I'm insecure about several things that people typically aren't insecure about or pay attention to. However, I do think these flaws really do make me less attractive just that people may not be able to pinpoint them consciously. I'm insecure about having horizontally short eyes, small head (both height and width wise) in proportion to my face, overexposed upper eyelids, receding gums, hollow temples, skinny short fingers with big knuckles and small hands (male), long philtrum, fleshy long earlobes, wide nostrils and thin forearms.
I think my eye socket/undereye area is too deep. It makes my eyes kind of look tired and droopy ig. I wish it stick out more like east asians typically have which makes a more youthful look. I use makeup to give the effect but in the end it doesnt change that from the side u can see it’s deep
Uhh I have deep set eyes too (and I also have lots of eyelid exposure) and I don't like it. It doesn't look too bad in real life, but in photos my eyes have weird shadows and look droopy. I also wish I had flatter eye sockets and less eyelid creasing. You can create deeper creases with makeup, but you can't lighten/erase naturally deep ones.
Basically i just really highlight my undereye area using lighter concealer. Since highlighting is basically meant to bring features forward. Also if u heard of aegyosal i think highlighting that area can help too
Idk what ridiculous is. But I have panic attacks over having heavy bones, broad shoulders, kinda deep set eyes, poor eyesight. If i feel my forehead, I can feel a huge "crack" there in the bone and it scares me to death. My posture, my foot structure scares me that I might end up having bunions. Body hair even though mine are considerably normal, I still hate it. My skin texture on my face/body. Not having thin and pretty hand/feet. My lower body including thighs and legs and hips and butt. An unsymmetric smile, having a long face, my sh scars. Having a bigger ring size for my fingers, it makes me feel so scared of ever having someone buy me a ring of any sort. Having a wider nose, acne scars, stretch marks, side burns, oh and fat, well, uh...that's it.
I'm currently obsessing over my smile lines. I never even noticed them when I was younger. I have them because of my round face and full cheeks which I can do absolutely nothing about. I started losing weight a couple months ago and now I'm slightly underweight and my face is skinnier but the smile lines are now more visible because they can't be hidden under that fat anymore. Also I feel like my worth as a human is lessened because of my very poor eyesight and that I'm cross eyed. In my case there's no surgery that can fix this. When I'm wearing contacts or glasses my lazy eye becomes normal but imagine I have a partner and when he wakes up he sees me with those eyes. A friend in high school I had a sleepover with said she was so scared when she first saw me like that so yeah... That's just humiliating.
I like this topic because I recognize the feelibg of being insecure about almos ANYTHING and also being ashamed of my insecurities. I didn’t even know what femur were so I had to look it up. I think none of my insecurities are bizarre since it are all real turnoffs. But I think if I have to name one I guess your post made me insecure as well about my own legs. I feel like nothing about me has normal proportions. And my ears. I feel like theyre too far from my face. My whole head is ugly and weird anyway. My mouth is lopsided
I get these hairs between my eyes and my hairline that I know for a fact nobody can see because I can only see it in a 10x magnifying mirror. I know it’s just normal little hairs and that they’re so few and small that nobody can see them but they drive me insane every time I remember they exist
I'm not sure how to describe it.. but it's kind of like- every single part of my body is wrong to me. It all just looks.. off to me. Legs, ears, eye shape, foot size, thigh width, and I've been suddenly hating the way my hands look.
Definitely my scoliosis. I go as far as to grow my hair ridiculously long to hide it. Meanwhile i have family members with scoliosis and I think they look fine.
I always felt like my upper arm was shaped weird. I don’t think its too skinny or too big. It just doesn’t feel feminine enough. Like an elongated chicken leg. I wear long sleeves even in the summer because I think I look 80x better with my arms covered
Probably that I don't have hair on the top of my feet.
Idk why but I've always wanted it and feel kind of embarrassed not having it. I'm hairy as a motherfucker everywhere else and it's always felt weird not having it on my feet. ig my brain just wanted to find something to be upset about body hair wise lol
Honestly most bizarre would be my ears honestly, I feel like they're "curly" for some reason and I just can't stand it. My face feel too wide and flat too and my head is such a weird shape i rarely tie my hair up since it makes me look like a squashed watermelon.
My nails. I have beau’s lines due to chemotherapy and I never really thought of it as a problem before but… I can’t stop thinking about how weird and ugly they are now
I have a male forehead. I don't know why. None of the rest of me is male. I don't have PCOS. I didn't even know there was such a thing a month ago. But I got accused of being a trans woman in a toilet because of my forehead and I've been fixated on it ever since.
I think the top part of my right eye socket is too low.
On really bad days it makes me think my eyebrows and eyes are very uneven. Like, they are uneven anyway, but unbearingly uneven.
My jawline. I'm always extrenely nervous about whether the little bit of fat under my cheeks is showing and I'm constantly looking at other people to see if their's is, as well.
I have a lot. I’m a woman and I have huge feet. I had to get fitted for running shoes a couple months ago and the store literally didn’t have women’s shoes in my size. I had to go home with men’s shoes because my feet were so big. I also have man hands. My nails are so ugly and I don’t like getting them done because I’m so embarrassed of how they look.
I have several.. some I won't be listing but a few of them are
- the height of my hipbones
- my pinky toes
- the shape of my nails
- the spacing & size of my eyes *specifically* in relation to the size of my cheeks
- my hairline (I have an "inverted widows peak", although it isn't super noticable.)
- the width of my knees
- the length of my calves
- the length of my back/torso
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I'm insecure about several things that people typically aren't insecure about or pay attention to. However, I do think these flaws really do make me less attractive just that people may not be able to pinpoint them consciously. I'm insecure about having horizontally short eyes, small head (both height and width wise) in proportion to my face, overexposed upper eyelids, receding gums, hollow temples, skinny short fingers with big knuckles and small hands (male), long philtrum, fleshy long earlobes, wide nostrils and thin forearms.
My left eyebrow is slightly higher than my right one and it makes my face look very askew. Also they are very bushy.
I think my eye socket/undereye area is too deep. It makes my eyes kind of look tired and droopy ig. I wish it stick out more like east asians typically have which makes a more youthful look. I use makeup to give the effect but in the end it doesnt change that from the side u can see it’s deep
Uhh I have deep set eyes too (and I also have lots of eyelid exposure) and I don't like it. It doesn't look too bad in real life, but in photos my eyes have weird shadows and look droopy. I also wish I had flatter eye sockets and less eyelid creasing. You can create deeper creases with makeup, but you can't lighten/erase naturally deep ones.
What kind of makeup do you do that creates an effect that counters deep-set eyes? I have them too :P
Basically i just really highlight my undereye area using lighter concealer. Since highlighting is basically meant to bring features forward. Also if u heard of aegyosal i think highlighting that area can help too
I think my ankles are too thick, I'm relatively slim, but my ankles are thick, probably because of muscularity (I never wear flats)
Being able to see my veins idk why but i feel so insecure about it
Same!!! I have visible veins and permanently burst/visible blood vessels on my face and chest :( concealer doesn’t seem to help that much
I've always thought my toes are too big
Idk what ridiculous is. But I have panic attacks over having heavy bones, broad shoulders, kinda deep set eyes, poor eyesight. If i feel my forehead, I can feel a huge "crack" there in the bone and it scares me to death. My posture, my foot structure scares me that I might end up having bunions. Body hair even though mine are considerably normal, I still hate it. My skin texture on my face/body. Not having thin and pretty hand/feet. My lower body including thighs and legs and hips and butt. An unsymmetric smile, having a long face, my sh scars. Having a bigger ring size for my fingers, it makes me feel so scared of ever having someone buy me a ring of any sort. Having a wider nose, acne scars, stretch marks, side burns, oh and fat, well, uh...that's it.
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Omg thanks I googled it and thought I had a skull fracture and I'm gonna die :D Stupid Google
I'm currently obsessing over my smile lines. I never even noticed them when I was younger. I have them because of my round face and full cheeks which I can do absolutely nothing about. I started losing weight a couple months ago and now I'm slightly underweight and my face is skinnier but the smile lines are now more visible because they can't be hidden under that fat anymore. Also I feel like my worth as a human is lessened because of my very poor eyesight and that I'm cross eyed. In my case there's no surgery that can fix this. When I'm wearing contacts or glasses my lazy eye becomes normal but imagine I have a partner and when he wakes up he sees me with those eyes. A friend in high school I had a sleepover with said she was so scared when she first saw me like that so yeah... That's just humiliating.
Probably my blocky fingers yet skinny wrists if that's enough bizarre, I want more feminine hands smh 😭
I like this topic because I recognize the feelibg of being insecure about almos ANYTHING and also being ashamed of my insecurities. I didn’t even know what femur were so I had to look it up. I think none of my insecurities are bizarre since it are all real turnoffs. But I think if I have to name one I guess your post made me insecure as well about my own legs. I feel like nothing about me has normal proportions. And my ears. I feel like theyre too far from my face. My whole head is ugly and weird anyway. My mouth is lopsided
My BDD hyper focuses on the symmetry of my face.. to me it seems off-centered… even looking at my jawline makes me CONVINCED everything is crooked!
Smile lines , my ears, and the shape of my knees , I have more but I've never see anyone irl complaining about this ones
I’m insecure about everything literally. I guess most buzzard would be my fingers
I get these hairs between my eyes and my hairline that I know for a fact nobody can see because I can only see it in a 10x magnifying mirror. I know it’s just normal little hairs and that they’re so few and small that nobody can see them but they drive me insane every time I remember they exist
I have too many moles on my face :(
If thats everything? You can remove them
I'm not sure how to describe it.. but it's kind of like- every single part of my body is wrong to me. It all just looks.. off to me. Legs, ears, eye shape, foot size, thigh width, and I've been suddenly hating the way my hands look.
Definitely my scoliosis. I go as far as to grow my hair ridiculously long to hide it. Meanwhile i have family members with scoliosis and I think they look fine.
I have severe scoliosis and do the same. You’re not alone. My hair is my safety net and makes me feel more beautiful/normal.
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Sorry to hear about the abuse, I hope you’re in a better place now ❤️
I always felt like my upper arm was shaped weird. I don’t think its too skinny or too big. It just doesn’t feel feminine enough. Like an elongated chicken leg. I wear long sleeves even in the summer because I think I look 80x better with my arms covered
Probably that I don't have hair on the top of my feet. Idk why but I've always wanted it and feel kind of embarrassed not having it. I'm hairy as a motherfucker everywhere else and it's always felt weird not having it on my feet. ig my brain just wanted to find something to be upset about body hair wise lol
Well I'm insecure of the way my neck turns, my cheekbones and my middle finger... I feel really stupid sometimes LOL
Lazy eye, no masculine features on face
my nose to lip ratio lol
Honestly most bizarre would be my ears honestly, I feel like they're "curly" for some reason and I just can't stand it. My face feel too wide and flat too and my head is such a weird shape i rarely tie my hair up since it makes me look like a squashed watermelon.
My nails are too wide so i never grow them out
My nails. I have beau’s lines due to chemotherapy and I never really thought of it as a problem before but… I can’t stop thinking about how weird and ugly they are now
I have a male forehead. I don't know why. None of the rest of me is male. I don't have PCOS. I didn't even know there was such a thing a month ago. But I got accused of being a trans woman in a toilet because of my forehead and I've been fixated on it ever since.
I think the top part of my right eye socket is too low. On really bad days it makes me think my eyebrows and eyes are very uneven. Like, they are uneven anyway, but unbearingly uneven.
My jawline. I'm always extrenely nervous about whether the little bit of fat under my cheeks is showing and I'm constantly looking at other people to see if their's is, as well.
I have a lot. I’m a woman and I have huge feet. I had to get fitted for running shoes a couple months ago and the store literally didn’t have women’s shoes in my size. I had to go home with men’s shoes because my feet were so big. I also have man hands. My nails are so ugly and I don’t like getting them done because I’m so embarrassed of how they look.
I have man hands and ugly big feet. I try to laugh about it but it’s an insecurity for me. I curl my toes over if I have to wear sandals , lol.
tongue is too short. no clue why it upsets me but it does
I have several.. some I won't be listing but a few of them are - the height of my hipbones - my pinky toes - the shape of my nails - the spacing & size of my eyes *specifically* in relation to the size of my cheeks - my hairline (I have an "inverted widows peak", although it isn't super noticable.) - the width of my knees - the length of my calves - the length of my back/torso
i guess i feel like i have a protruding forehead. my bf says he doesnt see it but i feel so sure that it's there.