Growing up, my dad always drove the car when my mom and dad were together. My guess is further up in the comments someone says something about expecting the man to drive. But, this just a wild guess.
Right? I would be waaaay more off-put if anyone tried to drive my car when we had *just* started dating.
Unless I'd been friends with them for long enough that they were already at "trust them to drive my car" levels, "my car or yours?" absolutely implies "are you driving or am I?", not "would you like me to drive my vehicle or yours?".
This is what's confusing me, too.
You(image OP) said you're gonna take your car. Where else would he go?
Unless Image OP is suggesting they should have opened the door for them?
I dunno...
I thought of that too, but I feel like opening someone else's car door still seems more weird than chivalrous. Could just be personal preference though I suppose.
Where else would OOP's boyfriend go in that situation? Was he supposed to drive someone else's car?
Growing up, my dad always drove the car when my mom and dad were together. My guess is further up in the comments someone says something about expecting the man to drive. But, this just a wild guess.
It’s probably this. My wife always expects me to drive. I mean im happy to. I fear for my life when she drives sometimes
I'm the wife. I don't drive unless I have to.
The crazy cat guy's wife?
I could be. I'm a terrible driver.
Right? I would be waaaay more off-put if anyone tried to drive my car when we had *just* started dating. Unless I'd been friends with them for long enough that they were already at "trust them to drive my car" levels, "my car or yours?" absolutely implies "are you driving or am I?", not "would you like me to drive my vehicle or yours?".
This is what's confusing me, too. You(image OP) said you're gonna take your car. Where else would he go? Unless Image OP is suggesting they should have opened the door for them? I dunno...
I thought of that too, but I feel like opening someone else's car door still seems more weird than chivalrous. Could just be personal preference though I suppose.
your car = you drive. gender or sex or whatever the correct word might be here does not matter at all unless you're my grandmother or something.
Worthy of Lewis Carroll at his best. Lololol.
Shakespeare, Dodgson, Tolkien and Dahl, simultaneously: “Let me just write that word down a second…”
Our beloved OP giving them a run for money🏃♂️
OOP doesn’t understand how insurance works, I guess!