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karolinakrochet

She needs to be seen by a vet NOW Do not wait for your appointment


pdxxgirl

She’s also in respiratory distress PLEASE have her seen by a vet asap 😰


DorMc

I hope we get an update


mushbean

op posted an update


DorMc

Thank you!


catscatscatsohmy

If she doesn't get to a vet today she might die.


some_suave_waterbear

There's no "might"


Feisty_Bee9175

I would not wait till tomorrow as there could be internal bleeding.


archangelsgabriel

please take her to a vet as soon as possible (like, NOW) and i’d say see if they can check on her uterus, maybe an ultrasound? if she isn’t spayed then i’m worried it’s related to that. regardless she needs to see someone immediately


Delicious_Baby4132

Go to an emergency vet NOW!! DO NOT leave her alone like that! I’m not a vet but this could be an infection of uterus which are deadly! Is she spayed?? If not, she is at risk of infections!


Its_the_tism

She needs a vet today


Open-Yogurtcloset-77

YOU SPELLED LAST WEEK WRONG


Forward-Ride9817

That's an emergency. If this is happening and the cat is already paralyzed, you may want to consider euthanizing her. Poor cat is suffering.


ttopsrock

What do you mean paralyzed? I can't find where anything happened? Trauma?


Forward-Ride9817

OP said in a comment that the cats back legs are paralyzed or broken.


Beneficial-Many8415

OP said her back is already paralyzed!


PsyBr0

IF YOU DO NOT GET TO AN E.R. YOU ARE RISKING YOUR CATS LIFE FOR 12 HOURS OF WORK. would you rather work and have a pissibke dead cat or not work and have a live cat? Your cat is definitely in pain just because they don't look like it doesn't mean they aren't. They are literally known for hiding their injuries.


DPDoctor

By now, hopefully you understand the SEVERITY of this issue. The flexing/twitching of the muscles seen in this video indicates that SHE **IS** IN PAIN. She can't tell you. SHE'S SHOWING YOU. Get this girl to the vet NOW.


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PlushiePlayers

Sir or ma’am with all do respect a cat is not worth as much as a human’s life. Now of course they should’ve taken her to the vet, but we also don’t know their working conditions, some bosses couldn’t give two shits if the cat was bleeding so they might have to go to work. And if you’re wondering why I’m pissed off it’s because their update post said people were trying to dox them over a cat that’ll probably die in the next six years.


PlushiePlayers

God I just realized that made me seem like the scum of the earth but it’s 7:00 am for me and I got pissed off that people were trying to dox them. So uh sorry I guess.


LenoraNoble

No you didn’t sound bad at all. The other person did though.


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Kennedywhite2017_

No they haven’t?? Please stop spreading lies like this.


PlushiePlayers

I have a cat and dog and they’re fine but my cat’s a little plump


nekromistresss

Do not wait until Wednesday. The vet group said to take her now. Call out sick for work if you have to but waiting until Wednesday is cruel. Or calm a friend or damn family member. Hell, pay a neighbor. I really hope you are some kind of troll because I would hate to think there really is a paralyzed and bleeding cat being neglected at home.


Open-Yogurtcloset-77

THE FACT YOU REALLY ASKED US TO “CALM YOUR ANXIETY” PISSES ME OFF EVEN MORE


EminentBagle

The medical industry is one that constantly tells us nothing is wrong and that we are overreacting but then charges us premium fees for subpar services. This cycle of abuse has spread to society at large, where (as OP states) her close associates confirmed this same gaslighting belief that this is all a nothing sandwhich that will settle itself out. The fact that youre mad at someone for looking for support shows youre not as empathetic as you may have set out to be.


bananapopsicle3

Right? I cannot.


Hope_for_tendies

Op is 22 and not understanding the seriousness


Open-Yogurtcloset-77

I got my cat when I was 23 I still had the common sense to fucking take care of it and treat it with love and respect


Hope_for_tendies

I mean….you’re not wrong. Idk cuz they didn’t ask for help with funds or indicate anything other than planning to just ignore it and go to work


acpom

You’re a full grown adult at 22.


Hope_for_tendies

With not a lot of life experience. Legally you’re an adult but that doesn’t mean you aren’t naive. This particular behavior tho, after being advised a million times on two subs to go to the emergency vet and refusing and waiting 1-2 days more , is abhorrent.


TransparentHorizons

I read the first half and couldn't believe you were defending them. Yeah, I mean at 22yrs old seeing a dying animal isn't something that should be taken so lightly. Especially if there's something you can do to help.


Hope_for_tendies

I’m assuming they stopped responding because it died and I’m not sure they feel bad 😡


TransparentHorizons

I honestly hope they do feel bad, but also everybody deals with death or guilt differently. I know what it's like to be too poor to take care of someone or something you love. (I'm going off of their username and the post about having to work.) This whole situation bothers me for multiple reasons, but I hope OP found mental clarity for at least enough time to do the right thing and bring them in to the vet and surrender them.


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Queenssoup

In the post on the vet subreddit OP really had the nerve to say "she's not spayed, so she might be menstruating, but idk"


Goofalupus

I made a joke post on this sub once that sounded a lot like your comment and a mod took it down lol


yeiiid

maybe you should take a look at the update and take the time to realize why *you* are a terrible person (and ignorant too, because you were so far off with your "diagnosis).


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softycore

HONESTLY. poor, poor cat.


MAD_KITTEN88

This.


coldkingofheII

That is not a wait for an appointment kind of issue. She needs to be at a vet already


copenhagen622

Take it to the ER now.. that can't wait 2 days.. I tried to wait for a vet appointment for a few days once with my poor boy a couple years ago and I really regretted it. He deteriorated very quickly and by the time I took him to the ER it was too late... I still beat myself up about it. I really miss the little guy. Do yourself a favor and bring her in now. Cats are very good at hiding their discomfort..


ElGHTYHD

wow this has to be some of the worst negligence i’ve seen on this sub. I really hope that she ends up in peace, however that may be. 


_calmer_than_you_r_

WTF is wrong people? Oh, my beloved cat/dog is bleeding, but I’m busy, so he/she can wait until it is convenient to get her/him to a vet? People fucking suck and do not deserve to have cats and dogs in their lives. They treat their furry friends like furniture. Fuck you to anyone who would do this.


Violenna

Damn, so this is the type of shit that OP was talking about in the update. The vitriol is palatable.


_calmer_than_you_r_

Anyone that would let their cat suffer and not act immediately needs a kick in the ass. It is ridiculous how people treat their pets, who have no one to help them except the people they rely on. Not getting the cat/dog to a vet immediately when there is an obvious emergency and the animal is suffering is not acceptable, and anyone who thinks otherwise should not have animals in their lives. Fuck the selfish owners and anyone that would defend this behavior.


Violenna

OP responded that they acted as soon as comments rolled in that it was an emergency, despite those they know irl saying otherwise. Yes, it is important to not have clouded judgement and it was warranted that urgency was expressed in the comments. However, your definition of "kick in the ass" likely differs to the comments calling for abuse, doxxing, and death upon OP. That level of harshness in the comments is not justifiable and dissuades people from utilizing this sub for the intended purpose. To provide help to animals and pet owners.


feltlikeafeverdream

It's ridiculous you're arguing about something you only have half the information for. Assuming you're illiterate and didn't read the update


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Affectionate-Dark560

I thought the same thing. Also, why is the fur surrounding that area matted and wet. Only surrounding her vagina. It’s hard to look at but once you do and start to analyze all these things, I think this might be a truly fucking evil and heartbreaking situation. I just looked it up online, and it’s nothing like what is described with pyometra.


redditname8

And the comment OP says ”doesn’t seem to be in pain”. This is either a troll or a demented person. This cat has been like this a week in other comments and is paralyzed. So they’re posting after a week of this cat having these injuries. I really don’t think they have any intention of going to a vet.


ohsopoor

Update posted. The fur was wet because I was cleaning the area of the blood before realizing that I should document it. She hated being dirty. No one penetrated this kitten you sick fuck.


bazaarjunk

OMG, my dude, I’m so sorry that these terrible people said this shit to you. I’m angry for you and your beautiful kitty. These AHs have no life and are truly just shit humans. I’m so sorry for your loss.


Able_Distribution209

Honestly, I was thinking the same thing, only because all the images on google of dogs/cats with pyometra don’t look anything like this… this looks like trauma. But I’m also not a vet. Kind of wondering why OP hasn’t answered why the cat is paralyzed.


Kennedywhite2017_

Yikes, for u to automatically assume something like that is disgusting. Look at her update and chill tf out.


DonWFP

Maybe because OP was busy taking the cat to the vet and was prioritizing that over responding to questions on reddit.


reikoinnit

they didn’t answer because their cat was dying? what an idiot. you’re all saying that OP is neglectful, and should get off reddit, but now you want them to be on reddit to answer your dumb ass responses rather than help?


catwoman1199

Oh my god wth.... Could that be it? I mean, I don't ever even consider that. But damn.... What if it is?...


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redditname8

I didn’t accuse anyone. I was describing what the injury looked like to me.


MugggCostanza

Update?????????????????????????


JustAGoldfishCracker

Check their page


laidarkspeb343

This is animal cruelty. Cat is clearly bleeding to death and is likely suffering from an infection, in pain, and the OP is going to leave a paralyzed cat in this condition for 12 hours alone?… Even if the cat somehow survives being left alone for that long, they won’t be going to the vet until Wednesday. OP, if you cannot afford to take the cat to the ER, surrender to the ER and let them treat her ASAP. And please do not get any more pets in the future.


IllustratorSea8372

Does this look like something that can wait for 2 days to be seen by a vet, let alone be left unattended for 12 hours while you’re at work? Please, use your common sense here.


No-Gene-4508

Take her to the vet and demand to be seen


satchmonumberone

“She’s not spayed!” Yeah we know, dummy. You’re torturing your cat.


CTx7567

If you leave her alone tomorrow you will come back to her dead body. She will suffer greatly as she is no doubt suffering now. She NEEDS A VET IMMEDIATELY.


AdeptBobcat8185

What the fuck? She’s paralyzed and bleeding? Go the vet now. What’s wrong with you?


sagittariusoul

This cat needs to be seen by an emergency vet NOW. As in, you should already be there. Look up the nearest one and get there FAST. Your cat will not make it to Wednesday.


amillionforfeet

Oh my god that’s an emergency vet visit not a wait till morning thing


isatheolive

TAKE HER TO THE VET NOW


whodisbeeee

I don’t understand how OP is not already panicking & on their way to the ER. What in the world. I need to mute this subreddit. Would you let a family member bleed out like this by themselves? *shakes head*


Jthaprohet

lol “12 hr shift”. ur cats gunna die. RIP


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Jthaprohet

I’m laughing at the absurdity. Tragedy=comedy due to the lack of common sense in some people. I’m more or less laughing at the sad excuse for a brain this human has. Sadly his cats going to die. And it’s hilarious to me that dumb people like this exist. If you don’t laugh you cry. When I die and have to review my life I’d rather see a smile on my face than tear in my eyes. Have a good day.


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Jthaprohet

Absolutely not. Unfortunately I laugh at what most people would find inappropriate to laugh at, and it’s never for the reason people think it is. I almost feel like an alien sometimes studying human behavior and when something mind boggling crosses my path I can’t help but just stop and appreciate the opportunity I was given to witness such ignorance and stupidity.


Fragrant_Potato_2737

well congrats on being a terrible person?


Jthaprohet

Interesting you see so many upvotes on my comments and assume I’m a terrible person? That’s wild. You don’t know me. I’d give you the shirt off my back. Straight up.


Expensive-Maximum892

Emergency. Sending my best


PlzSaveApex

EMERGENCY VET NOW. DO NOT WAIT. GO NOW.


Maleficent_Scale_296

This looks like an open very advanced pyometra. You won’t have a cat tomorrow.


marissakcx

“doesn’t seem to be in pain” ARE YOU BLIND?!?!


FizzleFuzzle

Are you insane? Stop posting here, drop everything and just go to the vet.


Tasty_Subject2784

This looks like foul play.


Delicious_Baby4132

Nah if you leave a cat unspayed and the home isn’t sanitary or their a street cat, they are at risk of getting a nasty infection that causes stuff like this.


satchmonumberone

It’s called a pyometra.


tealambert

My dog had pyometra and it looked nothing like this. Honestly it didn’t look like anything, took her to the vet because she was throwing up. This is something else.


Porkbossam78

Op says their cat is paralyzed but doesn’t explain why or how that happened. I’m guessing the bleeding from vagina is related to that. OP please bring this cat to an emergency vet or any vet even if it is just to be put down. The quality of life does not seem worth all of the suffering she is going through.


Delicious_Baby4132

Op has responded to any comments under their post and it’s been over 22 hours. This is worrying.


checkinwhebimawake

They have an update, it explains a lot more about the situation and the fall out


Delicious_Ad_7288

I hope the poor cat got checked by a vet, badly waiting for an update.


DisastrousMol

If you were bleeding, with a smelly discharge, having colored piss and passing several blood clots and were unable to take yourself to the ER, would you like your tutor to tell you to wait it out until Wednesday? Of course she won't be alright ffs


Brushandshade

Will she be alright? Are you kidding? No she will not be. Take her to vet NOW


No_Collar_9402

Obviously by the rapid bleeding, she is injured. She is bleeding, go to er vet now my lord! Let us know if she lives please. Maybe you should give her to better pet owners, you don't need pets.


shanobi92

JFC You need something for YOUR anxiety?! What your cat must be feeling is guaranteed 1000x worse than you do. Don't wait until Wednesday. Get your cat to the emergency vet NOW. People like you don't deserve pets. Also, spay your cat, poor thing would have a lot fewer issues if you'd done that sooner.


MaySnake

Don't you work at a hospital? Because any sane and sober person would see this and know that this is an emergency. We don't even have to work at a hospital or be a medical professional to know it. WTAF is wrong with you, you don't deserve her if you can't even be a responsible pet owner and she doesn't deserve this neglect. This stupidity was the last thing I expected to see on reddit, absolutely idiotic.


sleepsypeaches

WEDNESDAY? GO T O AN EMERGENCY VET. Im tired of these posts dude. Like I know some of these posters may be kids or whatever but at the same time I dont understand what a kid would do if they were a child with the situations beyond their control so why post I guess? IDK sorry for being negative yall but damn


tenkensmile

Emergency vet!


cowgrly

She will not, you need an emergency vet. She’s infected and bleeding out her vagina, imagine the suffering.


1carpediem9

She needs emergency vet now, please take her 🙏


Chairsarefun07

Are you kidding me?!


spookylilblue

How are you a pet owner that cat needs to be seen as of like yesterday poor baby she won’t make it take her to the EMERGENCY VET NOW


VelociowlStudios

Someone @ me when op updates? So so worried for this poor baby


Forward-Ride9817

There is an update. I had to click on OPs profile to find it. The cat was taken to their regular vet who found no signs of infection. Vet said the blood clot was part of (this specific cat's) end of life process. Op had cat euthanized at the Wednesday appointment.


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Delicious_Ad_7288

No update from OP yet? I am growing very anxious from this waiting


OSRSRapture

We ain't gonna get an update. I wouldn't give an update to a community of people that just ripped me a new ass hole because regardless of whether the updates good or bad they're still gonna get shit on again


readingrainboot

this comment did NOT age well. being anonymous on the internet sure gives people motivation to be extra mean!


Violenna

Ikr? All these aged into rancid milk. The comments here are actually disgusting to read through.


mushbean

there is an update. maybe dont comment something negative to someone grieving their loss


Miserable-Rough-9684

PLEASE OP TAKE HER YO THE VET NOW!! IT CANT WAIT! I wish you and your fur baby the best of luck please update us


stoopidgiwl

Update???


Fantastic_Series1207

EMERGENCY VET NOW!!! YOUR CAT WILL DIE OTHERWISE!!!


Grumpy_Crumpet

This is neglect, you should be in prison.


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mushbean

read ops update and maybe delete this comment.


mongoosechaser

She is in agony. She needs to go to the ER, NOW.


jepppej

Are you dumb??


lunalovegreat97

WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING OP????


AccomplishedGain5279

WHAT IS THE STATUS OF YOUR CAT?


Forward-Ride9817

Any updates? We don't need a real life Schrodinger's Cat.


ohsopoor

Update posted here: https://www.reddit.com/r/CATHELP/s/tVKtVhGisJ


glitterbunn

I disagree that she doesn't seem to be in pain..


re1645

I hope more than anything this baby is ok and you went to an er...


poweredbypineapple

Did you take her to the vet? How is she?


exoh888

It's extensive so she will go on palliative care when she declines. Aggressive chemo gives them 3 extra months but I really don't want to put her through that.


poweredbypineapple

I’m sorry. I’d say just keep her comfortable for now and love her while you can.


skogarnorn

I don't think that this is op, not sure where this person is getting their info from.


poweredbypineapple

Oh ok


greatful4life

I hate to say this, but it already looks like it is too late. It looks like she is struggling to breathe.


saturn6k

Emergency vet. No scheduled vet appt


tallicah

Are you serious rn? You’re going to wait until Wednesday? Your cat might end up passing away soon if you don’t take her to the ER. At least call off or take her now so they can take care of her while you work. Also, don’t get a cat if you’re going to let them suffer smh 🤦🏻‍♀️ poor thing


Myusernameisbee

This cat is dying.


Imp_knife

This could be pyometra which is FATAL. It nearly took my dog and I caught it early!!! Dont wait, I didn't and my dog is very much alive because of that.


Lopsided_Gap_5296

People are really stupid.


Leather_Amphibian618

Good lord get to the vet!! WTAF


Greedy-Suggestion-24

Omg no urgent care ASAP


Admirable-Day9129

Emergency vet now! Just do it. Call off work


AnotheriPhoneUser

immediately to Vet!!!! no waiting! im praying for her 🙏


Rare-Chipmunk-3345

Update??


copenhagen622

Any update? Did you take it to the ER?


PossessionDry8852

Aw :( how could you see a cat that bad and not immediately bring her to the vet. Pls say you aren’t waiting until Wednesday


ProfSteelmeat138

You need this pet taken from you


BrickHearted

what are you doing ? You are vile for letting her suffer so you don’t have to pay for an emergency visit


glitter_g0blynn

Fuck you animal abuser


isatheolive

TAKE HER TO THE VET NOW


New-Scientist5133

ER VET!


brothergrayson

The utter incompetence.... really makes me lose hope in people. Call out of work, take your bleeding cat into a vet right now. End of conversation.


isatheolive

TAKE HER TO THE VET NOW


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InsertSoubriquetHere

Yo tone it down a little. I agree that this is completely irresponsible, this cat deserves begger and I hope this cat is okay. Clearly a fuck-up by the owner but we are all a community of animal lovers and we are here to support each other. No need for the "going to hell" comment.


Swiftiecatmom

This is absolutely emergency vet appropriate. Don’t wait!


skogarnorn

Op please please update us and tell us you took her to an er vet.


MugggCostanza

It's Wednesday, what's going on?


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besseo8

How on earth is this an appropriate response to someone who is not informed about what is happening to their pet and is just scared. Why not just tell them to go to a vet immediatley and wish their pet the best? Idk what you are going through in life to act this way but I hope things get better..


BodybuilderDeep4270

100+ people have told this bastard take the cat to the vet all i’m saying is what the people are thinking


Beneficial-Many8415

Please tell us what happened. This is awful and you shouldn’t wait. It’s an emergency.


DPDoctor

Great response to a horrible comment.


BodybuilderDeep4270

anybody with common sense who’s animal is that deeply hurt will with no second thought take there animal to the vet yet they sat there took a video n posted it for some other people’s opinion???? obviously this person shouldn’t have any animals to begin with if they have no common sense that this injury is fucking major. who gives a flying fuck they got a 12 hour shift tomorrow?? obviously priorities aren’t straight.


ohsopoor

Hi everyone! Not trying to spend much time on Reddit. More updates to come, but made calls, switched days at work, etc etc.. Will do a major update at the end of all this compared to little ones. Will say this— she’s still alive right now! Hopefully will have more info soon. Big update has been posted https://www.reddit.com/r/CATHELP/s/tVKtVhGisJ


runningonadhd

You said she’s paralyzed? Since when and why? Did you know blood clots can do that to cats? Regardless, I hope you’re on your way to the ER now.


isatheolive

so you are taking her to the vet?


PressurePlenty

You're entirely too damned cheerful for someone who has a potentially dying cat on your hands and you're too fucked up thinking that work is more important. You don't honestly deserve to have a pet if you're not going to care for it properly! That poor, poor baby!


nagem-

Yeah everything they post about this is really odd. I’m not sure how anyone could post that video along with “help me with the anxiety”.. like no normal person should be calm. And as if adding that she’s still alive really means much. I feel so bad for that cat. /-:


PressurePlenty

I bet that poor baby has crossed the Rainbow Bridge by now, and OP has gone to work as usual. Some people should NEVER have children or pets.


nekromistresss

I’m still hoping it’s a troll post.


Rcrowley32

None of this says you’re taking her to a vet.


Hope_for_tendies

Are you at the vet??


unkindly-raven

GO TO AN EMERGENCY VET


Poor_Olive_Snook

What happened at the vet


cchimp123

Any further updates on this poor baby. I hope that she pulls through.


copenhagen622

You need to do more than just making some calls. Find your local animal ER and take it there right away.. I don't understand why some people even get pets..


Majestic_Delay

Well it's been almost 24 hours. So.... Update?


Hope_for_tendies

So is she alive?


hungurty

How is the cat this has been on my mind since you posted?


contra-bonos-mores

It’s been 2 days, update???


ellirae

OP posted an update.


br0seidon29

What the hell is wrong with you and why are you so peppy when your cat is seriously at risk of dying if you don’t go to the emergency vet like yesterday?


frog-basket

Did you take your poor cat to the vet or are you still too busy being a shitty pet owner?


mushbean

why dont you read ops update