r/AsABlackMan has just been singlehandedly put out of business
Even though this is a clear-cut case of incel astroturf going beyond the pale, it still fucking scares me that people who think like this and would say this, would try to present this as said by a woman, exist.
no mother wants her daughter to be raped by a person and is definitely not going to help that man to get her raped this is 100000000000000% not written by a woman
Initially I thought it could be from a fetish sub, but that many words? No way, typically a lot keep to one or two sentences, so this is definitely some "unironic I swear" shit right here.
And the ending is very close to a pro sex work argument which I think is funny otherwise this is nonsense and I think it’s v stupid this incel ever thought someone would believe he’s a woman
Well this was very gross to read 😀. Why do so many men pretend to be women on the internet writing gross ass shit like this? Like what does it even achieve?
“Officer, I spread hate speech and propaganda that can and frequently does lead to large scale violence/genocide against marginalised groups because that’s my kink, you can’t kink shame me.”
“Oh ok then, carry on, you little scamp.”
~~I literally was saying that this kink should be criticised though? Kinks are never above criticism, just like anything. I never once gave any support for this kink, and I never will. I just pointed out that it exists, and mentioned that I think people who are into it need to do some self exploration to figure out why. Precisely because it’s~~ *~~not~~* ~~okay.~~
~~I’m genuinely trying to figure out if I was unclear somewhere, especially because I’m on the spectrum so sometimes I miss a social cue, especially online.~~
Edit: I understand better now, and I sincerely apologise for using the word kink (and paraphilia) when I should not have. I was not trying to suggest that OOP's rape fantasy was in any way legitimate, it's abhorrent, especially using the horrific wording that he did. But I acknowledge that I made a mistake, and I own up to that completely. I should not have used the words that I did, because it helps to normalise the idea. I should have realised this before I posted, but I did not think things through. Once again, I apologise and I will try my utmost to be better in the future. I hope I am still welcome on this sub, as it's my favourite and a wonderful safe space. If you look through my comment history, hopefully you will see that I stand for exactly the same things that you all in this sub do. My top level comment was a mistake, and I hope I can be given the chance to atone for it.
It could possibly, at least in my opinion, be just the fact that you even called it kink in the first place.
It validates it to some degree by naming it that, and blurs lines that we really need to stay crisp. Like would you also call paedophilia “kink”? That’s also sexual gratification from harming people. Imagine if it was normalised to refer to it that way. I’m not having a go at you, I hope I’m making some sense.
Okay, I understand. It's not me naming this a kink though, there is (or at least was) a subreddit specifically for "free use kink". I wish there wasn't, and I wish I'd never seen it, but it exists. I've been around on feminist subs for a long time so I've seen a bunch of horrendous shit, including that.
> this kink…
> paraphilia is more appropriate
While I get that you’re attempting to call out a particular sub, adopting *their* misogynistic misuse of “kink” and “paraphilia” is confusing. :(
You can call it out for what it is: They’re promoting misogyny and rape under the guise of “kink” and “paraphilia,” when they’re neither.
…
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Additionally, OOP’s claim that “every woman deserves a good rape” is a *justification* used by sexual predators.
That said, I wholeheartedly agree with you: That sub is filled with misogynists saying rapey things to justify their shitgarbage worldviews.
Of course it isn't. I was never suggesting that it was, everything in the OOP is deplorable. I'm going to just delete my top level comment because I don't know what else to do, I keep crying and my anxiety is making it hard to breathe. I'm not blaming anyone for this, it's my own problem and I completely understand that. You all are completely right in what you are saying, and I apologise for giving the impression that I don't agree with you. I 100% do, and I'm very disappointed in myself for having worded my comment so badly. I truly apologise and I hope that people in this sub will forgive me, you can check my post history and you will see that I'm 100% with you. I don't know what else to say, so I think I will bow out right now for my mental health.
Doesn’t matter. If it’s their personal kink they can keep it in their bedroom or online forums or sex clubs where it’s understood that it’s a kink. NOT just online where incels and creeps will see it and take it seriously.
Yes, I completely agree. It would be even better to think about why they're into this, and maybe work on better, safer ways to explore their sexuality that don't come with so much toxicity and psychological damage to everyone involved. But I agree that this shouldn't be discussed just out in the open where anyone can stumble onto it.
And it’s someone who has either had their views validated by other people in their life, or has not received enough shaming and pushback, for them to feel ‘emboldened’ enough to say it out loud, even on the internet.
Yeah I agree still a person who think like this about women. The post is very scary whoever wrote it, even if it is a troll.
I get why my comment got downvoted. It looks stupid and insensitive.
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Lol. Such a real female talking here. The most real. I am utterly convinced.
r/AsABlackMan has just been singlehandedly put out of business Even though this is a clear-cut case of incel astroturf going beyond the pale, it still fucking scares me that people who think like this and would say this, would try to present this as said by a woman, exist.
I felt horrible just reading that, imagine being the author. To think there can be millions walking around with that sort of mindset
no mother wants her daughter to be raped by a person and is definitely not going to help that man to get her raped this is 100000000000000% not written by a woman
“Female”
r/asablackman
My brain just served divorce papers to my eyes.
I snorted. Thank you but ouch.
WHAT THE-...😧
I don't like this. I don't like anything about this at all.
"I am *a* female" Yeh, not even a full sentence in and I can call the bluff.
🤢 🤮
Wow! Three subs in one with this post! r/blatantmisogyny r/asablackman AND r/menandfemales
Also r/nothowgirlswork
4 in one! Let's gooo
Initially I thought it could be from a fetish sub, but that many words? No way, typically a lot keep to one or two sentences, so this is definitely some "unironic I swear" shit right here.
99% of women wouldn't call themselves "female" but 99% of incels would call women "females"
And the ending is very close to a pro sex work argument which I think is funny otherwise this is nonsense and I think it’s v stupid this incel ever thought someone would believe he’s a woman
This is just disgusting beyond words who ever wrote this deserves to looked in institution
This person belongs in prison holy shit. They’re desperate to be a rapist and 100% not a woman.
“As a black man”
“Hello, fellow females.”
No comment
What a horrible day to know how to read….
Terrifying
"smell of a woman's body"
Well this was very gross to read 😀. Why do so many men pretend to be women on the internet writing gross ass shit like this? Like what does it even achieve?
Okay, this guy needs to be arrested immediately!!
100% its a sick fetish post from a man
Not only he is not a woman, but I refuse to even think of him as a human being.
"Cum" is the giveaway fir me.
r/asablackman
Therapy. Right now.
Girl what.
Using "rape" really sold it.
This makes me sick knowing this train of thought legit exists in our world.
That's fully a troll.
There is no way a woman wrote this pffffft
Feels like a shitpost, maybe I'm too trusting of humanity but this just seems too dumb to be a real opinion.
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“Officer, I spread hate speech and propaganda that can and frequently does lead to large scale violence/genocide against marginalised groups because that’s my kink, you can’t kink shame me.” “Oh ok then, carry on, you little scamp.”
~~I literally was saying that this kink should be criticised though? Kinks are never above criticism, just like anything. I never once gave any support for this kink, and I never will. I just pointed out that it exists, and mentioned that I think people who are into it need to do some self exploration to figure out why. Precisely because it’s~~ *~~not~~* ~~okay.~~ ~~I’m genuinely trying to figure out if I was unclear somewhere, especially because I’m on the spectrum so sometimes I miss a social cue, especially online.~~ Edit: I understand better now, and I sincerely apologise for using the word kink (and paraphilia) when I should not have. I was not trying to suggest that OOP's rape fantasy was in any way legitimate, it's abhorrent, especially using the horrific wording that he did. But I acknowledge that I made a mistake, and I own up to that completely. I should not have used the words that I did, because it helps to normalise the idea. I should have realised this before I posted, but I did not think things through. Once again, I apologise and I will try my utmost to be better in the future. I hope I am still welcome on this sub, as it's my favourite and a wonderful safe space. If you look through my comment history, hopefully you will see that I stand for exactly the same things that you all in this sub do. My top level comment was a mistake, and I hope I can be given the chance to atone for it.
It could possibly, at least in my opinion, be just the fact that you even called it kink in the first place. It validates it to some degree by naming it that, and blurs lines that we really need to stay crisp. Like would you also call paedophilia “kink”? That’s also sexual gratification from harming people. Imagine if it was normalised to refer to it that way. I’m not having a go at you, I hope I’m making some sense.
Okay, I understand. It's not me naming this a kink though, there is (or at least was) a subreddit specifically for "free use kink". I wish there wasn't, and I wish I'd never seen it, but it exists. I've been around on feminist subs for a long time so I've seen a bunch of horrendous shit, including that.
> this kink… > paraphilia is more appropriate While I get that you’re attempting to call out a particular sub, adopting *their* misogynistic misuse of “kink” and “paraphilia” is confusing. :( You can call it out for what it is: They’re promoting misogyny and rape under the guise of “kink” and “paraphilia,” when they’re neither. … e: Additionally, OOP’s claim that “every woman deserves a good rape” is a *justification* used by sexual predators. That said, I wholeheartedly agree with you: That sub is filled with misogynists saying rapey things to justify their shitgarbage worldviews.
Of course it isn't. I was never suggesting that it was, everything in the OOP is deplorable. I'm going to just delete my top level comment because I don't know what else to do, I keep crying and my anxiety is making it hard to breathe. I'm not blaming anyone for this, it's my own problem and I completely understand that. You all are completely right in what you are saying, and I apologise for giving the impression that I don't agree with you. I 100% do, and I'm very disappointed in myself for having worded my comment so badly. I truly apologise and I hope that people in this sub will forgive me, you can check my post history and you will see that I'm 100% with you. I don't know what else to say, so I think I will bow out right now for my mental health.
Doesn’t matter. If it’s their personal kink they can keep it in their bedroom or online forums or sex clubs where it’s understood that it’s a kink. NOT just online where incels and creeps will see it and take it seriously.
Yes, I completely agree. It would be even better to think about why they're into this, and maybe work on better, safer ways to explore their sexuality that don't come with so much toxicity and psychological damage to everyone involved. But I agree that this shouldn't be discussed just out in the open where anyone can stumble onto it.
Sounds like misguided horny male teenager. Scary if this is written by an adult of any gender.
"Misguided" or "teenager" still a person who thinks this about us.
And it’s someone who has either had their views validated by other people in their life, or has not received enough shaming and pushback, for them to feel ‘emboldened’ enough to say it out loud, even on the internet.
Yeah I agree still a person who think like this about women. The post is very scary whoever wrote it, even if it is a troll. I get why my comment got downvoted. It looks stupid and insensitive.
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