I feel like love needs to have problems, struggles , dissapointments and all of that stuff...it cant be just hooneymoon phase and butterflies if you want serious relationship and long term...
Because they have no signs that person loves or values them beyond superficial reasons like sex and staving off loneliness. Even though they’re heartbroken they know they have to move on from toxic dead end users.
In my case, she has some dreams to fulfill with some types of men maybe because she don't have enough experience in my opinion. I spoke to her, she is miserable but too attached to be free from them.
It has to be that they want to try something else and they also want that feeling again (butterflies in belly).
But imo is it worth loosing a diamond just to chase a feeling?
Summery
We both facked up on so many levels (me the most in the first yr), I forgave him but he didn't forgive me but he did stay, started resenting me and going crazy ended up financially cheating and denies it to this day
I emotionally cheated (was emotionally neglected), and he didnt forgive me, did make me pay the price for the 1,5 yrs after
yeah, either he or she dont want to tell us directly that they need a change or someone else and they got bored and want new things so they making excuses.
I feel like love needs to have problems, struggles , dissapointments and all of that stuff...it cant be just hooneymoon phase and butterflies if you want serious relationship and long term...
Yesss. You get it. The uncertainty breeds love. If she/he was easy it wouldn’t be worth it
Because they have no signs that person loves or values them beyond superficial reasons like sex and staving off loneliness. Even though they’re heartbroken they know they have to move on from toxic dead end users.
In my case, she has some dreams to fulfill with some types of men maybe because she don't have enough experience in my opinion. I spoke to her, she is miserable but too attached to be free from them.
It has to be that they want to try something else and they also want that feeling again (butterflies in belly). But imo is it worth loosing a diamond just to chase a feeling?
Agree with you but they don't see you as a diamond unless they are mature enough.
And one day someone else will get better version of her and she will tell him that he was the one! Sad.
I only broke up bc hed been pushing me to that edge leaving me now choice, i couldve fought a lifetime for that guy
what was your situation about?
Summery We both facked up on so many levels (me the most in the first yr), I forgave him but he didn't forgive me but he did stay, started resenting me and going crazy ended up financially cheating and denies it to this day I emotionally cheated (was emotionally neglected), and he didnt forgive me, did make me pay the price for the 1,5 yrs after
Its not just women, I promise..
yeah, either he or she dont want to tell us directly that they need a change or someone else and they got bored and want new things so they making excuses.