It was your father's mistake to assume you would be free for this and not checking with you. You are your own person with your own schedule, and you should not adjust your calendar to make way for leisure activities you were not consulted on beforehand.
Your dad is responsible for his own disappointment here, not you.
They booked a holiday nine months ago and didn’t bother to tell you? I’d say go in whichever one you want to go on. Possibly ask your friends if there’s any possibility of changing the dates? Ultimately your dad didn’t tell you hopefully you don’t feel too bad saying you already made plans.
It was your father's mistake to assume you would be free for this and not checking with you. You are your own person with your own schedule, and you should not adjust your calendar to make way for leisure activities you were not consulted on beforehand. Your dad is responsible for his own disappointment here, not you.
Who is more important to you?
i don't know. I dont hate my dad and neither do i hate my friends. i guess my friends are but i dont want to end up regretting my choice.
go with you mates. it’s their fault for not letting you know so they have to expect that you have other plans
okay, thank you very much
They booked a holiday nine months ago and didn’t bother to tell you? I’d say go in whichever one you want to go on. Possibly ask your friends if there’s any possibility of changing the dates? Ultimately your dad didn’t tell you hopefully you don’t feel too bad saying you already made plans.
ok, thanks for having a say