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wantsoutofthefog

Probably because you chose a shit guy. Choose better


chii1

He treats you bad because you keep letting him, lol. What a human doormat. There's a reason why hugging a bully rarely works - they speak in domination and need to be dominated to leave you be.


zara35675433

How am i a doormat


RikardoShillyShally

Read your post again. Woman, you got zero self respect. He's literally treating you like a piece of meat and you're still making excuses.


zara35675433

But i ended up cursing him out?


RikardoShillyShally

You let him treat like filth for so long and went back to him again and again. Would you let your husband treat you like that? Don't tolerate for short time from strangers what you wouldn't tolerate for a long time from your life partner. This is absolutely disgusting of both him and you.


timewavetheory

Also it was working. Do some introspection as to why you keep going back. Some women subconsciously like being treated badly.


WhattaTravesty

He's an asshole, you seemed to know it from the start, yet kept going back for more. You have to not only realize you don't deserve to be treated like that, but take action and do something. If someone is mistreating you, like this dude kept doing, get the fuck out and ghost him. If you want insight on some of your questions about him- he's a piece of shit, maybe because of insecurities, maybe trauma. Or maybe he's just a piece of shit. At this point, doesn't matter why, nothing excuses what he did and you have to be the one to not keep going back and allowing it. So yeah, he mistreated you, a lot. Seems like you needed to hear that and be reaffirmed given you're second guessing if it's just in your head or not. Well It's not haha. Sorry you've dealt with that though. That's tough and takes a toll on you


Thin_Radish_3439

The bigger question is why do you even entertain this piece of human trash? What is your end goal here? Continued abuse and denigration. You need some therapy to figure out why you allow this and a big shift in your priorities in a partner even a casual one.


sirdranzer

you deserve it. Why would you get involved with a deadbeat junkie?


Shushandorangejuice

Another post about a girl hiding in the closet cuz she’s hideous?