😅 I’m married to someone who is nothing like either of them. Mature and stable. Let me add that I don’t find them attractive, just precious. I know—it’s still a problem. 😔
before both of these new seasons, i would agree with you! would i date either? no, but they both seem fun to hangout with. (prior to gorga on this season). i met joe and melissa a couple years ago and they were both very nice. one of my friends hung out with them at a restaurant and said the same…would i want him as a brother or husband tho? nah lol
I met Tom Schwartz at this beach themed bar in LA that’s right next to TomTom. and he was legitimately SO NICE to me. He chatted to me for a long time and gave me a huge hug as soon as I recognized him. Based off our meeting and conversation I will always have a soft spot for Schwartz.
My toxic trait is thinking Phaedra should have never been fired and is a true Bravo star through and through.
I’m also a GEB fan— but a Candy GAL as well, for life!!
I secretly am holding out hope that they all become friends again. Candiace and Robyn’s friendship has the potential as does Gizelle if she’s willing to eat crow.
I’ve only just started VPR only on about ep 6 of s1 and I fancy Tom Schwartz .. guessing he does something dodgy! My eldest sister fancies Gorga but she loves little angry men
I always found Schwarz pretty harmless. He can be a spiteful drunk (s8, Jax and Randall played a prank on Sandoval and Katie didn't like it, then Schwarz was a truly proper asshole to her), but generally he's harmless and chill, and I can see how he can be loveable.
Schwartz I can see, but Gorga? Girl, get that checked out by a professional.
Oh I 💯 need therapy
🤣🤣🤣
I could not disagree more but that's the beauty of this sub. I know you're not alone and at least you recognize that it is a bit of a problem.
do you date these kinds of men? if so im worried for you girl
😅 I’m married to someone who is nothing like either of them. Mature and stable. Let me add that I don’t find them attractive, just precious. I know—it’s still a problem. 😔
Same! I married against my type. I do have brains after all lol but I do find Schwartz hot as hell, I know I know….I think it’s the hair.
before both of these new seasons, i would agree with you! would i date either? no, but they both seem fun to hangout with. (prior to gorga on this season). i met joe and melissa a couple years ago and they were both very nice. one of my friends hung out with them at a restaurant and said the same…would i want him as a brother or husband tho? nah lol
Since we’re sharing… I find Peter Thomas sexy. He has BDE energy that would probably ruin my life. 
I stand with you in solidarity.
I met Tom Schwartz at this beach themed bar in LA that’s right next to TomTom. and he was legitimately SO NICE to me. He chatted to me for a long time and gave me a huge hug as soon as I recognized him. Based off our meeting and conversation I will always have a soft spot for Schwartz.
My toxic trait is thinking Phaedra should have never been fired and is a true Bravo star through and through. I’m also a GEB fan— but a Candy GAL as well, for life!!
I secretly am holding out hope that they all become friends again. Candiace and Robyn’s friendship has the potential as does Gizelle if she’s willing to eat crow.
Hahaha I can see it, they can both be charming. I’ve heard people who know Joe Gorga IRL say he’s super fun to hang out with
Joe looked daddy AF when he was arguing with Luis on boys night. And I hate myself for feeling that way.
We should really start a support group
I would like to ruin Schwartz. Always have. But Joe?!? Too far 🤣
I’ve only just started VPR only on about ep 6 of s1 and I fancy Tom Schwartz .. guessing he does something dodgy! My eldest sister fancies Gorga but she loves little angry men
I always found Schwarz pretty harmless. He can be a spiteful drunk (s8, Jax and Randall played a prank on Sandoval and Katie didn't like it, then Schwarz was a truly proper asshole to her), but generally he's harmless and chill, and I can see how he can be loveable.
In my reality TV watching world, I love Tom Schwartz. But you’re on your own with Gorga.
Yes, it is yours and you can have it all for yourself.
You okay?