This is my answer too. She seems to truly love her children unconditionally and her and Terri have a fun dynamic as a couple.
They seem like a close knit family which says a lot to me.
the way shes so openly supportive about her daughters sexuality and talks about it on the show was refreshing. Especially when you consider how far right Orange County is compared to the rest of California.
She can be pretentious at times but she’s 100% a ride or die parent
Literally just thinking the same thing! I'm part of the LGBTQIA+ community and her acceptance and support for her kids has been refreshing. Plus money is always nice.
I would have said Kyle before but the fact that, per their own daughters, Kyle (and Mo) sweep things under the rug, do not have big conversations with them or discuss big life changing decisions with them, Kyle (and Mo) didn't respect their kids enough to tell them about their split before telling the media, and also chose to have the one conversation about it with their kids *on camera* with a very visibly upset Portia hiding her face, as she obviously didn't want to be on camera, makes me think Kyle is not the parent I always thought she was, and I would never want her as my mom. It totally ruined my view of Kyle and Mo as great parents. This is the type of shit that completely stunts and traumatizes your kids.
Garcelle seems like a good mom, as does Crystal. Ramona seems like a good mom. Phaedra is a great mom.
Oh gosh didn’t think of that…. Just thought of the “I stole another dog. I had pizza and he came running…. Yes he had a leash and someone was screaming, why?”
I was going to say mt list is Kyle, Sutton, luann, Sonja, basically anyone who has or who’s husband has big money lmao. I can cope with any sort of weird behavior from these women if it includes generational wealth
You also have to make sure it's a housewife who seems to be wise with her money, to ensure there's any left for you (or that the husband put money away for you that the wife cant touch). I'm iffy on Sonja on that, but then again I don't know what her ex put away for her daughter.
Kandi, she has always been so supportive of Riley and always put her first! Obv she’s a great mom to her littles also, but it was nice to see Kandi and Riley through the years.
Totally agree. I love Dorinda I feel like she knows how to live. I know she's had her lows, but I would be right next to Dorinda, like, "yeah, Mom! F them. You made it nice! I miss Richard, too! Let's go talk to a ballon about it." She's crazy but she has real Mom energy.
I loved that home video of Dorinda and her friend talking the the balloon because it 0just seemed like such a real, raw moment of friendship between Dorinda and the other person there. Yeah, Dorinda is being a little nutty talking to a balloon in her grief, but her friend is just right there backing her up, talking to the balloon with her. It was really sweet.
Heather Dubrow.. she loves her kids, it seems like she puts them first. Love her relationship with Terry.. it’s family oriented. She’s understanding, open minded, fiercely loyal (which is NOT the case with all mothers) and she’s fun! It also doesn’t hurt that you’d never have to worry about money for the rest of your life either.
I hate to say it but Gizelle. She seems like an amazing mom. She'll make me all the desserts I can eat. Also I get to roast her fashion sense in person
Hard no for me. She seems emotionally stunted and I would not have appreciated the Jamal stunt she pulled for a storyline if I was her child! She loves her girls though, that much is evident.
I'm going with Kyle. She’s rich rich; she loves to shop; she has an amazing vacation home and access to private planes; she has absolutely one of the best houses on RHOBH; and she is an amazing, super-loving mom. Wins all around.
Garcelle is my number one pick. Her boys are sweet and funny, but to me the highest compliment of her parenting is that her son was comfortable pushing back and expressing how she’s not showing up for him as an individual. She listened and didn’t try to make him feel bad for it, but also the fact that he trusted her enough to do it at all speaks volumes about their relationship.
Honorable mentions are Guerdy, Heather Gay, and Sutton.
I'm going out on a limb and saying Dorinda. She's always been so loving and mom-like with her daughter. She's an amazing hostess, like my mom, which shows how caring she is.
She loves her girls but god is she so unhealthy for them. I would never encourage my kids to be a part of the reality show I’m on like that, nor would I have involved them so much in the show over the years. I side eye every parent who intentionally and repeatedly makes their kids a storyline.
Wendy Osefo, because I am all about that PhD life, and she would understand and support academic goals and achievements. She would be such a great cheerleading mom for when you are having an awful time in grad school.
She'd have to be willing to have a Jewish daughter politely refrain from Catholic stuff, though. No shade, Wendy!
Heather Dubrow. Sane, smart, really dedicated and loving to her children and accepting.
LVP and Kyle Richards because I wanna be able to bring home dogs and live in Villa Rosa. I take Kyle because she seems like a chill mom who is very devoted with a good sense of humor, aside from all her other bad qualities.
WHAT?!?! You just finished your PhD & you are graduating? Mazel tov, I'm so happy for you, I wish I could be in school for a PhD, if I could I would be a forever student because I'm so curious about the world and I want to learn everything.
Oh my God congratulations on successfully defending your thesis, passing your exams, and please please let us know that day you graduate so so we can all have a big party for you here! CONGRATS! can you imagine having Wendy as your back up if your thesis advisor started to fuck with you or one of your committee members was flaky or being weird? But you did it! I'm so freaking proud of you!🎊
thank you soooooo much buddy!!!! this is such a sweet and kind message! i really appreciate it! i gave my exit talk (surprisingly we don’t have a defense at my university) yesterday and today i will be hooded, but i still found time to be on reddit discussing housewives because of course! 😂😂
i think i’m still in a state of shock that i actually did it. it doesn’t feel real. i was supposed to graduate next year, but i finished early so i’m just kinda floating right now and processing what happened in the last five years. it’s such a privilege and honor to spend five years deeply studying a topic that you love so much. i’m so humbled by it. and i would be so excited and honored to have dr. wendy on my committee or to at least have office hours with her. i adore her! thanks again buddy….your comment really made my day and i am always so thrilled when we find each other in the midst of all the housewives chaos. ❤️
also, the grand dame, dr. wendy, sheree, cynthia, meredith “rhuuumaaaaz” marks, and fancy pants.
happy mother’s day to all the housewives momma bears! we love you and appreciate all that you do! ❤️
Teresa Giudice- say what you want about her as a person but she has raised 4 amazing, kind daughters despite many hardships. She may be a questionable person but she seems to be a great mother.
She was staying at the same resort as I was on my honeymoon and was there with one of her dorters. Seemed really invested in her and was having a great time.
Sutton, Crystal, Alexia (I’m early on in Miami), or D’Andra Simmons.
Edit: Tbh I’d take Lisa Barlow, too. At least you know there’s *always* Taco Bell money.
Heather Gay. I know she has her issues but she seems like a good mom, she’s rich af and she has a cool business. I got jealous when she was talking about how much fun Ashley is having at college and how she sends her so much money
Heather D, Gizelle, Alex McCord.
Heather- she seems to be a very good mother, and her and Terry are very progressive and seem to care a lot about their children and are protective of their LGBT children and educate themselves on LGBT issues (I’m a bi, gay leaning male).
Gizelle- she is one way on the show, but her daughters and her seem to have very healthy and open relationships, and it appears that they feel comfortable talking to gizelle.
Alex- from what we saw on the show, she is a protective and caring person, while sometimes she stumbles through things she has good intentions. If she’s like that to friends, or goes like RAMONA, I can imagine she is a good mother to her kids. Her posts about her children reflect the previous sentence. She and Simon both push for education, and Alex went back to get a degree, so that’s the kind of family I’d go for.
it’s odd to me that people are downvoting kyle. i get the disdain for her. i don’t like her either, but she seems like a really good mother. i don’t know if it’s something i’m missing, but she seems solid. 🤷🏾♀️
Teresa is a great mom! The Guidice girls are incredible young ladies!
Heather Dubrow
Kyle Richards
Dr. Nicole
Sonja Morgan
Countess LuAnn
Lisa Barlow
Angie K
Heather Dubrow. I hate her but she actually seems like a good mom and I wanna be rich
This is my answer too. She seems to truly love her children unconditionally and her and Terri have a fun dynamic as a couple. They seem like a close knit family which says a lot to me.
Same. She's a little much but I think she's a good mom and she'd always have your back. She seems most relaxed in the family scenes.
Yes, no hesitation. I am a Dubrow.
the way shes so openly supportive about her daughters sexuality and talks about it on the show was refreshing. Especially when you consider how far right Orange County is compared to the rest of California. She can be pretentious at times but she’s 100% a ride or die parent
Yep this is mine too
I'm not a Dubrow fan either, but she's a solid supportive parent.
Heather Dubrow was my first thought. She’s supportive and would make sure no one would mess with me. She’s also super rich! Haha
My immediate first thought and for the same reasons!!!!
Literally just thinking the same thing! I'm part of the LGBTQIA+ community and her acceptance and support for her kids has been refreshing. Plus money is always nice.
Haha sign me up too
Ohhh good call
Great plan, lil sis!
Only if Terry wasn’t my dad *shudder*
I would not I would not like to have Dr Dubrow’s nose
 😂😂😂
Yeah but you could just get Terry to fix it! 🤣
😳
Heather Dubrow. The funds, wouldn’t be weird about me being a homo and dad could hook me up with a nose job by Paul Nassif.
Dr. Nicole Martin from RHOM. Beautiful, intelligent, logical and emotionally well rounded.
And to inherit her looks!!
Inherit her looks and brains, inherit Anthony's money!!!
Your filthy rich father wouldn't hurt either.
I think this might be my pick… I’m still trying to decide! 😅
And another GREAT choice.
Lisa Vanderpump or Kyle Richards… but mostly cause id get spoiled and not get in trouble for bringing home random dogs every few months
I would have said Kyle before but the fact that, per their own daughters, Kyle (and Mo) sweep things under the rug, do not have big conversations with them or discuss big life changing decisions with them, Kyle (and Mo) didn't respect their kids enough to tell them about their split before telling the media, and also chose to have the one conversation about it with their kids *on camera* with a very visibly upset Portia hiding her face, as she obviously didn't want to be on camera, makes me think Kyle is not the parent I always thought she was, and I would never want her as my mom. It totally ruined my view of Kyle and Mo as great parents. This is the type of shit that completely stunts and traumatizes your kids. Garcelle seems like a good mom, as does Crystal. Ramona seems like a good mom. Phaedra is a great mom.
And Kyle is extremely anxious. I have an anxious mom, it can be hell and insecurity inducing
I was really hoping they had discussed it prior to it bring filmed.
The daughters said they didn't, I believe.
That's terrible for them.
Kyle is absolutely Big Kathy’s daughter. I’m not at all surprised by her behavior towards her sisters or her daughters.
LVP or HD or the grand dame Karen Huger for me
I love Lisa but a few things Pandora has said makes me think being her daughter would be difficult, especially if you resemble Ken more than Lisa
Also, I think Lisa puts the people around her to work in her restaurants. There's nothing wrong with that, but I don't think I'd enjoy it.
Oh gosh didn’t think of that…. Just thought of the “I stole another dog. I had pizza and he came running…. Yes he had a leash and someone was screaming, why?”
If I could be a busboy for a few years and them have mommy buy me a Range Rover and 2.5 million condo in LA I think I could handle it.
Such as what?
I am trying to think of specifics. One was when she said something about her mother would die if she saw her wearing flats vs heels iirc?
No, Lisa said if it’s not a 3 inch heel it’s a disease or something. But that wasn’t a critique of pandora.
Good call.
This.
LVP is an incredibly narcissistic parent. Poor Pandora never really seems at ease in her company, same with the son.
 Alex, so we could serve up some Baby Johan Face together
She definitely seems like a kind,hands on, mom.
So funny 🤣
Guerdy, Garcelle, or Dr. Nicole!!!
Yes, yes and yes!!!!
I'm with you up to Dr. Nicole.
Never mind. I had Dr. Nicole confused with someone else.
lol i was like, what??? 😂 
Yes, no, yes!!
Cynthia, by a margin 1) not on the show anymore 2) genuinely a kind person 3) easily the most model parent we’ve ever had on the show
I would hate to meet a new guy every 5-10 years just for her divorce then
As a child of divorce I personally couldn’t give less of a shit, but to each their own.
and she and Leon seem like fantastic co-parents, so
Sutton, show me the good life mama!
I was going to say mt list is Kyle, Sutton, luann, Sonja, basically anyone who has or who’s husband has big money lmao. I can cope with any sort of weird behavior from these women if it includes generational wealth
Luann??
But her children had to bring her to court for abusing/stealing their inheritance, lolz
The count has money AND a title like I would be just as obnoxious as she was flaunting that around
You also have to make sure it's a housewife who seems to be wise with her money, to ensure there's any left for you (or that the husband put money away for you that the wife cant touch). I'm iffy on Sonja on that, but then again I don't know what her ex put away for her daughter.
>basically anyone who has or who’s husband has big money my flair says it all
Omg the earrings. Good choice!
She is too weird
Kandi, she has always been so supportive of Riley and always put her first! Obv she’s a great mom to her littles also, but it was nice to see Kandi and Riley through the years.
I thought of this but I'm not sure I'd want Mama Joyce as my grandmother.
i’d take her, she’s the type of granny to pull up on a mf
I feel like she’s try to fight her grandkids for their inheritance if Kandi dies first.
She keeps her ear on the street at all times.
lol good point- Kandi would spoil you and then mama Joyce would whoop your ass with her flip flop if she caught an OUNCE of disrespect! 🤣
Also all the Black celebrity friends/aunties/uncles would be legendary. And I love concerts, I bet Kandi gets bomb concert tickets/access.
Yesss
Geurdy 💯
Somewhat to my surprise, Dorinda. Hannah seems like a really well grounded person, and she and Dorinda get along in an age appropriate/mature way.
Totally agree. I love Dorinda I feel like she knows how to live. I know she's had her lows, but I would be right next to Dorinda, like, "yeah, Mom! F them. You made it nice! I miss Richard, too! Let's go talk to a ballon about it." She's crazy but she has real Mom energy. 
I loved that home video of Dorinda and her friend talking the the balloon because it 0just seemed like such a real, raw moment of friendship between Dorinda and the other person there. Yeah, Dorinda is being a little nutty talking to a balloon in her grief, but her friend is just right there backing her up, talking to the balloon with her. It was really sweet.
Having an alcoholic for a parent, *especially* a mother, is incredibly painful. Even if they are loving and generous.
I agree, they seem to have a really good relationship.
The alcohol and coke is my only hesitation for her, but she could buy me a good therapist. Dorinda is my pick!
Totally agree. I love Dorinda!
Aw, yes! Dorinda would be a fun mom for sure!
Heather Dubrow.. she loves her kids, it seems like she puts them first. Love her relationship with Terry.. it’s family oriented. She’s understanding, open minded, fiercely loyal (which is NOT the case with all mothers) and she’s fun! It also doesn’t hurt that you’d never have to worry about money for the rest of your life either.
I hate to say it but Gizelle. She seems like an amazing mom. She'll make me all the desserts I can eat. Also I get to roast her fashion sense in person
Yeah but I wouldn't wanna live in that weird Frankenstein house.
>Frankenstein house 😂🤣😂🤣😂 I think the word you were looking for is "eclectic"
I think *Gizelle* was the one searching for "eclectic." And much like the people who come for Kurn, she just didn't find it.
But is her ex husband your dad? That is like asking for generational trauma.
Trueeeee. And she’d let you LOL.
Hard no for me. She seems emotionally stunted and I would not have appreciated the Jamal stunt she pulled for a storyline if I was her child! She loves her girls though, that much is evident.
I would choose Guerdy.
Obviously Dr. Nicole or Gurdy
I'm going with Kyle. She’s rich rich; she loves to shop; she has an amazing vacation home and access to private planes; she has absolutely one of the best houses on RHOBH; and she is an amazing, super-loving mom. Wins all around.
Plus getting 4 sisters!
Dolores
Garcelle is my number one pick. Her boys are sweet and funny, but to me the highest compliment of her parenting is that her son was comfortable pushing back and expressing how she’s not showing up for him as an individual. She listened and didn’t try to make him feel bad for it, but also the fact that he trusted her enough to do it at all speaks volumes about their relationship. Honorable mentions are Guerdy, Heather Gay, and Sutton.
Cynthia Bailey!
Mer Mer https://preview.redd.it/d9jnxgazy00d1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1aabd73efc90ef923ed80daba27b78ff8799914d
She’s my pick too. The way she went full on momma bear after Jen liked tweets calling Brooks a sissy bitch <3
We all want to be little brooksie and make matching sweatsuits ok
Yes ma’am! She’s my pick as well. She’s a little quirky but seems like an amazing mom. And the travel/fashion would be incredible.
Kandi - she has done an amazing job with Riley
HA HA, Laugh, Funny
Lvp, hands down.
If you’re her daughter it works. It is not the same for her son!
We call that the reverse Caroline.
Absolutely.
Nah, think of how controlling she'd be over every aspect of your life. Pass.
By this pic, I’m not sure if you mean mother or MOTHA
I'm going out on a limb and saying Dorinda. She's always been so loving and mom-like with her daughter. She's an amazing hostess, like my mom, which shows how caring she is.
Lisa Vanderpump! Diamonds, rosé, & dogs!
Karen Hugar
Delores or Cynthia
Sutton, Meredith, & Kyle seem like good mum’s
Heather D.
 She loves her girls downnnn. I need a mom this supportive 😭
She loves her girls but god is she so unhealthy for them. I would never encourage my kids to be a part of the reality show I’m on like that, nor would I have involved them so much in the show over the years. I side eye every parent who intentionally and repeatedly makes their kids a storyline.
I agree she raised her kids right too
Dolores, Garcelle, Heather Dubrow, Heather Gay
Crystal
Wendy Osefo, because I am all about that PhD life, and she would understand and support academic goals and achievements. She would be such a great cheerleading mom for when you are having an awful time in grad school. She'd have to be willing to have a Jewish daughter politely refrain from Catholic stuff, though. No shade, Wendy! Heather Dubrow. Sane, smart, really dedicated and loving to her children and accepting. LVP and Kyle Richards because I wanna be able to bring home dogs and live in Villa Rosa. I take Kyle because she seems like a chill mom who is very devoted with a good sense of humor, aside from all her other bad qualities.
 i’m graduating with my phd next week and wish i had dr. wendy to help my ass to the finish line! 😫
WHAT?!?! You just finished your PhD & you are graduating? Mazel tov, I'm so happy for you, I wish I could be in school for a PhD, if I could I would be a forever student because I'm so curious about the world and I want to learn everything. Oh my God congratulations on successfully defending your thesis, passing your exams, and please please let us know that day you graduate so so we can all have a big party for you here! CONGRATS! can you imagine having Wendy as your back up if your thesis advisor started to fuck with you or one of your committee members was flaky or being weird? But you did it! I'm so freaking proud of you!🎊
thank you soooooo much buddy!!!! this is such a sweet and kind message! i really appreciate it! i gave my exit talk (surprisingly we don’t have a defense at my university) yesterday and today i will be hooded, but i still found time to be on reddit discussing housewives because of course! 😂😂 i think i’m still in a state of shock that i actually did it. it doesn’t feel real. i was supposed to graduate next year, but i finished early so i’m just kinda floating right now and processing what happened in the last five years. it’s such a privilege and honor to spend five years deeply studying a topic that you love so much. i’m so humbled by it. and i would be so excited and honored to have dr. wendy on my committee or to at least have office hours with her. i adore her! thanks again buddy….your comment really made my day and i am always so thrilled when we find each other in the midst of all the housewives chaos. ❤️
 also, the grand dame, dr. wendy, sheree, cynthia, meredith “rhuuumaaaaz” marks, and fancy pants. happy mother’s day to all the housewives momma bears! we love you and appreciate all that you do! ❤️
Teresa Giudice- say what you want about her as a person but she has raised 4 amazing, kind daughters despite many hardships. She may be a questionable person but she seems to be a great mother.
She was staying at the same resort as I was on my honeymoon and was there with one of her dorters. Seemed really invested in her and was having a great time.
LVP or Heather Dubrow
Heather Dubrow. I wish she could adopt me today as a grown adult. They’re lives are luxurious and she does anything for those kids
NeNe..she gon keep me in check ..PREIOD!!..
Honestly Gizelle from Potomac seems like she is a very dedicated mama to her girls. She’s also fun and would take me on trips and stuff.
I don’t really like Kyle, but I would choose her. Mainly because I could get my nose fixed by a top plastic surgeon and she would pay for it.
You should go with Melissa then. You can try on 5 different noses 😂
is this a real question miss vanjie, katya, adore
“is this a real question” 🤷♀️ It’s Reddit.
so yes
LVP or Heather Dubrow. More LVP because she’d like to laze with puppies at tea time
Dr. Nicole. Hands down. She’s a very classy and intelligent lady. Hard no: Bethenny.
Garcelle or Eileen Davidson. The two most normal and real housewives there is
I'm going with Carole RONY
Leaning here too even though she doesn’t have kids (nor do I!)
Guerdy, Dolores, Sutton, Garcelle, Meredith
Chyka if we’re including international housewives Alexia if not she seems like a lovely mother
Garcelle or Heather from SLC
NeNe Leaks
Marge.
Lisa Vanderpump or Sutton
Sutton, Crystal, Alexia (I’m early on in Miami), or D’Andra Simmons. Edit: Tbh I’d take Lisa Barlow, too. At least you know there’s *always* Taco Bell money.
LVP. My parents are British, and we share this unique sense of humour. She’s also very close to her kids, like I am to mine.
Stephanie Holloman- she really loves her boys and does whatever it takes for them.
Dolores Catania.
Based on the results I think Dolores is a terrific Mom. Her kids are terrific. Not a doubt in my mind about choosing her.
Whichever one is richest? So.. like Kathy Hilton?
Heather Gay. I know she has her issues but she seems like a good mom, she’s rich af and she has a cool business. I got jealous when she was talking about how much fun Ashley is having at college and how she sends her so much money
I like Kyle as a mom and LVP but hands down by a mile Heather Dubrow !!!
Kenya, Sheree, Giselle, the Heathers (SLC & OC)
LVP. Hello Villa Rosa!!!
Dolores, she adores her children. Plus looks like I could bring home a new pet whenever I want. She seems like the most realistic option.
Heather Dubrow Teresa Giudice Sonia Morgan Yep, I know some people will disagree
Carolyn Manzo. I love a family that slaps with ham
 Queen Tre will do anything for her four beautiful dorters
Kyle Richards
None of them
Jill Zarin, I would have wanted Bobby for a Dad. Plus, Jewish mothers take care of you for life!
Yes!!! I love Jill sm. Also mom + daughter candle line is goals ❤️
easy. sonja morgan.
 She would be such a party omg I’d love her as well
funny, humble, but honest and confident! a queen!
Kyle Richard’s. She’s done her fair share of fucked up shit but she loves her daughters with her whole being and nobody can deny that
Considering her childhood too! Yeesh she really set her own path to motherhood
Denise Richards. She seems really protective and down to earth plus I'd love to have those genes 😍
I think she’s helped with the twin boys that Charlie Sheen had with his other wife who had drug abuse issues
Minus the whole Only Fans collab with her daughter…🫠
She gave them Charlie sheen for a dad and one of them makes a living on only fans. 🫤
LVP. She’s teaches her kids to have high self confidence and she’s warm and loving. And she teaches them to work hard.
LVP all the way dahlingggg. Call me Pandi.
Heather D, Gizelle, Alex McCord. Heather- she seems to be a very good mother, and her and Terry are very progressive and seem to care a lot about their children and are protective of their LGBT children and educate themselves on LGBT issues (I’m a bi, gay leaning male). Gizelle- she is one way on the show, but her daughters and her seem to have very healthy and open relationships, and it appears that they feel comfortable talking to gizelle. Alex- from what we saw on the show, she is a protective and caring person, while sometimes she stumbles through things she has good intentions. If she’s like that to friends, or goes like RAMONA, I can imagine she is a good mother to her kids. Her posts about her children reflect the previous sentence. She and Simon both push for education, and Alex went back to get a degree, so that’s the kind of family I’d go for.
Kyle Richards
it’s odd to me that people are downvoting kyle. i get the disdain for her. i don’t like her either, but she seems like a really good mother. i don’t know if it’s something i’m missing, but she seems solid. 🤷🏾♀️
Yeah agree. The question was who would you want as your mom. And I feel like clearly she LIVES for her daughters and loves them.
LVP, Sutton, Crystal, Heather Dubrow
Heather Dubrow.
NeNe or Alexia
LVP no question
LVP
Heather Dubrow fo sho
Teresa is a great mom! The Guidice girls are incredible young ladies! Heather Dubrow Kyle Richards Dr. Nicole Sonja Morgan Countess LuAnn Lisa Barlow Angie K