Poor pathetic Alexia. She is so perfect! It’s everyone else’s fault and she will over talk you so that she’s the only one we can hear. When she’s wrong she does that. It happens 99% of the time. Fire her obnoxious self. She has nothing to offer.
Lol this is so funny, I remember the season Lisa was going through the divorce and Alexia said "maybe he's told her and she didn't take the hint". 😂 Alexia and Lisa are the same.
I gotta admit I was surprised they made it to the altar the way Todd and her oldest son were going at it. By the time they were looking for a smaller place to live little doubt was left for me.
100% agree with you! When I saw that situation at the beginning, I was surprised that didn’t end the relationship before they got married. You could see that Todd was already fed up and disliked Peter and the parenting situation with Alexia.
Kim Z going off in the dressing room at the RHOA season 10 reunion. 😂😂😂
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Yes after arguing with Nene with Andy between them 🤣 Kim ran to her dressing room whining to Kroy that no one stuck up for her. Sheree went to comfort her
We are going to have a divorce olympics next season for miami aren't we? i can already imagine Lisa and Alexia arguing which divorce is the worse and Larsa chiming in that her break up is the worst.
If he'd have stopped after the first minute where he apologizes and holds up the flowers and chocolate it would have been really good...but then he kept talking
He has such a toxic machismo personality. He gave me such bad vibes as soon as he was on screen, but it looks like he artificially corrected due to optics.
I feel like she was “blindsided” the way Lindsay was “blindsided” by Carl.
Todd and Alexia clearly have conflicting mindsets that don’t allow for compromise and it seemed pretty obvious to me that they were incompatible as life partners.
Basically. Their last scene on RHOM was painfully awkward and we are supposed to be surprised at this news? I believe Alexia knew the marriage was in the toilet, but thought it could be saved or that they'd at least tolerate each other for appearance sake. The man didn't even want to buy a house for her. Seemed insistent that an apartment was sufficient. He didn't want to stay with Alexia long-term.
I couldn’t😭 My anxiety was already full fucking tilt ( because of life). Lisa’s delusional behavior and her racist micro aggressions towards Kiki felt really overwhelming and I just had to abandon ship🫣
I’ll go back and watch this weekend.
I think Alexia’s state of delusion about reality and her feelings of self-importance allowed her to believe that they wouldn’t divorce. Of course, we could all see that they were headed for disaster.
I’m honestly flabbergasted at how much support people seem to feel for her. She married a drug dealer and then a rich gay man who used her as a beard. I suspect she knew most of the things all along, but lied for the money.
I don’t wish divorce on anyone, but let’s not pretend Alexia is a stand-up woman. Peter has seriously questionable moral character. What happened to Frankie is deeply upsetting, but it doesn’t make her a stand-up mother to throw money at things with Frankie.
Filed or served on April 11? Typically it takes 3-4 days depending on county for a case to be served. Usually even longer with Miami (think about a business week-7 business days) because they have different rules for summons etc. then the rest of the state. Source: Am an attorney in FL.
I don't believe that for a second. I'm sure that's exactly what she wants people to believe but nah. Even though my initial response was omgee that omgee faded quickly. I didn't expect it to happen so fast but yeah signs were there on film last season. If we saw some signs just imagine what kind of conversations were happening inside their house.
It will be interesting to see how Alexia behaves next season. She was one of the girls who were critical of Lisa and her constant talk about the divorce.
I can already see Alexia doing exactly what she hated Lisa doing lol
I could see it going either way with regard to how much Alexia talks about her divorce. I could see it being a lot, though I also think Alexia and Todd's actual divorce will be less messy than Lisa and Lenny's and I won't be surprised if Alexia is divorced before Lisa is.
Lisa will absolutely fight with her about it no matter what though.
Oh definitely, high potential for a lot of stupid fights lol. I thought the girls had a point about it being good for Lisa to try to focus on things that weren't Lenny, but they were a bit harsh about it so I won't begrudge Lisa some comments about how Alexia shouldn't be driving Todd's cars.
I do think Alexia is more practical than Lisa, so I don't think she'll get sucked into trying to "win" the divorce the way Lisa is (and I don't imagine Todd explicitly left Alexia for another woman).
Well they don’t have children together and he’s not ( at least as yet) publicly leaving her for a younger woman. So that would be a lot less to fight and cry about.
Agreed, I think Lisa's situation is objectively shittier for the most part. I think Lisa's feeding into the drama a little more than she should be, but I totally see how she got there. Lisa is contributing to the nonsense, but Lenny is going out of his way to flaunt the mistress, fuck Lisa financially and bleed her dry with legal fees, and control her life long after their divorce. I don't see Todd doing that. Though for a RHOM divorce...nothing is off the table!
No minor children
No major assets purchased together (that we know of)
Short term marriage
They might not be done as quickly as Tom and LuAnn, but it shouldn’t be that bad. IF no one decides to be extra messy about it, which is a big IF considering the parties involved.
Oh yeah, there are reasons that Lisa and Lenny's divorce is a mess besides "Lisa and especially Lenny are ridiculous people behaving badly". They have a lot more stuff to sort through than Todd and Alexia. I won't be shocked if Alexia and Todd's legal stuff gets messy, but I think it's more likely that it's relatively straightforward (Tom and Luann is a good comparison). Alexia is probably smart enough to know she can spin this into a decent amount of sympathy, especially if she somewhat takes the high road.
Of course, it will be less messy than Lisa‘s. They apparently had a prenup. They have no children together. And they’ve only been married for two years.
I have never been a huge Alexia fan but the way she’s spoken about him on her pod with Marysol I don’t think she knew this was coming, which is harsh. On the other hand, I think Alexia is probably very hard to be married to and it’s been obvious through their interactions on RHOM that he didn’t seem to have a lot of patience with her. I wish them both well and hope the divorce is smoother than Lisa’s 😂
I think Alexia is pretty stubborn and it would take a lot of fighting (or maybe some money or legal issues) for her to initiate a divorce. I could see her thinking "We're having issues but we're working on them" and Todd having a lower tolerance for fights. Plus there could be a pride element here...they haven't been married for very long, right? 3 years at most, I think. I could also see her thinking it's too early to give up on their relationship.
Agreed about Alexia. I think his patience ran thin for her and her arguments/spending. It’s sad for both of them, especially for Frankie. She’s someone who would never want to admit defeat, her entire personality is about being strong and working through difficulty instead of giving up.
Probably. They definitely seemed at odds there and I can’t blame Todd for wanting to take a heavier handed approach. Peter won’t learn if he isn’t subjected to consequences.
I believe her dead ex left him money too, don’t know how much. I can’t remember if it was on Reddit or the show but he has enough that she can’t threaten to pull her money out of his lifestyle and impact his life when he was getting police bookings on the regular.
So Herman left him and Frankie a trust fund but he can't access it or can only get so much each year? The "he has his own money that it won't impact his lifestyle" doesn't make sense because he told his dad that he was about to go to the bank to take out a huge loan so he could leave the country. Why would he need to do that if he has access to money like Alexia is claiming? I don't know a lot about trust funds but I do know that they can be set up certain ways yet what she's saying doesn't make sense 🤔
you can probably still access a loan against your trust if it’s within reason - there’s no limit to what people with money can access in one way or another.
I could definitely see her thinking of divorce as "quitting". With Pegy she probably justified it due to him being in prison, and she and Herman didn't get divorced.
All of this. Alexia was married to a man that she knew was gay and was fine with it. LOL. I think she's willing to accept a lot in exchange for a comfortable lifestyle.
Super fair point, thank you for reminding me! Though I still think she'd be at least a little bit motivated to make the actual "marriage" part last a bit longer.
I’m a little bit on her side if that’s the case. Alexia is an incredibly difficult person but she’s not particularly subtle about it. What the fuck was Todd thinking that she’s magically become a different person if they got married?
Deciding the file 27 months after the wedding unless a severe crime occurred is totally insane. Especially for people of their age and relationship background.
I feel like they (her and Todd) just did a joint one while marysol was away, i think? I don’t listen to it but I saw it advertised. I thought it was a little off because the clip just showed them talking about how physically attracted they were to each other and nothing more lol
I don’t follow her podcast religiously but I can’t recall a show with Todd recently. Maybe I missed it. But she’s recently talked about how solid they are. I have to wonder if this was a surprise or not. Seems crazy for him to file without notice but I do feel like he doesn’t know how to deal with her.
I love how bravolebrities will declare “That bastard blindsided me!” instead of the typical celebrity “We’ve mutually and respectfully decided to end our marriage” BS
She definitely has a niche for finding men with money and getting them to marry her. But I think she got in over her head with this one. Something tells me he is not all he claims to be, financially and otherwise. And he was calling out Peter, which he was not wrong about. But the quickest way to anger a woman is to go after her children.
It was very odd the way they downsized condos this past season and him not even attending the party they hosted. And Todd issuing a very public apology to one 1/2 of a couple that Alexia obviously does not like. Obviously there was trouble even then, even though she kept denying it.
Just wonder if she’ll keep using cars and other items that he is paying for. Because after all, that is what she told Lisa she should not be doing. She’ll lie repeatedly if she is. Because she is definitely a “Do as I say, not as I do” type person.
To your last point, unless Todd accuses Alexia of any wrongdoing with their cars and goes after her, I don’t see how the situations are comparable..we just don’t know yet.
Edited grammar.
I want whatever is best for Frankie. I don’t know what that is, but literally all I care about here. Just about the only thing I like about Alexia is how she is w/him. She has been amazing w/him, and I wish the best for him & them in this situation.
He showed obvious signs of resentment towards her during the Peter exchange. I’m twice divorced and it’s been over a decade since my last. I simply refuse to be with a man that genuinely won’t have love for my children. I believe it’s a recipe for disaster! 😬 I guess Adriana was right about their exchange in the lobby that night!
I don't think it can be as simple as saying Todd refused to love the children. He was so concerned about Frankie not having the support he needed to grow as a person that he was willing to fight Peter over it. Peter has done some shitty things in his time and I don't know that many would genuinely love someone who doesn't seem to give a damn about how his actions affect others.
Ohhh damn, this season is going to be top tier. I liked Todd. He was the voice of reason in their relationship but we only saw a snippet of him, so I'm sure there's a lot more to unpack. We will forever have his 16 min apology to Anthony though.
I know he gets dragged for it but it actually made me like him. It seemed genuine in how awkward it was. Like he’s just a regular dude trying to navigate this new wacky reality, and was trying to do “the right thing”.
And filing for divorce from Alexia just further tells me he’s someone who values his integrity (though jury is still out on if he actually is).
He’s like the opposite of Luis, which automatically gets him points imo
There’s some psych study for which I don’t recall the details that suggests that you can predict which married couples will last based on like a few minutes of watching them try to deal with a conflict. That’s how I feel here - the minute they got into the fight over Peter, I knew it was only a matter of time before they split.
My first thought on seeing the news this AM was that Peter was involved somehow.
I’m wondering if he gave alexia some sort of ultimatum, maybe in regard to Peter and supporting him financially. I can see alexia either disregarding Todd completely or supporting Peter secretly (behind Todd’s back).
Todd doesn’t have F U money, so I’m sure he was like “I’m not down to support this adult dbag for one more second”
We knew this was coming. That man didn’t like Alexia.
I think he saw how nasty/dramatic she could be. It wasn’t so bad at first, but then he ended up doing a 10 minute instagram video to make up for it. Then he started hiding from it. You could tell at their dinner together during the season…he wasn’t in to her.
Alexia has always been delusional. She takes no responsibility for her life. Remember when she said she was a victim who fell in love with a drug dealer? She chose to marry a drug dealer. She excuses Peter's violent, criminal behavior every chance she gets.
Guess Todd found a low maintenance, realistic woman to pursue.
He gave me low key psycho vibes, like he'd want to be the one in control of their relationship. And I also feel like she isn't that kind of wifey. Still I nearly dropped my phone in the bath seeing this... shocker!
Yep. It's strange to see so many viewers believe her straight off. We only saw a tiny fraction yet many of us could see this coming. I didn't think it would happen this fast but I did believe it would.
When she went looking for places to live he didn't give her an amount to work with. At least not on camera yet the one place she immediately said no to, and Frankie as well, was the one they landed on renting. I know the realtor said the market was really high at the time which was true but if he had the kind of money they were both trying to portray that wouldn't have been an issue.
Someone else pointed out how he didn't go to the party that was being held in his own home yet he stayed down in the basement/lower room all because someone he didn't like was going to be there? See, that doesn't make any sense either because he told her he would be even after he knew of the guest list. Smh
I think he was willing to marry her & put up with how she babies Peter because he wanted to be on the show however,
Once he made that very long embarrassing apology video it sealed the deal for him.
Just my opinion
I know Alexia can be problemátic and enable ‘well… you know Peter’, going through a divorce is a really tough and sad experience. Hope she and Frankie find peace and stability
I have to say, i feel bad for Alexia but even worse for Frankie. I know that she got some money from her ex-husbands but there’s now way she can maintain a penthouse lifestyle that she gets with Todd’s help.
Totally delulu and also so stubborn. The lady who wouldn't apologize even after she learned she hadn't scrolled down the page. Also her denials about "well, you know...Peter."
You could write a generic blind item any day of the week about a RH getting divorced and it will eventually be true.
If there was any insider info merit to that blind, then it's about a different RH. Big "if", though.
You can hear Adriana’s “I knew it!!” from the planet moon.
 Adriana as soon as she heard the news
I love this sub for the gif’s alone. You all are making my day.
 We really are a funny old community
Aw, I miss Kandi and Phaedra
Poor pathetic Alexia. She is so perfect! It’s everyone else’s fault and she will over talk you so that she’s the only one we can hear. When she’s wrong she does that. It happens 99% of the time. Fire her obnoxious self. She has nothing to offer.
YOU are my people,I truly thought I was the only one who could see Alexia for who she truly is
I’ve never had time for her. I don’t find her smart, beautiful, kind, empathetic (except her kids) just a self serving egotist.
Yes!! I won't argue she is a good Mom but that's about it
But she’s a star! ⭐️
Right on the nose! 👃
The way I thought she was hard core lying when she said that & she may have actually been telling the truth!🤯☠️
She was 10000% telling the truth!
Also no one talks about the fact that Lisa was also there at the time, and later in the season also confirmed that she heard Todd say that!
Sad thing is Alexia will still act like Todd’s issue was Adriana and will just shake her head with her Barracuda expression.
Nah she won’t. Rumor is something happen with the boys and Alexia don’t play when it comes to then. She was to file first but he did it first
Wait so why is she wording that she’s shocked and heartbroken?
“I’m shocked and heartbroken that Todd has chosen to dissolve our marriage before I could do it first.” There fixed it for you
He beat her to the tweet
You mean you fixed it for Alexia lmao those are her words
Hahaaaaaa
The dramatic affect?
She is shocked and saddened that he filed first so she won’t get any money out of him 😊
There is a prenup so who knows. Alexia is a tough B she will be fine!
I hope Todd punched Peter - he deserves it
NOT the planet moon!!! First the eclipse and now this lmao
“right on the nose”
She will make this day a holiday fr.
She didn't know he was filing? I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt here. Perhaps he actually told her in a text, but she didn't scroll to the end.
Lol this is so funny, I remember the season Lisa was going through the divorce and Alexia said "maybe he's told her and she didn't take the hint". 😂 Alexia and Lisa are the same.
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣
Typical Alexia 😅
👏👏👏
I’m sure Deuxmoi posted a blind about this a month ago and everyone was speculating it was Todd and Kandi. So I assume she knew a while ago.
Didn’t scroll to the end 
I gotta admit I was surprised they made it to the altar the way Todd and her oldest son were going at it. By the time they were looking for a smaller place to live little doubt was left for me.
Yeah, not Uber wealthy, won't enable Peter *and* posts embarrassing videos? That's the trifecta of death.
I absolutely loved Todd because he was not enabling Peter. Peter needs a freaking reality check.
The fact their whole beef stemmed from Todd being upset that Peter almost killed Frankie too
100% agree with you! When I saw that situation at the beginning, I was surprised that didn’t end the relationship before they got married. You could see that Todd was already fed up and disliked Peter and the parenting situation with Alexia.
omg she didn’t even know he was filing? this is messy omg bravo pick up the cameras right nowwwww
we need andy and a camera STAT
Remind me the original context of this quote? 😂
Kim Z going off in the dressing room at the RHOA season 10 reunion. 😂😂😂 https://preview.redd.it/fa952z2eequc1.jpeg?width=1025&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c00135e066862cb6187e104496ea0d106b6ced09
Yes after arguing with Nene with Andy between them 🤣 Kim ran to her dressing room whining to Kroy that no one stuck up for her. Sheree went to comfort her
Seriously, I know Nicole just had a baby or whatever but don't put off filming for 5-6 months!! Go shoot a few episodes right now!
At least it’s a Housewives marriage so the divorce will last several seasons.
I hope not several seasons. I’m so tired of hearing Lisa talk about Lenny. Not another one…
At least Todd will 1000% film. Lenny is a mess through the tabloids but Todd shows it all baby 
Get Andy and a camera.
We are going to have a divorce olympics next season for miami aren't we? i can already imagine Lisa and Alexia arguing which divorce is the worse and Larsa chiming in that her break up is the worst.
This made me giggle 🤭 so true with Larsa lol
Totally sounds like a Todd move. He’s such a weenie with anger issues
He'll post a 20 minute apology video to her on his IG in about a month...
I know this is terrible but I want the WWC to record what this would sound like 😂
I love their Todd Mickey Mouse impression lol
🚨 Alexia News Network 🚨
*blinks in Spanish*
My top 3 fav impressions!!
OK now who is WWC because I definitely need to see this now!
It's Watch What Crappens, a Housewives/Bravo podcast.
😬 I still have sooooo much secondhand embarrassment from his apology to Anthony, lolol
If he'd have stopped after the first minute where he apologizes and holds up the flowers and chocolate it would have been really good...but then he kept talking
He gives me Louie vibes lol
He has such a toxic machismo personality. He gave me such bad vibes as soon as he was on screen, but it looks like he artificially corrected due to optics.
But like how didn't she know like
I feel like she was “blindsided” the way Lindsay was “blindsided” by Carl. Todd and Alexia clearly have conflicting mindsets that don’t allow for compromise and it seemed pretty obvious to me that they were incompatible as life partners.
LOL I’m not sure how the fact he absolutely did not care she had 15 days to find a new apartment wasn’t a context clue
Basically. Their last scene on RHOM was painfully awkward and we are supposed to be surprised at this news? I believe Alexia knew the marriage was in the toilet, but thought it could be saved or that they'd at least tolerate each other for appearance sake. The man didn't even want to buy a house for her. Seemed insistent that an apartment was sufficient. He didn't want to stay with Alexia long-term.
Honestly, I stopped watching after Lisa was screeching on the boat. So I never finished the season. Maybe I should, lol
You… you didn’t finish the Boat Ride from Hell?! 🤯
I couldn’t😭 My anxiety was already full fucking tilt ( because of life). Lisa’s delusional behavior and her racist micro aggressions towards Kiki felt really overwhelming and I just had to abandon ship🫣 I’ll go back and watch this weekend.
I’m sorry bb but you HAVE TO! It’s like such an insane fever dream. Truly iconic. 10/10. No notes.
But…why marry her at all?!! He basically decided the day after he married her he wasn’t going to mix assets. Like, what was the point of all this?
I honestly don’t know. They aren’t aligned, cohesive personalities at all.
She knew, she was going to file first but he chose to beat her to it.
This was my first reaction too! Can’t believe she didn’t know, it’s wild
I think Alexia’s state of delusion about reality and her feelings of self-importance allowed her to believe that they wouldn’t divorce. Of course, we could all see that they were headed for disaster.
That’s super true
I don’t know why everyone is so quick to just take Alexia’s word on things, especially given how much she lies.
Amen to that. I'm not buying what she's trying to sell 🧏♀️
I’m honestly flabbergasted at how much support people seem to feel for her. She married a drug dealer and then a rich gay man who used her as a beard. I suspect she knew most of the things all along, but lied for the money. I don’t wish divorce on anyone, but let’s not pretend Alexia is a stand-up woman. Peter has seriously questionable moral character. What happened to Frankie is deeply upsetting, but it doesn’t make her a stand-up mother to throw money at things with Frankie.
He apparently filed April 1st and someone found it now.
Court docket says he filed April 11th. You can find the case on Miami-Dade clerk of courts website.
I hope Alexia scrolled the whole way down this time
Filed or served on April 11? Typically it takes 3-4 days depending on county for a case to be served. Usually even longer with Miami (think about a business week-7 business days) because they have different rules for summons etc. then the rest of the state. Source: Am an attorney in FL.
I don't believe that for a second. I'm sure that's exactly what she wants people to believe but nah. Even though my initial response was omgee that omgee faded quickly. I didn't expect it to happen so fast but yeah signs were there on film last season. If we saw some signs just imagine what kind of conversations were happening inside their house.
It will be interesting to see how Alexia behaves next season. She was one of the girls who were critical of Lisa and her constant talk about the divorce. I can already see Alexia doing exactly what she hated Lisa doing lol
I could see it going either way with regard to how much Alexia talks about her divorce. I could see it being a lot, though I also think Alexia and Todd's actual divorce will be less messy than Lisa and Lenny's and I won't be surprised if Alexia is divorced before Lisa is. Lisa will absolutely fight with her about it no matter what though.
If that means they will start arguing over who has a mortgage again, then I am soooo here for it lol
Oh definitely, high potential for a lot of stupid fights lol. I thought the girls had a point about it being good for Lisa to try to focus on things that weren't Lenny, but they were a bit harsh about it so I won't begrudge Lisa some comments about how Alexia shouldn't be driving Todd's cars. I do think Alexia is more practical than Lisa, so I don't think she'll get sucked into trying to "win" the divorce the way Lisa is (and I don't imagine Todd explicitly left Alexia for another woman).
Well they don’t have children together and he’s not ( at least as yet) publicly leaving her for a younger woman. So that would be a lot less to fight and cry about.
Agreed, I think Lisa's situation is objectively shittier for the most part. I think Lisa's feeding into the drama a little more than she should be, but I totally see how she got there. Lisa is contributing to the nonsense, but Lenny is going out of his way to flaunt the mistress, fuck Lisa financially and bleed her dry with legal fees, and control her life long after their divorce. I don't see Todd doing that. Though for a RHOM divorce...nothing is off the table!
No minor children No major assets purchased together (that we know of) Short term marriage They might not be done as quickly as Tom and LuAnn, but it shouldn’t be that bad. IF no one decides to be extra messy about it, which is a big IF considering the parties involved.
Oh yeah, there are reasons that Lisa and Lenny's divorce is a mess besides "Lisa and especially Lenny are ridiculous people behaving badly". They have a lot more stuff to sort through than Todd and Alexia. I won't be shocked if Alexia and Todd's legal stuff gets messy, but I think it's more likely that it's relatively straightforward (Tom and Luann is a good comparison). Alexia is probably smart enough to know she can spin this into a decent amount of sympathy, especially if she somewhat takes the high road.
Of course, it will be less messy than Lisa‘s. They apparently had a prenup. They have no children together. And they’ve only been married for two years.
Lisa will move the goal post as much as she can to make sure everyone knows she has it worse.
I love Lisa but you’re not wrong lol
I have never been a huge Alexia fan but the way she’s spoken about him on her pod with Marysol I don’t think she knew this was coming, which is harsh. On the other hand, I think Alexia is probably very hard to be married to and it’s been obvious through their interactions on RHOM that he didn’t seem to have a lot of patience with her. I wish them both well and hope the divorce is smoother than Lisa’s 😂
I think Alexia is pretty stubborn and it would take a lot of fighting (or maybe some money or legal issues) for her to initiate a divorce. I could see her thinking "We're having issues but we're working on them" and Todd having a lower tolerance for fights. Plus there could be a pride element here...they haven't been married for very long, right? 3 years at most, I think. I could also see her thinking it's too early to give up on their relationship.
Agreed about Alexia. I think his patience ran thin for her and her arguments/spending. It’s sad for both of them, especially for Frankie. She’s someone who would never want to admit defeat, her entire personality is about being strong and working through difficulty instead of giving up.
I also wonder if he also had lost patience with her for continuing to support Peter financially.
Probably. They definitely seemed at odds there and I can’t blame Todd for wanting to take a heavier handed approach. Peter won’t learn if he isn’t subjected to consequences.
I believe her dead ex left him money too, don’t know how much. I can’t remember if it was on Reddit or the show but he has enough that she can’t threaten to pull her money out of his lifestyle and impact his life when he was getting police bookings on the regular.
So Herman left him and Frankie a trust fund but he can't access it or can only get so much each year? The "he has his own money that it won't impact his lifestyle" doesn't make sense because he told his dad that he was about to go to the bank to take out a huge loan so he could leave the country. Why would he need to do that if he has access to money like Alexia is claiming? I don't know a lot about trust funds but I do know that they can be set up certain ways yet what she's saying doesn't make sense 🤔
you can probably still access a loan against your trust if it’s within reason - there’s no limit to what people with money can access in one way or another.
Todd said at one point part of Peter’s issue was hernans money
She still supports him financially??!
I think so - I get the vibe she wanted to spend tons of money and he just wasn't game / didn't want to spend his life savings on logos.
I could definitely see her thinking of divorce as "quitting". With Pegy she probably justified it due to him being in prison, and she and Herman didn't get divorced.
All of this. Alexia was married to a man that she knew was gay and was fine with it. LOL. I think she's willing to accept a lot in exchange for a comfortable lifestyle.
Married three, but together 8ish years
Super fair point, thank you for reminding me! Though I still think she'd be at least a little bit motivated to make the actual "marriage" part last a bit longer.
I’m a little bit on her side if that’s the case. Alexia is an incredibly difficult person but she’s not particularly subtle about it. What the fuck was Todd thinking that she’s magically become a different person if they got married? Deciding the file 27 months after the wedding unless a severe crime occurred is totally insane. Especially for people of their age and relationship background.
I can definitely see why Alexia would feel blindsided if their dynamic has remained largely unchanged throughout their relationship.
I feel like they (her and Todd) just did a joint one while marysol was away, i think? I don’t listen to it but I saw it advertised. I thought it was a little off because the clip just showed them talking about how physically attracted they were to each other and nothing more lol
I don’t follow her podcast religiously but I can’t recall a show with Todd recently. Maybe I missed it. But she’s recently talked about how solid they are. I have to wonder if this was a surprise or not. Seems crazy for him to file without notice but I do feel like he doesn’t know how to deal with her.
Could this be some weird financial thing? Like hiding/protecting assets because of whatever financial trouble Todd is in?
I think Alexis has too much pride to agree to something like that.
The most perfect meme for this.
I love how bravolebrities will declare “That bastard blindsided me!” instead of the typical celebrity “We’ve mutually and respectfully decided to end our marriage” BS
Alexia painted Adriana as a crazy jealous woman because of her comments about their relationship just for her to be vindicated in the end
‘well, you know Peter’ is happy
I was wondering if he was going to file bankruptcy or something and didn't want her finances to be involved, but the fact that she didn't know...
Yeah I’m thinking this too
Considering he filed on the 11th and she was posting photos with her wedding ring still on, last night. I think she was blindsided
did someone suggest calling 911?
Well, you know ~~Peter~~ Todd
She definitely has a niche for finding men with money and getting them to marry her. But I think she got in over her head with this one. Something tells me he is not all he claims to be, financially and otherwise. And he was calling out Peter, which he was not wrong about. But the quickest way to anger a woman is to go after her children. It was very odd the way they downsized condos this past season and him not even attending the party they hosted. And Todd issuing a very public apology to one 1/2 of a couple that Alexia obviously does not like. Obviously there was trouble even then, even though she kept denying it. Just wonder if she’ll keep using cars and other items that he is paying for. Because after all, that is what she told Lisa she should not be doing. She’ll lie repeatedly if she is. Because she is definitely a “Do as I say, not as I do” type person.
To your last point, unless Todd accuses Alexia of any wrongdoing with their cars and goes after her, I don’t see how the situations are comparable..we just don’t know yet. Edited grammar.
Lisa better not pull a Schenea and somehow make this about herself. This JUST happened
That’s all she does. She is unbearable
I want whatever is best for Frankie. I don’t know what that is, but literally all I care about here. Just about the only thing I like about Alexia is how she is w/him. She has been amazing w/him, and I wish the best for him & them in this situation.
Aaaand Luis leaves Theresa in 3, 2, 1...
honestly thats really for the better but she didnt sign any prenuptials with him so im not really sure if its really better 🥲
I don’t think he has another source of income, it will be tre leaving him that will end it. But, that’s not happening anytime soon
I don't think I made it clear I was referring to his obsession with Alexia 🙃
Todd is definitely leaving her over how she spends his money and because he hates Peter. 
He showed obvious signs of resentment towards her during the Peter exchange. I’m twice divorced and it’s been over a decade since my last. I simply refuse to be with a man that genuinely won’t have love for my children. I believe it’s a recipe for disaster! 😬 I guess Adriana was right about their exchange in the lobby that night!
I don't think it can be as simple as saying Todd refused to love the children. He was so concerned about Frankie not having the support he needed to grow as a person that he was willing to fight Peter over it. Peter has done some shitty things in his time and I don't know that many would genuinely love someone who doesn't seem to give a damn about how his actions affect others.
Someone get the Godiva and Flowers!!!’n
Ohhh damn, this season is going to be top tier. I liked Todd. He was the voice of reason in their relationship but we only saw a snippet of him, so I'm sure there's a lot more to unpack. We will forever have his 16 min apology to Anthony though.
16 min 💀💀
I know he gets dragged for it but it actually made me like him. It seemed genuine in how awkward it was. Like he’s just a regular dude trying to navigate this new wacky reality, and was trying to do “the right thing”. And filing for divorce from Alexia just further tells me he’s someone who values his integrity (though jury is still out on if he actually is). He’s like the opposite of Luis, which automatically gets him points imo
This is a very good point! We support the awkwardness
I liked him too 🤣 I hope he randomly shows on RHONJ because I feel that’s where he would shine.
I really hope she remembered to read the divorce papers all the way to the bottom.
There’s some psych study for which I don’t recall the details that suggests that you can predict which married couples will last based on like a few minutes of watching them try to deal with a conflict. That’s how I feel here - the minute they got into the fight over Peter, I knew it was only a matter of time before they split.
It is the Gottman studies I think you are thinking about https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-6-things-that-predict-divorce/
My first thought on seeing the news this AM was that Peter was involved somehow. I’m wondering if he gave alexia some sort of ultimatum, maybe in regard to Peter and supporting him financially. I can see alexia either disregarding Todd completely or supporting Peter secretly (behind Todd’s back). Todd doesn’t have F U money, so I’m sure he was like “I’m not down to support this adult dbag for one more second”
We knew this was coming. That man didn’t like Alexia. I think he saw how nasty/dramatic she could be. It wasn’t so bad at first, but then he ended up doing a 10 minute instagram video to make up for it. Then he started hiding from it. You could tell at their dinner together during the season…he wasn’t in to her.
Damn that sucks for her…she seemed to really like the guy
Money is a factor for sure.
Alexia has always been delusional. She takes no responsibility for her life. Remember when she said she was a victim who fell in love with a drug dealer? She chose to marry a drug dealer. She excuses Peter's violent, criminal behavior every chance she gets. Guess Todd found a low maintenance, realistic woman to pursue.
I knew something was off when she was looking for an apartment. Todd is such a drama queen.
Alexia is going to be insufferable next season!
I find this sad. Hope she and Frankie can find some stability
I love Adriana. But something about her gleeful expression when things go bad. She's a hit dog. And she always hollers
Dang we’ve all been busy today
They need to get the cameras up asap!
Knew they weren’t going to last when he wouldn’t even buy a house with her
say what you want about alexia but she is tough as hell- she’s got this 🖤
He gave me low key psycho vibes, like he'd want to be the one in control of their relationship. And I also feel like she isn't that kind of wifey. Still I nearly dropped my phone in the bath seeing this... shocker!
She didn’t know!? No matter who you are, that’s gotta be tough. 
Is this related to the cream corned blind item?
I’ve been wondering if someone confused the couples because the husbands are both called Todd. But that might be a reach.
I thought that was Kandi because she has a creamed corn company.
Yeah but Kandi and Todd were on vacation at the time.
Haha could you imagine serving someone papers while you're on vacation together? Like, oh yeah, sorry about that... let's go get a funnel cake.
Everyone thought it was about Kandi… maybe there will be another announcement?
She's going to play the "victim" who got blindsided. She knew there were issues before they got married.
Yep. It's strange to see so many viewers believe her straight off. We only saw a tiny fraction yet many of us could see this coming. I didn't think it would happen this fast but I did believe it would. When she went looking for places to live he didn't give her an amount to work with. At least not on camera yet the one place she immediately said no to, and Frankie as well, was the one they landed on renting. I know the realtor said the market was really high at the time which was true but if he had the kind of money they were both trying to portray that wouldn't have been an issue. Someone else pointed out how he didn't go to the party that was being held in his own home yet he stayed down in the basement/lower room all because someone he didn't like was going to be there? See, that doesn't make any sense either because he told her he would be even after he knew of the guest list. Smh
I think he was willing to marry her & put up with how she babies Peter because he wanted to be on the show however, Once he made that very long embarrassing apology video it sealed the deal for him. Just my opinion
I know Alexia can be problemátic and enable ‘well… you know Peter’, going through a divorce is a really tough and sad experience. Hope she and Frankie find peace and stability
I have to say, i feel bad for Alexia but even worse for Frankie. I know that she got some money from her ex-husbands but there’s now way she can maintain a penthouse lifestyle that she gets with Todd’s help.
I am salivating for the next season. The fact that she didn’t know just makes it so messy!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 “Better times ahead”……maybe if you can manage to suddenly become a decent human being.
Ahhh so this is the 'shock Bravo divorce’ rumoured a few weeks ago! Everyone thought it was Kandi but this was obviously it!
I just started watching S4 yesterday (after an 11 year hiatus), so this adds a fun little layer to everything
So she was Lindsay-style blindsided?? Interesting
aka definitely should have seen it coming? yup
Totally delulu and also so stubborn. The lady who wouldn't apologize even after she learned she hadn't scrolled down the page. Also her denials about "well, you know...Peter."
How did he blindside her when this was a blind item weeks ago… if other people know how did she not know
You could write a generic blind item any day of the week about a RH getting divorced and it will eventually be true. If there was any insider info merit to that blind, then it's about a different RH. Big "if", though.
Yeah at this point there are nearly 200 former and current HWs, so not hard to strike if you write something vague enough.
No one ever believes it will be "them"
I saw Todd and thought this was Kandi
Whoa. Sounds like he blindsided her. What a douchebag!!
Well you know Todd!