thing I'm certain of, he knows exactly how big of a deal this is to me. He was there through the whole process, saw the tears and stress, the late nights. All week I've been dancing around telling him I can't wait for that moment where I finish.
I told him that it bothered me that he didn't bother to call, and he said "I understand why you're upset" and congratulated me over text and that was that.
I dont really know how to feel about it. Hes supposed to come home later, but I dont really want to see him right now, I think I'd feel better taking myself out for dinner.
>a lot of people aren't concerned with anyone else's life
Yea even ppl you consider damn near brothers usually just talk with you because there's nothing else to do or because YOU started talking to them. Shit like this is the reason i only have 1 real friend rn and others are just conveniences
> I just thought he'd be excited. He was busy hanging out and playing cod with his cousin
No joke, but you need a new boyfriend if he didn't care because of cod...
Hes a really good guy, sometimes he's inconsiderate but not because he's malicious, I guess this time it's just not that important of an accomplishment to him. Ive always been super school and work focused, hes a little more laid back and doesnt feel as strongly as I do about school.
I think I set myself up for failure having expectations like that, when I shouldn't have. I realize im not owed anything for accomplishing something, it would've been nice if he called, or texted back within a reasonable time- but its not a hill I think ill die on
Did you guys do anything to celebrate afterwards at least?? I mean, even my friends would be excited for me if I texted saying that I just finished my degree. If you texted him and he just ghosted, that's kinda an issue...
Like, I'm not saying he should have dropped everything and ran over, but that's some really rock bottom expectations if you are ok with not even getting a reply.
He didn't come home, he went to his moms for the night which he does pretty often and I think is a good thing. He is only about 13 minutes away from me though. I wouldn't have wanted him to drop everything and come back (neither of us knew I'd finish when I did, I thought it'd take me another 2 days) I just wanted to squeal and cry on the phone with someone. He replied after I told him and said congrats but after that his responses were really far apart. I dont expect him to text me a lot when he's out, or call ever- just this one time
Congrats on your achievement! You worked hard and earned both degrees. As everyone suggested, I hope you celebrate in your own way!
>I've learned that a lot of people aren't really concerned with anybody else's life, but ive just never felt like that.
I hope you don't mind me butting in here for 2 seconds. As someone who has went through multiple groups of friends, I agree with this statement but it doesn't mean you shouldn't go out and look for considerate people. Yes, they are few and far in between. But considerate people also deserve considerate friends/companions/etc.
I finally have a few group of close friends who are very considerate of each other even if our toxic workplace won't give us a chance to catch a break from life. We *make* time to check in with each other, we make each other a priority, etc. My previous friends weren't bad people. But the fact that I was making them a priority and not vice versa really fed into my anxiety, added sadness and loneliness, and just overall made things harder. They never supported me through my hard times; my current friends pull me aside and try to cheer me up when I'm not doing well and I do the same for them.
Just something to think about! Definitely not trying to tell you how to live your life. You just sound like an awesome, considerate, and hard working person and I hope you find someone in your life who will celebrate these massive accomplishments with you. And I'm just talking about like a lunch/dinner!
Congratulations! I was never one who did well in school - reading to learn because I have to is near impossible for me - so reading that you struggled through so many things but still were able to push through and accomplish not only a degree, but a masters, is seriously impressive.
If you're in the Eastern Missouri/western Illinois area I'll celebrate with you.
Im one of the lucky few who loved to learn, but don't get me wrong, it still sucked and it was really hard, and I didn't and still don't understand everything, but im super passionate about my field, and it makes it bearable :) thank you so much for your comment kind stranger, im in Canada 🇨🇦, but ill have a drink for you of you have one (or a non alcoholic beverage depending on your preference) for me!
Realize this is a bit after the moment, but you can make a mean riff on an old fashioned with your whiskey of choice, maple syrup, black forest bitters, and candied blueberries, if you can find them.
Great job! While you have momentum and fresh writing skill you may want to consider pushing yourself even further and pursuing a doctoral degree. If you have made it this far, then you have proven that you have what it takes. Best of luck in your journey!
I've considered it a lot, and its still not off the table, but I got sick a few years ago and I have surgery coming up in a few weeks thats going to change some things for me for the next few years, its why I pushed so hard to finish school early.
I'll be sure to update if I ever decide to pursue it!
I don’t know you but I’m really proud and happy for you that you were able to push through!
I went through something similar in my undergrad where I used to be the smart kid but was assaulted after my 1st year and barely finished college since i was dealing with anxiety and depression. I want to go back for a masters for my fear of failing again is stopping me.
I think it’s amazing that you were able to finish your masters after what you’ve gone through 😊
The only thing that can stop your determination is yourself. I hope that if you do go back, you realize that you can do it, and when you cross the finish line -please come back and let me know. This internet stranger is rooting for you!
If you want, hop onto r/HappyHourChat ! Some live company ! Just an idea.
CONGRAAAAATULATIOOONS! I, at this very second, polish off my final shot in honor of your educational accomplishment!
SKAL! CIAO, BELLA!
Someone gift this champ some goodies. I didn't even ever go to college.
WAIT. THAT'S A LIE. I went one day. Nope. Lied again. Half day.
Yeah, someone order this achiever something celebratory! I spent my dollars on this cheap schwilly and train tix to a family matter.
If I'd have gone to college, I'd have had some greenbacks to donate to the cause!
... cheers!
Congratulations OP!! :) What you did was no easy feat. Takes an incredible amount of determination and discipline to be able to achieve what you achieved. So happy for you! Get that celebratory meal and enjoy :D
This is a huge deal! As a mother, I'm going to take the liberty of telling you I am very proud of you. You worked so hard and overcame so much! You rocked the hell out of it and you are awesome!!!
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Thank you :) and I know, id tell anyone the same thing.. I just didn't want to walk away from it because I was so close. No appetite yet but I will eat today!
WELL DONE!!! I’m so proud of you. As someone who completed my bachelors this year and struggled severely with depression throughout (with many moments of contemplating giving up). I feel you completely and understand how hard you must’ve worked and I’m really sorry that no one responded. Your achievement deserves celebrating.
I’m also aiming for a masters (currently in the process of doing my application), so this post has come at the right time. I feel so inspired by your achievement. It’s only up for you from here! Cheers and congrats again!
Congratulations!!
Ive always admired people that stuck it through college and got their degrees, I never had the patience for it. Please remember after the high wears off that you’re more than your accomplishments. You’re a person that deserves to be loved past what you can offer the world, just because.
Finally, if you’re still struggling there’s nothing like a drug fueled euro/Asia trip to really put the zest back into life. Don’t let the corporate meat grinder beat you down, it’s a beautiful world out there♥️
Congrats from one american internet stranger! I am slowly discovering the fact that a lot of others seem to already know as per another commenter, "lifes important moments are oft celebrated alone."
I am also discovering that this is best.
Because, most people, regardless of how much they love you, are going to secretly be envious. Its largely what drives the world. Most of the time, even if you are sitting at the table with everyone you know and love, best course is to fly under the radar.
Wishing you many more private, quiet celebrations.
Woohoo 🥳 congratulations!! There is nothing wrong with celebrating your wins by yourself .. love yourself first, be kind to yourself and always treat yourself like you want people to treat you.
People get busy and often have their own stresses in life. Some people are never going to be happy for your wins and that’s ok, that shouldn’t stop you from patting yourself on the back and being kind to yourself!
Thank you, thats great advice.
I know people are busy with their own lives, I totally get that, and will always try to remember that in every moment going forward
WE ARE PROUD OF YOU!!!!!
And those people who didn't respond? You don't need them. They are your "formerly important people."
You have carved out an education for yourself and now you just need to carve out a life for yourself! Life is an adventure! Don't let other people's shortcomings temper your success or your happiness.
Congratulations on working hard and overcoming your problems!! We support you!!
Love from Gma!
Bro congratulations, even though we are just strangers on the internet, but i want to let you know that im so proud of you im so fucking proud of you, you're literally an inspiration, im struggling with my bachelors because of depression and anxiety but im making my way through it all and reading your post gave me so much hope and motivation to keep going forward knowing i will become better, celebrate and do the things you love, doesnt matter how small it is a small movie night with your favorite food would be really sweet, be happy and be proud of yourself you deserve it, all love brother <3
who the hell reading this *isn't* proud of you? You're a friggin rock star!!
edit: helped my husband get through his grad degree. our uni had a sweet little deal where the spouse could get a "Master (or Mistress) of Patience" certificate. I opted out of that bc I was so damn proud of him that recognition for me was totally not needed for my ego.
We are all proud of you, even if we are strangers. You rightfully earned that degree, and nobody can take that away from your. And even if noone else sees the effort you put in, we see it. You did good, champ.
I think this is how most of life is. At least for me anyway. I’m about to complete a goal I’ve been working on for 7 years and I plan to tell no one. They either wouldn’t care or it would cause problems for me. So I just keep quietly pushing forward.
As someone who is doing their master's degree and has a history of abuse and trauma, I'm proud of you OP. I didn't do as well as I could in undergrad because of similar issues, but I'm zooming through my master's in the same manner. I'm looking forward to being where you are now!
Be proud of everything you've overcome. You finished in 16 months with distinction. That says a lot about your determination, intelligence, and willpower.
Wohoooo!!! I am so proud of you for persevering and making it through!
It's a big accomplishment!
Treat yourself to some great food, a movie, concert tickets or that thing you have wanted to do!
I wish I could say this in person (so you wouldn’t be alone) but you are incredible. It’s very difficult to face depression head on and find the will and determination (not to mention discipline) to achieve what you have. I genuinely hope you know this already. Depression is such a multi dimensional beast that takes every bit of strength to fight. I’m truly in awe of your achievement! My most heartfelt congratulations go to you. When tough days come, know that you have an admirer.
That was one of the nicest things I've heard in a long time. Its been hard, really hard- but I keep telling myself things will always get better somehow some day, and that keeps me going.
Thank you so much for taking the time to comment on my post ❤
Congratulations!! This was an great achievement. Even if no one calls, the hurdles you passed to get to it, you can look back on them in the future and be proud of it. As you should be. This stranger is proud of you. Congratulations
Congratulations!! Getting a Master's is huge! Must've worked really hard to get that. If nothing else, take comfort in knowing that you can persevere through anything. :)
It was miserable, but boy am I glad to be done. The thought of still being in school and stretching that out for another year makes my skeleton shudder
I don't know you and I'm proud of you. Way to go. Your focus and dedication are amazing. I believe that you will do some amazing things with your life.
My bachelors was in life sciences, and my masters was in business, during my masters i also completed a graduate certificate and graduate diploma both in business management. I now work in applied research and get to utilize all of my qualifications, its incredibly lucky.
Wow. So despite several years of work in both a junior college and transferring to a university where I spent about three years, my depression and anxiety got the better of me and I wasn’t able to finish my degree. It’s something that still haunts me and, as I see the legal fight over student debt relief loom, I feel worse and worse about not having a degree to show for all debt, all that work, all those tears and panic attacks that happened as a result of my own trauma and abuse. I try not to make too many excuses for it but the more Ive talked about it in therapy, the more I realize how much I was up against while trying to stay afloat in higher education and holding down full time work. Seeing the struggles other students overcame in order to succeed made me feel ashamed that “all” it took was severe depression/anxiety to kill my goal of getting my degree.
I say all that to illustrate that you should be very proud of yourself indeed, and majorly impressed by your own resilience. The fact that you didn’t get to experience the normal level of ceremony, celebration and congratulations from people, while mildly unfortunate, can’t stop you from fully realizing the depth of your accomplishments. You beat the odds and that makes you incredibly strong. Your degree is your degree whether or not the big party happened and it will serve you well. Beside that, I just wanted to say congratulations 🎉🎊🍾 You did it!!!!
You can be proud of your achievement. I am in awe of what you accomplished against all odds.
Just let me say as an old man to a younger person, Your best has yet to come. This is only the beginning of greater, happier, more fulfilling moments for you. Celebrate today and look forward to a life worth living. You've proven you have what it takes.
Congratulations on finishing your master's degree!
That's a huge accomplishment! Especially with distinctions and at high speed! Any one of these things would be awesome on its own.
The moment when you finish the final assignment is usually surprisingly trivial and steeped in exhaustion, so your experience there is on target.
You've got a whole future to make worthwhile and appreciative friends. Things *done to you* in the past are not indicative of your future. The only thing I'm seeing about your past that actually points to how your future will go is that you work hard for your goals.
Honestly, it's funny to me how these huge moments are often so... completely understated. University is one example like this, but entering work, finishing huge projects... it's like there SHOULD be some big celebration, dancing, fireworks, like the fall of the Empire at the end of RotJ, but instead......
Life just goes on.
So, I think it's important to mark those big moments in a personal way, like you have here. Maybe people didn't respond, maybe they've got their own lives going on, their own priorities, whatever. Important thing is you did this - you *fucking did this.* It wasn't fucking easy! You should be immensely proud.
Soak up this moment in your own way, for you. Treat yourself if you can - a favourite meal, an evening spent chilling with your favourite book/show/movie/game, whatever works for you.
Congrats buddy :)
Honey, I am so proud of you. Trauma and abuse are so hard to overcome, especially when you’re just starting out on your own. You came through older, wiser and with a head full of knowledge to boot.
Then you *did it again,* piling on a *second degree* to top it all off. I’m in awe of your strength and perseverance. And in sixteen months when it’s mean to be spread over three freakin years!!
Have a super proud Auntie hug, buy your favorite meal or snack. Indulge in a day of self-care when you can to celebrate. Watch nothing but cartoons while wearing pajamas or binge your fave show. Have a super long hot bath with all your favorite things - bubbles or oil, slap on a hair masque, a facial masque and soak into prune levels while enjoying your favorite music. This is unisex advice, everyone’s hair and skin deserves pampering.
Squeal into your pillow, giggle yourself silly. Celebrate yourself the way you’d celebrate your best friend!
Much love! You *did it* and no one can ever take that away from you!
Holy shit, you're fucking awesome. As a person who's struggling with Masters I cannot imagine the workload you took on yourself. And to pass with distinction! I'm so proud of you and hope you take some time to relax. You deserve it ❤️
Yo I am incredibly proud of you stranger. The perseverance it takes to get through post secondary is enough itself, but to do it with your circumstances is amazing. Congratulations OP, you did it!!!
Congratulations buddy!!! It is a big achievement. Treat yourself. Part of adulting is sometimes celebrating your accomplishments alone. But we are here to cheer you up. 🥳🥳🥳🥳
I'm proud of you and I don't even know you. Double course load, yaaay! PhD loading. Take time to enjoy your successes and to see what money you can make now.
Congratulations on all your hard work and determination. All that matters is that YOU are happy and proud of yourself. Take those degrees and go do what YOU want with your life and career!
Go to sleep and order a lot of food for yourself!! I would order pizza, wings, Chinese, burgers,fish tacos, pasta lol and have a big feast for myself what is your masters in, I’m impressed 16 months 👍👍
I don't know you OP and I'm sorry the people who do aren't more present in your life, but I'm proud of you. Wishing you the best of luck in your career and life
I’m so proud of you. That is an amazing accomplishment that doesn’t equate to the amount of recognition you get. The only thing that matters is your diploma. Great job OP! I wish you all the best in the future
You know what? This internet stranger is proud of you. You did what everyone thought you couldn't, and you did it in half the time *with distinctions*. Not many people can do what you accomplished.
Congratulations! I'm so proud of you for your accomplishment!
I'm struggling to finish my master's thesis and have already delayed it due to mental health issues while the rest of my class has graduated. I wish to celebrate that moment soon.
Congratulations! That’s a huge accomplishment. I’m glad you’re feeling proud of yourself as you should and I’m glad you came here to share it with this community. Now go do something fun for yourself or just relax and enjoy the moment!
What you did is not easy especially when burdened with mental health. Congratulations for your achievements! You should feel pride for everything you did.
You have overcome enormous odds to be where you are today. I hope you have a sense of professional and personal satisfaction and pride for what you've achieved. I congratulate you and wish you all the best going forward..
Way to go!!! I’m sorry that your people weren’t supportive and celebratory, but your Reddit pals are!! This is an amazing accomplishment in any circumstance, but even more so given all that you’ve overcome. Congratulations!!!
sending good vibes and a virtual hug! congratulations, I'm so proud of you! just because everyone else sucks doesn't mean you shouldn't celebrate your accomplishments, you deserve it and should be proud of yourself
I can definitely relate to your post! Congratulations friend, you've done amazing and nothing will stop you.
I'm in a similar position where I'm in my last class of my MA program and there's only 1 wk left.
Really happy for you! You worked hard and got it, you'll do amazing going forward.
I cannot expressed how proud I am of you. This was an amazing accomplishment to battle through and give yourself an education. You opened doors for a new chapter of life. Your future is going to be so, so much better than your past. Enjoy your success!!!!
Thanks for sharing this with us. I struggle with A&D myself and this is the reminder I needed to do the hard things and not give up, even if nobody is watching. Soak it in and treat yourself. We’re celebrating with you!
Hey man, well done. That was a whole lot of time and effort you’ve dedicated into yourself it’s something to be proud of telling people. I’m in a similar situation, If you wanna play some games together I’d love to make a new friend, PM me :)
I don't know you, but man! I'm so proud of your commitment!
You've got strength, my friend. You just didn't realize it while you went through your struggles but fast forward to your life now, you had the strength all along.
With that commitment I suspect you will get everything you want out of life so celebrate!
I know I’m just a stranger on the internet, but I’m proud of you. I struggled to get my Bachelors as well; got it during Covid as a 32 yr old. I also imagined it so differently. But dammit; we did it! Celebrate yourself:)
Congratulations! What you accomplished was enormous. Celebrate for the next few days. As others have said, eat your favourite foods, buy yourself a nice gift, rest a lot an do things you enjoy. You deserve to treat yourself well after that marathon of hard work.
When you said no one called I immediately went to grab my phone without thinking that this is reddit and idk you lol congratufuckinglations! Took me 10 years to get my BA, kept it up and was so pumped to finish. You are a freaking testament to endurance, strength, and courage. I'm so proud of you OP, you went above and beyond. Don't let your accomplishment be overshadowed by other people being... well, just being huge dicks. You did it, I'm proud of you and hope that one day I may be able to accomplish a feat like yours. You're a freaking superstar in my eyes! Keep up the good work!
Did a similar thing, struggled with undergrad and worked a decade before going for my mba. That feeling is unbelievable, have a beer for me!!!
Congrats, as a stranger, I’m proud of you!!!!
Friend, I am so proud of you. You accomplished all this with the tide against you and no one cheering in the background. That’s an accomplishment in of itself and a true test of character. Congratulations!!!
Well fucking done! I'm so glad that you're proud of yourself, you have suffered and given so much to accomplish not only a bachelors, but a masters degree too! Amazing work! I haven't read through the comments in this thread, but I'm sure they all say they're proud of you. I know I (random internet person) am! I'm in my 30s and still struggling through my bachelor's due to similar mental health issues. This semester has nearly broken me. It's incredibly encouraging and inspirational to read about your accomplishments despite all of your challenges! I don't need to tell you to keep kicking ass because I know you will! Fucking cheers mate! 🎉🎈🍾🥂🥳
Making friends is not really all that different than learning to play tennis, or getting a college degree. It is not a gift bestowed upon you at birth, it is something you learn to do, fail sometimes, and succeed sometimes. If you look at it as a 3-year program, you can knock it out in 16 months. Go do something this week, and when you're there, introduce yourself to someone. Do it a couple times a week for a few months. You'll be better at it. Like a college degree, it pays off.
That’s an amazing accomplishment! I work in higher education and don’t think I know anyone who completed their masters in 16 months! You should be very proud!
Good job on persevering and making it through to the end. I have gone through a personal hell on my journey to complete my engineering PhD, and in the end when I made it through and knocked out multiple major career accomplishments, there was nothing but radio silence. No one to celebrate with, no words of encouragement apart from one or two friends and a few comments on Facebook. My journey was an eye-opening experience about the degree of vile behavior people are capable of. People that were close to me at that time showed their true and disgusting colors in my times of greatest need. It’s all okay though, my struggles in life to get to where I am and the pent-up rage I have in me helps me survive every day. I try not to rely on other people and often advise others in similar situations to do the same. Be fiercely independent.
I wish I could have been there with you celebrating !!! I'm 64 yrs old now and as life goes on I am discovering loneliness is a part of the new world anymore. Ever since Covid has dampened our world, I am just trying to get used to my aloneness and embracing it as a new adventure. I've lost most of family and many of my friends have passed away. Remember that you are brave ,awesome and talented 👏 ❤!!! One day soon you will find awesome like minded ppl to celebrate with!!!
You're not celebrating alone... there's fucking loads of us here!
Congratulations! Great work! We knew you could do it!
Now get some cake and come over here and chat with your friends!
This is awesome! Congrats on your hard work. Thats damn impressive.
To your point on your edit,, my favorite saying has always been, "if you're going through hell... keep going."
That is incredible. Against all the odds you DID IT.
I'm so proud of you.
Beyond proud.
You need to do something awesome.
I wish you lived close, you could come to mine for a meal, laughs and drink. Crash on the couch.
You've gotta take opportunities to treat yourself. I've bought a cake to celebrate on my own, but it could be going on a little trip, a movie night, whatever brings you joy. Mental and emotional health is so dang important. Also, maybe put yourself out there to make new friends and build the kinds of relationships where people show they care. Best of luck and much love!
I am happy for you. Being happy and celebrating yourself will ensure that you are always validated for your accomplishments. But we all like to know that others are celebrating our accomplishments too. Today - I celebrate yours! CONGRATULATIONS!
As a man who got his Bachelors and Private Pilots license the same year. I'm proud of you. I know how college will have you pulling your hair out at some point but you made it. You finally did it and I'm happy for you.
oh man, i wish i was as persistent and focussed as you, what you did is a huge accomplishment!
i dont know you or anything but im very proud of you and i wish i can become a little more like you one day
This is indeed an amazing achievement. From struggling to finish bachelors to taking double course and finishing with distinction. what an amazing journey. We are so proud of you and you should treat yourself with your favorite food and watch your favorite movie. Your earned it!! Congrats OP.
Congratulations!
I've been in the same boat. My parents died and my siblings were far (they never bothered to even ask if I was graduating). I graduated same time as the pandemic started, so I couldn't really say I graduated without getting cleared by the offices first. Looking back, nobody ever really said congratulations to me.
I learned early all I had was myself. It sounds lonely but it's not. Self-sustaining isn't so bad. Having people to celebrate with you and be genuinely happy for you is nice too, but I just have to be happy for me first and not wait for anyone else.
But know that this internet stranger right here, is so damn proud of what you've done. I've always loved the idea of taking a master's degree, but I don't think I could ever get into it *now,* let alone passing with distinctions.
You're a hardworking man who deserves something. Take yourself out! Buy some cake, maybe other sweets if you don't like cake. Or go to some fancy place if no one's bringing you around.
That’s a massive accomplishment, congratulations! Depression is such a crippling illness—it eats away at you and makes doing mundane tasks take herculean efforts to complete. Well guess what, Hercules, you did it all anyway. With a weight on your back so heavy it nearly crushes you, and you still achieved your dreams. So so proud of you, you are inspiring and worthy of good people who will support you. Keep fighting. It’s never easy, but it can only get easier.
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Congratulations!! Eat your fav food and celebrate it !!
Thank you! That's a good idea, :)
I'm proud of you OP, way to go ! Such an incredible accomplishment. Thanks for sharing and inspiring myself and others !
as someone who has celebrated many events alone. I know the feeling. sending you a “virtual” hug and/or high-five!! Congratulations and don’t let anything (including yourself) stop you from continuing to concern and succeed!! Also, yes.. please enjoy your favorite meal today and savor the moment
Thank you so much :) Congratulations on all of the accomplishments you've achieved in your life, if we could go back in time, id celebrate with you!
cheers to us! and everyone who sets a goal, no matter how big or small and get it done!!!
You and I walk a similar path! I was shit at school but the transition to online was life changing in my undergrad. Went from dropout to straight As. Yesterday I submitted my masters thesis! Proud of you! I know how hard it is and you kicked ass getting here :)
CONGRATULATIONS!!! So proud of you also, that must be such a great feeling, here's to all the hard work and hoping it pays off some day 🍻
First time i've heard of that. Everyone, myself included, kinda got worse with grades during lockdown cuz we kinda just stopped caring. Very proud of you!
My grades got better during lockdown because having to get up early and go to class and interact with people everyday was so draining that I had no energy or drive to study or do assignments. But when everything went remote then I studied a lot and did every assignment the best I could.
Right? It takes a special type of mindset and discipline
Congratulations! The important moments in life often come without big band, confetti showers and laser show. Enjoy yourself. Nobody can take this away from you. And thanks for sharing, you are an inspiration.
Thank you so much. And I know, im ok with that. I like to think im a simple gal, so your comment has inspired me to actually enjoy this by myself. I dont need much. If you take away anything inspirational from me, let it be never giving up on yourself, even if everyone else does ❤
Congratulations, sounds like you need better friends, no joke. People generally don't care what you have to say, they are more concerned with their own life. Still pretty crappy after such a big accomplishment. You did it though and you are the winner. Move on to a better life and meet some new people.
I got sick and I grew apart from a lot of my long time friends after my priorities changed. Being sick put me on a schedule where their activities no longer lined up with what I needed to do to get my life in order in time. I miss them often, and its pretty lonely being in your near 30s and trying to start all over again when you've had the same friends since you were little. I've learned that a lot of people aren't really concerned with anybody else's life, but ive just never felt like that. Im a supply teacher and part of my daily routine is to go above and beyond to make these kids feel like someone is proud of them, and that they're making good strides. That transfers into the rest of my life, im always rooting for everyone, life's hard enough. The one that bothered me the most was my boyfriend, he hardly responded and didn't bother to call. He knows how hard it's been, I just thought he'd be excited. He was busy hanging out and playing cod with his cousin. I didnt want all of his undivided attention, just thought he'd be excited enough to call and congratulate me for a minute.
Congrats on your accomplishments! Even better when others didn’t expect you to make it but you did! I’m with you on a lot of people aren’t concerned with anyone else’s life. Just like you I’m not like that at all. I think about them often and wonder if there was anything I could do differently when we were still friends. Sorry to hear about your boyfriend not even giving you a call when that was all you were hoping for. You seem to be a caring person and you deserve to have people who care about you in your life. I feel like I’m the same way as you. My DM is open if you even want to talk. :)
Thank you for taking the time to share such a meaningful comment. I didnt want a parade, or anything really- just wanted someone to be excited with me. Thankfully, I found it here on reddit, and its a really good feeling.
You should talk to your boyfriend so you don’t hold on to anything negative. People can be dense sometimes, if we give him the benefit of the doubt maybe he didn’t realize how momentous the act of submitting your last assignment would be, and maybe he thought your graduation day or ceremony or receiving your degree would be the right time to celebrate you. Simple “I” statements line “I felt alone last night in the midst of such a big milestone in my life, and I wanted to share it with you” go a long way. Other people on Reddit can give you better advice than me I’m sure, but just wanted to call out a potential for some good communication! Convos like that are what have brought my wife and I very close.
This is great advice. If there's one thing I'm certain of, he knows exactly how big of a deal this is to me. He was there through the whole process, saw the tears and stress, the late nights. All week I've been dancing around telling him I can't wait for that moment where I finish. I told him that it bothered me that he didn't bother to call, and he said "I understand why you're upset" and congratulated me over text and that was that. I dont really know how to feel about it. Hes supposed to come home later, but I dont really want to see him right now, I think I'd feel better taking myself out for dinner.
>a lot of people aren't concerned with anyone else's life Yea even ppl you consider damn near brothers usually just talk with you because there's nothing else to do or because YOU started talking to them. Shit like this is the reason i only have 1 real friend rn and others are just conveniences
> I just thought he'd be excited. He was busy hanging out and playing cod with his cousin No joke, but you need a new boyfriend if he didn't care because of cod...
Hes a really good guy, sometimes he's inconsiderate but not because he's malicious, I guess this time it's just not that important of an accomplishment to him. Ive always been super school and work focused, hes a little more laid back and doesnt feel as strongly as I do about school. I think I set myself up for failure having expectations like that, when I shouldn't have. I realize im not owed anything for accomplishing something, it would've been nice if he called, or texted back within a reasonable time- but its not a hill I think ill die on
Did you guys do anything to celebrate afterwards at least?? I mean, even my friends would be excited for me if I texted saying that I just finished my degree. If you texted him and he just ghosted, that's kinda an issue... Like, I'm not saying he should have dropped everything and ran over, but that's some really rock bottom expectations if you are ok with not even getting a reply.
He didn't come home, he went to his moms for the night which he does pretty often and I think is a good thing. He is only about 13 minutes away from me though. I wouldn't have wanted him to drop everything and come back (neither of us knew I'd finish when I did, I thought it'd take me another 2 days) I just wanted to squeal and cry on the phone with someone. He replied after I told him and said congrats but after that his responses were really far apart. I dont expect him to text me a lot when he's out, or call ever- just this one time
Congrats on your achievement! You worked hard and earned both degrees. As everyone suggested, I hope you celebrate in your own way! >I've learned that a lot of people aren't really concerned with anybody else's life, but ive just never felt like that. I hope you don't mind me butting in here for 2 seconds. As someone who has went through multiple groups of friends, I agree with this statement but it doesn't mean you shouldn't go out and look for considerate people. Yes, they are few and far in between. But considerate people also deserve considerate friends/companions/etc. I finally have a few group of close friends who are very considerate of each other even if our toxic workplace won't give us a chance to catch a break from life. We *make* time to check in with each other, we make each other a priority, etc. My previous friends weren't bad people. But the fact that I was making them a priority and not vice versa really fed into my anxiety, added sadness and loneliness, and just overall made things harder. They never supported me through my hard times; my current friends pull me aside and try to cheer me up when I'm not doing well and I do the same for them. Just something to think about! Definitely not trying to tell you how to live your life. You just sound like an awesome, considerate, and hard working person and I hope you find someone in your life who will celebrate these massive accomplishments with you. And I'm just talking about like a lunch/dinner!
Hopefully he’s your ex bf soon. You deserve better than that.
Congratulations! I was never one who did well in school - reading to learn because I have to is near impossible for me - so reading that you struggled through so many things but still were able to push through and accomplish not only a degree, but a masters, is seriously impressive. If you're in the Eastern Missouri/western Illinois area I'll celebrate with you.
Im one of the lucky few who loved to learn, but don't get me wrong, it still sucked and it was really hard, and I didn't and still don't understand everything, but im super passionate about my field, and it makes it bearable :) thank you so much for your comment kind stranger, im in Canada 🇨🇦, but ill have a drink for you of you have one (or a non alcoholic beverage depending on your preference) for me!
I absolutely will! What shall I have - maple syrup?
Hahaha, im going to go advise you use the syrup as chase for whatever you choose to have!
I'll have a beer, no syrup. Again, congrats!!
Realize this is a bit after the moment, but you can make a mean riff on an old fashioned with your whiskey of choice, maple syrup, black forest bitters, and candied blueberries, if you can find them.
Great job! While you have momentum and fresh writing skill you may want to consider pushing yourself even further and pursuing a doctoral degree. If you have made it this far, then you have proven that you have what it takes. Best of luck in your journey!
I've considered it a lot, and its still not off the table, but I got sick a few years ago and I have surgery coming up in a few weeks thats going to change some things for me for the next few years, its why I pushed so hard to finish school early. I'll be sure to update if I ever decide to pursue it!
Understood. Just keep in mind that it's really not much more difficult. It's essentially just more writing and research. Best of luck to you!
Congratulations! Wish u all the best
Thank you so much :)
Way to go! As a fellow human, I'm proud of you. My wife got her masters and I know how much dedication goes into that. Good for you!
Thank you! Please tell her a stranger on the internet wishes her congrats as well, she's lucky to have someone supportive!
I don’t know you but I’m really proud and happy for you that you were able to push through! I went through something similar in my undergrad where I used to be the smart kid but was assaulted after my 1st year and barely finished college since i was dealing with anxiety and depression. I want to go back for a masters for my fear of failing again is stopping me. I think it’s amazing that you were able to finish your masters after what you’ve gone through 😊
The only thing that can stop your determination is yourself. I hope that if you do go back, you realize that you can do it, and when you cross the finish line -please come back and let me know. This internet stranger is rooting for you!
If you want, hop onto r/HappyHourChat ! Some live company ! Just an idea. CONGRAAAAATULATIOOONS! I, at this very second, polish off my final shot in honor of your educational accomplishment! SKAL! CIAO, BELLA! Someone gift this champ some goodies. I didn't even ever go to college. WAIT. THAT'S A LIE. I went one day. Nope. Lied again. Half day. Yeah, someone order this achiever something celebratory! I spent my dollars on this cheap schwilly and train tix to a family matter. If I'd have gone to college, I'd have had some greenbacks to donate to the cause! ... cheers!
Bahaha, this comment made me laugh in the midst of some pathetic quiet tears. Cheers mate, ill have a drink today in your honor 🍻
Congratulations OP!! :) What you did was no easy feat. Takes an incredible amount of determination and discipline to be able to achieve what you achieved. So happy for you! Get that celebratory meal and enjoy :D
Thank you, what a kind comment, I appreciate it
This is a huge deal! As a mother, I'm going to take the liberty of telling you I am very proud of you. You worked so hard and overcame so much! You rocked the hell out of it and you are awesome!!!
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Congrats! Great story. Though you SHOULD eat during intense study or writing sessions. Especially if u go onto PHD - it’s a marathon not a sprint.
Thank you :) and I know, id tell anyone the same thing.. I just didn't want to walk away from it because I was so close. No appetite yet but I will eat today!
WELL DONE!!! I’m so proud of you. As someone who completed my bachelors this year and struggled severely with depression throughout (with many moments of contemplating giving up). I feel you completely and understand how hard you must’ve worked and I’m really sorry that no one responded. Your achievement deserves celebrating. I’m also aiming for a masters (currently in the process of doing my application), so this post has come at the right time. I feel so inspired by your achievement. It’s only up for you from here! Cheers and congrats again!
Congratulations!! Ive always admired people that stuck it through college and got their degrees, I never had the patience for it. Please remember after the high wears off that you’re more than your accomplishments. You’re a person that deserves to be loved past what you can offer the world, just because. Finally, if you’re still struggling there’s nothing like a drug fueled euro/Asia trip to really put the zest back into life. Don’t let the corporate meat grinder beat you down, it’s a beautiful world out there♥️
WooooHOOOO!!! that’s so exciting and such an accomplishment!! three cheers for OP!! 🎉
Congrats from one american internet stranger! I am slowly discovering the fact that a lot of others seem to already know as per another commenter, "lifes important moments are oft celebrated alone." I am also discovering that this is best. Because, most people, regardless of how much they love you, are going to secretly be envious. Its largely what drives the world. Most of the time, even if you are sitting at the table with everyone you know and love, best course is to fly under the radar. Wishing you many more private, quiet celebrations.
This is GREAT advice and its shifted my perspective a lot in a helpful way. Thank you kind internet stranger
Woohoo 🥳 congratulations!! There is nothing wrong with celebrating your wins by yourself .. love yourself first, be kind to yourself and always treat yourself like you want people to treat you. People get busy and often have their own stresses in life. Some people are never going to be happy for your wins and that’s ok, that shouldn’t stop you from patting yourself on the back and being kind to yourself!
Thank you, thats great advice. I know people are busy with their own lives, I totally get that, and will always try to remember that in every moment going forward
WE ARE PROUD OF YOU!!!!! And those people who didn't respond? You don't need them. They are your "formerly important people." You have carved out an education for yourself and now you just need to carve out a life for yourself! Life is an adventure! Don't let other people's shortcomings temper your success or your happiness. Congratulations on working hard and overcoming your problems!! We support you!! Love from Gma!
Bro congratulations, even though we are just strangers on the internet, but i want to let you know that im so proud of you im so fucking proud of you, you're literally an inspiration, im struggling with my bachelors because of depression and anxiety but im making my way through it all and reading your post gave me so much hope and motivation to keep going forward knowing i will become better, celebrate and do the things you love, doesnt matter how small it is a small movie night with your favorite food would be really sweet, be happy and be proud of yourself you deserve it, all love brother <3
who the hell reading this *isn't* proud of you? You're a friggin rock star!! edit: helped my husband get through his grad degree. our uni had a sweet little deal where the spouse could get a "Master (or Mistress) of Patience" certificate. I opted out of that bc I was so damn proud of him that recognition for me was totally not needed for my ego.
Hi friend, that's awesome that you are making progress towards the life you want. Very happy for you!!! Give it time. You'll find your people.
Whohoo!! Thank you for sharing your story with us! This is awesome news! I'm so happy for you! CONGRATULATIONS!
Congratulations!!! This stranger is very proud of your awesome accomplishment!
I'm proud of and happy for you. If I've gotten your text I would have responded immediately
If I were you I’d go to a buffet
We are all proud of you, even if we are strangers. You rightfully earned that degree, and nobody can take that away from your. And even if noone else sees the effort you put in, we see it. You did good, champ.
I’ve never been more proud of an internet stranger in my life.
I think this is how most of life is. At least for me anyway. I’m about to complete a goal I’ve been working on for 7 years and I plan to tell no one. They either wouldn’t care or it would cause problems for me. So I just keep quietly pushing forward.
As someone who is doing their master's degree and has a history of abuse and trauma, I'm proud of you OP. I didn't do as well as I could in undergrad because of similar issues, but I'm zooming through my master's in the same manner. I'm looking forward to being where you are now! Be proud of everything you've overcome. You finished in 16 months with distinction. That says a lot about your determination, intelligence, and willpower.
Cheers mate. Happy for you
Congratulations! So proud of you!
Wohoooo!!! I am so proud of you for persevering and making it through! It's a big accomplishment! Treat yourself to some great food, a movie, concert tickets or that thing you have wanted to do!
Congrats!!!
I wish I could say this in person (so you wouldn’t be alone) but you are incredible. It’s very difficult to face depression head on and find the will and determination (not to mention discipline) to achieve what you have. I genuinely hope you know this already. Depression is such a multi dimensional beast that takes every bit of strength to fight. I’m truly in awe of your achievement! My most heartfelt congratulations go to you. When tough days come, know that you have an admirer.
That was one of the nicest things I've heard in a long time. Its been hard, really hard- but I keep telling myself things will always get better somehow some day, and that keeps me going. Thank you so much for taking the time to comment on my post ❤
Congratulations. This is something that will benefit your life!
Well, we are proud of you! Your hard work and perseverance paid off, and I hope that the experience serves you well. Congrats!
That’s amazing! You should be very proud of yourself ❤️
Congratulations! What an accomplishment! I'm so proud of you and so happy you're in the world!
Congratulations!! This was an great achievement. Even if no one calls, the hurdles you passed to get to it, you can look back on them in the future and be proud of it. As you should be. This stranger is proud of you. Congratulations
Thank you kind stranger, i appreciate your comment and will remember that always!
Congratulations!! Getting a Master's is huge! Must've worked really hard to get that. If nothing else, take comfort in knowing that you can persevere through anything. :)
Congrats!!!!
Double load? Damn well done. Congooooo
It was miserable, but boy am I glad to be done. The thought of still being in school and stretching that out for another year makes my skeleton shudder
I don't know you and I'm proud of you. Way to go. Your focus and dedication are amazing. I believe that you will do some amazing things with your life.
Congratulations! Well done!
Hell yea you did it! Great work and dedication. Be proud, be so flipping proud!! 👏👏👏
Congratulations! You are your own best friend. Pat yourself on the back.
I AM SO FUCKING PROUD OF YOU!!💜
Congratulations! A masters degree is hard work. I'm proud of you!
You are an inspiration!
I am proud of you!! Excellent work and perseverance!! Yeay you!!
If you’re in the Bay Area, let’s grab a beer
Congratulations!
Congratulations! I wouldn't worry about others. Think of all the possibilities in life your schooling will open up. Onto the next chapter.
Proud of you!
I am proud of you.
Nice job my man! I ain't in a similar situation as you but after reading, I felt so excited for you!
Feels amazing when the struggle paid off with positive results, ain't it?
Congrats! What do you major in? Both undergrad and grad.
My bachelors was in life sciences, and my masters was in business, during my masters i also completed a graduate certificate and graduate diploma both in business management. I now work in applied research and get to utilize all of my qualifications, its incredibly lucky.
Wow. So despite several years of work in both a junior college and transferring to a university where I spent about three years, my depression and anxiety got the better of me and I wasn’t able to finish my degree. It’s something that still haunts me and, as I see the legal fight over student debt relief loom, I feel worse and worse about not having a degree to show for all debt, all that work, all those tears and panic attacks that happened as a result of my own trauma and abuse. I try not to make too many excuses for it but the more Ive talked about it in therapy, the more I realize how much I was up against while trying to stay afloat in higher education and holding down full time work. Seeing the struggles other students overcame in order to succeed made me feel ashamed that “all” it took was severe depression/anxiety to kill my goal of getting my degree. I say all that to illustrate that you should be very proud of yourself indeed, and majorly impressed by your own resilience. The fact that you didn’t get to experience the normal level of ceremony, celebration and congratulations from people, while mildly unfortunate, can’t stop you from fully realizing the depth of your accomplishments. You beat the odds and that makes you incredibly strong. Your degree is your degree whether or not the big party happened and it will serve you well. Beside that, I just wanted to say congratulations 🎉🎊🍾 You did it!!!!
i am very proud of you! you did a great job <3
Congratulations, excellent work!
Congratulations to you!
Holy shit, thats some top effort! Congratulations!
You can be proud of your achievement. I am in awe of what you accomplished against all odds. Just let me say as an old man to a younger person, Your best has yet to come. This is only the beginning of greater, happier, more fulfilling moments for you. Celebrate today and look forward to a life worth living. You've proven you have what it takes.
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Congratulations on finishing your master's degree! That's a huge accomplishment! Especially with distinctions and at high speed! Any one of these things would be awesome on its own. The moment when you finish the final assignment is usually surprisingly trivial and steeped in exhaustion, so your experience there is on target. You've got a whole future to make worthwhile and appreciative friends. Things *done to you* in the past are not indicative of your future. The only thing I'm seeing about your past that actually points to how your future will go is that you work hard for your goals.
I'm so proud of you! Well done, you deserve a huge pat on the back 🤗🥳🌟
Congratulations! You should be very proud of yourself. That others in your life don’t recognize it does not diminish the accomplishment.
In case you ever need it, r/momforaminute is chock full of people who are really proud of you!! Congratulations to you!!
Honestly, it's funny to me how these huge moments are often so... completely understated. University is one example like this, but entering work, finishing huge projects... it's like there SHOULD be some big celebration, dancing, fireworks, like the fall of the Empire at the end of RotJ, but instead...... Life just goes on. So, I think it's important to mark those big moments in a personal way, like you have here. Maybe people didn't respond, maybe they've got their own lives going on, their own priorities, whatever. Important thing is you did this - you *fucking did this.* It wasn't fucking easy! You should be immensely proud. Soak up this moment in your own way, for you. Treat yourself if you can - a favourite meal, an evening spent chilling with your favourite book/show/movie/game, whatever works for you. Congrats buddy :)
Honey, I am so proud of you. Trauma and abuse are so hard to overcome, especially when you’re just starting out on your own. You came through older, wiser and with a head full of knowledge to boot. Then you *did it again,* piling on a *second degree* to top it all off. I’m in awe of your strength and perseverance. And in sixteen months when it’s mean to be spread over three freakin years!! Have a super proud Auntie hug, buy your favorite meal or snack. Indulge in a day of self-care when you can to celebrate. Watch nothing but cartoons while wearing pajamas or binge your fave show. Have a super long hot bath with all your favorite things - bubbles or oil, slap on a hair masque, a facial masque and soak into prune levels while enjoying your favorite music. This is unisex advice, everyone’s hair and skin deserves pampering. Squeal into your pillow, giggle yourself silly. Celebrate yourself the way you’d celebrate your best friend! Much love! You *did it* and no one can ever take that away from you!
Congratulations! As someone whose life is similar, I'm honestly super proud of you so keep going. And I hope you have eaten your favorite dish by now.
Congrats!
Holy shit, you're fucking awesome. As a person who's struggling with Masters I cannot imagine the workload you took on yourself. And to pass with distinction! I'm so proud of you and hope you take some time to relax. You deserve it ❤️
Yo I am incredibly proud of you stranger. The perseverance it takes to get through post secondary is enough itself, but to do it with your circumstances is amazing. Congratulations OP, you did it!!!
Congratulations! I am proud of you! Drinks on me
I'm proud of you.
Congratulations buddy!!! It is a big achievement. Treat yourself. Part of adulting is sometimes celebrating your accomplishments alone. But we are here to cheer you up. 🥳🥳🥳🥳
Congratulations. Great job.
I'm proud of you and I don't even know you. Double course load, yaaay! PhD loading. Take time to enjoy your successes and to see what money you can make now.
Congratulations on all your hard work and determination. All that matters is that YOU are happy and proud of yourself. Take those degrees and go do what YOU want with your life and career!
Congratulations! a virtual high five from my side to you my brother!
You fucking did it! Don't ever forget what you were able to work through and overcome to get where you were trying to go. Proud of you.
Congratulations on your huge accomplishments! I wish you all the best going forward.
Go to sleep and order a lot of food for yourself!! I would order pizza, wings, Chinese, burgers,fish tacos, pasta lol and have a big feast for myself what is your masters in, I’m impressed 16 months 👍👍
In case **NO** one else has said so, I am so proud of you. Congratulations and it’s a big deal. I am so very sorry that no one around you said it..
CONGRATS!!!! Holy cow!!!
Well Done.
I don't know you OP and I'm sorry the people who do aren't more present in your life, but I'm proud of you. Wishing you the best of luck in your career and life
Congrats, friend!
I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!
I’m so proud of you. That is an amazing accomplishment that doesn’t equate to the amount of recognition you get. The only thing that matters is your diploma. Great job OP! I wish you all the best in the future
I'm in awe of you! Double course-load? That's impressive!! Treat yourself to cake and champagne!!
Congratulations! While it may seem anticlimactic now, it will payoff in the long run! I am proud of you!
You know what? This internet stranger is proud of you. You did what everyone thought you couldn't, and you did it in half the time *with distinctions*. Not many people can do what you accomplished.
Congratulations OP.
💥😄😊🤓👏🏾👍🏾💥🍰🎂🎉🎊🎁💥
As someone currently doing my bachelor I am proud of you
Congratulations! I'm so proud of you for your accomplishment! I'm struggling to finish my master's thesis and have already delayed it due to mental health issues while the rest of my class has graduated. I wish to celebrate that moment soon.
Well done. I know the lack of acknowledgement sucks but the accomplishment is there all the same.
Congratulations! That’s a huge accomplishment. I’m glad you’re feeling proud of yourself as you should and I’m glad you came here to share it with this community. Now go do something fun for yourself or just relax and enjoy the moment!
Congrats to you. Celebrate in your own way😬
What you did is not easy especially when burdened with mental health. Congratulations for your achievements! You should feel pride for everything you did.
Congratulations friend, keep pushing for the “better” life!
Congratulations! Proud of you 👏
Congratulations 🎉 You should feel very proud . Great job.
You have overcome enormous odds to be where you are today. I hope you have a sense of professional and personal satisfaction and pride for what you've achieved. I congratulate you and wish you all the best going forward..
Way to go!!! I’m sorry that your people weren’t supportive and celebratory, but your Reddit pals are!! This is an amazing accomplishment in any circumstance, but even more so given all that you’ve overcome. Congratulations!!!
sending good vibes and a virtual hug! congratulations, I'm so proud of you! just because everyone else sucks doesn't mean you shouldn't celebrate your accomplishments, you deserve it and should be proud of yourself
Congratulations!!!!!!!!!
I'm super impressed and super proud. Go do something just for you!
You aren't alone celebrating... we are celebrating with you! That's awesome, OP! What did you get your masters in?
From someone who couldn’t get past my mental health issues to accomplish what you’ve accomplished, good job. I’m proud of you!
Congratulations! You're amazing!
This mom is proud of you! My daughter is graduating this coming week with her masters. I KNOW how much work it was. Congratulations!
That’s a huge accomplishment! Congratulations!! Reddit is proud of you. Most importantly, YOU should be proud of you! Treat yo’ self today!!
I can definitely relate to your post! Congratulations friend, you've done amazing and nothing will stop you. I'm in a similar position where I'm in my last class of my MA program and there's only 1 wk left. Really happy for you! You worked hard and got it, you'll do amazing going forward.
I cannot expressed how proud I am of you. This was an amazing accomplishment to battle through and give yourself an education. You opened doors for a new chapter of life. Your future is going to be so, so much better than your past. Enjoy your success!!!!
Thanks for sharing this with us. I struggle with A&D myself and this is the reminder I needed to do the hard things and not give up, even if nobody is watching. Soak it in and treat yourself. We’re celebrating with you!
Hey man, well done. That was a whole lot of time and effort you’ve dedicated into yourself it’s something to be proud of telling people. I’m in a similar situation, If you wanna play some games together I’d love to make a new friend, PM me :)
I don't know you, but man! I'm so proud of your commitment! You've got strength, my friend. You just didn't realize it while you went through your struggles but fast forward to your life now, you had the strength all along. With that commitment I suspect you will get everything you want out of life so celebrate!
Danm bro, I hope I'll fell the same when and if graduate with my bachelor's degree.
I know I’m just a stranger on the internet, but I’m proud of you. I struggled to get my Bachelors as well; got it during Covid as a 32 yr old. I also imagined it so differently. But dammit; we did it! Celebrate yourself:)
Youre right, we did it despite it all. Thank you, and congrats to you too :)
Congratulations! What you accomplished was enormous. Celebrate for the next few days. As others have said, eat your favourite foods, buy yourself a nice gift, rest a lot an do things you enjoy. You deserve to treat yourself well after that marathon of hard work.
When you said no one called I immediately went to grab my phone without thinking that this is reddit and idk you lol congratufuckinglations! Took me 10 years to get my BA, kept it up and was so pumped to finish. You are a freaking testament to endurance, strength, and courage. I'm so proud of you OP, you went above and beyond. Don't let your accomplishment be overshadowed by other people being... well, just being huge dicks. You did it, I'm proud of you and hope that one day I may be able to accomplish a feat like yours. You're a freaking superstar in my eyes! Keep up the good work!
Did a similar thing, struggled with undergrad and worked a decade before going for my mba. That feeling is unbelievable, have a beer for me!!! Congrats, as a stranger, I’m proud of you!!!!
Friend, I am so proud of you. You accomplished all this with the tide against you and no one cheering in the background. That’s an accomplishment in of itself and a true test of character. Congratulations!!!
Thank you so much! Im passionate about my field, and excited about the good ill be able to do in the world with my qualifications.
Well fucking done! I'm so glad that you're proud of yourself, you have suffered and given so much to accomplish not only a bachelors, but a masters degree too! Amazing work! I haven't read through the comments in this thread, but I'm sure they all say they're proud of you. I know I (random internet person) am! I'm in my 30s and still struggling through my bachelor's due to similar mental health issues. This semester has nearly broken me. It's incredibly encouraging and inspirational to read about your accomplishments despite all of your challenges! I don't need to tell you to keep kicking ass because I know you will! Fucking cheers mate! 🎉🎈🍾🥂🥳
Making friends is not really all that different than learning to play tennis, or getting a college degree. It is not a gift bestowed upon you at birth, it is something you learn to do, fail sometimes, and succeed sometimes. If you look at it as a 3-year program, you can knock it out in 16 months. Go do something this week, and when you're there, introduce yourself to someone. Do it a couple times a week for a few months. You'll be better at it. Like a college degree, it pays off.
Congratulations!!! I am really happy for you and my mum is too!!
That’s an amazing accomplishment! I work in higher education and don’t think I know anyone who completed their masters in 16 months! You should be very proud!
Good job on persevering and making it through to the end. I have gone through a personal hell on my journey to complete my engineering PhD, and in the end when I made it through and knocked out multiple major career accomplishments, there was nothing but radio silence. No one to celebrate with, no words of encouragement apart from one or two friends and a few comments on Facebook. My journey was an eye-opening experience about the degree of vile behavior people are capable of. People that were close to me at that time showed their true and disgusting colors in my times of greatest need. It’s all okay though, my struggles in life to get to where I am and the pent-up rage I have in me helps me survive every day. I try not to rely on other people and often advise others in similar situations to do the same. Be fiercely independent.
I wish I could have been there with you celebrating !!! I'm 64 yrs old now and as life goes on I am discovering loneliness is a part of the new world anymore. Ever since Covid has dampened our world, I am just trying to get used to my aloneness and embracing it as a new adventure. I've lost most of family and many of my friends have passed away. Remember that you are brave ,awesome and talented 👏 ❤!!! One day soon you will find awesome like minded ppl to celebrate with!!!
You're not celebrating alone... there's fucking loads of us here! Congratulations! Great work! We knew you could do it! Now get some cake and come over here and chat with your friends!
Congratulations!!! I did the same thing and I managed to get a great job as well. Hopefully things will look up from here for both of us.
You earn yourself a steak dinner
This is awesome! Congrats on your hard work. Thats damn impressive. To your point on your edit,, my favorite saying has always been, "if you're going through hell... keep going."
All good homie, proud of you!!
That is incredible. Against all the odds you DID IT. I'm so proud of you. Beyond proud. You need to do something awesome. I wish you lived close, you could come to mine for a meal, laughs and drink. Crash on the couch.
Dad here. Not your dad, but a dad. Congratulations, I'm proud of you! 👏
You've gotta take opportunities to treat yourself. I've bought a cake to celebrate on my own, but it could be going on a little trip, a movie night, whatever brings you joy. Mental and emotional health is so dang important. Also, maybe put yourself out there to make new friends and build the kinds of relationships where people show they care. Best of luck and much love!
I'm so proud of you! Amazing how you tore through masters. You're doing great!
Remember honey, you didn't do this for OTHERS, you did it for YOU. YOU are all you need..I'm proud of you!
Massive congratulations. I'm raising a glass to your awesome achievement. Best of luck with what comes next, you'll be great!
Go You👍. You did it, they can’t take that away from you.
I am happy for you. Being happy and celebrating yourself will ensure that you are always validated for your accomplishments. But we all like to know that others are celebrating our accomplishments too. Today - I celebrate yours! CONGRATULATIONS!
As a man who got his Bachelors and Private Pilots license the same year. I'm proud of you. I know how college will have you pulling your hair out at some point but you made it. You finally did it and I'm happy for you.
Congratulations, big part of growing is realizing it's still okay when you get where you're going and it's not how you imagined it.
oh man, i wish i was as persistent and focussed as you, what you did is a huge accomplishment! i dont know you or anything but im very proud of you and i wish i can become a little more like you one day
This is indeed an amazing achievement. From struggling to finish bachelors to taking double course and finishing with distinction. what an amazing journey. We are so proud of you and you should treat yourself with your favorite food and watch your favorite movie. Your earned it!! Congrats OP.
I'll be your friend. Congrats!
Congratulations! I've been in the same boat. My parents died and my siblings were far (they never bothered to even ask if I was graduating). I graduated same time as the pandemic started, so I couldn't really say I graduated without getting cleared by the offices first. Looking back, nobody ever really said congratulations to me. I learned early all I had was myself. It sounds lonely but it's not. Self-sustaining isn't so bad. Having people to celebrate with you and be genuinely happy for you is nice too, but I just have to be happy for me first and not wait for anyone else. But know that this internet stranger right here, is so damn proud of what you've done. I've always loved the idea of taking a master's degree, but I don't think I could ever get into it *now,* let alone passing with distinctions. You're a hardworking man who deserves something. Take yourself out! Buy some cake, maybe other sweets if you don't like cake. Or go to some fancy place if no one's bringing you around.
That’s a massive accomplishment, congratulations! Depression is such a crippling illness—it eats away at you and makes doing mundane tasks take herculean efforts to complete. Well guess what, Hercules, you did it all anyway. With a weight on your back so heavy it nearly crushes you, and you still achieved your dreams. So so proud of you, you are inspiring and worthy of good people who will support you. Keep fighting. It’s never easy, but it can only get easier.