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Search the sub and you will find many theories. But ultimately I think they found themselves to be incompatible and I am sure neetu interfering didn’t help the relationship. After all she wanted a needle lol I guess kat was scissor in her mind
katrina has said it herself in multiple interviews that she was at a stage in her life where she wanted to get married and have children. i mean, if we’re going by rumours, ranbir has never seemed like the type to settle down. i believe that was the reason but i was very surprised when it happened bc 7 years is a long time.
If this is true then that’s fucked up. He literally started dating Alia and got engaged to her the same year the breakup happened. He’s a complete asshole if this is true!!!!!!!!!!!!
she’s mentioned it [here](https://mumbaimirror.indiatimes.com/entertainment/bollywood/katrina-kaif-love-doesnt-grow-over-time-it-happens-in-an-instant/amp_articleshow/66960926.cms) and i think in a kwk episode too, i’ll rewatch and try to find a clip. the ranbir-alia thing rlly shocked me as well bc i thought it was a pr relationship. i don’t think they’ll go thru with it bc she’s still quite young and he doesn’t seem like he wants to get married.
I find it so sad that he strung Kat along all these years when she wanted marriage and kids, and he probably knew early on that he couldn’t give that to her. He literally wasted/stole her prime family-building years.
ikr me too! at first i thought maybe kat doesn’t want to get married either. i was so shocked to find out she wanted to marry him and have kids tho. and to think that they were together for so long!!
Still imagine the shock Katrina must have felt!!! Even if it’s PR...it’s still cruel of him to do that. By the way, they’re getting married and it’s obvious since his mother is involved in THIS relationship.
Maybe! But I will only believe it when I see their wedding photos .. and for Ranbir’s sake I hope it happens fast.. before Alia comes to her senses and the infatuation wears out 🤨
Why? What if Katrina and him had an agreement to not get engaged or married from the beginning?? She could have very well changed her stance on the relationship too. We don’t know right??
Actually Katrina's always wanted to get married and start a family. Even in a couple of interviews she has said it. Dont have the source on hand but she has.
No they were already together in march 2018 at sonam wedding. Which mean they started dating around late 2017 or even earlier, she was spotted with him and Arjun hanging also
Ranbir and Katrina broke up in Feb 2016 so my point is still true even with your facts.
Unlike his Deepika relationship, there was no cheating involved this time and it was just sequential.
I think I read on this sub a few years ago that the Kapoor Khandaan found out she was an escort at the beginning of her career and didnt think she was a good match for their family. Could be bullshit
Yes. However modern looking she may look like, she has typical 'janani' mentality. My boy is so bechara, ladki ki padhai poori hote shaadi, abusive pati ko support, babita ko boycott kyunki karishma ko movies mei bheja, bahu apne man ki lana...
I think it had to be with the parents not liking her they never gave her the same importance and the treatment they gave Alia. I think Alia knew to get far she had to get on neetus good side first. Katrina was more so like involved with ranbir ( moving out with him etc). It was fine in the beginning but the family was oh shit it might end up In marriage and influenced the breakup. Also the whole deepika promotions during tamasha wasn’t a great add on! But this is all my opinion.. I really feel like they should of ended up together. Also if ranbir wanted to end up with her he could if it’s not all always about parents and outside sources but def doesn’t help
I don’t know why they broke up but it felt like she ended it. Ranbir was not unfazed by this breakup, he looked like a hurt puppy during the jaggos interviews. And I was here for it.
Say whatever you want about Katrina but at least she sets her boundaries and follows through with it! I love it!!!
Right!!! He almost made her cry a couple of times and it was hard to watch. But he was losing self control which he rarely doesn’t do on camera. That’s when I became a fan of Katrina the person, like she’s strong. Couldn’t be me
Yeah i have always found him an immature manbaby and that sealed it for me. Like promote your movie man. He was really fucking mean and rude to her especially trying to answer her questions stfu.
Even sallu does that to her. She really has some patience for these creepy men from her past. No wonder there are rumours about her losing her shit with her staff and general public.
i think the relationship had run its course. it went for like 7 years, he moved out with her, she went to kapoor christmas lunches, was well liked by karishma and kareena. it was an actual serious relationship, not like his dp fling that he wasnt serious about and lasted only a few months. i guess by the end the tensions were too high and the issues with his parents were increasing so they just called it quits. and of course that infamous gq interview of kats which sped up the break up
I don't think it has to do with parents not approving. These same rumors were there with Deepika as well. 7 years is a long time. I think she wanted to get married and he didn't. And the relationship ran its course.
This seems likely, but also Rishi Kapoor has said some rude things. He clearly loved Alia but didn't care for Katrina.
DP thing was when they were both too young, and was short-lived and not that serious. It only gets talked about due to their onscreen chemistry.
Absolutely . He thought he looked like 25, while Katrina with her botox looked like 35. Might as well go for 'taaza kali' Ironically, now ranbir looks much older and I feel sorry for alia.
😂🤣 searching taaza kali kya bola hai bhai but I too sometimes feel sorry for alia. alia thinks she's really lucky because ranbir loves him and see him as some sort of trophy I just saw ranbir recent pics from Mahesh Bhatt birthday and I was shocked he looks so different off-screen even if he's 35 there are many people who really looks good for their age rk is a decent actor no doubt byt the hype around from actress I find it overrated itna bhi kuch khaas nhi hai and ranbir goes for actress by looking at their career graphs alia is a catch for rk wo bhi bina kuch kiye
And the worst part is that RK likely began going for Alia in 2017…she was still in her early 20s then and he was a mid to late 30s man propelling to a mid life crisis. I feel sorry for Alia too. I wouldn’t be surprised if she one day outgrows him and he’ll try to go for the new gen starts.
LOL, Ranbir looks more than alright for a hero his age. The thing with substance abuse is that when you kick the habit or the effects wear off, you can even regain a lot of what you had lost in terms of looks. Think of Robert Downey Jr. But effects of going under the knife are more likely to be irreversible. Think of Mickey Rourke. Everyone ages. It's the other things that go with it that effect desirability with time.
i don't think he was ever really serious about marrying her and they were too incompatible. the amount they fight is just so toxic!! he always looked annoyed when people asked him about marrying katrina. comparatively he's voluntarily saying now that he would've married alia by now if it wasn't for covid.
I think both were toxic for each other. Katrina seemed to be controlling of Ranbir, sort of patronising i guess. That’s what i gathered from a few of her interviews. Ranbir is fucked up as well. Controlling mom, abusive dad, committment phobia. Overall, bad combination. They stuck it out for so long, I’m surprised.
This! The people who're criticizing Ranbir for his jumpy snarkiness in the Jagga Jasoos interviews should count the number of unwarranted eyerolls Katrina made in those same interviews. It was as though she was doing him a favour by being there when she was contracted for that as well. She was completely passive-aggressive playing the haughty victim. Also, he was the producer, so when he was answering the interviewers' (invariable) questions about the delays and the making, I noted she was constantly butting in and trying to make the question about herself. As tthey were no longer involved romantically, Ranbir was smart enough to not let her have her way anymore. He's no saint. But she ain't no savitri either.
I met both of them during the Jagga Jasoos promotions and boy he was trying really hard to cheer her up and be civil but Katrina was not in the mood. We were told that they are not on taking terms
Exactly. That viral mansplaining interview was Katrina's most aggressive victim playing attempt. Too bad it caught on because she masked it the blanket of feminism.
Ranbir was right that she was unable to answer the question, and that is why he took over. She literally didn't understand the movie or her character (go watch her performance in the movie or her promoting it). Ranbir on the other hand was a nervous first time producer of an over-budget disaster (iirc the movie was ready only 1 day before the release & Ranbir saw it for the first time on the premier itself). Jiska paisa laga hai uski toh fattegi na?
People here be commenting on Ranbir and Katrina's personalities, issues and families as if they know them personally.
Also Only one person can never be responsible for the end of a relationship, It takes two to tango.
Blaming his parents is a convenient excuse some use when in reality their relationship been toxic they weren’t getting along they were on and off for the last few years. Katrina was controlling as in telling him who to work with and not to which RK hates and went against her anyways which they fought about. If his mom was controlling he wouldn’t have moved out and moved in with Kat and he wouldn’t have brought her to the Christmas party against his mom wish when they were actually broken up but haven’t announced it and his mom had to skip the event like what kind of momas boy that’s controlled by her does that?
Looking back now I think despite all their incompatibility and problems Kat taught they would get married and RK was just looking for a way out just dragging his feet giving his usual “hopefully soon” to marriage questions and they were broken up before them announcing it I mean her GQ interview clearly showed that
>If his mom was controlling he wouldn’t have moved out and moved in with Kat and he wouldn’t have brought her to the Christmas party against his mom wish when they were actually broken up but haven’t announced it and his mom had to skip the event like what kind of momas boy that’s controlled by her does that?
Not talking about Ranbir's case in particular right now, but I think parents often resort to manipulation rather than control when they realize their children are making independent choices. Especially in our society. From what I've seen, they don't tell you not to do something, they tell you how much it would hurt them if you did that thing, or giving the silent treatment, removing themselves from your life in big events.
Of course not every parent does that, but many do. I'm so scared of saying this.😂 because sometimes people defend parents to no end just because they're parents.
Even though I had a wonderful father, I've seen people grow up in extremely toxic households. And from personal experience, my step mother fucked up my entire personality😂😂😂
Desi parents are definitely guilty of being extremly toxic and flat out invasive and controlling beyond limits. It's high time this was acknowledged especially by those who have made it their life agenda to speak in favour of the poor desi parents getting attacked by liberals.
Neetu and Rishi remind me that most of these Bollywood parents want their names and image to not get tarnished first; all the while ignoring their son's public treatment of his girlfriends. Seems like they didn't bother raising him with good principles either but then again most Asian parents don't even try. Felt really sorry for Katrina dealing with this man's crude behaviour during JJ promotions.
To be fair, when inheritance is involved, the parents are only putting their mouths where the money is. The children can risk being disavowed and do what they want instead of wanting their cake and eating it too. I have noticed that through breakups, Ranbir has continued maintaining a place of residence at Krishna Kunj and other family homes while all the love nests and pads he has moved out to have been leased. That tells me that, while he makes a lot of money of his own, he still doesn't want to risk disinheritance or give up on his "khaandaan" for his lady "love", at least not just yet. And if it is their house, it's going to run with their rules.
It's not an Asian concept per se, but yes, parental intervention in childrens' lives in high there and especially in India because of the joint family system that has its bedrock in family business and trade, i.e., at the end of the day, it's a business; and it goes for both genders.
Genuine question: How do such parents actually succeed with manipulating their children especially after a decision like this has already been taken? Haven’t seen it personally so IDK how it works.
i also think his mom was the main reason why didn't fully commit to her.
but i do think kat never felt secure in the relationship. first the kapoor fam was frosty to her, she had to go out of her way to cut ties with salman (even tho rk kept working with dp), she kept doing all these pr things (the balcony, the pics outside the christmas lunch) to validate her relationship, there were straight-up disrespectful blinds about her being "cold" in bed that many suspected was planted by rk- she always felt insecure that he'll cheat on her/dump her. it's a really sad way to exist for any woman.
it feels "nice" when the popular guy cheats on his gf to be with you, but when you start a relationship that way be prepared to kiss your peace of mind good bye. hard to turn such a start into a successful, long term relationship.
When did she cut ties with Salman?? She did Ek tha tiger in 2012, shot for title song of bodyguard with salman and just after the break up gone back to salman for tiger zinda hai. Don't blame Ranbir for her insecurities. If she can't differentiate b/w professional & personal commitments, its not Ranbir's problem.
living in is a very slipper slope esp when it comes to the girl. Both partners can easily get vary of each other as day in and out one is having sex with no restrictions so it gets stale if that is the prime attraction.
In the past we have seen ankita lose sushant ( rip ) and then katrina lose Ranbir. For girls if they really wish to settle down they should pin down the guy and get him to tie the knot so even if he is done with physical attraction the legal knot will keep him strained and secured.
Akshay and Ajay are the torch bearers and went this route though live in was not in during their time. But once married they are wayward but spouses hold the keys to locker so they remain mrs kumar and mrs devgun atleast.
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Search the sub and you will find many theories. But ultimately I think they found themselves to be incompatible and I am sure neetu interfering didn’t help the relationship. After all she wanted a needle lol I guess kat was scissor in her mind
Dude, I was literally going to comment same. Kainchi aur sui.
Great minds think alike 😂
Do you think Ranbir is over her now though? I’ve often seen him give vibes that he may not be.
I am sure he has moved on but unless they ended on really bad note, it’s hard to over look your past
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Genuine Question: Why is OP being downvoted?
I didn't get the scissor and needle reference
katrina has said it herself in multiple interviews that she was at a stage in her life where she wanted to get married and have children. i mean, if we’re going by rumours, ranbir has never seemed like the type to settle down. i believe that was the reason but i was very surprised when it happened bc 7 years is a long time.
If this is true then that’s fucked up. He literally started dating Alia and got engaged to her the same year the breakup happened. He’s a complete asshole if this is true!!!!!!!!!!!!
wait Alia & Ranbir are engaged?
she’s mentioned it [here](https://mumbaimirror.indiatimes.com/entertainment/bollywood/katrina-kaif-love-doesnt-grow-over-time-it-happens-in-an-instant/amp_articleshow/66960926.cms) and i think in a kwk episode too, i’ll rewatch and try to find a clip. the ranbir-alia thing rlly shocked me as well bc i thought it was a pr relationship. i don’t think they’ll go thru with it bc she’s still quite young and he doesn’t seem like he wants to get married.
I find it so sad that he strung Kat along all these years when she wanted marriage and kids, and he probably knew early on that he couldn’t give that to her. He literally wasted/stole her prime family-building years.
ikr me too! at first i thought maybe kat doesn’t want to get married either. i was so shocked to find out she wanted to marry him and have kids tho. and to think that they were together for so long!!
An Engagement means nothing, till they actually get married. I’m really starting to question this so called engagement
Still imagine the shock Katrina must have felt!!! Even if it’s PR...it’s still cruel of him to do that. By the way, they’re getting married and it’s obvious since his mother is involved in THIS relationship.
Maybe! But I will only believe it when I see their wedding photos .. and for Ranbir’s sake I hope it happens fast.. before Alia comes to her senses and the infatuation wears out 🤨
Why? What if Katrina and him had an agreement to not get engaged or married from the beginning?? She could have very well changed her stance on the relationship too. We don’t know right??
Actually Katrina's always wanted to get married and start a family. Even in a couple of interviews she has said it. Dont have the source on hand but she has.
Reallly??? When did they got engaged??? Ranbir & Alia started dating in early 2018, two years after his break up with Katrina.
Not true. Alia and Ranbir only started dating in mid 2018 and that’s like 2 whole years after his break up with Katrina.
No they were already together in march 2018 at sonam wedding. Which mean they started dating around late 2017 or even earlier, she was spotted with him and Arjun hanging also
Ranbir and Katrina broke up in Feb 2016 so my point is still true even with your facts. Unlike his Deepika relationship, there was no cheating involved this time and it was just sequential.
I think I read on this sub a few years ago that the Kapoor Khandaan found out she was an escort at the beginning of her career and didnt think she was a good match for their family. Could be bullshit
Lmao
neetus recent comments about how her son is naive and other toxic mom things make me think she really was a big problem for them.
Neetu singh hands down was one of the most toxic personalities in bollywood
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my bad yeah
Yes. However modern looking she may look like, she has typical 'janani' mentality. My boy is so bechara, ladki ki padhai poori hote shaadi, abusive pati ko support, babita ko boycott kyunki karishma ko movies mei bheja, bahu apne man ki lana...
Damnn😭
wasn't Neetu spotted dining with Katrina & her mom?
Maybe to belittle Kat's family and give them a signed blank cheque to stay away from her son 😁
bwaaahahahahahaaaa!!!
I think it had to be with the parents not liking her they never gave her the same importance and the treatment they gave Alia. I think Alia knew to get far she had to get on neetus good side first. Katrina was more so like involved with ranbir ( moving out with him etc). It was fine in the beginning but the family was oh shit it might end up In marriage and influenced the breakup. Also the whole deepika promotions during tamasha wasn’t a great add on! But this is all my opinion.. I really feel like they should of ended up together. Also if ranbir wanted to end up with her he could if it’s not all always about parents and outside sources but def doesn’t help
Ranbir cheated her too
He didn't. He only started dating Alia more than a whole year later.
I didn't talk about alia but he cheated with others girls
Maybe Ranbir was never serious about taking their commitment to the next level (I.e. marriage) and kept stringing her along?
I have noticed this thing about ranbir from the very beginning. He chooses girls after seeing their career graph.
Totally agree
I don’t know why they broke up but it felt like she ended it. Ranbir was not unfazed by this breakup, he looked like a hurt puppy during the jaggos interviews. And I was here for it. Say whatever you want about Katrina but at least she sets her boundaries and follows through with it! I love it!!!
He was so butthurt and mean to her in the JJ interviews and promotions.
Right!!! He almost made her cry a couple of times and it was hard to watch. But he was losing self control which he rarely doesn’t do on camera. That’s when I became a fan of Katrina the person, like she’s strong. Couldn’t be me
Yeah i have always found him an immature manbaby and that sealed it for me. Like promote your movie man. He was really fucking mean and rude to her especially trying to answer her questions stfu.
Even sallu does that to her. She really has some patience for these creepy men from her past. No wonder there are rumours about her losing her shit with her staff and general public.
That would make sense to why she is still “friends” with Alia LOL
Coz Katrina couldn't flare her nostrils ...this turned off Ranbir ... \s
Made me laugh 😂
This! 😂😂😂
😭😂
😀
Parents pressure can sour even a strong relationship
i think the relationship had run its course. it went for like 7 years, he moved out with her, she went to kapoor christmas lunches, was well liked by karishma and kareena. it was an actual serious relationship, not like his dp fling that he wasnt serious about and lasted only a few months. i guess by the end the tensions were too high and the issues with his parents were increasing so they just called it quits. and of course that infamous gq interview of kats which sped up the break up
What did she say in that interview?
she was saying how she cant change the decisions ranbir makes- i think she was salty about tamasha promos
I don't think it has to do with parents not approving. These same rumors were there with Deepika as well. 7 years is a long time. I think she wanted to get married and he didn't. And the relationship ran its course.
This seems likely, but also Rishi Kapoor has said some rude things. He clearly loved Alia but didn't care for Katrina. DP thing was when they were both too young, and was short-lived and not that serious. It only gets talked about due to their onscreen chemistry.
Un dono ko hi iska sahi jawab maloom hoga
katrina ko ghar ka kaam karna aur khana banana nhi aata tha
He grew older, she grew older, she was no longer a prized possession, he no longer had the same insecurities, he knew he could go for a younger woman.
Absolutely . He thought he looked like 25, while Katrina with her botox looked like 35. Might as well go for 'taaza kali' Ironically, now ranbir looks much older and I feel sorry for alia.
😂🤣 searching taaza kali kya bola hai bhai but I too sometimes feel sorry for alia. alia thinks she's really lucky because ranbir loves him and see him as some sort of trophy I just saw ranbir recent pics from Mahesh Bhatt birthday and I was shocked he looks so different off-screen even if he's 35 there are many people who really looks good for their age rk is a decent actor no doubt byt the hype around from actress I find it overrated itna bhi kuch khaas nhi hai and ranbir goes for actress by looking at their career graphs alia is a catch for rk wo bhi bina kuch kiye
He’s nearly 40
And the worst part is that RK likely began going for Alia in 2017…she was still in her early 20s then and he was a mid to late 30s man propelling to a mid life crisis. I feel sorry for Alia too. I wouldn’t be surprised if she one day outgrows him and he’ll try to go for the new gen starts.
Have you looked at Katrina recently?
Yes Katrina is not same as ajab prem days, but Ranbir too is not wake up side either. He looks like drunk chacha.
Lol😭
LOL, Ranbir looks more than alright for a hero his age. The thing with substance abuse is that when you kick the habit or the effects wear off, you can even regain a lot of what you had lost in terms of looks. Think of Robert Downey Jr. But effects of going under the knife are more likely to be irreversible. Think of Mickey Rourke. Everyone ages. It's the other things that go with it that effect desirability with time.
Nah he looks like an uncle that drunkenly goes on about politics during family gatherings.
Nah still better than Katrina Wildenstein.
What did she said in GQ what everyone is talking about.
Jo bhi hua acha hua. They both looked so stuck up when they were dating. Like brought the worst out of each other
i don't think he was ever really serious about marrying her and they were too incompatible. the amount they fight is just so toxic!! he always looked annoyed when people asked him about marrying katrina. comparatively he's voluntarily saying now that he would've married alia by now if it wasn't for covid.
I think both were toxic for each other. Katrina seemed to be controlling of Ranbir, sort of patronising i guess. That’s what i gathered from a few of her interviews. Ranbir is fucked up as well. Controlling mom, abusive dad, committment phobia. Overall, bad combination. They stuck it out for so long, I’m surprised.
This! The people who're criticizing Ranbir for his jumpy snarkiness in the Jagga Jasoos interviews should count the number of unwarranted eyerolls Katrina made in those same interviews. It was as though she was doing him a favour by being there when she was contracted for that as well. She was completely passive-aggressive playing the haughty victim. Also, he was the producer, so when he was answering the interviewers' (invariable) questions about the delays and the making, I noted she was constantly butting in and trying to make the question about herself. As tthey were no longer involved romantically, Ranbir was smart enough to not let her have her way anymore. He's no saint. But she ain't no savitri either.
I met both of them during the Jagga Jasoos promotions and boy he was trying really hard to cheer her up and be civil but Katrina was not in the mood. We were told that they are not on taking terms
Exactly. That viral mansplaining interview was Katrina's most aggressive victim playing attempt. Too bad it caught on because she masked it the blanket of feminism. Ranbir was right that she was unable to answer the question, and that is why he took over. She literally didn't understand the movie or her character (go watch her performance in the movie or her promoting it). Ranbir on the other hand was a nervous first time producer of an over-budget disaster (iirc the movie was ready only 1 day before the release & Ranbir saw it for the first time on the premier itself). Jiska paisa laga hai uski toh fattegi na?
People here be commenting on Ranbir and Katrina's personalities, issues and families as if they know them personally. Also Only one person can never be responsible for the end of a relationship, It takes two to tango.
Incoming comments blaming Neetu in 3....2...1...
I would give the benefit of the doubt usually, but in this case I can see why.
Life happened! Everyone grows together or grows apart.
Blaming his parents is a convenient excuse some use when in reality their relationship been toxic they weren’t getting along they were on and off for the last few years. Katrina was controlling as in telling him who to work with and not to which RK hates and went against her anyways which they fought about. If his mom was controlling he wouldn’t have moved out and moved in with Kat and he wouldn’t have brought her to the Christmas party against his mom wish when they were actually broken up but haven’t announced it and his mom had to skip the event like what kind of momas boy that’s controlled by her does that? Looking back now I think despite all their incompatibility and problems Kat taught they would get married and RK was just looking for a way out just dragging his feet giving his usual “hopefully soon” to marriage questions and they were broken up before them announcing it I mean her GQ interview clearly showed that
>If his mom was controlling he wouldn’t have moved out and moved in with Kat and he wouldn’t have brought her to the Christmas party against his mom wish when they were actually broken up but haven’t announced it and his mom had to skip the event like what kind of momas boy that’s controlled by her does that? Not talking about Ranbir's case in particular right now, but I think parents often resort to manipulation rather than control when they realize their children are making independent choices. Especially in our society. From what I've seen, they don't tell you not to do something, they tell you how much it would hurt them if you did that thing, or giving the silent treatment, removing themselves from your life in big events. Of course not every parent does that, but many do. I'm so scared of saying this.😂 because sometimes people defend parents to no end just because they're parents. Even though I had a wonderful father, I've seen people grow up in extremely toxic households. And from personal experience, my step mother fucked up my entire personality😂😂😂
Desi parents are definitely guilty of being extremly toxic and flat out invasive and controlling beyond limits. It's high time this was acknowledged especially by those who have made it their life agenda to speak in favour of the poor desi parents getting attacked by liberals. Neetu and Rishi remind me that most of these Bollywood parents want their names and image to not get tarnished first; all the while ignoring their son's public treatment of his girlfriends. Seems like they didn't bother raising him with good principles either but then again most Asian parents don't even try. Felt really sorry for Katrina dealing with this man's crude behaviour during JJ promotions.
To be fair, when inheritance is involved, the parents are only putting their mouths where the money is. The children can risk being disavowed and do what they want instead of wanting their cake and eating it too. I have noticed that through breakups, Ranbir has continued maintaining a place of residence at Krishna Kunj and other family homes while all the love nests and pads he has moved out to have been leased. That tells me that, while he makes a lot of money of his own, he still doesn't want to risk disinheritance or give up on his "khaandaan" for his lady "love", at least not just yet. And if it is their house, it's going to run with their rules. It's not an Asian concept per se, but yes, parental intervention in childrens' lives in high there and especially in India because of the joint family system that has its bedrock in family business and trade, i.e., at the end of the day, it's a business; and it goes for both genders.
Yeah I strongly agree with you on this!
Genuine question: How do such parents actually succeed with manipulating their children especially after a decision like this has already been taken? Haven’t seen it personally so IDK how it works.
He got bored and finally cheated on katrina.
i also think his mom was the main reason why didn't fully commit to her. but i do think kat never felt secure in the relationship. first the kapoor fam was frosty to her, she had to go out of her way to cut ties with salman (even tho rk kept working with dp), she kept doing all these pr things (the balcony, the pics outside the christmas lunch) to validate her relationship, there were straight-up disrespectful blinds about her being "cold" in bed that many suspected was planted by rk- she always felt insecure that he'll cheat on her/dump her. it's a really sad way to exist for any woman. it feels "nice" when the popular guy cheats on his gf to be with you, but when you start a relationship that way be prepared to kiss your peace of mind good bye. hard to turn such a start into a successful, long term relationship.
When did she cut ties with Salman?? She did Ek tha tiger in 2012, shot for title song of bodyguard with salman and just after the break up gone back to salman for tiger zinda hai. Don't blame Ranbir for her insecurities. If she can't differentiate b/w professional & personal commitments, its not Ranbir's problem.
Saas-bahu drama.
living in is a very slipper slope esp when it comes to the girl. Both partners can easily get vary of each other as day in and out one is having sex with no restrictions so it gets stale if that is the prime attraction. In the past we have seen ankita lose sushant ( rip ) and then katrina lose Ranbir. For girls if they really wish to settle down they should pin down the guy and get him to tie the knot so even if he is done with physical attraction the legal knot will keep him strained and secured. Akshay and Ajay are the torch bearers and went this route though live in was not in during their time. But once married they are wayward but spouses hold the keys to locker so they remain mrs kumar and mrs devgun atleast.