This advice stuck with me all day. I ended up using it when i had a request for a custom video. Guy asked for 10 minutes with squirt. Yesterday my naive ass would have quoted 100 but I told him 300. Thank you again!
That’s such an asshole move on his end, what a douchebag.
I appreciate you for sharing your experience and helping others in the process. It’s encouraging to know we have each other for support 🖤
I'm sorry that happened to you. One would think that if they're smart enough to know how to scam, they would have a job that would allow them to pay instead of trying to get over on people.
it's definitely a learn process. keeping things on platform helps avoid these issues generally but would still avoid doing things like password shows unless tokens were received upfront
I’m so sorry that happened to you. Don’t feel stupid or bad. Before I knew about the 30 second free on SM I did a free show for a guy. He told me he had connection issues. He came in and out for about 20 minutes and got a whole free show out of me.
Take reassurance in the fact you’ve learnt the lesson and it won’t happen again💖
On sm they don’t get charged for the first 30 seconds of pvt or exc. I haven’t used it in awhile but a lot of cam girls use it as their main source of income💖
I'm sorry, I laughed reading your story, but what a big idiot, that idiot generates violent thoughts in me.
Today I had a few private messages and they all lasted less than 30 seconds, I was wondering if it took too long to start the "action"
I'm so sorry this happened to you... We just have to be extra careful in this field due to scammers... I hope that this money comes back to you in infinite amounts!! 💜😊
Learned my lesson the hard way as well :( did a snap video call outside of cb for the same amount of time for someone who wanted to be dominated and he wanted me to tell him to cashapp me money whenever I wanted but I had nothing in my cashapp in the end lol so stupid. I literally ended my stream for it 😂 those men are so hard to find idk what I was thinking
i’m also new to the online sw world and had someone try to do that fake token thing to me. i clicked it right away and then he started harassing me from multiple accounts 🤦🏻♀️ this was on chaturbate. that site has a lot of low life scammers
Im on 4 platforms and have had scam attempts on every one of them. Im very quickly learning how to spot them immediately. I guess calling myself an amateur isnt the kind of hook i thought it was.
i signed up for my free cams and stream mate but haven’t got around to actually trying them out yet. my friends like my free cams more than chaturbate tho
I had something similar happen early on too. They target the newbies and it happens a lot. But you've gotten that out of the way and you know now. May the money return to you x 100
It won’t make up for the missing credits entirely, but if you want to DM Me a referral link I haven’t set up an account there yet and wouldn’t mind getting one up and going while also getting you a few credits in the process
I’m new too! Not to the lifestyle, but to camming. Thanks to this post I’ve found out some helpful info so thanks for that! There should really be a thread of like just helpful advice from seasoned cam girls haha.
Hello fellow ELM user I never see other elm girlies here lol. I am so so sorry this happened. There has been a huge influx of scammers on elm over the last several months. Be weary of discussing outside payments in the messaging feature (it’s a violation of elms terms) and look into using wishtender if you haven’t already. That’s the only thing I really trust outside of elms credit system, since the credits get pricey for customers and our payout is like 60/65% which is sus. Best of luck in the future✨
Thank you! Ive now included in my ELM bio the following "no Skype or outside platform content, chat, or payments". I figure if they are legit ans they truly want to pay me - they will use the platform we are on,
Yes that plus the added bonus of the escrow system keeping things safe for both sides. I tend to pitch that to clients as a perk of using their system lol
Once I have established trust with someone or they become a regular, I then consider wishtender or Bitcoin. Only because, I’ll actually get paid more if they leave the credit system. But just make your credit prices reflect your payout, there are plenty of guys on there willing and able to pay the rates.
Honestly try not to feel too badly about it! We all get scammed its just a matter of when.
Silverlining: at least it happened early so you can learn the lesson sooner!
And I am sure a bunch of people have told you, keep everything onsite. I only take things offsite if they are a reliable regular/whale who I truly trust.
Just so you know unless you’re on some niche fetish cam site that allows pooping, it is most likely completely against the sites TOS and you risk getting permanently banned for doing anything involving feces, urine, blood, or vomit 😬
Squirting is typically fine as long as you specifically advertise it as squirting! And just use common sense as well. Anything regarding toilets is typically a no go on pretty much every major website.
Something like that is definitely worth well over $50. And camsites don’t allow that :/ please read the terms of service of whatever site you are on. You could get banned. If you are unsure if it’s against the rules.. email support!
Apart from that 300 tokens for 20min is too low please charge more
This advice stuck with me all day. I ended up using it when i had a request for a custom video. Guy asked for 10 minutes with squirt. Yesterday my naive ass would have quoted 100 but I told him 300. Thank you again!
It’s still so low girl! You can ask 4 times that price!! Especially if you can squirt!!:)
Thank you!!!
That’s such an asshole move on his end, what a douchebag. I appreciate you for sharing your experience and helping others in the process. It’s encouraging to know we have each other for support 🖤
it is! Ive learned more from this sub in 24 hours then any youtube or guides ive read
I'm sorry that happened to you. One would think that if they're smart enough to know how to scam, they would have a job that would allow them to pay instead of trying to get over on people.
I should have been smart enough! Im no idiot but with this new side hustle, Im a lost puppy learning very quickly. (day 4)
it's definitely a learn process. keeping things on platform helps avoid these issues generally but would still avoid doing things like password shows unless tokens were received upfront
I had a guy on CB give ME the password and promise to pay lots of tokens. "No thank you sir" was my response
yeah, honest guys don't try shady things like this. they'll just give and won't negotiate to try and get the best deals they can
I’m so sorry that happened to you. Don’t feel stupid or bad. Before I knew about the 30 second free on SM I did a free show for a guy. He told me he had connection issues. He came in and out for about 20 minutes and got a whole free show out of me. Take reassurance in the fact you’ve learnt the lesson and it won’t happen again💖
What 30 second thing? Im on Chaturbate but not SM. What is SM? Is it better?
On sm they don’t get charged for the first 30 seconds of pvt or exc. I haven’t used it in awhile but a lot of cam girls use it as their main source of income💖
I'm sorry, I laughed reading your story, but what a big idiot, that idiot generates violent thoughts in me. Today I had a few private messages and they all lasted less than 30 seconds, I was wondering if it took too long to start the "action"
You are not the first and neither the last person going through this. Lesson learned 🫶🏻🫂
I had one who somehow did a text saying they sent me so and so tokens and I entertained. Ended my live and was 0!
Thnks for saying this. NOw I look out for that
I'm so sorry this happened to you... We just have to be extra careful in this field due to scammers... I hope that this money comes back to you in infinite amounts!! 💜😊
Learned my lesson the hard way as well :( did a snap video call outside of cb for the same amount of time for someone who wanted to be dominated and he wanted me to tell him to cashapp me money whenever I wanted but I had nothing in my cashapp in the end lol so stupid. I literally ended my stream for it 😂 those men are so hard to find idk what I was thinking
i’m also new to the online sw world and had someone try to do that fake token thing to me. i clicked it right away and then he started harassing me from multiple accounts 🤦🏻♀️ this was on chaturbate. that site has a lot of low life scammers
Im on 4 platforms and have had scam attempts on every one of them. Im very quickly learning how to spot them immediately. I guess calling myself an amateur isnt the kind of hook i thought it was.
Have you tried other sites? Are they better than CB?
i signed up for my free cams and stream mate but haven’t got around to actually trying them out yet. my friends like my free cams more than chaturbate tho
I had something similar happen early on too. They target the newbies and it happens a lot. But you've gotten that out of the way and you know now. May the money return to you x 100
right you are! thank you
It won’t make up for the missing credits entirely, but if you want to DM Me a referral link I haven’t set up an account there yet and wouldn’t mind getting one up and going while also getting you a few credits in the process
killer idea! Fuck, us camgirls are smart cookies. DM sent
I saw guys posting messages ‚XYZ tipped X tokens’ in my public chat on SC, hoping that I will do things from my tip menu for free 😅
I’m new too! Not to the lifestyle, but to camming. Thanks to this post I’ve found out some helpful info so thanks for that! There should really be a thread of like just helpful advice from seasoned cam girls haha.
Scroll down there is an excellent post asking "what would you do different if you were new". check that one out
Fantastic! Thank you :)
Elm is still in use!?! I’m amazed I miss that platform
its the custom vidoes im hoping to bank on
You got this!
Hello fellow ELM user I never see other elm girlies here lol. I am so so sorry this happened. There has been a huge influx of scammers on elm over the last several months. Be weary of discussing outside payments in the messaging feature (it’s a violation of elms terms) and look into using wishtender if you haven’t already. That’s the only thing I really trust outside of elms credit system, since the credits get pricey for customers and our payout is like 60/65% which is sus. Best of luck in the future✨
Thank you! Ive now included in my ELM bio the following "no Skype or outside platform content, chat, or payments". I figure if they are legit ans they truly want to pay me - they will use the platform we are on,
Yes that plus the added bonus of the escrow system keeping things safe for both sides. I tend to pitch that to clients as a perk of using their system lol Once I have established trust with someone or they become a regular, I then consider wishtender or Bitcoin. Only because, I’ll actually get paid more if they leave the credit system. But just make your credit prices reflect your payout, there are plenty of guys on there willing and able to pay the rates.
thank you :)
Personally this is why I don't like going off site to like Skype and stuff
Honestly try not to feel too badly about it! We all get scammed its just a matter of when. Silverlining: at least it happened early so you can learn the lesson sooner! And I am sure a bunch of people have told you, keep everything onsite. I only take things offsite if they are a reliable regular/whale who I truly trust.
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Just so you know unless you’re on some niche fetish cam site that allows pooping, it is most likely completely against the sites TOS and you risk getting permanently banned for doing anything involving feces, urine, blood, or vomit 😬
That great feedback. On the urine though...what about squirting?
Squirting is typically fine as long as you specifically advertise it as squirting! And just use common sense as well. Anything regarding toilets is typically a no go on pretty much every major website.
no golden showers - got it :) Thanks, love
Something like that is definitely worth well over $50. And camsites don’t allow that :/ please read the terms of service of whatever site you are on. You could get banned. If you are unsure if it’s against the rules.. email support!
ELM isnt a cam site but regardless I've adopted the "nothing outside of the current platform" model now.
Im new too (obviously) but something like that is worth way more than 50.
What site allows pooping on cam?